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The fact that people share an idealized version of themselves on social media, cherry-picking only the best images, thoughts, and experiences isn't new. But the lengths they go to marketing themselves keep surprising even the ones who think they've seen it all.

I'm talking about r/Instagramreality. It's a subreddit whose members strip down the glamor of make-up, flattering poses, and all kinds of photo editing, and expose the truth behind the facade. It's been around since 2017, and we've written about it numerous times (here, here, and here), but even these folks still get baffled at how absurd some of these manipulations are. Here are a few reasons why.

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A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

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Klaatu Verrata (Cough)
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yikes. Filler is expensive. Always amazes me how much vain people will pay to turn themselves into literal caricatures of themselves.

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In an earlier piece on r/InstagramRealityBored Panda spoke to Siobhan Ward, a primary therapist at Life Works, a rehabilitation center that provides treatment for addictions and eating disorders, about the scope of social media addiction in the United Kingdom.

"If you broke 'social media addiction' down into categories, it would encompass other process or behavioral addictions such as porn and gambling, as well as eating disorders, especially predominant with the likes of Instagram," Ward explained. "It may be that the addiction is not with the social media itself, but the social media has become a tool of other addictions."

The therapist thinks people can't stop faking and editing their Instagram photos (even when it's an obvious lie) because of brain chemistry. "Dopamine is the neurotransmitter that comes into play with the addict — it is what tells us that we enjoy something and therefore need to do it again as it gives us pleasure."

"If the person is taking a lot of selfies that have to be 'perfect', then maybe they are not addicts. Instead, this could be a sign of a possible narcissistic personality disorder. Also, if someone is posting pictures to get as many likes as possible, they may not be getting certain needs met in their life. They may not have the love, support, or even safety that they need now or that they needed when they grew up and therefore have had to find another way to fill that hole," Ward said.

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A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

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This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

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Steve Barnett
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm getting the feeling that I'm probably going to make more Slender Man jokes.

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Interestingly, being reminded that social media is fake can also 'fill' us. In a 2019 study, researchers decided to investigate the effect 'Instagram vs. Reality' pictures (the ones containing side-by-side photographs of the same woman, one an idealized depiction and the other a more natural depiction) have on body image.

They got together 305 women aged between 18 and 30 years, the largest demographic group of Instagram users. The sample had a mean age of 25.34 years, and their mean body mass index (BMI) was 26.98, indicating a slightly overweight sample. The majority of participants identified as Caucasian (69.2%), followed by Latino/Hispanic (11.8%), African American (10.2%), Asian (6.6%), Native American (0.3%), and 'other' (2.0%). The participants were randomly assigned to view one of three sets of Instagram images over a period of time: 'Instagram vs. reality" images, the 'ideal' side alone, or the 'real' side alone.

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In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

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Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

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"[The study found that] viewing the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images resulted in decreased body dissatisfaction relative to the ideal images," the researchers wrote. "Furthermore, the detrimental effects of appearance comparison were much less marked for the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images than for the ideal images. It was concluded that 'Instagram vs. reality' and real posts have the potential to bolster women's body satisfaction, but more research is needed to assess their longer-term impact."

Siobhan Ward said that we need to become aware of what we believe we are getting from the Internet in order to start resisting its temptation. "By understanding why [we] turn to the Internet, [we] can start to think about healthier ways to meet these needs."

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This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

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Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

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We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

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"The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

"The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

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Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

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From Her Profile vs. Tagged

From Her Profile vs. Tagged

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Sarcastic Cow
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you photoshoped yourself hard enough to be Kate Siegel. Good job.

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Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

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SuePrew
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The one in the middle looks like she has a full diaper.

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MizAdeleM
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If these women sat down, their butts would pop like party balloons!

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SomePeopleCallMeMaurice
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughters are in their teens, and every other photo of the girls at their school are girls turned around so you can see their butts. One girl even posted a photo titled “My new puppy”, which featured her own a*s and a peek of the puppy’s face around her shoulder!

