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"Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak," American fashion designer Rachel Zoe once wrote. The way this idea could be interpreted is that clothes and other kinds of fashion pieces we choose to wear send abstract and pretty obscure signals to people around us about who we are as people: our occupation, mood, personality, colors we like, and so on.

Though apparently, some fashion pieces speak exceptionally loudly and the signals they send are far from abstract or obscure. Recently, a redditor asked fellow users to share some hidden dress codes people wear to identify themselves that one has to already know about to notice. And of course, Reddit delivered. Without further ado, Bored Panda invites you to find out about some of the most intriguing secret dress codes people use to send signals about themselves.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group So this is probably a very spesific Norwegian thing, but the colour of your hat is signalling your availability when hiking in the mountains. Red hat means taken, green means available (and orange means that you're open for a chat). This is important knowledge if you're trying to pull a Norwegian, because hiking is the only (non alcoholic) activity where a Norwegian will ever talk to a stranger. Ever.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Red shirt means you're expendable and aren't coming back from the away mission alive.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Cat hair means I have a cat

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Socks with sandals means you’ve pretty much given up

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group If you see someone with a tattooed on wedding ring it's usually because they work with machine tools or electricity where having something metal and or conductive on their hand while working can lead to very bad things.

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Zophra
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or in research/medicine - the ring gets caught in the gloves and rips them.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Its an old sailors tradition to wear a golden earring. (Dont know if its just the netherlands or worldwide) but some of the mainly fishermen towns here have their own specific type of golden earring. So if you see a dutch guy wearing a big golden earring with a detailed design, you know he comes from a fishermen town.

(Golden earring tradition was historically done incase a fishermen would fall overboard, the golden earring could cover the costs of a proper burial)

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Hawaiians wear flowers behind left ear to signify married. Right ear to signify single.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Two lighting bolts on a ring mean your great grandfather wasn’t a war hero, thanks Opa...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For those unaware, the lightning bolts refer to the letters SS - Schutzstaffel, which worked directly under Adolf Hitler and were by many considered his private military enforcers. Responsible for killing more than 5 million Jews and millions of other people during WWII.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Sunflower lanyards means the wearer has a hidden disability. Some places like Heathrow train staff to recognise them and offer assistance.

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Mariza
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wear one as my disability prevents me from wearing a mask. I had the lanyard already and continue to wear it if I HAVE to go out. I try to send my partner but there are times when I must go somewhere alone. People who wear these to claim exemption who actually could wear a mask make it very difficult those of us who actually can't. I feel it also makes me feel like my disability isn't worth anything

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thenamescracked
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How can you not wear a mask? Not trying to be rude, genuinely curious. Is it a breathing, or nose problem?

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Kaneki Ken
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've noticed people wearing these to signify if they are exempt from wearing a face covering ♥︎

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Moo Moo Futch
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many people are abusing this. The people who issue them are not doctors or nurses, they aren't medically trained in anyway. Being told what qualifies as mask exempt isn't the same as being able to know if that person really has these conditions. The only conditions that warrant mask exemptions are COPD and cystic fibrosis but also the government advice would say that if you had either you should be shielding as a vulnerable person. My next door neighbours have done nothing but brag about getting their mask exemption even though there is nothing wrong with either and they have been out every single day of the pandemic. I'm disgusted by the way people have abused this feature I really am.

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Tammy Hawkins
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have lung issues, use oxygen 24/7 and struggle with the mask, I got a shield. I can say, to anyone, no excuses.

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NanniBadcrumble
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Recently I've heard of someone buying these lanyards for mere £s on Amazon and dishing them out to family and friends, whether they had a disability or not.

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Susan Egan
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is a great idea. I wonder how many people would be willing to wear it. My son has epilepsy and it took several years before he was willing to wear medical necklace. It took his doctor agreeing that most people would mistake his seizures as a possible overdose. Possibly giving him medication that could make things worse.

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Linda Niemczyk Sent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a plastic 'frame' you can purchase at Wish. Com that keeps the mask off your face but still offers full protection. It easily clips on to your mask. It's also reusable. You get 5 to pckg.

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FlitterBug
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is good to know! I've known several people who may seem like the average person but are actually autistic or can't hear (and don't have service animals) and have some difficulty in various situations. Especially with most places not having clear masks to read lips.

