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Heartbreaking Post On Euthanasia From A Vet That Has To Perform It Goes Viral
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Heartbreaking Post On Euthanasia From A Vet That Has To Perform It Goes Viral

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Whenever we have to let go of our beloved pets, the pain is unbearable. In fact, the emotions overwhelm us so much, we forget about the rest of the world. And that’s only natural. But many times, there’s someone sharing the hurt. In the cases of euthanasia, for example, it’s the carrier of death. Recently, Brenda Gough from Burford, Ontario penned an emotional Facebook post, explaining how the vets feel when pushing the needle into our little buddies, taking them to the other side.

Brenda’s honesty is vivid in every word of the text, which has already received over 112K reactions and 123K shares. And while it can’t bring back our pets, knowing that there’s somebody who’s going through the crushing experience with you might just make it a little bit easier.

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Brenda is a small animal veterinarian, mostly dealing with dogs and cats, and owns an equestrian facility. “I have been a veterinarian for 24 years, and I grew up in a vet clinic as my dad was a vet as well,” she told Bored Panda.

Usually, she carries out one or two euthanasias every week. “I [also] have had the rare occasion where there are 3-4 in one day and that is really hard on me and my staff.” After these experiences, Brenda tries to make sure she gets some alone time – vacations, time with family (who are really supportive of what she does).

“The thoughts I’ve shared in my Facebook post have been on my mind for awhile, but that night they just came out – I sat down and wrote them in under five minutes – the words just flowed, real and raw and unplugged.”

“I honestly didn’t mean to cause so many people to ugly cry,” Brenda added. “It wasn’t my intent to have this go viral – it clearly struck a chord with people all over the world. I have had kind messages from New Zealand, Texas, British Columbia, to name just a few places far far away that it has reached. I am just a vet in Brantford, Ontario.”

She also pointed out that suicide rates are extremely high among veterinarians and veterinary caregivers. “It is my sincerest hopes that veterinarians everywhere will read the incredibly positive comments (there are over 25,000!) and know that they are loved, needed, and very much respected. If reading those comments will save even one life, then it is worth it.”

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As difficult as this topic is, it has a brighter side. Every year, 6.5 million animals enter U.S. animal shelters – 3.3 million dogs and 3.2 million cats. Also, 1.5 million shelter animals are euthanized every year (670,000 dogs and 860,000 cats). And even though this number can seem shockingly high, it actually has been declining. For example, back in 2012, the total figure was 2.6 million while in 2009, it was 3.7 million. During the 1970s, the number of cats and dogs euthanized in the U.S. stood even higher – at over 20 million.

Since then, large-scale activism, industry professionalization and shifting cultural attitudes have helped limit euthanasia, The New York Times said. “Society is no longer willing to say, ‘Well, there’s just too many animals and not enough homes,” Richard Avanzino, a longtime activist known as the father of the “no-kill” movement, stated.

“Rescuing an animal has become a badge of honor,” said Matt Bershadker, the president and chief executive of the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals. “People proudly go to dog parks and walk around their neighborhoods talking about the animal that they rescued from a shelter.”

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Samantha C
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

please people, be in the room when your beloved animal goes. you are who they look for because they know something bad is about to happen. the vets are always super emotional as well and will blubber with you, but I think its super important your pet knows you were there until the end <3

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Grumble O'Pug
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never leave, as hard as it is, stay. The vet I use has a little room that you can stay with your pet for a while afterwards. I didn't leave for over an hour after I let my girl go this summer. It helped. I hope others have access to this.

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Foxxy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could never be a vet, so much heartbreak. I held my beautiful dog 'Bubbles' when she was put to sleep and it was the most heartbreaking thing I have ever had to do. I didn't want to let her go but she had an aggressive cancer that was starting to constrict her breathing. This was over 5 years ago and I still miss her dearly.

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Tara
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m so sorry Foxxy. Holding your precious pet in your arms as life slips away is beyond horrific. RIP sweet Bubbles

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Don Powell
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'M NOT GOING TO READ THIS ONE OTHERWISE I'LL BE SITTING AT MY DESK AT WORK CRYING.

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Saulo Frota
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine loving animals so much that you dedicate your whole life to them. Vets must feel an excruciating pain when they not only can't save the animal, but also have to euthanize them. These are some true heroes people don't recognize as much as they deserve.

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StormsTempest
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lost my Lucy in July and it still rips me up. I feel so sorry for the vet that had to put down her, she was a loving, gorgeous golden retriever with unconditional love and support for everyone.

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Noez 🇸🇪
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I cried my guts out when my hamster died. I was in my late teens and quite a non-emotional one, angry and b****y and I didn't like anyone or anything (not even myself). But my hamster was my beloved friend, the joy I had every day and I loved her so much. When she died I mourned her for over a year. She was a tiny hamster, smaller than my hand! And I cried my guts out.

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R L
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I did the same. Had hamsters through most of my life and cried over every one of them. Awesome little creatures.

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Gabrielle Causey
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure why I clicked on this when I knew I would cry. I miss my Jack-Jack. My little man.

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Whatever...
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've had 21 cats in my lifetime (including the 8 we have). I have such sorrow for the ones I've lost. The ones who died when I was sleeping; or I wasn't home; or I waited too long; or died in my arms; or had to choose the time. It never gets easier. I hear certain songs that remind me of each one and immediately cry. If you've lost one of yours, you get it.

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Whatever...
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you don't mind, here are the initials of the ones I've lost (just a little remembrance): LWNBASTMAJKSO.

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Louise Gerathy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful. Being a veterinary nurse myself I totally get this. You do build relationships with the families as well as their animals. Animal lovers are the best people on the planet and they always have huge hearts. The way I look at it is that you do your best throughout their lives to keep them happy and healthy and when the time comes that you have to help ease their pain, it's the last kindness you can do. It never gets easier and you never ever get used to that pain. Hugs to all the amazing animal people out there...vets, nurses, zoo people,so many others. Keep doing your amazing jobs <3

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S. W.
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work at an animal hospital as a pharmacy technician and being the person who has to pull up the euthasol and propofol for Euthanasia IS THE WORST FEELING even if you haven't grown attached to the patient or its owners. It breaks my heart all the time. Like any medical profession, you try to distance yourself from the pain of the tough decisions that have to be made, but it is NEVER easy. And don't think just because a VET or their staff doesn't show emotion that they do not care. Working at a major 24-hour Emergency Animal Hospital every single day we have to put someone's baby down and it is very tough. This post made me cry because it is so hard to be the person who assists with your pet's transition to the other side.

