For the past twenty years, authors Hugh Nini and Neal Treadwell were scavenging flea markets, estate sales, old suitcases, family archives, online auctions, and shoeboxes to collect 2,700 old photographs. All taken from the 1850s to 1950s, the sensitive pictures bear witness to the romance between men when male partnerships were illegal.

While compiling the book for the celebration of LGBTQ History Month in the US and sorting through the photos, Hugh and Neal noticed something mind-blowing. It was that the expression of love between these men that spanned different decades, centuries, and countries turned out to be almost identical. “They couldn’t have known about each other. Their [love] so similarly expressive—could only have emerged from their common humanity,” said the creators.

The captivating gazes and embracing poses reveal a world entirely different from the one we live in today. Taken in various settings, from military to domestic, and natural, the photos speak volumes about time-defying feelings of love and affection when societal norms had not matured just yet.

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1945, Photo Taken In Austria

1945, Photo Taken In Austria

"‘In 1945, these two soldiers had hiked up into the Austrian Alps and a friend took their picture as they embraced in the snow. One soldier kept these snapshots hidden in a shoebox until the early 1990s when he handed them to a relative, along with the ring that he was wearing in the Alps photo, with the request: “Please keep these safe for me.” According to the relative, the soldier, nearing the end of his life, wanted to preserve the one thing that meant more to him than anything else. He passed away two years later.’"

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1 month ago

OMG theyre so cute togetherrrrrrrr

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Photo Strip: Circa 1900, Provenance: Us

Photo Strip: Circa 1900, Provenance: Us

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Monday
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1 month ago

and if anyone asked they could say they were sending it to young ladies they were courting

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Cynthia Humphreys
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That is a beautiful photograph.

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In order to find out more about the beautiful photo book “Loving: A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s-1950s,” Bored Panda reached out to its creators Hugh Nini and Neal Treadwell. For the past thirteen years, the Texan couple based in New York devoted their time to browsing flea markets and garage sales for historical snaps of men in love.

Their collection includes photos from the United States, Australia, Bulgaria, Canada, Croatia, France, Germany, Greece, Japan, Latvia, the United Kingdom, and Russia.

Hugh and Neal told us in the interview that they initially didn’t think that anyone would find them interesting. “On one occasion, while purchasing a photo in person from a seller, we happened to have two of our albums containing about 400 photos. After the transaction was complete, we asked the seller if he would like to see how we had been mounting our photos into albums. He replied, yes. He went through both albums without a word. When he got to the last page of the second album, he closed it quietly and then said, 'You have to publish these.'”

That’s how the two creators began suspecting that the two of them were too small of an audience.

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Postcard: Circa 1900, Provenance: Us

Postcard: Circa 1900, Provenance: Us

"Here are two well-dressed young men sharing an umbrella. One is placing a wedding ring on the other’s finger."

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Maria
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1 month ago

I'd be interested to know if the story behind this has been preserved. Kinda looks like they're just goofing around to me?

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Tomasz Jackowski
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1 month ago

look at those best friends giving each other a friendly kiss.

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Note On Back: “1951” “Davis & Jc”

Note On Back: “1951” “Davis & Jc”

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kjorn
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1 month ago

been Black, Gay and in the Army in that time must been so hard to live!

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During the process, Hugh and Neal said that they had categories of photos they would refer to. “There are: boyfriends on bicycles, boyfriends in boats, boyfriends on cars, boyfriends on a paper moon, boyfriends in trees, beach boyfriends, bathing suit boyfriends, umbrella boyfriends, boyfriends kissing, boyfriends on a bed, boyfriends' splendor in the grass, photo-booth boyfriends, double hand-hold boyfriends, single hand-hold boyfriends, wrap-around embrace boyfriends, and many more.”

But they said that if the viewer “goes deeper into these categories, they arrive at identical, intricate embraces, without any way of having seen an example to copy.” The creators revealed that these similarities span geography and time.

For example, “Boyfriends in a boat, in a specific embrace, could number around 50 photos, and come from anywhere in the world, and span 50 to 60 years.”

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Kevin Donegan
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1 month ago

The warmth of basking in the sun along.

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Photobooth: Undated, Provenance: Us

Photobooth: Undated, Provenance: Us

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Louise B
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1 month ago

What an adorable couple! 😍

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Monty Is Fiennes
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1 month ago

Those flip flops.... ;)

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But it turns out, determining whether the men in photos were having romantic feeling towards each other was not always easy. Nini and Treadwell shared the rule they invented when deciding whether or not to acquire a photo or snapshot.

