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First off, let’s start with a big round of applause for our mother-in-laws, and dad-in-laws, for that matter, who continually give fresh perspectives on our marriages. They’re a gift, usually unasked, that keeps on giving. And having in mind what a controversial image in the cultural folklore they often carry, it’s only fair to say how much happiness it brings if we truly get along. (Clapping continues.)

But in some not-so-fortunate instances, mother-in-laws can become somewhat of a burden. With all the respect to our precious husbands and wives, some moms are just too much. Call it a mere coincidence, a cursed destiny, or pure evil manifesting itself in the form of this lady you’d much rather avoid if it wasn’t for your significant other, but some particular cases scream family drama big time.

So let’s see what people had to say about their shaky relationship with their MILs, and be sure not to jump to conclusions, since nobody really knows the full picture.

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Mil Stole My Chemo

Mil Stole My Chemo

Right now I have a lot of problems going on with my MIL on top of them. I’m fighting cancer for the second time in my life. I was first diagnosed when I was 14, fought it and won. I lived a happy and peaceful life until recently when I had my health checked for job necessities and surprise! – I’m 30 years old and I’ve cancer again. This is secondary cancer, different organ, nothing to do with the first one. Fortunately, stage 2 only, however my oncologist warned that it’s aggressive, grows and spreads fast and I could be stage 3 or more in a short period of time so we had to act fast. Hearing that you have cancer is always devastating but to me, it feels like something wants me dead very much. I was distraught that I’ll have to go through this again. It’s a very hard fight, both physically and mentally, any current or former cancer patient will agree on that.

I had a surgery and now it’s time for chemotherapy. The doctors decided on oral chemo that I can take at home and only have to go to a hospital to do blood tests and scans every few weeks, which is very good, I wouldn’t have the strength to go there every day. I’m on a sick leave from work now and because of the treatment, I’m quite weak, I’ve lost a lot of weight. Before that my wife and I, we both had an equal share of household chores. Some days I feel better than others, however directly after every receive of chemo even the simplest chores are often a physical impossibility for me. I try to do as much as I can but my wife has been amazing, she doesn’t care at all that I don’t help around the house as much as I did. She’s like “Your only obligation now is not to die.”

The other day MIL came over to visit (she knows about my diagnosis). I was on the couch reading and my wife was doing something around the house. MIL walked over to me and was like ”Look at that! Lying on that couch as if you’re on the beach! Aren’t you ashamed of yourself – a grown man and lying down in the middle of a day while your poor wife is working as a slave!”

I said, “I just had chemo, I have a headache, I’m nauseous, I don’t feel good.”

She was like “A young man like you and cannot beat some silly cancer! You cannot cure yourself with those chemicals! Nature products only!”

Later that day MIL was talking to my wife in the kitchen. I didn’t mean to listen, but I heard their conversation anyway. MIL was like “You really shouldn’t let him take that poison he’s taking or he will die. It’s poison otherwise he wouldn’t feel so bad. Doctors nowadays are totally stupid, you should seek herbal treatments instead!” As all of that came from someone without any medical education and tries to be smarter than she actually is, my wife shut her up quickly and told her to stay away from things she understands nothing about.

The next day I was going to take my chemo, as I’m scheduled. I’ve to take it once a day and I prefer to do it in the morning because then I feel better in the evening and I can sleep better. But, as I walked into the bathroom and opened the cabinet, there was no trace of my chemo bottles. They were gone, completely. I asked my wife if she moved them by any chance and she said no. We looked around but realized it’s pointless because they couldn’t fall out of the cabinet and there’s also no need to hide the chemo, we don’t have children or pets who could accidentally swallow it. Then my wife remembered that just before leaving the day before, MIL asked to use the bathroom. She could have easily taken the bottles with her, considering her words about the toxicity of chemo.

