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After Losing Her Fiance 2 Months Before Her Wedding, This Bride Said Goodbye With A Bittersweet Photoshoot
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After Losing Her Fiance 2 Months Before Her Wedding, This Bride Said Goodbye With A Bittersweet Photoshoot

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Janine, a bride-to-be whose fiance, Johnny, died unexpectedly only 52 days before their wedding, has become a beautiful example of human emotional resilience and hope. As part of her effort to cope with her loss, she scheduled a bittersweet memorial photoshoot in Mexico’s Riviera Maya to both remember her love and to move on from her loss.

This day was very emotional,” explained Janine in an interview with Matt Adcock of Del Sol Photography, who took the pictures with her. “At the end of the day I felt so accomplished and I felt more alive than I have ever felt since May 1st.  I really felt that Johnny was smiling down at me and finally giving me closure that I can live my life in a positive way, but never forgetting why I was here.  I want to move on and explore the world.  I want to meet people who I can share that with.  After the shoot I felt like all this was possible.

More info: delsolphotography.com | Facebook (h/t: dailymail)

Janine’s fiance Johnny tragically died just 52 days before their wedding

To remember him, Janine decided to have a photo shoot in her wedding dress, which she never got to wear on her big day

Janine wanted to be photographed jumping into the sea at Mexico’s Riviera Maya because, to her, water is a purifying element

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Her wedding dress was no longer a symbol of joy and anticipation, so she had no problem diving into the sea with it

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“I really felt that Johnny was smiling down at me and finally giving me closure that I can live my life in a positive way, but never forgetting why I was here,” wrote Janine

“I want to move on and explore the world. I want to meet people who I can share that with. After the shoot I felt like all this was possible”

“The images and video story we created together were an incredibly cathartic and emotional experience for us both,” writes photographer Matt Adcock

“This is the first time I’ve been inspired to do anything like this in my 10 year career as a destination wedding photographer…”

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“I was brought to tears when I started to bring the story to life in the editing room”

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BarbieChemical
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stunning ! Good for you ! you are Beautiful inside and out ! so sorry for your loss , and keep up doing just what you are doing ! growing

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AnthonyBurgos
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love the idea of "taking the plunge" , underwater photoshoot. But this brave woman faced her sadness in a beautiful way. God bless her.

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CnoritaNgantiran
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I CRIED. GO AROUND THE GLOBE,JANINE.. I HOPE WE CAN MEET UP..ACCIDENTALLY.

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MarlyseCarroll
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8 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a way to move from breakdown to breakthrough. Very beautiful and inspiring. Thank you.

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RahelLove
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

aww....i feel so bad for u! i feel the same way. my boyfriend...is..gone. he broke up w/ me after we lost a badminton tournament..

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Clyde
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so beautiful, love #8 , reminds me of standing underneath the shower not knowing if tears or water were falling down after losing someone...

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DagnyOpsal
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

most stunning indeed- how terribly sad, yet still an amazing way of saying goodbye!

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TanseyMercanti
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such a creative and beautiful way to remember xoxo I hope you find everything you are looking for and more! ♡

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Jude
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought they were going to be more about telling the story of her loss/grieving (visually). To me they look like hyped-up selfies.

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BewYouanek
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You Are So Beautiful !!! sorry for your loss. be strong :)

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RachelRose
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

gorgeous photos, wish I could hug this woman! - and actually a brave thing to do.

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AlisonBoroski
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such a beautiful way to celebrate a life and a graceful way to deal with an unthinkable loss. My heart goes out to you...

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AmberFowler
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! Incredible pictures. Shows your love and loss and your steps towards your future.

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SamanthaReed
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Made me cry. Very well done. You're an inspiration to all those with a broken heart.

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LaurenTish
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such beautiful photos in such tragic circumstances. Wish you all the luck in the world and I'm sure your fiancé is looking proudly down on u

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MelissaLarsen
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a beautiful honor for you the photographer and such a healing experience for you, the bride. Many blessings to you in the future!

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may nantakan
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wow, she looks like woman from famous ancient greek paintings. So stunning

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AnjaCoenradie
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

took my breath away!!! a good way for telling "In lovin' memory" sending you a lot of love, light and happiness x

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medlar65
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was a wonderful way to express her love and loss. Our prayers are with her.

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Marina Sarg
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful and touching. It takes a lot of courage to say good bye in a public way. My heart and love go to her.

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JoannaDavila
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful beginning to a tragic ending...Brave heart, strong soul...may you be blessed and continue growing♡

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TzipporahMeijering
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful. From deep sorrow comes capacity for great empathy and the heights of joy. May you feel both.

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BarbieChemical
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stunning ! Good for you ! you are Beautiful inside and out ! so sorry for your loss , and keep up doing just what you are doing ! growing

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AnthonyBurgos
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love the idea of "taking the plunge" , underwater photoshoot. But this brave woman faced her sadness in a beautiful way. God bless her.

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CnoritaNgantiran
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I CRIED. GO AROUND THE GLOBE,JANINE.. I HOPE WE CAN MEET UP..ACCIDENTALLY.

marlysecarroll avatar
MarlyseCarroll
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8 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a way to move from breakdown to breakthrough. Very beautiful and inspiring. Thank you.

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RahelLove
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

aww....i feel so bad for u! i feel the same way. my boyfriend...is..gone. he broke up w/ me after we lost a badminton tournament..

Clyde avatar
Clyde
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so beautiful, love #8 , reminds me of standing underneath the shower not knowing if tears or water were falling down after losing someone...

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DagnyOpsal
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

most stunning indeed- how terribly sad, yet still an amazing way of saying goodbye!

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TanseyMercanti
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such a creative and beautiful way to remember xoxo I hope you find everything you are looking for and more! ♡

Jude avatar
Jude
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought they were going to be more about telling the story of her loss/grieving (visually). To me they look like hyped-up selfies.

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BewYouanek
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You Are So Beautiful !!! sorry for your loss. be strong :)

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RachelRose
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

gorgeous photos, wish I could hug this woman! - and actually a brave thing to do.

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AlisonBoroski
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such a beautiful way to celebrate a life and a graceful way to deal with an unthinkable loss. My heart goes out to you...

amber.fowler.526 avatar
AmberFowler
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! Incredible pictures. Shows your love and loss and your steps towards your future.

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SamanthaReed
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Made me cry. Very well done. You're an inspiration to all those with a broken heart.

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LaurenTish
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such beautiful photos in such tragic circumstances. Wish you all the luck in the world and I'm sure your fiancé is looking proudly down on u

melissa.larsen.583 avatar
MelissaLarsen
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a beautiful honor for you the photographer and such a healing experience for you, the bride. Many blessings to you in the future!

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may nantakan
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wow, she looks like woman from famous ancient greek paintings. So stunning

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AnjaCoenradie
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

took my breath away!!! a good way for telling "In lovin' memory" sending you a lot of love, light and happiness x

medlar65 avatar
medlar65
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was a wonderful way to express her love and loss. Our prayers are with her.

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Marina Sarg
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful and touching. It takes a lot of courage to say good bye in a public way. My heart and love go to her.

joanna.gonzales.9 avatar
JoannaDavila
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful beginning to a tragic ending...Brave heart, strong soul...may you be blessed and continue growing♡

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TzipporahMeijering
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful. From deep sorrow comes capacity for great empathy and the heights of joy. May you feel both.

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