“We call it the 50/50 rule: we have to believe that it’s at least 50% likely that we’re looking at two men who are romantically involved. There are few 50/50 images in our collection and none in our book. What determines whether or not we’ll acquire a photo can sometimes be an embrace that leaves no doubt that the relationship exceeds friendship or fondness. When possible, though, there is one sure way to determine if a photo is 'loving.'"

Amazingly, a loving photo can be traced by looking into the models’ eyes. “We look into their eyes. There is an unmistakable look that two people have when they are in love. You can’t manufacture it. And if you’re experiencing it, you can’t hide it.”

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Circa 1900, Note On Back: “In The Mirror.”

Circa 1900, Note On Back: “In The Mirror.”

"This couple placed a camera on a dresser in front of a mirror and photographed their reflection. This image could be the first ‘selfie’ of a romantic male couple."

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Alex T
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1 month ago

the gays created selfies

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Kevin Donegan
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1 month ago

There's nothing like lying in bed with the person you love and just wasting the day away.

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Louise B
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1 month ago

This photo is just full of innocent, youthful joy - it's beautiful! I just don't understand how bigoted types get so irate about the love lives of other people. They may never meet them, and it definitely won't impact their lives in any way, yet they get so upset about it.

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Hugh and Neal said that the overriding message of their book resides in its title “Loving.” “There is not 'gay' love, or 'straight' love. There is only 'love.' And because this romantic love is experienced by all humans the same way, everyone connects with LOVING.”

They added: “Our collection says this: 'Love does not have a sexual orientation. It is universally the same for all.'" The couple are “fortunate to have loving, supportive families. That being said, nearly thirty years ago, when we first began dating, it would be safe to say that our families didn't envision the loving relationship we already had, and still have today.”

Most importantly, they hope that if there are parents who realize their child is going to grow up and love someone of the same gender, maybe they will come across this photo book. “By looking into its past, see a loving future for their child,” Hugh and Neal concluded.

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A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

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Andrea Delden
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1 month ago

I like how their feet are entwined! 😊

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Stille20
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1 month ago

They were so ready for social media

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Cabinet Card: Circa 1880. Provenance: Us. Note On Back: “Mcinturff, Steve Book, Delaware O.”

Cabinet Card: Circa 1880. Provenance: Us. Note On Back: “Mcinturff, Steve Book, Delaware O.”

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earringnut
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1 month ago

This is how to quietly smolder.

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RoyalMoon27
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1 month ago

Is it just me, or does the guy wearing the lighter shirt look like Tom Holland?

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Undated, Provenance: Us. Note On Back: “Rubenstein And Whiskers, Ahk”

Undated, Provenance: Us. Note On Back: “Rubenstein And Whiskers, Ahk”

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Stille20
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1 month ago

This is so sweet. I hope they got o have a happy life.

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earringnut
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1 month ago

That look....

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A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

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Patty Stier
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1 month ago

A day of carefree laughter and shared times to always remember.

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Photograph: Undated, Provenance: Bulgaria

Photograph: Undated, Provenance: Bulgaria

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Patty Stier
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1 month ago

Beautiful photo - both have a haunted far-away look in their eyes.

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Tintype: Undated, Provenance: Us

Tintype: Undated, Provenance: Us

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Serge Goussaert
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1 month ago

2 good looking lads

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Postcard: Circa 1900, Provenance: Us

Postcard: Circa 1900, Provenance: Us

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RoyalMoon27
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1 month ago

Is this the "not married but willing to be" couple?

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A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

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BizzyBee
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1 month ago

I love how one is gently grasping the others finger ...an intimate gesture that speaks volumes. Beautiful. ♥️

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Note: “Rocky Nook Labor Day 1910”

Note: “Rocky Nook Labor Day 1910”

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Alex T
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1 month ago

i need this kind of a relationship

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A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

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Kevin Donegan
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1 month ago

Did they just engage in a wild night of passionate sex and then wake up, quickly get dressed to take this photo? There's a story that happened shortly before this photo was taken.

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A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

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Corey Smith
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1 month ago

Very cool. That is the Garfield Monument, Lake View Cemetery in Cleveland OH in the background. This picture is easy to pretty accurately date since the front stairs are not totally complete. So, this picture must have been taken 1888 ± 1 year.

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Postcard: 1910, Provenance: Us. Note: “Cowboy Dance ‘Stag’, October 1910”

Postcard: 1910, Provenance: Us. Note: “Cowboy Dance ‘Stag’, October 1910”

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Kevin Donegan
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1 month ago

I find it amazing how back in 1910 these men could find one another for support and friendship.

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A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

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Alex T
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1 month ago

he proteccing his bae

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A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

A Photographic History Of Men In Love 1850s–1950s

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Alex T
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1 month ago

the one on the left got dat swaggger

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Linus Nilsson
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1 month ago

Ehum... Aren't these tied together? On a train track?

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