“Oh My God, Are You Freaking Crying?”: Table Goes Silent After Man Splashes Wife With Coffee
I’d wager everyone has an intrusive thought or two (or mayhaps an entire cyclone of them depending on the level of neurodivergence, but that’s beside the point). But that doesn’t mean you have to act upon them.
A great example of why not is this husband, who decided it would be a great idea to surprise his wife with a hand grab and shake combo whilst she’s holding a spoonful of cappuccino, forcing it to splat all over the place, including on the Mrs., and embarrass her.
Shaking someone might be appropriate if they’re asleep, but shouldn’t be. It’s not when they are holding something hot and can stain
Image credits: Elina Sazonova / pexels (not the actual photo)
A husband thought it would be a good idea to shake the Mrs’ hand whilst she’s holding a spoonful of cappuccino. Spoiler: bad idea
Image credits: Decha Huayyai / pexels (not the actual photo)
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This guy is right out of the abuser’s handbook. He’s using DARVO “Deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender (DARVO) is a tactic a person may use to deflect responsibility onto an individual they have abused.” He’s going to keep bringing it up until you agree you ruined the evening. Stop justifying your reaction and start working to get out of the marriage. If this was a one time thing, I’d say counselling but it is a pattern of abuse.
It really isn’t hard to say, “Sorry that I upset you. I was being stupid and impulsive. I won’t do it again.” The fact he won’t apologise and is trying to make her feel that she’s wrong for being upset shows that he doesn’t care for her or her feelings. What a horrible person to be married to - constantly bringing up things she said or did in the past to make her feel bad.
Load More Replies...Is mashing wedding cake in wife's face just the first step to food-based mess? ... must admit I once threw mashed potatoes on my brothers face and we all laughed. Ok fine no I didn't laugh and basically don't remember, because I was 6months old.
This guy is right out of the abuser’s handbook. He’s using DARVO “Deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender (DARVO) is a tactic a person may use to deflect responsibility onto an individual they have abused.” He’s going to keep bringing it up until you agree you ruined the evening. Stop justifying your reaction and start working to get out of the marriage. If this was a one time thing, I’d say counselling but it is a pattern of abuse.
It really isn’t hard to say, “Sorry that I upset you. I was being stupid and impulsive. I won’t do it again.” The fact he won’t apologise and is trying to make her feel that she’s wrong for being upset shows that he doesn’t care for her or her feelings. What a horrible person to be married to - constantly bringing up things she said or did in the past to make her feel bad.
Load More Replies...Is mashing wedding cake in wife's face just the first step to food-based mess? ... must admit I once threw mashed potatoes on my brothers face and we all laughed. Ok fine no I didn't laugh and basically don't remember, because I was 6months old.











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