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Kathy Baylis
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m 58, grew up with pets, and have had pets ever since I had my first apartment. That means I have had to do this countless times in my life—-maybe not when I was a child, but certainly as an adult. Regardless of what some people think, it’s exactly the same as losing a human friend or family member, because our pets ARE our best friends and valued members of our families—-nothing less. But, oh my, even after so many decades, it just never ever gets easier, and hurts so deeply and acutely with each one.

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Living_Shadow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know the article mainly pertains to dogs and that's why I feel like I have to say it's still heartbreaking when it comes to cats. cats need more recognition and love, people don't appreciate them enough. They're small and moody, but they'll love you if you respect them as well. It's sad to loose any kind of pet.

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Jeff Gabrisl
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Continuation Wouldn't eat. I fed him some fluids, and some ground up wet food through a syringe, and planned on taking him to the vet the next morning. When I woke up and tried to feed him again, he spasmed in my arms, and let out his last breathe. He is buried under my bathroom window, which he used to enter and exit my room. The kitten he brought home sat and watched the whole burial process.

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Kevin Donegan
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Remaining with a beloved pet while they're being euthanized is the most difficult thing I've done. I've done it three times and will be there for my loved one the next time I have to go through this emotionally painful time in my life. It's the least I could do for my loved ones who had given me 15+ years of joy.

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Karen Miller
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got my cancer diagnosis a week after I had to put my 18 year old Italian greyhound down He was blind, deaf, in pain from arthritis and just about the best damn thing that ever happened to me. I love him still My vet (my friend) was crying with me. My husband and sons also there with tears Ah man, being a grown up sucks

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John L
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been through this several times with my four-legged children. It hurts so bad, I can't help but cry throughout each ordeal. But I know that I have to have courage and never, ever, chicken out as the vet sends the little guys home. My Charlie, who you see next to my name, is twelve and in a few short years will be taking that journey to doggy heaven. I'm already tearing up just thinking about it. I cherish each and every moment with him.

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Chu Yue Ling
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I had to say goodbye to my first boy, the vet was wonderful. She made it clear: 'I know you love him more than anyone, but my responsibility has to be towards him and his welfare. I can't advise you to keep him alive when he is in so much pain even though I know that's not what you want to hear.' She let me lie with him on the floor after making him comfortable with pain meds and wrapped in cozy blankets for hours. This meant I had time to tell him how much I loved him, whisper sweet nothings to him, stroke his sweet ears and recount all our adventures from the day he came into my life until this fateful one. I was SO glad of that time. And my other darling dog was there, lying next to him, quietly. I cried and cried and cried. The vet carried his body to my car and I saw tears in her eyes. She was a locum and I never got to tell her how much I appreciated her. Her kindness made all the difference.

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R L
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I could give this more upvotes. I am eternally grateful for the vets who are there for the animals well-being but are still understanding of the situation.

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Hallie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Saying goodbye to my gorgeous rottweiler Sasha last year was simultaneously the hardest and easiest thing I've ever had to do. Easy because she was in so much pain, I knew it was right. Hardest because f*****g hell she was my best friend, I will never ever forget her and the impact she had on my life. She was the dog that taught me. Cried like a little b*tch through this one.

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Janine B.
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I couldn't thank our vet enough. They are heroes to me.

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CrunChewy McSandybutt
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As George Carlin said, "They are mini tragedies." My doggo is rapidly approaching the end. I'm okay with it, he had a great doggo life. I will be sad for awhile, but I know that I did the best I could for him, and he was happy for most of his life.

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Lisa Larson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crying like a little baby reading this. We had to put our two dogs down last year just months apart. Our vet knew them almost as long as we did. She cried as much as we did when they were gone and we love her all the more for it. She was the first vet in the clinic we brought our new dogs to (now they have seen all the vets, but she was the first). Stay with your dogs / cats / other pets when they are dying. They need you to be there with them as they pass on. And don't be ashamed to cry over them. They were your babies.

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Lisa Larson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My vet cried with us when she had to put both of our dogs to sleep just a couple of months apart. She had known them almost as long as we had. This post made me cry like a little baby and I'm not ashamed of it. Yes, we have stayed with all of the dogs we have lost. We could never leave them alone.

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Nyx
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just lost my beloved kitty boy this past April. He woke me up crying, shivering, and very cold one morning and I rushed him to the vet. Rapid congestive heart failure that was filling his body cavity with fluid. He was the sweetest, purest soul that I have ever encountered in an animal and I miss him all the time. Sometimes, when it's dark and I'm downstairs, I still expect to hear his claws clicking on the floor or his signature purr he'd give off when he saw me. They are family, truly.

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Steve Cruz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm really gratreful to several vets in the Denver area who come to a pet's home, set up a sturdy folding table with padding and soft sheets, talk families through what will happen, allow time for last photos and goodbyes, then perform the injection and allow the entire family to be around as the pet's life signs subside. They then take the pet wherever the family has arranged and remove the table where the procedure was performed. I've heard from so many people who said it was peaceful, dignified and not as nerve-wracking as trying to transport a dying loved one to the vet clinic. Other pets often stay close and comfort humans.

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Bevie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, my Goodness! Thank you a million times over for posting this! I have lost pets and my heart still aches many years later. The Vets, just like people doctors have to hold it together to help us out. We must remember that their hearts are breaking too. The best death (if you can call it that) was when we lost our Chihuahua, Goliath Leviathan. He was 16 and died the day after Christmas, at home in our arms. It was just time. I have to smile because just the day before that little stinker chased a full grown Boxer out of our yard all the way down the street. He was my baby and my ultimate protector whether I needed it or not. We have four fur babies now and all are getting to the senior age. Ahhhhh.....it gives me a catch in my heart just thinking about it. Blessings to all. Xo

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Hawkeye
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not my vet unfortunately. I remember watching my vet grab the car I had for much of my childhood and aggressively shove (force-fit) it's body into a box that was too small (rigor mortis had already set in). Very unbothered and cold--in front of me.

