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The Viral Twitter Fight about Patton Oswalt’s Spouse
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The Viral Twitter Fight about Patton Oswalt’s Spouse

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No doubt, finding our other half brings happiness into our lives. Celebrities or not, we’re all humans who want to share the rest of our lives with our loving partner. But, when they pass away, can we find our other half again? Sadly, this turned into a burning debate on Twitter about Patton Oswalt’s spouse. 

Oswalt was previously married to Michelle McNamara, the mother of his little girl, Alice before she tragically passed away in her sleep in 2016. Patton Oswalt’s first wife, Michelle McNamara, was a brilliant crime writer who left a book unfinished. Heartbroken and in grief, Patton had to continue with his life after Michelle McNamara died in her sleep. He also shared the excitement of finishing and publishing his first wife’s novel in his Tweets. 

But celebrating good memories of beloved people no longer in life doesn’t mean tying yourself to the past and stopping living your life in the present. This is what Patton Oswalt did. 18 Months after the death of Patton Oswalt’s wife, he remarried the beautiful actress Meredith Salenger. And if you’re wondering, they didn’t meet on set. They first connected on Facebook over a missed dinner of their mutual friend. He found hope and happiness in Meredith, and they have been married since 2017. However, not everyone welcomed this new happy chapter in Patton Oswalt and Meredith Salenger’s personal life.

Patton Oswalt and his wife Meredith celebrated their first anniversary in a sweet and cheesy Twitter exchange in 2018. Still, one guy decided to mess with their happiness with a rude and insensitive remark. No one knows his true reasons for commenting negatively on someone else’s happiness (celebrity or not). Still, he got the response that his comment deserved. People applauded Oswalt’s comeback while adding their own thoughts on the matter. This is how it turned into a viral fight on Twitter. 

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Who is Patton Oswalt Married to Now?

One troll had to ruin the good vibes with a nasty comment.

To Which Oswalt Had to Reply

Oswalt Was Once Married to Writer Michelle Mcnamara, Who Sadly Passed Away in Her Sleep in 2016.

She Left Behind an Unfinished Book, So Oswalt Hired Two Writers to Finish It.

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People Couldn’t Believe How Insensitive the Comment Was

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Someone Also Brought Up a Heartfelt Tweet From Meredith Salenger

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onemessylady avatar
Aunt Messy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read somewhere that men who were happily married tend to remarry if their spouse dies. Mr. Oswalt went through one of the most traumatic experiences I can imagine (his wife died in her sleep). He deserves all the happiness he can find.

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Naomi Armitage
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who the heck would downvote this? It's totally true (and super nice, BTW).

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kjorn avatar
Kjorn
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

good to know… i'll tell my mom who lost her husband and my father when he hung himself few years ago that she should consult him before trying to meet someone who could filled her life...

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Bobbi Newell
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry Kjorn. That's a loss no one should have to endure. Hugs to you and your mom!

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Carmen Elena
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lost love of my life many years ago. I cried and suffered for years after that! I wish I had moved on and found a beautiful love like this man did. God sent him a new chance to be happy again and that´s the best for a broken heart.

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Trisha Dragon
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have some health issues that make it very likely that I'll pass long before my wife. I absolutely want her loved and cared for. If the is an after life I PROMISE you I will be guiding someone amazing for my wife to share her life with to her.

abdallah06apple avatar
Blue Cicada
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Patton Oswald is proof that good people can find good partners.

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Wil Vanderheijden
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can spend your life on Twitter writing stupid and/or offensive comments or you could actually live a real life. It's sad that a lot of people seem to think that the first is more important than the latter. What's the fun in hurting people you don't even know?

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Sage Jay
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People will say "You need to move on" or "It's been X years" and yet make these types of comments when someone finds happiness in their life.

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SweetMamaP
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Patton Oswalt cannot seem to win with idiots on the Twitterverse. First there were the folks who deemed it too soon for Oswalt to remarry after his wife's death and now, some troll thinks it's 'creepy' that he was able to find happiness after such a loss. Hey, Mike Galli, you should read more of Patton Oswalt's posts and tweets about his late wife before you pass any judgement. You'll learn: How much he adored her when she was alive. How utterly shattered he was when she suddenly passed away. How he thought he would be alone for the rest of his life because well, you can't possibly get that kind of love more than once, right? Mike Galli, I am sorry you lost your sister but I doubt she would want you to believe that happiness was something that was creepy.

biene avatar
Lila Launehase
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fun fact: It it possible, to love more than one person at the same time. Not only two kids, but also two women. It is possible, to love the first and feel the lost. And to find love again at the same time with the second one. Love is infinite. When will people start to see that?

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Jean van der Merwe
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish them all the happiness in the world. You cannot honour somebody who passed away by giving up on life, especially if there is a child. I hope that my husband finds the most amazing, super fantastic person to make him happy if I should go before him. If another person can benefit from the amazing person he is inside a marriage, it would be wonderful.

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Gwinevere von Ludwig
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went to college with Patton - he is truly a smart and great person and he deserves all the happiness.