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Melanie Mayfield
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It drives me CRAZY that I can't read lips through a mask. But that doesn't stop ME from wearing a mask. I just wish people would listen when I tell them I can't hear. They refuse to pull their mask down just for a couple seconds to speak so that I can understand them.

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Paula Swanson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't know about this...I should get one as my disability is hidden and can surface at the worst times

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Dan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or some brits wear the lanyard so they don’t have to wear a mask, although they’re not disabled

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Blondhorsecrazy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very awesome. I love Sunflowers & actually purchased a lanyard to use. I no longer use it & after knowing this, I'll refrain from buying another one. I would hate to take any attention for those who rely on this for immediate help/assistance.

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Susan Thomas
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So is this only in Britain? I've not seen them in the US. But it could be a good thing.

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Chris Jones
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are many disabilities that aren't obvious when you just look at someone. Physical and mental.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group In China, your zodiac year is your unlucky year (so your unlucky year occurs once every 12 years). The way to mitigate the unlucky-ness of the said year, is to wear some form of the color red each day. Doesn’t need to be a complete red outfit, just something that has red as a part of the pattern.

But wearing red everyday is a dead give away for their age (24, 36, 48, 60) in the workplace, thus explaining the phenomenon of the red underwear gift. The red underwear is a way to beat the unluckiness of your zodiac year while blending in.

So some water cooler talk could go like, “Hey, did you notice that has worn red 3/7 days this week? Is she 24 or 36?” Fascinating stuff!

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Small stainless steel or iron pinky ring on your dominant hand is an engineer, specifically an engineer whose pledged an ethics oath. Not exactly a secret, but not well known either

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did not know that. This is turning into the learning channel. Best of both worlds.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Red ball caps have become a signal that they are d***** bags. Fred Durst started it, but MAGA solidified it.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group I used to wonder why certain people in my office would wear the same colors as each other sometimes. Turns out they were listening to a radio station here in NYC that would suggest a color for you to wear that day.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group I grew up spending a lot of time in the Great Lakes and overall sailing culture.

The height of manliness is a pink “Mt. Gay” baseball cap. No, I’m not joking.

The caps are given out at major sailing races, since Mt. Gay rum has a sponsorship. The caps are originally red but if you’ve used and had one for a long time, it fades to pink. You want one.

You can also tell, in port, who is a local and who boats, by their dog. Locals like BIG doggos for guarding against animals and pulling sleds (huskies and husky crosses) and sailors like medium sized, water friendly doggos. Don’t like to get very big ones because they’re hard to lift in and out of boats, eat, and poop out more, but don’t like toy dogs either, because they’re not tough enough to stand the weather and the water. Mostly Aussies, small retrievers, and the occasional tough terrier.

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Elaine Mattingly
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a google. Wow. Very informative and interresting. Thank you. Seriously, I try to learn someting new every day and that was refreshing.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group If you’re actually rich, you’re not flashing brands. The rich rich of California wear subtly expensive workout or hiking clothes as much as humanly possible. Patagonia, north face, Columbia, etc. Logos are gauche. Also, for women’s jewelry, you’ll see a lot of subtle wealth and minimalism- nothing big or clunky or super sparkly. My experience mostly in LA, Santa Barbara and SF!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This so true also with old wealth in Europe. Only the nouveau rich are bling bling. Some of the richest people I've have met were very low key. It's considered vulnerable to spread your wealth.

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I'm Jew(ish). I live in Scotland, and there's not many of us around, but I've been to synagogue and lived in Israel, and I can easily spot a married Orthodox Jewish woman out of a crowd, mostly by her wig, but also her dress style to an extent.

It's such a natural distinction for me that I didn't realise it wasn't immediately obvious to others until I was driving with my friends by Loch Ness and we saw a big gathering, (mostly behind trees) and someone said something along the lines of "I wonder what's going on there" and I replied "looks like an organised Jewish event" because I saw several mothers and their kids by the road and I instantly recognised them as Orthodox Jews. My friends looked at me as if I had a supernatural Jewdar because there weren't any obvious men in sight wearing heavily recognised religious clothing (think kippahs- headcaps, or payot- hair curls, ect.)