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Anna Repp
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my, I just relived parting with my Chloe!... Her muscles stopped working, one by one, from her tail to her heart. We carried her and used a walker so she can still enjoy life (she was not in pain, just her muscles stopped working) but then the disease reached the vital organs... We had to put her to sleep. We were all in the room with her, giving her her favourite treats. I know she knew her time is up. I hugged her when the vet injected her and one of the most painful memories of my life will always be when the vet took the stethoscope to Chloe's side and softly said "She's gone."

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Linda Gamoran
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This post really saddened me in and of itself but also for what nay be. My boyfriend of 20 years died this past March and we had our dog, Cookie for 12 of them. She recently developed a lump in one of her mammary glands. If it turns out to be a life threatening outcome I don't know what I'll do . Besides my boyfriend, I also lost my ex-husband who while we divorced were on good terms , as well as 2 close cousins, I don't want anymore bad news, I think I will really just fall apart.

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Katinka Min
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm dissolving here. My pooch is 8. She's my first dog, the apple of my eye. I will do everything I can to hold it together for her, when the time comes, but afterwards, I will hide in bed bawl for a month.

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Ner Po
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tears started pouring down my face immediately when I started reading this...I can not even imagine what that's like to deal with it weekly or even daily. My beloved doggie is going her 13th year and started to have problems with her health.. I am so worried and even thinking about her passing gets be bawling my eyes out...

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Stormschance
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of the reasons I love the vet practice we use is how genuinely caring they are. They've shed tears with us and hugged us when the end comes for one of our feline family, and we are always there with them. As hard as it is to let them go, I couldn't forgive myself if I wasn't there.

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Phil Boswell
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I held eight out of the nine cats we've lost as they went: the only exception was Poppy who died in her sleep under the kitchen table the morning she was due to go to the vet for a check-up. I wept for them all…I shall weep for the three we have now when they go, and for their successors.

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pusheen buttercup
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone if you have pets, try not to take them for granted. Make time to play with them, you may not get to one day.

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Shawn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm gonna have to experience this soon and I'm not ready. I'm so not ready for my baby to be ready to go.. I want her to live forever!

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Monica A. M.
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I'm crying.... my critters are my babies. I love them more than a good many humans I know.

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Katy Keyes
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sweet Booboo, he was protecting me when I was sick with leukemia and bit someone doing work at my moms house while I was there. The man went to the hospital and we had to put him down, I think of him every day. I'll never forgive myself.

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Misha Writer
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the absolute truth. I lost one fur baby to a freak incident when he was in the kennel and I was out of town. The next one developed internal bleeding at the ripe old age of 15. My vet had been her doctor, his staff her other family, for 15 years. They were crying with us as we sent her over the bridge together. The next I rescued from a terrible situation, I gave her four beautiful love filled years before lymphoma stole her from me. We had just moved away from my family's other doctor, the new vet saw her twice before we had to say good bye. That was tough, but even then, even not really knowing us as a family or my beautiful brave baby girl, there were tears and there was a sense of community and family in that little room. And the fur baby I have now? They embraced him from day one, and we are building a beautiful relationship and a side family, because when I take my boy in there they treat him like he's important to them because he is.

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Marie C
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We recently had to say goodbye to my beagle of of almost 14 years after cancer weakened her body. I screamed and cried my heart out harder then ever before when the doctor said her heart had stopped. Our family was touched when a few weeks letter we received a letter from the vet's office about how a big donation had been made in her name to the veterinary college and research program in the city. What a wonderful way to honor my sweet baby who I miss deeply.

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Lianna Valdez
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This hurts so badly I need to put my baby down soon. She has bone cancer and I am so not ready. My heart is already breaking.

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Sherri Fournier
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having the owners/family there for his last moments is so important.

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Leo Domitrix
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always stay with pets who have to be given the mercy shot. I was taught that if I kill an animal ---- even euthanasia --- I owe it to that animal to be present, to look it in the eye, to apologize for my actions, to thank the animal for its life (and what its life gave me, if it be purrs, tail-wags, or a meal).... And I hurt every day, but they're owed. It was my choice, not theirs, after all. *sigh*

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Cindy Snow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always wondered if vets feel sad putting pets to sleep. I think most do. Maybe a few hardened ones aren't as affected...but most people who become vets are not hard a*s types.

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Tammy Ralph
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did I even read this? The tears are flowing and I feel a pain in my heart even thinking about the day that this will happen. The most precious things in our lives, why can't their lives be longer.

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Rebekah Green
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bad to let me fur baby go in August he was 9 years old and i rescued him ay 2 weeks old. This post made me cry just as much as the day we had to take him to the vet.

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K. LNU
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't blame the dreaded onion cutting ninjas for this one. Had to let my little girl go at the age of 13 (good long life for a boxer dog) last year and I was lucky that my vet offered to come out to the house vs taking her there.

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Melodious Functavious
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really BP - I read this site while I'm drinking my morning coffee at work...and THIS is how you want me to start my day??? Pets have hearts that humans should envy. Pets show unequivocal love in a way that should make humans jealous.

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Aski Markup
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wanted to be a vet as a child. This very fact put me off totally. It never made sense to me, as a kid, why I couldn't be a vet who didn't do that.

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Elaine16
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I held my first pet when she left me and I wouldn't have had it any other way. She was calm and relaxed and loved and then she was gone. My vet was wonderful, gentle with her, supportive of me, and she let me stay until I was ready to leave. It's very painful but it's part of life and taking that final step with your pet is, I think, part of responsibility of pet ownership.

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BigCityLady
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am fortunate that my vet makes house calls. When I had to put my wonderful Spencer to sleep, she came and we held him as he went. I adopted Spencer, a Maine c**n, from our local shelter, he was a full grown adult. We had Spencer for 16 wonderful years and he was my buddy, my companion who didn’t think twice about laying across my chest with his 28lb body on me to the point I couldn’t breathe. But he developed a second bout of cancer in his throat and mouth. I finally had to call her that awful morning as he was clawing at his chin to eat or drink water. I would never allow my pets to be alone at their time of need as they have always been there for mine.