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K. LNU
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't know there was a fixed time to mourn the loss of a loved one and not live life to its fullest. But I am so glad that P.O. had the sense of humor to answer back! Snark and all!

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miss miss
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Patton is really lucky. Found my Bob after I worked night shift 9/26/18. I'll never be us again. Pain is unbearable and I'm lonely forever.

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Lynn Noyes
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fact that Patton Oswalt finds happiness in being married is a tribute to his first wife.

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Naomi Armitage
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

RE: Set Beard To Stun's reply--where did he get 9 minutes? 2:26 pm (Mike's post about his sister) to 7:35 pm (his post to Oswalt) is almost 5 hours?

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Debbie Wiseman
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're seeing the time zone of whoever took the screenshots - they were not all taken by the same person.

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CrazyCatLady
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How and why did this person think it was okay to send this tweet. Think and read your message again before you press send (and not just because of the grammar). But wait... ohhh, yes... that's the whole 'positive thing' about twitter/instagram/ facebook/ etc., thinking is not mandatory before you press send, it's optional (and sometimes not even that).

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JD Cassavaugh
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I admire Oswalt so much, he's one of my favorites. I could tell from his work how much he adores his wife and little girl. I can't believe that some little puke would say something so cruel about finding a love that patched together a wounded family.

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Holly Hobby
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for Patton. He was beside himself. I'm glad you got another chance at love. Love his work.

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Joachim Rimer
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a widower who did care for his ill wife for quite a while - before she passed away early 2004 of cancer. I can spell out every letter of the word loneliness. Meeting the woman i am married to today, did save my life literally... Because going through loneliness and depressions for a few years got the best of me and i was thinking about taking my own life on a daily basis. I met some people who did react the same way to me starting a new relationship, like that troll reacted to Patton Oswalds tweets. People like that have no place in my life. Thanks to my wife i do have the chance to enjoy one. ​

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Debbie Wiseman
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see the point in people making cruel comments, I also don't see the point in Patton continuing to acknowledge people like him, or in everyone else piling on. I find the piling on to be just a lot of people trying to show how much better of a person they are than someone else.

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Elsker
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the one thing i can't get out of my head though: If Michelle's buried, with extra space left in the grave for Patton (which is cute!!) where will meredich be buried?! Three is a crowd, but they are so in love too....

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Michèle Gyselinck
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was very mean and spiteful of @What'shisface to rain on somebody else's parade uninvited. Who asked him for anything anyway?

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Hans
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not a single of the comments is warranted. But why the original posting on twitter? Telling your loved ones that they are loved ones is a private thing to me...nothing to tweet about. Thus, all of this stuff is irrelevant to the public as it is private....

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Misterscooter
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're right, not your cup of tea. Not mine, either. However, everyone is different. Not everyone shows or receives love the same way. Doesn't mean it is wrong. Now, feeling the need to dump on a positive comment...

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Douglas Campbell
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's very common for widowers to marry quickly after their spouse dies. Apparently there are studies on it. Still, I wonder how long after she died that he started dating again.

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Meowton Mewsk
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was s****y and stupid and rude and uncalled for to say that to Patton’s “face” (via twitter) like that. But I do see where he’s coming from. Moving on so quickly, even while honoring his ex, is pretty surprising and not something I would even consider if I found myself in the same situation.

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John Smith
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5 years ago

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Patton was so cool before he became a dumb liberal a*****e.

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Aunt Messy
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read somewhere that men who were happily married tend to remarry if their spouse dies. Mr. Oswalt went through one of the most traumatic experiences I can imagine (his wife died in her sleep). He deserves all the happiness he can find.

naomiarmitage avatar
Naomi Armitage
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who the heck would downvote this? It's totally true (and super nice, BTW).

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kjorn avatar
Kjorn
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

good to know… i'll tell my mom who lost her husband and my father when he hung himself few years ago that she should consult him before trying to meet someone who could filled her life...

bobbinewell avatar
Bobbi Newell
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry Kjorn. That's a loss no one should have to endure. Hugs to you and your mom!

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carmenelena avatar
Carmen Elena
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lost love of my life many years ago. I cried and suffered for years after that! I wish I had moved on and found a beautiful love like this man did. God sent him a new chance to be happy again and that´s the best for a broken heart.

cougarthehairywombat avatar
Trisha Dragon
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have some health issues that make it very likely that I'll pass long before my wife. I absolutely want her loved and cared for. If the is an after life I PROMISE you I will be guiding someone amazing for my wife to share her life with to her.

abdallah06apple avatar
Blue Cicada
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Patton Oswald is proof that good people can find good partners.

wil_vanderheijden avatar
Wil Vanderheijden
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can spend your life on Twitter writing stupid and/or offensive comments or you could actually live a real life. It's sad that a lot of people seem to think that the first is more important than the latter. What's the fun in hurting people you don't even know?

sagejayy03 avatar
Sage Jay
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People will say "You need to move on" or "It's been X years" and yet make these types of comments when someone finds happiness in their life.

