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“Bee Sting Lips”: 22 Men Reveal Petty Dealbreakers They Think Women Don’t Notice
Imagine meeting a person that catches your eye – someone whose presence is impossible to ignore, only for them to say or do something that is a total turn off.
Chances are, quite a few people have been in such a situation, or at the very least have given thought to what they consider a turn off, as they came up with plenty of examples when asked about them online. A number of netizens shared their opinions in a thread started by one member of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community, who wanted to know what things women do that men consider to be turn offs.
If you’re curious, too, you can find their two cents on the list below, where you will also find Bored Panda’s interviews with clinical psychologist, author, and mental health advocate Dr. Monica Vermani and relationship intelligence expert Railey Molinario, who were kind enough to answer a few of our questions about the role turnoffs play regarding romantic relationships.
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"I need someone who can handle me" is such a huge red flag bc it usually means they're immature and refuse to take accountability for their behavior.
Bold of you to assume the men of Reddit have interacted with women!
Comically long nails.
The only thing I think when I see women with these is how the heck do they wipe?
All those little "Lets see how you react if you're confident" tests. I'm in my 30s.. I'm tired. I just walk away.
"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best."
Ok, but have I seen your best yet? What am I working for, is it just... this? Does it get worse?
Sharing things said in private to their friends. Just because we were comfortable enough to tell you something personal to us doesn't mean you have permission to spread it far and wide.
Expecting me to be able to tell you what you want to eat. Even worse when it's every day, or multiple times a day.
Constantly on social media. Wakes up, check social media. That need for validation.