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Brenda Swann
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As I enter my 66th year, with my Great Dane and Fewfie Cross, what haunts me most is the day my boys will leave me. They will be my last as the goodbyes are getting too much for me to recover from. My long time Vetrinary practitioner has retired, so I will loose my last boys to a stranger that has not known them, and in no way will appreciate what they have been to me in my life. Sincerely a situation where I wish I could go first. Breaks my heart the anticipation of that day ...

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Elizabeth Bartley
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you have to put your loving pet down, a piece of your heart dies with it. They are a part of your family, loving, never judging and a constant reminder they love you. You hold them to your heart for the last time , as you watch their last breath taken. I have done this so many times, but i never get use to it. Imagine how a vet feels doing this 5/6 or more times a day and them being brave for me.

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Cindy Collins
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never forget when I have ti pot my beautiful German Shepherd down Dutchess. Loved her so much and still love her to this dsy. I made sure that the last face she saw was mine, I could not imagine leaving them alone during this time. My vet made a plaseter of paris imprint of her pair and sent me a sympathy card. Fast forward to my beautiful black lab, Roamer, he is 10, and I can't bear to even think about this day. I love him more than I like most people

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Gerard Kiekens
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thanks Brenda for sharing this. Please know that it's the same here in The Netherlands. Loosing the battle against cancer was hard for us and our malinois, but also for our vet who went trough all possible trouble to cure him. I don't know who cried harder at the end of the battle, she or we. But know one thing (and thats just a little comfort) the harder saying goodbye is, the better your relationship was, and the more good memories you can cherish. Gerard B. P. Kiekens

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ThatOneGuy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sweet, sweet dog got out and I looked everywhere for her for about a week, begged my dad to go check the pound.. He said no, she will come back, just wait.. Until he finally gave in, and we went to the pound.. But we found out, the day before she was put down.. I miss her so much.. She was a good doggo..

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Ann McKenzie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm waiting for my vet to come in about an hour, to put my beautiful gentle giant Scooby to sleep. He's 12, has lung tumours and laryngeal paralysis and it's time. That line about "they would hold on as long as we wanted them to" is so true. My heart is in shatters but I need to do the best for him. And poor Vets have it so tough, having to be strong. It's so true it must hurt them too.

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Rick Daugherty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't read it. Last year (Tokoname) and two years before that (Shimpaku), our pugs, had to be euthanized. We did the right thing by them as one was in pain from liver cancer and the other's blood chemistry was so out of whack, he was delirious and scared. My wife and I both poured out love to Shimpie as he passed. Last year, my wife was out of town - her sister died the week before - I had to call her and tell her that Tokie wasn't going to make it that he walked into a wall and collapsed the night before. I felt so sorry for my wife! The vet said we could keep testing, but that probably wouldn't be in Tokie's best interest. I was deliriously upset during his passing - what further broke my heart was the vet began crying too - she (the vet) is a remarkable and compassionate human being. And she will remain our vet as long as we have dogs. We recently adopted a rescue pug. She's around 13 and is having trouble. We'll give her the best life we can for every precious day she's with us.

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HoffLensMetalHedLovesAnimalsUK
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well that's me all cried out today. When my dog passed a few years back it was the worst time of my life, took about 2 years before i could talk about him without choking up, especially when drunk.

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Caroline Driver
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every single time I read an article like this and see the comments, I'm wracked with guilt that I didn't stay with my cat Matty when she had to go. I was a coward, I know, I will regret it it forever. I cannot undo it. I can only do it differently in the future.

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frank0ys
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...This really made me tear up. Our little Mango is turning 9 years old this month and you can see how she is aging. Seeing this happening is sad but that's life.

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Cheyenne Wilson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oml, I am balling my eyes out thinking about when I have to go through this. Honestly, people in movies dying doesn't matter that much, but when animals do, I cant hold back. This is just the saddest thing ever😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Mad Mar
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pt two The kittens in back are crying for attention. We play with them. I'm cuddling this little black runt. We laugh. I'm talking to old girl and saying she's beautiful an good girl. We put kittens back. Say thanks to vet and head out to pay. My husband starts losing it at home about old girl. My husband sneaks back to vet next day to ask about adopting one of the kittens. Old girl is gone to better place. We get a kitten that weekend. His name is Mercury. The doggie was Freddy. Thank you Freddy for bringing this little guy to us to love.

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Mad Mar
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know this feeling so well when one of my fur babies goes to freedom. Hug your vet the next time you see them. One of my last trips to my vet for two of my cars checkups and shots each year, my vet started to tell us of how someone left a box of 4 kittens in back of the clinic. We said oh that's sad but good they gave them to you and just blah blah good vet storied it. Other side is while waiting for our turn a couple came in with a good old girl. They took pics. Hugs. Kisses. And took her collar off. I knew. The vet tech came and picked her up to bring into the back room. I saw the couple walk out and the woman lost it and cried in the lot. I told my husband and he was sad. Big softie. Now the vet asks if we want to see the kittens. As we are done w exams an such. I was behaving and not asking to because my husband is like we have 6 and don't. Then I see his face change and he said let's look. Next to the kitten cage in the back is old girl. She's tired. More below

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Micah Pettit
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dammit, I couldn't even make it through reading the whole post...

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Datsuyama
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do I read these things at work? Sheesh, I hope nobody comes to see me for a few minutes while I compose myself.

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bill marsano
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This story's headline belongs in "40 Text Designs Fails That Are So Bad They’re Good."

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Bob Peterson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a little "shitzu" who never wanted to accept the fact he was a dog and I was in fact his master. He won the battle when it came time to let him go by taking a multi-gallon p**s in my lap as I was holding him while the vet gave him his last shot. Nice work Bo' - you are the ultimate winner on this one.

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Restless
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so full of raw emotion. It is the hardest thing ever!

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Jean Jacket
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did I think I could handle this post at work where I am now sobbing at my desk...

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Victoria Swift
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I put one dog down and that was enough for me. I won't have any more pets after that.

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Isle_of_stressed_pilots
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The whole family was there when our almost 16 year old dog Nunzio, was put down. I still tear up when i think about it. We got him before I was born so he was always a big brother to me :'(

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SBW71
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crying as I read this as I had to do this same thing many years ago which is why I will never have another dog. It was just too hard. I cannot go through that again and I always wanted to be a vet. Glad I wasn't able to make that happen.I don't how they do it. I'd be a blubbering mess.