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Patricia
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is it with enormous backsides? Have beauty standards changed that much? Bc my generation never wanted to look like this!

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Vic
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks like they are carrying bowling balls in their back pockets.

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Stephen Taylor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women just don’t seem to understand, that most men aren’t really interested in women who have butts the size of a ‘56 Buick! I mean seriously!

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Kristen Lee Parker
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When did an ass the size of a small state start looking good? It's horrendous

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Duncan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Earth to these women. The Kardashian butt is not attractive. Looks like two badly parked volkswagens.

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Tamara Horyza
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wtf ive been trying for years to get my ass not looking like that lol

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Yvonne Hunt
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was growing up a big butt was an object of derision. Now look what's going on!

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laura lee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless they're from Florida and got ginormous Miami implants

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Pascale Pierloot
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The third one also works as a contortionist at medical conventions.

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Elaine Rathmann
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good God-- I hope not. Otherwise reduction surgery should be imminent.

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WaterRat_
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes, I too would want basketballs implanted into my bottom.

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NL Stuart
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Personally I like this trend. My Aunts, Cousins and I all have big butts and have complained about them for all our lives. They look great next to these people.

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Andy Hinds
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would anyone think that two planets colliding in a pair of knickers is sexy?

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Lisa Tetlow
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who thinks this is attractive?? OK, now who thinks this looks like some kind of deformity?????

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Jane Pool
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do some women want to look like they have a rear end of a horse ?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

no bending bc the walls are solid, they are even a bit smart

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Gail Nicholson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's like an in-built space hopper, you could sit down and bounce to the gym and then you wouldn't need to do anything there!

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Annamarie Dodge
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i have seen many people look this way intentionally...really bad implants

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Cybele Spanjaard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have no idea why girls want a huge bum anyhow? What is it ..for the boys who prefer the derrière's or for themselves by copy catting some rich as social media personality who are very very clever at getting the foolish to follow them as they scoop in their victims money. Sigh.

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SydneyP
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t get it. I have a huge booty yet don’t want it! I would love to lose like half. Seriously.

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bdunbar@kcls.org
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thankfully we don't look like this, Granted, Ok, I have sciatica, very bad back on a small frame. Those butts just make my A%$**ss Hurt. Literally. Silly young ladies. I am seeing big shoes and feet in addition to giant bottoms being desirable, maybe those will help them keep their big midsection stabelized?

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Esther G
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once saw a lady who looked like this in real life. I couldn't stop staring. I cannot imagine how much plastic surgery it took to achieve what most people achieve with editing.

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Lyn Moffett
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awful looking. Those fkn idiots have ruined a lot of young girls lives because they think these photos are true to life and they think they have to look the same

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DKS 001
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I keep offering to cut off my butt fat and give it away for free. But these women seem to insist on paying way too much to have a butt that looks like mine.

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Cyndielouwhoo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They look like comic book depictions of women, which are also ridiculously unrealistic.

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Olivia Lisbon
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey now, I temporarily looked liked that when I got a severe of oedema after multiple organs started to struggle. Although they look like they have no space for any struggling organs to physically be, so strike that idea.

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KumagorouBeam
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my right food just shot to the front... i guess there was an urge to kick some butts

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Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

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What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

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She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why accept the reality show invite if you've modified your online image this much is what I don't understand. You KNOW you don't look like your pictures, so why expose yourself? [Why change yourself this much is a question for another day]

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Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

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This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is the guy from TOWIE (UK reality TV show) and he is dangerously thin at the moment

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I Was Startled By This While Scrolling

I Was Startled By This While Scrolling

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Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

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Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

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Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this whole page could just have a picture of Thanos after he gets the reality stone with caption now reality can be whatever i want

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Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

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Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

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Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

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When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

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The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

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And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Srsly...You don't need to change your body to be truly appealing.

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Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

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