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Handkerchief in the back pocket is something the gay leathermen (or women) wear to symbolize they are on the hunt for a "date". Or it was used to symbolize a sexual fetish or --

Right pocket meant you were a top or dominant.

Left pocket meant you were a bottom.

Yes, I've been to some interesting parties.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Horseback riders know that real riding boots have the zippers on the back or outside.

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If someone is wearing a belt but have the buckle on either side of their hips instead of the middle it means they spend all day leaning over engine bays of hot rods and don’t want their belt buckle scratching the paintwork.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Anything with pineapple print on clothing while on a cruise means you are swingers

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Elaine Mattingly
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you sure? My Daddy was a pinnapple wearing decon who wore it because I bought it for him because I thought it was beautiful. we thought women were being overly friendly and disrespctfull of my Mom. I have so much to learn.

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Military uniforms tell you a lot about the person wearing them beyond their name and rank. You can tell what campaigns they've been involved in, what professional military education courses they've completed, their proficiency with weapons, their occupational specialty and their level of proficiency, how many years they've served, and (at least in the USAF), their MAJCOM, wing, and possibly squadron of assignment.

Another little secret of the military dress code has to do with hats. A person in uniform wearing a hat indoors indicates that they are armed. The weapon may be concealed or carried openly, but it is a fast way to determine who in a room has weapons.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep. Can tell a whole lot about a military guy by their uniform. But the cover indoors could also mean they forgot to take it off or had their hands full when they came in the door.

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Here in Japan tattoos are related to the Yakuza. Meaning, whether you are a Yakuza or not, people with tattoos are not allowed in numerous establishments like public baths, etc. Yakuza don't generally flash their tattoos to the public so they generally use long sleeve shirts. Sometimes when they use short sleeves clothing they would use arm sleeves to cover up the arm tattoos. It's a dead giveaway that this people are, or have been, mafia related.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Prohibiting tattoed peopled from certain businesses was the workaround to forbid Yakuza to without explicitly saying so

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Head coverings vary among observant Muslim women from different countries. The kind many people think of is the Saudi Arabian style that has become more popular in the last decade or so. A cool one is the different traditional head coverings between Kazakhs (white scarf with a part tied back like a nurses cap), Uighurs (colorful scarf and tied in front or behind the neck), and the Hui (a cap with cloth coming down the sides) — all groups found in China (depending on how you feel about groups leaving to be independent). I think it’s like people from different countries tying knots.

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Oftentimes student nurses will wear one color of scrubs to stand out from professionals during clinicals. My color was hazel grey.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Reminds me of when I was in elementary school and we were told not to wear red or black to school because they were associated with certain gangs.

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Stagehands wear black. Check for a crescent wrench in the back pocket to confirm.

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When I was a teenager a lot of the working-class, multi-generation in the area kids from the very rural West Virginian area I moved to wore these, to my teenage eyes, very funny looking polka dot caps with downward pointing brims.

At the time I just assumed they got them at this store that still had a lot of 70s deadstock and it was a trend because they were cheap and it was the 90s and we were irony poisoned. It was pretty widespread across a few counties though. They were mostly worn by the kids who already had decided they were not going to college, whether by their own choice, or their own circumstances.

They were welders' caps. Welder is an aspirational job in the area, if you plan to stay there after graduation. They were signifying they planned to stay and work in the same field their dads did. It didn't even occur to me what it was all about until some high school reunion.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where I lived, Eastern CT, USA, welders, ironworkers and farriers (horseshoer/blacksmith) wore these caps. Mostly red or blue with white spots.

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30 Hidden Dress Codes Folks Use To Send Signals About Themselves Shared In This Online Group Silver Crocs = I have multiple bottles of Soda in my fridge

Jorts = I'm stone cold steve Austin

Bandana + Eyebrows = I ride a motorcycle

Bandana + No Eyebrows = I am receiving chemotherapy.

T shirt with ripped off sleeves = my kids will jump on your furniture and my reaction will be inappropriate.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So when I step out wearing silver crocs, jorts, a t-shirt with torn off sleeves, and a bandana with one eyebrow I’d be an irresponsible parent Steve Austin with multiple bottles of soda, a motorcycle, and undergoing chemotherapy? Good to know.

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