atruong74 avatar
SweetMamaP
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Patton Oswalt cannot seem to win with idiots on the Twitterverse. First there were the folks who deemed it too soon for Oswalt to remarry after his wife's death and now, some troll thinks it's 'creepy' that he was able to find happiness after such a loss. Hey, Mike Galli, you should read more of Patton Oswalt's posts and tweets about his late wife before you pass any judgement. You'll learn: How much he adored her when she was alive. How utterly shattered he was when she suddenly passed away. How he thought he would be alone for the rest of his life because well, you can't possibly get that kind of love more than once, right? Mike Galli, I am sorry you lost your sister but I doubt she would want you to believe that happiness was something that was creepy.

biene avatar
Lila Launehase
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fun fact: It it possible, to love more than one person at the same time. Not only two kids, but also two women. It is possible, to love the first and feel the lost. And to find love again at the same time with the second one. Love is infinite. When will people start to see that?

jeanvandermerwe79 avatar
Jean van der Merwe
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish them all the happiness in the world. You cannot honour somebody who passed away by giving up on life, especially if there is a child. I hope that my husband finds the most amazing, super fantastic person to make him happy if I should go before him. If another person can benefit from the amazing person he is inside a marriage, it would be wonderful.

aubergine10003 avatar
Gwinevere von Ludwig
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went to college with Patton - he is truly a smart and great person and he deserves all the happiness.

kristynlnu avatar
K. LNU
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't know there was a fixed time to mourn the loss of a loved one and not live life to its fullest. But I am so glad that P.O. had the sense of humor to answer back! Snark and all!

missmiss avatar
miss miss
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Patton is really lucky. Found my Bob after I worked night shift 9/26/18. I'll never be us again. Pain is unbearable and I'm lonely forever.

lynnnoyes avatar
Lynn Noyes
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fact that Patton Oswalt finds happiness in being married is a tribute to his first wife.

naomiarmitage avatar
Naomi Armitage
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

RE: Set Beard To Stun's reply--where did he get 9 minutes? 2:26 pm (Mike's post about his sister) to 7:35 pm (his post to Oswalt) is almost 5 hours?

mrsdgrimes avatar
Debbie Wiseman
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're seeing the time zone of whoever took the screenshots - they were not all taken by the same person.

Load More Replies...
vanderscheer avatar
CrazyCatLady
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How and why did this person think it was okay to send this tweet. Think and read your message again before you press send (and not just because of the grammar). But wait... ohhh, yes... that's the whole 'positive thing' about twitter/instagram/ facebook/ etc., thinking is not mandatory before you press send, it's optional (and sometimes not even that).

jessica_cassavaugh avatar
JD Cassavaugh
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I admire Oswalt so much, he's one of my favorites. I could tell from his work how much he adores his wife and little girl. I can't believe that some little puke would say something so cruel about finding a love that patched together a wounded family.

hkh11984_1 avatar
Holly Hobby
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for Patton. He was beside himself. I'm glad you got another chance at love. Love his work.

joachimrimer avatar
Joachim Rimer
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a widower who did care for his ill wife for quite a while - before she passed away early 2004 of cancer. I can spell out every letter of the word loneliness. Meeting the woman i am married to today, did save my life literally... Because going through loneliness and depressions for a few years got the best of me and i was thinking about taking my own life on a daily basis. I met some people who did react the same way to me starting a new relationship, like that troll reacted to Patton Oswalds tweets. People like that have no place in my life. Thanks to my wife i do have the chance to enjoy one. ​

mrsdgrimes avatar
Debbie Wiseman
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see the point in people making cruel comments, I also don't see the point in Patton continuing to acknowledge people like him, or in everyone else piling on. I find the piling on to be just a lot of people trying to show how much better of a person they are than someone else.

els_g avatar
Elsker
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the one thing i can't get out of my head though: If Michelle's buried, with extra space left in the grave for Patton (which is cute!!) where will meredich be buried?! Three is a crowd, but they are so in love too....

mdclgyselinck avatar
Michèle Gyselinck
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was very mean and spiteful of @What'shisface to rain on somebody else's parade uninvited. Who asked him for anything anyway?

crabcrab avatar
Hans
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not a single of the comments is warranted. But why the original posting on twitter? Telling your loved ones that they are loved ones is a private thing to me...nothing to tweet about. Thus, all of this stuff is irrelevant to the public as it is private....

misterscooter avatar
Misterscooter
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're right, not your cup of tea. Not mine, either. However, everyone is different. Not everyone shows or receives love the same way. Doesn't mean it is wrong. Now, feeling the need to dump on a positive comment...

Load More Replies...
point925l avatar
Douglas Campbell
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's very common for widowers to marry quickly after their spouse dies. Apparently there are studies on it. Still, I wonder how long after she died that he started dating again.

mintyminameow avatar
Meowton Mewsk
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was s****y and stupid and rude and uncalled for to say that to Patton’s “face” (via twitter) like that. But I do see where he’s coming from. Moving on so quickly, even while honoring his ex, is pretty surprising and not something I would even consider if I found myself in the same situation.

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John Smith
Community Member
5 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Patton was so cool before he became a dumb liberal a*****e.

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