My wife turned into a dragon. She was literally almost spitting fire as she got dressed and stormed out to go to MIL’s house, I had never seen her so mad before. She came back a half an hour later or so and told me that she demanded my medication from MIL and MIL admitted she took my chemo indeed and when she left our house, she threw it out. Obviously, it’s gone, we cannot search through every garbage bin the city but just the fact that she did it, blew my mind. My wife and MIL had a huge argument and MIL really thinks she did me a favor. She was like “Don’t you see he’s dying, don’t you see how fragile he’s become? It’s not cancer that’s killing him, it’s those pills! I got rid of them, I saved your husband and that’s how you thank me, by insulting me? Better go and buy him some herbal teas!”

Because of MIL, I missed a dose of chemo which is very bad and I had to see my oncologist immediately. When I told him I need more chemo, he was surprised and said “What happened to the chemo I gave you a short time ago? You couldn’t have used it all already.” and I was like “ Well, you see, doctor, my MIL stole my chemo”. He looked totally baffled as if the fact that someone would steal someone’s else chemo is ridiculously stupid.

He prescribed me new bottles of chemo and a new schedule on how I’m supposed to take it and now I keep it in a cabinet with a lock. Even though my wife swore to me MIL will never set her foot in our house again.

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Mil Burned Down Our House And Got Arrested

Mil Burned Down Our House And Got Arrested

I’m posting for the second time now. I didn’t see that coming. We made a big mistake when we didn’t take MIL’s threats seriously enough. We thought that she’s like a dog that barks but doesn’t bite. Speaking of dogs, the only hero in this story is actually our dog, heavens bless our dog. It happened at night. My husband and me, we’re heavy sleepers, we were dreaming sweet dreams and didn’t notice anything. If our dog hadn’t jumped on our bed and barked, waking us up, we would probably both be dead now. I’m a firefighter myself and I realized that the fire was too big already, we couldn’t put it out by ourselves. We escaped through the window, fortunately unharmed. Somebody had called the firefighters who happened to be my colleagues, which was a weird situation, it was the first time they had to work on their buddy’s house. They tried to work as fast and as efficiently as they could but our house is damaged beyond repair, we can’t live in it anymore.

MIL got caught and basically dug her own grave because she herself said that she was hoping till the last minute that her son would come to his senses, break up with me and start to date women but he didn’t and she felt ashamed that she has created such a deformed human being, so she decided that it is better to have no son than gay son. She basically said she wanted to kill him. So even though at first what happened was classified as ”arson with the intent to damage the property” which would mean softer sentence, after those words it became ”arson with the intend to endanger life” and that means much more severe punishment, even up to life imprisonment. Our lawyer said that most likely she will not receive the maximum sentence because no one has died but she will receive at least a couple years behind bars. And there’s not much her lawyer can help her because she confessed.

And she said such a stupid thing ”Well but my son’s faggot husband is a firefighter, why didn’t he save his house?”

In the middle of the night, just awoken, no gear, no tools, no equipment, caught completely unaware by the fire. Are you serious, MIL? You think that just because I’m a firefighter means I can put the fire out with my bare hands? Many people think that housefire is like they see in the movies – flames and light but actually it is a complete darkness. The smoke makes the room so dark within minutes that you can’t even see your own hands. Housefire is always like a dark night.

Now we’re living with our friends while we find another place to live. Our clothing, our documents, passports, marriage certificate, everything is gone but of course, those are just things, we can buy them again. We’re alive, that’s the most important thing. My husband is done with her. He's so very upset that his own mother wished him dead just because he's gay. If before this he still hoped that their relationship could be fixed, now he doesn’t want to hear a single word about her no more. Her homophobic hate almost killed us. And it is our own fault as well because we didn't give her actions and words the seriousness they deserved. We know some gay people who also have homophobic parents but they have never tried actually killing their children. I guess that's why we didn't think that it might happen to us.