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Jaffa Cake
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have multiple vets at our local practice so you never see the same vet regularly, however the vet that euthanised my last cat saved one of my current cats when it was run over, he rewired his smashed leg back together so whilst there's a downside at the end of the animals life there's stuff like that in the middle which has to be the only thing that keeps them going. I would assume that it's the same with all healthcare professionals.

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Klaudiia Sherbatzky
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I stoped reading 5 times because I am at work and don´t wan´t to cry but I failed so much. This breaks my heart , my dog is 10 years old he is in great shape and healthy but when the time will come to say goodbye to him, that will be the hardest thing in my life. I love him so much

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Annemarie van der Westhuysen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tears pouring down my face. Lots of love to everyone who's lost a pet - and to the vets who have to make that agonizing call. xxx

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Euthanasia is f*****g stupid. Only those who actually don't like their pets would do it. Unless you're ok with humans getting euthanized and sign an approval for it ya shouldn't do the same for supposed family otherwise the supposed love is just a joke

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Ren Duvall
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So you'd rather have an animal be in excruciating pain and suffering, than to have them gently euthanized? Euthanasia, while sad, is almost completely painless and allows your pet to gently drift off to a permanent land of pleasant dreams.

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Bill
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If you really love your pet you do it yourself.

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NCC~1701
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not everyone has the medical knowledge to do that safely and that may cause the pet to pass away in immense pain. They were there to love their pets until their last breaths and that’s what counts.

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Samantha C
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

please people, be in the room when your beloved animal goes. you are who they look for because they know something bad is about to happen. the vets are always super emotional as well and will blubber with you, but I think its super important your pet knows you were there until the end <3

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Grumble O'Pug
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never leave, as hard as it is, stay. The vet I use has a little room that you can stay with your pet for a while afterwards. I didn't leave for over an hour after I let my girl go this summer. It helped. I hope others have access to this.

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Foxxy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could never be a vet, so much heartbreak. I held my beautiful dog 'Bubbles' when she was put to sleep and it was the most heartbreaking thing I have ever had to do. I didn't want to let her go but she had an aggressive cancer that was starting to constrict her breathing. This was over 5 years ago and I still miss her dearly.

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Tara
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m so sorry Foxxy. Holding your precious pet in your arms as life slips away is beyond horrific. RIP sweet Bubbles

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Don Powell
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'M NOT GOING TO READ THIS ONE OTHERWISE I'LL BE SITTING AT MY DESK AT WORK CRYING.

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Saulo Frota
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine loving animals so much that you dedicate your whole life to them. Vets must feel an excruciating pain when they not only can't save the animal, but also have to euthanize them. These are some true heroes people don't recognize as much as they deserve.

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StormsTempest
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lost my Lucy in July and it still rips me up. I feel so sorry for the vet that had to put down her, she was a loving, gorgeous golden retriever with unconditional love and support for everyone.

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Noez 🇸🇪
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I cried my guts out when my hamster died. I was in my late teens and quite a non-emotional one, angry and b****y and I didn't like anyone or anything (not even myself). But my hamster was my beloved friend, the joy I had every day and I loved her so much. When she died I mourned her for over a year. She was a tiny hamster, smaller than my hand! And I cried my guts out.

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R L
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I did the same. Had hamsters through most of my life and cried over every one of them. Awesome little creatures.

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Gabrielle Causey
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure why I clicked on this when I knew I would cry. I miss my Jack-Jack. My little man.

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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've had 21 cats in my lifetime (including the 8 we have). I have such sorrow for the ones I've lost. The ones who died when I was sleeping; or I wasn't home; or I waited too long; or died in my arms; or had to choose the time. It never gets easier. I hear certain songs that remind me of each one and immediately cry. If you've lost one of yours, you get it.

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Whatever...
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you don't mind, here are the initials of the ones I've lost (just a little remembrance): LWNBASTMAJKSO.

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Louise Gerathy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful. Being a veterinary nurse myself I totally get this. You do build relationships with the families as well as their animals. Animal lovers are the best people on the planet and they always have huge hearts. The way I look at it is that you do your best throughout their lives to keep them happy and healthy and when the time comes that you have to help ease their pain, it's the last kindness you can do. It never gets easier and you never ever get used to that pain. Hugs to all the amazing animal people out there...vets, nurses, zoo people,so many others. Keep doing your amazing jobs <3

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S. W.
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work at an animal hospital as a pharmacy technician and being the person who has to pull up the euthasol and propofol for Euthanasia IS THE WORST FEELING even if you haven't grown attached to the patient or its owners. It breaks my heart all the time. Like any medical profession, you try to distance yourself from the pain of the tough decisions that have to be made, but it is NEVER easy. And don't think just because a VET or their staff doesn't show emotion that they do not care. Working at a major 24-hour Emergency Animal Hospital every single day we have to put someone's baby down and it is very tough. This post made me cry because it is so hard to be the person who assists with your pet's transition to the other side.

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Kathy Baylis
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m 58, grew up with pets, and have had pets ever since I had my first apartment. That means I have had to do this countless times in my life—-maybe not when I was a child, but certainly as an adult. Regardless of what some people think, it’s exactly the same as losing a human friend or family member, because our pets ARE our best friends and valued members of our families—-nothing less. But, oh my, even after so many decades, it just never ever gets easier, and hurts so deeply and acutely with each one.

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Living_Shadow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know the article mainly pertains to dogs and that's why I feel like I have to say it's still heartbreaking when it comes to cats. cats need more recognition and love, people don't appreciate them enough. They're small and moody, but they'll love you if you respect them as well. It's sad to loose any kind of pet.

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Jeff Gabrisl
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Continuation Wouldn't eat. I fed him some fluids, and some ground up wet food through a syringe, and planned on taking him to the vet the next morning. When I woke up and tried to feed him again, he spasmed in my arms, and let out his last breathe. He is buried under my bathroom window, which he used to enter and exit my room. The kitten he brought home sat and watched the whole burial process.

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Kevin Donegan
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Remaining with a beloved pet while they're being euthanized is the most difficult thing I've done. I've done it three times and will be there for my loved one the next time I have to go through this emotionally painful time in my life. It's the least I could do for my loved ones who had given me 15+ years of joy.

