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Judgy Karen Tries To Grab White Kid From Hispanic Man, Learns A Lesson After Law Enforcement Arrives
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Judgy Karen Tries To Grab White Kid From Hispanic Man, Learns A Lesson After Law Enforcement Arrives

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Let’s be honest: as far as we’ve come as a species, we’ve still got plenty of kinks to iron out. And we think everyone can agree that racism is one of the worst. Treating people differently all because of their skin color is absurd, but the problem just won’t go away. 

One Hispanic guy turned to an online community to share his story of a dramatic mix-up in a park involving his Caucasian bestie’s kid and a woman who flipped out after she saw them horsing around. She instantly called the cops, and that’s where things got interesting.

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    One Hispanic guy, who describes himself as on the larger side, was playing in a park with his white bestie’s kid when a woman started ranting at him, phone out and filming

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    She demanded the guy put the giggling red-headed kid down, telling him she’d already called the cops, so he did, not wanting any trouble

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    Things escalated when she actually grabbed the little boy by the arm, snatching him so hard she left a bruise

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    When the eventually cops showed up, though, she was the one who ended up in cuffs before too long

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    Now the guy’s turned to an online community, wondering if having the bigoted woman arrested was a jerk move

    Imagine enjoying a wholesome day at the park with a kid who basically thinks you’re a human jungle gym… then suddenly getting accused of kidnapping. That’s what happened to the original poster (OP), a 6-foot, 300-pound oilfield worker who has been “uncle of the year” to his best friend’s red-headed son since day one.

    While giving the kid, “Marcus”, a fun day out, playtime turned into a mini mission: chase the giggling child down and carry him back to the car. Cute, right? Well, not according to a random park vigilante who thought a large Hispanic man plus a small white child must mean kidnapping. She got in OP’s face, grabbed the boy’s arm, and called the cops.

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    Marcus immediately hid behind OP, bruised where the stranger had snatched at him. The situation escalated fast. Police arrived, separated everyone, and started asking questions. Fortunately, OP had one secret weapon: his wife. Tiny, furious, and Welsh, she showed up armed with nine years’ worth of adorable photos of OP and Marcus. 

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    The officers quickly figured out the actual aggression came from the self-appointed hero, not the man carrying the happy kid. The woman ended up arrested, leaving Marcus safe and OP asking netizens whether or not he could have handled things better, or at least any differently. 

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    Let’s be real: things can go sideways fast when racism rears its ugly head. The woman obviously had the wrong idea (or a few) and didn’t think twice before acting on it. At least her stint as a vigilante backfired on her, but it all makes one thing crystal clear: she’s a racist. So, what’s the deal with racism anyway? We went looking for answers.

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    Randolph Walker from EBSCO explains that racism as a widespread social phenomenon rose in the late fifteenth and early sixteenth centuries as European explorers in unfamiliar lands encountered indigenous peoples who looked, spoke, and lived very differently. 

    According to Walker, racial hierarchies were invented to help those in power justify the exploitation of other peoples, even up to the level of denying their humanity. We all know the mess that’s led to. Interestingly enough, ancient and medieval worlds generally didn’t even identify people by race, but in geographic terms instead.

    The folks at DoSomething say that, in New York City, 88% of police stops in 2018 involved Black and Latinx people. Of those stops, 70% were completely innocent. Here’s another shocker: on average, Black men in the US receive sentences that are 19.1% longer than those of White men convicted for the same crimes. That’s just all kinds of wrong, and racism hard at work.

    We’d say the obvious bigot in OP’s story got exactly what was coming to her. Perhaps in future she’ll think twice before jumping to another POC conclusion. 

    What do you think? Was having the woman arrested going too far, or did she deserve to be dragged off in cuffs? Share your opinion in the comments!