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River Webb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

what a horrible human being she is, I hope you, your husband and your dog live happy lives together

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Sue Hazlewood
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You cannot blame yourselves, who the hell would imagine their mother doing this to them?

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Caroline Nagel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This woman probably considers herself a good god fearing christian...

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Steve Ramaekers
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Murdering your child is not Christian. Please don’t put this on christianity

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Artime Silk
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

:( so glad you both are ok. Please give the doggo lots of cookies and love forever

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Lorelei
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good luck, where ever you are. XoXo, LGBTQ+ community!

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Carol Emory
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She could get the maximum sentence if the prosecutor lists it as a hate crime...which is basically what it was by her own admission. I'd talk to the prosecutor. You may also have a case to sue her for the recovery of everything you lost. Putting her in financial destitute might be a way to make sure she stays out of your life forever. I feel really bad for your spouse though. He's related to the cow.

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Kiaya Thompson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I’m going to have a breakdown over how horrible this is, that woman isn’t a mother, she’s a psycho.

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deanna woods
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please don't have a breakdown. Remember that they are okay and she is going to jail.

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Marianne
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so horrible I really cannot get my head around it. So sorry for the two!

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Marcellus the Third
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"why didn’t he save his house?” A real man would have woken up, & peed out the flames. Obviously.

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Alexis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also how mess up is our legal system: "she will not receive the maximum sentence because no one has died "... She should be locked up forever because she literally tried to kill them and almost did!

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The Redhead
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How sad and sick. I'm glad you and your husband both made it out; hopefully your dog survived as well. Good luck and hugs.

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Alyssa J.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She should definitely be charged with attempted murder.. wtf.

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Honu
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have always found it perplexing that punishment for a crime is mitigated because the attempt was thwarted. She acted to kill them. Because of their dog and a neighbor, they lived. That doesn't mean momzilla is less of a danger to society.

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Lorrie Rothstein
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

what can be so bad about having a gay son? Evil mother in law woukd have rather have a dead son

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Elizabeth Rolando
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMFG. My daughter came out recently and I am just happy she is happy. I cannot imagine having this level of hatred in your heart for anyone....but most especially a child you carried and brought into this world. I'm so sorry for these 2. Love you both from this mother.

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Sandra
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This makes me sick. As a future mom I would only want to have my kid happy and healthy. So what is he is gay??? Some people do not deserve children

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WolfGirl23
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Frick her! There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being gay and you should never PUT A HOUSE ON FIRE just because you think so!

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HooowlAtTheMoon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This scares me. Who in their right mind would try to kill their son, just because of his sexual orientation? I hope she gets karma. I wish you guys and your doggo good luck in finding a new place to live.

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AzKhaleesi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Holy f**k. Listen. I don't care what your personal preference is. If you agree / don't agree with your children's life choices, that is NEVER a reason to try to MURDER them . WTF???!!!

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KT
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is so sad, your husband must be hurting badly over this. So sorry to hear of this difficult time ihn your life and I hope it gets better <3

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Random Anon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So much hate just because her son isn't her "ideal" son. Until today I never understood that mentality.

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Lucy Shupe
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the hell is wrong with a mother who would rather a dead son, over a live gay son. I won’t go into detail but I can tell you I’d rather have my child alive, thank you.

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deanna woods
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This woman is a psychopath and needs to be put away for a very long time. That's another great thing about my parents, they have always told us that they would love us no matter what. They meant even if we were gay or bisexual.

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Sarah Mezei
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There should be a Hate Crime charge added to the other charges!

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Jackie Nettleton
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is horrendous I’m glad that you are both ok and will never have to deal with that psycho ever again

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Bakugo Katsuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn...tbh, if she disowned him, it would have been better but setting fire to his house is just dumb and very immature

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Kioh81
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I upvoted this but I really don't feel like I should've bc of how sad and horrible the story is. Glad you're okay and very sorry to hear that you had to go thru this. Just despicable that someone could think that was a logical thing to do.