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Karen Miller
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got my cancer diagnosis a week after I had to put my 18 year old Italian greyhound down He was blind, deaf, in pain from arthritis and just about the best damn thing that ever happened to me. I love him still My vet (my friend) was crying with me. My husband and sons also there with tears Ah man, being a grown up sucks

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John L
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been through this several times with my four-legged children. It hurts so bad, I can't help but cry throughout each ordeal. But I know that I have to have courage and never, ever, chicken out as the vet sends the little guys home. My Charlie, who you see next to my name, is twelve and in a few short years will be taking that journey to doggy heaven. I'm already tearing up just thinking about it. I cherish each and every moment with him.

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Chu Yue Ling
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I had to say goodbye to my first boy, the vet was wonderful. She made it clear: 'I know you love him more than anyone, but my responsibility has to be towards him and his welfare. I can't advise you to keep him alive when he is in so much pain even though I know that's not what you want to hear.' She let me lie with him on the floor after making him comfortable with pain meds and wrapped in cozy blankets for hours. This meant I had time to tell him how much I loved him, whisper sweet nothings to him, stroke his sweet ears and recount all our adventures from the day he came into my life until this fateful one. I was SO glad of that time. And my other darling dog was there, lying next to him, quietly. I cried and cried and cried. The vet carried his body to my car and I saw tears in her eyes. She was a locum and I never got to tell her how much I appreciated her. Her kindness made all the difference.

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R L
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I could give this more upvotes. I am eternally grateful for the vets who are there for the animals well-being but are still understanding of the situation.

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Hallie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Saying goodbye to my gorgeous rottweiler Sasha last year was simultaneously the hardest and easiest thing I've ever had to do. Easy because she was in so much pain, I knew it was right. Hardest because f*****g hell she was my best friend, I will never ever forget her and the impact she had on my life. She was the dog that taught me. Cried like a little b*tch through this one.

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Janine B.
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I couldn't thank our vet enough. They are heroes to me.

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CrunChewy McSandybutt
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As George Carlin said, "They are mini tragedies." My doggo is rapidly approaching the end. I'm okay with it, he had a great doggo life. I will be sad for awhile, but I know that I did the best I could for him, and he was happy for most of his life.

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Lisa Larson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crying like a little baby reading this. We had to put our two dogs down last year just months apart. Our vet knew them almost as long as we did. She cried as much as we did when they were gone and we love her all the more for it. She was the first vet in the clinic we brought our new dogs to (now they have seen all the vets, but she was the first). Stay with your dogs / cats / other pets when they are dying. They need you to be there with them as they pass on. And don't be ashamed to cry over them. They were your babies.

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Lisa Larson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My vet cried with us when she had to put both of our dogs to sleep just a couple of months apart. She had known them almost as long as we had. This post made me cry like a little baby and I'm not ashamed of it. Yes, we have stayed with all of the dogs we have lost. We could never leave them alone.

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Nyx
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just lost my beloved kitty boy this past April. He woke me up crying, shivering, and very cold one morning and I rushed him to the vet. Rapid congestive heart failure that was filling his body cavity with fluid. He was the sweetest, purest soul that I have ever encountered in an animal and I miss him all the time. Sometimes, when it's dark and I'm downstairs, I still expect to hear his claws clicking on the floor or his signature purr he'd give off when he saw me. They are family, truly.

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Steve Cruz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm really gratreful to several vets in the Denver area who come to a pet's home, set up a sturdy folding table with padding and soft sheets, talk families through what will happen, allow time for last photos and goodbyes, then perform the injection and allow the entire family to be around as the pet's life signs subside. They then take the pet wherever the family has arranged and remove the table where the procedure was performed. I've heard from so many people who said it was peaceful, dignified and not as nerve-wracking as trying to transport a dying loved one to the vet clinic. Other pets often stay close and comfort humans.

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Bevie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, my Goodness! Thank you a million times over for posting this! I have lost pets and my heart still aches many years later. The Vets, just like people doctors have to hold it together to help us out. We must remember that their hearts are breaking too. The best death (if you can call it that) was when we lost our Chihuahua, Goliath Leviathan. He was 16 and died the day after Christmas, at home in our arms. It was just time. I have to smile because just the day before that little stinker chased a full grown Boxer out of our yard all the way down the street. He was my baby and my ultimate protector whether I needed it or not. We have four fur babies now and all are getting to the senior age. Ahhhhh.....it gives me a catch in my heart just thinking about it. Blessings to all. Xo

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Hawkeye
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not my vet unfortunately. I remember watching my vet grab the car I had for much of my childhood and aggressively shove (force-fit) it's body into a box that was too small (rigor mortis had already set in). Very unbothered and cold--in front of me.

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Anna Repp
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my, I just relived parting with my Chloe!... Her muscles stopped working, one by one, from her tail to her heart. We carried her and used a walker so she can still enjoy life (she was not in pain, just her muscles stopped working) but then the disease reached the vital organs... We had to put her to sleep. We were all in the room with her, giving her her favourite treats. I know she knew her time is up. I hugged her when the vet injected her and one of the most painful memories of my life will always be when the vet took the stethoscope to Chloe's side and softly said "She's gone."

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Linda Gamoran
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This post really saddened me in and of itself but also for what nay be. My boyfriend of 20 years died this past March and we had our dog, Cookie for 12 of them. She recently developed a lump in one of her mammary glands. If it turns out to be a life threatening outcome I don't know what I'll do . Besides my boyfriend, I also lost my ex-husband who while we divorced were on good terms , as well as 2 close cousins, I don't want anymore bad news, I think I will really just fall apart.

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Katinka Min
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm dissolving here. My pooch is 8. She's my first dog, the apple of my eye. I will do everything I can to hold it together for her, when the time comes, but afterwards, I will hide in bed bawl for a month.

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Ner Po
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tears started pouring down my face immediately when I started reading this...I can not even imagine what that's like to deal with it weekly or even daily. My beloved doggie is going her 13th year and started to have problems with her health.. I am so worried and even thinking about her passing gets be bawling my eyes out...