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    In the comments, readers came to the swift conclusion that the original poster did the right thing and that the dangerously racist woman got what was coming to her

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    Ivan Ayliffe

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    Ivan Ayliffe

    Ivan Ayliffe

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    After twenty years in advertising, I've decided to try my hand at journalism. I'm lucky enough to be based in Cape Town, South Africa and use every opportunity I get to explore everything it has to offer, both indoors and out. When I'm not reading, writing, or listening to podcasts, I spend my time swimming in the ocean, running mountain trails, and skydiving. While I haven't travelled as much as I'd like, I did live in !ndia, which was an incredible experience. Oh, and I love live music. I hope you enjoy my stories!

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    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That woman got what she deserved.

    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AITA? Nah, man, f**k that woman. While she might have a reason to be concerned, such are the times we live in, that all vanished the instant she hurt the kid. She was filming, and she had called the cops (and seemingly without bothering to talk to you at all first) and *then* she grabbed him. Nope, nope, and nope some more.

    Tiffeny Price
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is so sad to see this happen. I am so disappointed with humanity

    Lila Allen
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happens all the time. My husband is huge and dark skinned and I'm a tiny white lady. Our youngest has close to my pale skin and the number of times I had to stop some angry white middle aged woman from weaponizing security staff against my husband is way higher than it should be.

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    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend (black, male, 39) has had the police called on him SIX times when he's been out taking care of his girlfriend's kid (white, female, 5).

    Historyharlot93
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We adopted our son from Vietnam. He wandered off at Disney World when he was 3. We missed him immediately and a worker had picked him up. The policy is to stand there waiting for the parents to find them. The worker didn’t want to give him to my husband, thank goodness our son held out his arms and said “Daddy!” We always had a fear someone would try to take him from us when he was little because they thought we were stealing him.

    roddy
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They probably didn't end up charging her, but she'll think twice about jumping to conclusions from now on. Sometimes family relationships are not obvious. Kids don't always resemble their parents, and they can be adopted. Or being cared for by a sitter. If she was concerned, she could have asked the child, 'are you okay?' It would have saved a lot of confusion.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she wasn’t charged ,she won’t lol Karen’s need locking up for anything to sink in

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Racism, a*****t and battery of a child. Hope prison loves her long time.

    Onan Hag All
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NEVER fu.ck with a Welsh woman. Trust me on this.

    Miss Ann Thrope
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know what happens when you assume.

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    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That woman got what she deserved.

    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AITA? Nah, man, f**k that woman. While she might have a reason to be concerned, such are the times we live in, that all vanished the instant she hurt the kid. She was filming, and she had called the cops (and seemingly without bothering to talk to you at all first) and *then* she grabbed him. Nope, nope, and nope some more.

    Tiffeny Price
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is so sad to see this happen. I am so disappointed with humanity

    Lila Allen
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happens all the time. My husband is huge and dark skinned and I'm a tiny white lady. Our youngest has close to my pale skin and the number of times I had to stop some angry white middle aged woman from weaponizing security staff against my husband is way higher than it should be.

    Load More Replies...
    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend (black, male, 39) has had the police called on him SIX times when he's been out taking care of his girlfriend's kid (white, female, 5).

    Historyharlot93
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We adopted our son from Vietnam. He wandered off at Disney World when he was 3. We missed him immediately and a worker had picked him up. The policy is to stand there waiting for the parents to find them. The worker didn’t want to give him to my husband, thank goodness our son held out his arms and said “Daddy!” We always had a fear someone would try to take him from us when he was little because they thought we were stealing him.

    roddy
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They probably didn't end up charging her, but she'll think twice about jumping to conclusions from now on. Sometimes family relationships are not obvious. Kids don't always resemble their parents, and they can be adopted. Or being cared for by a sitter. If she was concerned, she could have asked the child, 'are you okay?' It would have saved a lot of confusion.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she wasn’t charged ,she won’t lol Karen’s need locking up for anything to sink in

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Racism, a*****t and battery of a child. Hope prison loves her long time.

    Onan Hag All
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NEVER fu.ck with a Welsh woman. Trust me on this.

    Miss Ann Thrope
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know what happens when you assume.

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