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Vicky Zar
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh My GOD! What a god awfull woman! This one does not deserve the name of Mother, nor Mother in law.

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Cian Thomas McHugh
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm fairly sure that what the MIL did is legally a hate crime, because she only did it because you two were gay.

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AroAcePanda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

there is a special place in h-e-double hockey sticks for these types of people...

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Natalie Spitz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This has to be the most horrific MIL story by far. Trying to kill your own child for who they are is as low as it gets

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danielw
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. Also, buy that dog a new squeak toy.

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Raine Soo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a horrid woman. I hope that she never has a moment's peace.

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Freloise_Raven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idiot(the MIL). That’s such a terrible thing to do. I don’t understand why she couldn’t just accept who her son is and love him.

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Kno
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh wow. Wow. Just.... i'm really sorry that this shitty person is in your lives. So messed up. I hope she grows as a person, or at least, leaves you two alone.

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Reese Ascione
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

omg this woman... like theres a very LARGE line between not accepting your gay child and trying to KILL your gay child and his husband... jeez I am horrified reading this

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Sam Cook
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t support homosexuality, but this is wrong, and if she did this just because her son made a choice she doesn’t like, then she has definitely dug a grave so deep that you might as well hit her in the face with a shovel and bury her.

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Lisa Chambers
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a wretched woman. I certainly hope she stays in jail. It is best that he severs ties and cauterizes the wound so as never to be endangered by this person again. When someone does such horrible things against another, it is one thing. But it is an entire other level of hurt and trauma when its the person you are supposed to be able to trust the most.

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Maureen Peters
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is very sad, lucky this crazy woman is arrested and hopefully they put her in a psychiatric institution!

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Pacer Three
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so sorry that you had to go through this due to someone's ignorance. thanks to your dog you came out alive & still in love. sometimes when we lose a parent it isn't always a bad thing, as much hurt as this may bring I think your husband is better off. I'm sorry to say that.

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Pacer Three
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

such a sad story, that the 2 of you had to go through all of this. Thanks to your pet you still have each other. hold on to that love.

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Tash Wen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"And it is our own fault as well" No, it's absolutely not. You are not responsible for the thoughts or actions or feelings of other people. I'm glad you and your husband are both safe.

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Lynne Stankard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Both leave town - Now. You need to get away from this complete nut job.

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Victoria Lenny
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

from one gay to another: love to you <3 and Found Family is real

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LesAnimaux
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so so sorry that this happened to you. This is giving me chills.

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CatWoman312
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m actually in shock reading this to know someone is capable of murder simply because you don’t approve of someone...your own children’s lifestyle. She should be on the show dearly women

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Amanita muscaria
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If- Ahem.. I- uhhhh ehh.................I don't even know what to say to this. It's shocking.

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Legen ( wait for it ) dary
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the actually f*** ?!?! I'm do shocked. A mother? Her own son? Just for being gay ?

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Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so sorry that people like that exists and that you and your husband had the misfortune to be related to that monster. What a beautiful, strong person your hubby must be to actually turn out okay after a childhood and youth spent under the same roof as that horrible excuse for a human. Lots of love to you 3 (incl. doggo)

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Sussanne Davis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think there are words horrid enough for her. Thankfull y'all made it out and alive. You definitely have each other. Growing up with two gay brothers, I saw some of the hate that people can unleash. It made me love my brothers even more. Pray that you find healing and peace.

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I don't support LGBT and all but that ain't how you do things. Burning someone's house family or not, that ain't right

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My Mil Just Threw Out All Of My Groceries. Grocery Stores Are Out Of Stock And I'm Losing My Mind

My Mil Just Threw Out All Of My Groceries. Grocery Stores Are Out Of Stock And I'm Losing My Mind

Due to reasons, my MIL had to move in with my husband and I for a while. I'm South Asian, my husband is white.