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Stormschance
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of the reasons I love the vet practice we use is how genuinely caring they are. They've shed tears with us and hugged us when the end comes for one of our feline family, and we are always there with them. As hard as it is to let them go, I couldn't forgive myself if I wasn't there.

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Phil Boswell
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I held eight out of the nine cats we've lost as they went: the only exception was Poppy who died in her sleep under the kitchen table the morning she was due to go to the vet for a check-up. I wept for them all…I shall weep for the three we have now when they go, and for their successors.

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pusheen buttercup
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone if you have pets, try not to take them for granted. Make time to play with them, you may not get to one day.

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Shawn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm gonna have to experience this soon and I'm not ready. I'm so not ready for my baby to be ready to go.. I want her to live forever!

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Monica A. M.
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I'm crying.... my critters are my babies. I love them more than a good many humans I know.

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Katy Keyes
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sweet Booboo, he was protecting me when I was sick with leukemia and bit someone doing work at my moms house while I was there. The man went to the hospital and we had to put him down, I think of him every day. I'll never forgive myself.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the absolute truth. I lost one fur baby to a freak incident when he was in the kennel and I was out of town. The next one developed internal bleeding at the ripe old age of 15. My vet had been her doctor, his staff her other family, for 15 years. They were crying with us as we sent her over the bridge together. The next I rescued from a terrible situation, I gave her four beautiful love filled years before lymphoma stole her from me. We had just moved away from my family's other doctor, the new vet saw her twice before we had to say good bye. That was tough, but even then, even not really knowing us as a family or my beautiful brave baby girl, there were tears and there was a sense of community and family in that little room. And the fur baby I have now? They embraced him from day one, and we are building a beautiful relationship and a side family, because when I take my boy in there they treat him like he's important to them because he is.

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Marie C
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We recently had to say goodbye to my beagle of of almost 14 years after cancer weakened her body. I screamed and cried my heart out harder then ever before when the doctor said her heart had stopped. Our family was touched when a few weeks letter we received a letter from the vet's office about how a big donation had been made in her name to the veterinary college and research program in the city. What a wonderful way to honor my sweet baby who I miss deeply.

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Lianna Valdez
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This hurts so badly I need to put my baby down soon. She has bone cancer and I am so not ready. My heart is already breaking.

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Sherri Fournier
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having the owners/family there for his last moments is so important.

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Leo Domitrix
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always stay with pets who have to be given the mercy shot. I was taught that if I kill an animal ---- even euthanasia --- I owe it to that animal to be present, to look it in the eye, to apologize for my actions, to thank the animal for its life (and what its life gave me, if it be purrs, tail-wags, or a meal).... And I hurt every day, but they're owed. It was my choice, not theirs, after all. *sigh*

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Cindy Snow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always wondered if vets feel sad putting pets to sleep. I think most do. Maybe a few hardened ones aren't as affected...but most people who become vets are not hard a*s types.

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Tammy Ralph
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did I even read this? The tears are flowing and I feel a pain in my heart even thinking about the day that this will happen. The most precious things in our lives, why can't their lives be longer.

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Rebekah Green
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bad to let me fur baby go in August he was 9 years old and i rescued him ay 2 weeks old. This post made me cry just as much as the day we had to take him to the vet.

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K. LNU
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't blame the dreaded onion cutting ninjas for this one. Had to let my little girl go at the age of 13 (good long life for a boxer dog) last year and I was lucky that my vet offered to come out to the house vs taking her there.

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Melodious Functavious
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really BP - I read this site while I'm drinking my morning coffee at work...and THIS is how you want me to start my day??? Pets have hearts that humans should envy. Pets show unequivocal love in a way that should make humans jealous.

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Aski Markup
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wanted to be a vet as a child. This very fact put me off totally. It never made sense to me, as a kid, why I couldn't be a vet who didn't do that.

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Elaine16
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I held my first pet when she left me and I wouldn't have had it any other way. She was calm and relaxed and loved and then she was gone. My vet was wonderful, gentle with her, supportive of me, and she let me stay until I was ready to leave. It's very painful but it's part of life and taking that final step with your pet is, I think, part of responsibility of pet ownership.

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BigCityLady
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am fortunate that my vet makes house calls. When I had to put my wonderful Spencer to sleep, she came and we held him as he went. I adopted Spencer, a Maine c**n, from our local shelter, he was a full grown adult. We had Spencer for 16 wonderful years and he was my buddy, my companion who didn’t think twice about laying across my chest with his 28lb body on me to the point I couldn’t breathe. But he developed a second bout of cancer in his throat and mouth. I finally had to call her that awful morning as he was clawing at his chin to eat or drink water. I would never allow my pets to be alone at their time of need as they have always been there for mine.

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Brenda Swann
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As I enter my 66th year, with my Great Dane and Fewfie Cross, what haunts me most is the day my boys will leave me. They will be my last as the goodbyes are getting too much for me to recover from. My long time Vetrinary practitioner has retired, so I will loose my last boys to a stranger that has not known them, and in no way will appreciate what they have been to me in my life. Sincerely a situation where I wish I could go first. Breaks my heart the anticipation of that day ...

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Elizabeth Bartley
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you have to put your loving pet down, a piece of your heart dies with it. They are a part of your family, loving, never judging and a constant reminder they love you. You hold them to your heart for the last time , as you watch their last breath taken. I have done this so many times, but i never get use to it. Imagine how a vet feels doing this 5/6 or more times a day and them being brave for me.

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Cindy Collins
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never forget when I have ti pot my beautiful German Shepherd down Dutchess. Loved her so much and still love her to this dsy. I made sure that the last face she saw was mine, I could not imagine leaving them alone during this time. My vet made a plaseter of paris imprint of her pair and sent me a sympathy card. Fast forward to my beautiful black lab, Roamer, he is 10, and I can't bear to even think about this day. I love him more than I like most people

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Gerard Kiekens
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thanks Brenda for sharing this. Please know that it's the same here in The Netherlands. Loosing the battle against cancer was hard for us and our malinois, but also for our vet who went trough all possible trouble to cure him. I don't know who cried harder at the end of the battle, she or we. But know one thing (and thats just a little comfort) the harder saying goodbye is, the better your relationship was, and the more good memories you can cherish. Gerard B. P. Kiekens

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ThatOneGuy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sweet, sweet dog got out and I looked everywhere for her for about a week, begged my dad to go check the pound.. He said no, she will come back, just wait.. Until he finally gave in, and we went to the pound.. But we found out, the day before she was put down.. I miss her so much.. She was a good doggo..

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Ann McKenzie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm waiting for my vet to come in about an hour, to put my beautiful gentle giant Scooby to sleep. He's 12, has lung tumours and laryngeal paralysis and it's time. That line about "they would hold on as long as we wanted them to" is so true. My heart is in shatters but I need to do the best for him. And poor Vets have it so tough, having to be strong. It's so true it must hurt them too.

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Rick Daugherty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't read it. Last year (Tokoname) and two years before that (Shimpaku), our pugs, had to be euthanized. We did the right thing by them as one was in pain from liver cancer and the other's blood chemistry was so out of whack, he was delirious and scared. My wife and I both poured out love to Shimpie as he passed. Last year, my wife was out of town - her sister died the week before - I had to call her and tell her that Tokie wasn't going to make it that he walked into a wall and collapsed the night before. I felt so sorry for my wife! The vet said we could keep testing, but that probably wouldn't be in Tokie's best interest. I was deliriously upset during his passing - what further broke my heart was the vet began crying too - she (the vet) is a remarkable and compassionate human being. And she will remain our vet as long as we have dogs. We recently adopted a rescue pug. She's around 13 and is having trouble. We'll give her the best life we can for every precious day she's with us.

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HoffLensMetalHedLovesAnimalsUK
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well that's me all cried out today. When my dog passed a few years back it was the worst time of my life, took about 2 years before i could talk about him without choking up, especially when drunk.

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Caroline Driver
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every single time I read an article like this and see the comments, I'm wracked with guilt that I didn't stay with my cat Matty when she had to go. I was a coward, I know, I will regret it it forever. I cannot undo it. I can only do it differently in the future.

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frank0ys
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...This really made me tear up. Our little Mango is turning 9 years old this month and you can see how she is aging. Seeing this happening is sad but that's life.

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Cheyenne Wilson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oml, I am balling my eyes out thinking about when I have to go through this. Honestly, people in movies dying doesn't matter that much, but when animals do, I cant hold back. This is just the saddest thing ever😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Mad Mar
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pt two The kittens in back are crying for attention. We play with them. I'm cuddling this little black runt. We laugh. I'm talking to old girl and saying she's beautiful an good girl. We put kittens back. Say thanks to vet and head out to pay. My husband starts losing it at home about old girl. My husband sneaks back to vet next day to ask about adopting one of the kittens. Old girl is gone to better place. We get a kitten that weekend. His name is Mercury. The doggie was Freddy. Thank you Freddy for bringing this little guy to us to love.

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Mad Mar
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know this feeling so well when one of my fur babies goes to freedom. Hug your vet the next time you see them. One of my last trips to my vet for two of my cars checkups and shots each year, my vet started to tell us of how someone left a box of 4 kittens in back of the clinic. We said oh that's sad but good they gave them to you and just blah blah good vet storied it. Other side is while waiting for our turn a couple came in with a good old girl. They took pics. Hugs. Kisses. And took her collar off. I knew. The vet tech came and picked her up to bring into the back room. I saw the couple walk out and the woman lost it and cried in the lot. I told my husband and he was sad. Big softie. Now the vet asks if we want to see the kittens. As we are done w exams an such. I was behaving and not asking to because my husband is like we have 6 and don't. Then I see his face change and he said let's look. Next to the kitten cage in the back is old girl. She's tired. More below

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Micah Pettit
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dammit, I couldn't even make it through reading the whole post...

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Datsuyama
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do I read these things at work? Sheesh, I hope nobody comes to see me for a few minutes while I compose myself.

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bill marsano
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This story's headline belongs in "40 Text Designs Fails That Are So Bad They’re Good."

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Bob Peterson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a little "shitzu" who never wanted to accept the fact he was a dog and I was in fact his master. He won the battle when it came time to let him go by taking a multi-gallon p**s in my lap as I was holding him while the vet gave him his last shot. Nice work Bo' - you are the ultimate winner on this one.

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Restless
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so full of raw emotion. It is the hardest thing ever!

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Jean Jacket
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did I think I could handle this post at work where I am now sobbing at my desk...

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Victoria Swift
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I put one dog down and that was enough for me. I won't have any more pets after that.

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Isle_of_stressed_pilots
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The whole family was there when our almost 16 year old dog Nunzio, was put down. I still tear up when i think about it. We got him before I was born so he was always a big brother to me :'(

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SBW71
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crying as I read this as I had to do this same thing many years ago which is why I will never have another dog. It was just too hard. I cannot go through that again and I always wanted to be a vet. Glad I wasn't able to make that happen.I don't how they do it. I'd be a blubbering mess.

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Jaffa Cake
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have multiple vets at our local practice so you never see the same vet regularly, however the vet that euthanised my last cat saved one of my current cats when it was run over, he rewired his smashed leg back together so whilst there's a downside at the end of the animals life there's stuff like that in the middle which has to be the only thing that keeps them going. I would assume that it's the same with all healthcare professionals.

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Klaudiia Sherbatzky
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I stoped reading 5 times because I am at work and don´t wan´t to cry but I failed so much. This breaks my heart , my dog is 10 years old he is in great shape and healthy but when the time will come to say goodbye to him, that will be the hardest thing in my life. I love him so much

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Annemarie van der Westhuysen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tears pouring down my face. Lots of love to everyone who's lost a pet - and to the vets who have to make that agonizing call. xxx

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Russian Otaku
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4 years ago

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Euthanasia is f*****g stupid. Only those who actually don't like their pets would do it. Unless you're ok with humans getting euthanized and sign an approval for it ya shouldn't do the same for supposed family otherwise the supposed love is just a joke

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Ren Duvall
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So you'd rather have an animal be in excruciating pain and suffering, than to have them gently euthanized? Euthanasia, while sad, is almost completely painless and allows your pet to gently drift off to a permanent land of pleasant dreams.

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Bill
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4 years ago

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If you really love your pet you do it yourself.

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NCC~1701
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not everyone has the medical knowledge to do that safely and that may cause the pet to pass away in immense pain. They were there to love their pets until their last breaths and that’s what counts.

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