Indian food is what I was raised eating and I love it to this day. Due to stay at home orders I suddenly have a lot more time to cook than I did before. I stocked my kitchen with rice, different spices and whatever else I would need to make what I wanted.

My husband doesn't mind and enjoys the food. My MIL on the other hand, does not. She's never liked me. Some stuff she says include "what kind of people use their hands to eat? Just use a knife and spoon like normal people". My husband has stuck up for me on all those occasions before, but having to live with her 24/7 is wearing him down.

After she moved in, she immediately started complaining. "Why does that smell so strong? It'll cling to the walls. Stop that." or "God, are you really feeding my son that crap? Just eat normal American food."

I know quarantine is taking its toll on everyone, so I decided to stay quiet. My husband did try to talk to her once, but that fell on deaf ears. Like always.

I woke up yesterday morning, go downstairs. Chat with husband and MIL for a while. Go into the kitchen, open my pantry, and there. is. nothing. My rice, spices, flour everything has been cleaned out. I had a rice dispensing machine that I got a few years back and that was missing too.

I go to the fridge, and besides milk, bread, butter, jam and eggs there was nothing. I get my husband and ask him what happened to the food. He looks in confusion until MIL pipes up and says that she threw everything out. When asked why, she simply says "My child isn't used to eating your types of food. Just make him what Americans eat" And heck did that piss me off. She has this insane thing about not acknowledging that I am American, or when she does she tells people that I got my citizenship through marriage.

Wrong on all accounts. I was born here and so were the last 4 generations of my family. I go grocery shopping and they were out of stock on basically everything. I come home and she still has the audacity to ask why I'm not cooking like I usually do.

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To find out more about navigating through the complex dynamics of a relationship with your mother-in-law, Bored Panda talked to Jane Parker, a Strategic Intervention Advanced Relationship Coach who coaches clients to have successful, fulfilling, and healthy relationships.

Jane told us that “There are often issues with mother-in-laws because women are used to having a say in how things are done and how children are raised. They are accustomed to influencing their 'child' and now someone else is doing that. This can be hard for some mothers.”

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How Do I Politely Tell My Future Mother In Law That I Don't Appreciate Her Comments About My Weight? Picture Of My Size 16 Self Looking Flawless In My Wedding Dress

How Do I Politely Tell My Future Mother In Law That I Don't Appreciate Her Comments About My Weight? Picture Of My Size 16 Self Looking Flawless In My Wedding Dress

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Brides Mother-In-Law Wearing A Wedding Dress To The Wedding...yikes

Brides Mother-In-Law Wearing A Wedding Dress To The Wedding...yikes

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Moreover, “Women love to contribute and sometimes it is hard not to say your opinion, especially if the subject means so much to you. Hence why MILs have a bad reputation for interfering or criticizing,” the relationship coach explained.

Another reason why the problems with MILs arise often has to do with the fact that since they “love their children very much, it is hard to let go of that instinct to influence them.” Plus, “they love to spend time with their ‘child’ and it can be hurtful to them when this fades due to their marriage or relationship.”

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Mother In Law

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Amy Pattie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Charge her by the hour, it will pay for all your children’s educations.

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It turns out that “the relationship with your mother-in-law can drastically affect your relationship, especially if your spouse does not understand or empathize with your feelings on the matter.” Jane explained that in some severe cases, “the effect can be so intense that it can change the way we feel about our spouse.”

In case you find yourself struggling with similar feelings, Jane suggests “Expressing to your spouse that your marriage is your absolute priority and that you want to make sure that you are a team at all times, even when dealing with their mother.”

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My Mother-In-Law Is Why You Can't Find Paper Goods. This Is Only One Of Four Rooms

My Mother-In-Law Is Why You Can't Find Paper Goods. This Is Only One Of Four Rooms

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What was this obsession with toilet paper? Are you shitting that much during lockdown? and is toilet paper really the most important thing you could buy? I'll give you all an African tip, if you rub a newspaper together for a minute, it becomes soft enough to use. (incase of emergency)

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My [19] Girlfriend's [20] Mother [48] Is In Love/Obsessed With Me

My [19] Girlfriend's [20] Mother [48] Is In Love/Obsessed With Me

So, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now. Around 1 year and a half ago, she introduced me to her mother, I went to her house, and tried my best to give a good introduction. Talked to her a lot, acted friendly, etc etc, I wanted good first impressions.

However, my girlfriend gave her my number for something, and since then, she messages me every 2-3 days wanting to talk to me, sends lots of x's, sometimes love hearts. I told my girlfriend I was uncomfortable with it but she said it is her mum just being friendly and I should have a conversation back. (She genuinely thought this at the time, that everything was okay and normal)

Okay, this is where it gets messed up. One time her mum said to me "I want to tell you something although I don't think you'll like it maybe", she won't tell me at first, my girlfriend is with me at this point reading the chat with me, eventually, her mum admits she is in love with me, and wants to know if I feel the same, my girlfriend feels physically sick at this point and I feel beyond uncomfortable.

I tell her I love her daughter and it can never happen, and she flips the f*ck out, saying she hates me, I am a bastard, everything. She thinks her daughter has no clue of the situation. Later that night, her daughter comes home, and her mother tells her "I spoke to [me] earlier, I can't say what about, I just want to say that he is creepy as [hell], you shouldn't go near him, he seems like those predators you find on tv" what, the, [hell]

My girlfriend and I lose our sh*t, but she cannot admit to her mother she knows that she loves me because literally, her mum will throw her out into the streets the second she does with nowhere to go.

Anyway, ever since then up until this point. Her mum buys be gifts every week which is usually tobacco (since I smoke a lot) and gives me free money every week. I tell her I do not want it, but if I say no, she blames my girlfriend for me not taking it and goes crazy at her. If I say anything she doesn't like, she takes it out on my girlfriend.

She has tried to kiss me before, said shes thinking about me in bed, sent me texts saying she loves me, thinks I should be with her instead of her daughter, she will not take no for an answer. If I tell her no, she makes her daughter choose between me, or her, because if she can't have me, her daughter can't either. She seriously wants me and my girlfriend to break up and choose her instead.

Seriously reddit, the [hell] do I do here?

Extra Information: She hides her texts from her daughter so her daughter cannot find her texting me with these kinds of texts. She wants her daughter to break up with me, she has made up lies before about me to force her too. She will kick her out if she stands up to her.

More information: One time, my girlfriend came home smelling of sex (We had sex 10-15 minutes beforehand and had no time to washup, the plan was to go home and quickly shower) her mum saw her before she did, realized, and threw her out and didn't give her a reason, just screamed at her to leave. Then asked her to come home 2 days later.

UPDATE: I found out literally 5 minutes ago, my girlfriend checked her mums search history and found

"How to steal boy from girl"

"How to make him love you"

"How to turn a guy on"

04:40 UPDATE: CHAT LOGS : Back story, I was at her house seeing my girlfriend, I wanted to leave because mum made me uncomfortable, she realized, snapped at my girlfriend, I told her she is staying with me for a couple days for things to calm down. Also, the replies on my end are my girlfriend typing in my place. I would have been much worse back. https://imgur.com/a/KiGJu This is more on the worse side of issues that has happened with her, I could show AT LEAST 30+ chat logs of disturbing content from her. Also, I am not sure why the log jumps from 4th of August to the 13th. This is all 100% the same night.

07:13 UPDATE: She just texted me while my girlfriend is sleeping saying "I think you are a very nice man and that's what I think of you, among other things but I can't share all of my secrets" basically wanting me to reply asking what they are, no doubt they are sexual comments.

TL:DR, girlfriends mum is in love/obsessed with me, wont leave me alone, if I tell her I don't feel the same or reject her, she takes it out on my girlfriend and I don't want that, help

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