What's the most toxic friend you have had or seen in a relationship? We have all seen and/or had a toxic relationship, I think.
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When I was in year 1 and 2 (basically kindergarten and grade 1 for Americans) I had this friend, let’s name her karma, we were friends at first but then she started to blame me for everything she did and told everyone stories that were not true and was being an @sshole in general. As the dumb 7 year old I was, I decided to stick by her side. The last straw was when one day, she had told the teachers I had tried to LIGHT THE GIRLS BATHROOM ON FIRE AND THE TEACHERS BELIEVED HER. Obviously my mom came and she didn’t believe a word they said, taking into the account that I NEVER SET FOOT INTO THE SPECIFIC GIRLS BATHROOM KARMA SAID I TRIED TO LIGHT UP . The teachers even looked at the cameras of the hall way that was near the bathroom, and I never passed there! So like her name , karma got a wave of karma over her and got suspended for like 2 days
When i was in 5th grade this girl copied everything i did, lets call her marlene( no thats not her name). So our names start with the samr letter and we were both named after fanous singers and we had the same hair color. I thought it was cool and so did she so we became freinds and she soon joined my friend group. I developed a crush on a different girl and a week later she(marlene) found out and developed one two. Which i didnt even think about because we were in 5th grade. Then she started copying me in everything i did. I would tell a joke or something and no one would rlly hear me or notice and theen she would say the same thing and everyone would laugh and respond. Then she made everyone turn against me and told rumors about me and told the girl we both liked that i liked her and in the end i cried for the next few days ;-;
3rd/4th grade. I really only had one friend. She was one crazy mood-swinging bitch. She kept me away from all her other friends, and actually had designated days where I had to pretend we didn't know each other while she hung out with her "real best friend". When I'd try to approach her, she'd shove me and tell me to stop obsessing over her.
When we'd play games together, she was so controlling she'd scream her ass off until her mother would send her to her room while I just sat there awkwardly. She would beat me up until I conceited to her. She was always right, she was always in control, and she would DESTROY me if I tried to do or say anything.
I always just took it, because I was desperate for affection, but she wrecked a young me, and I still do that.
I had a frinds who thought my anxiety was fake,
A friend who put cheeto dust in my dark brown hair. It was infornt of the whole grade and hard to get out.
Friends who teased me for how I looked
The one that accused me of giving him a concussion while i was on the other side of the soccer field. Said that i “bodychecked” him into 3 centimetres of fcking snow. Just to be clear i did not do any of that. Next day he was as good as gold.
I had a friend that became a roommate. He ended up being an alcoholic, constantly borrowing money from me, couldn't pay his share of the rent. He begged me to add him to my cell plan. Swore he would pay me every month. Never paid a dime. This was the days before unlimited plans too, so he would cost me a couple hundred dollars a month. I ended up kicking him out changing his plan to only allow incoming calls (they were free). He wasn't happy about either, but it got him out of my life with the least damage. Haven't talked to him since.
Not a friend but someone I lived with.
Okay so I lived with an adult (I'm a teen) Let's call her Z. She was a mother to 2 girls (Let's call them B and C) It was both their birthday (They're twins) and all of a sudden, my mom video calls me (She was at work) so I'm like "Okay, normal morning call.." and she tells me, "Omg! Z said to get out the house right away! She smells oil" Soooo now I'm confused because 1. Why wouldn't she wake me and my brother up and 2. Why are her mf brats outside already when we didn't even get to get dressed yet..? So I'm mad at her already, I wake my brother up and we run downstairs. We're in the back of her car and B & C are being so f*cking annoying so I'm just pissed; The fire department comea and after like 20 mins of searching, Z comes SCREAMING AT US and you could tell she's screaming at me and my brother, not her kids. and she's like "OH MY F*CKIN' GOD! THE FIREPLACE SPILLED GAS! OMG! ONE OF YOU B*STARDS (she swore at us) TRIED TO KILL US ALL" The thing is, me and my brother/mom were only staying here for a few weeks, and her fireplace needs a key, and my brother and I were only here for like 5 days so WE WOULDN'T KNOW WHERE THE DAMN KEY IS TO TURN THE SH*T ON! Then she starts yelling and yelling at my brother, making it seem like he did it/tried to kill us ON PURPOSE, so he starts crying of course cause he's only 9. So now I'm PISSED COS SHE'S ALWAYS MAKING MY BROTHER CRY (She's a horrible mom, doesn't even take care of her kids) so I'm comforting him, and my mom is like "Hey, are you two okay?" and Z is ranting to her about my brother "almost killing us" and while she's telling the story me and my mom both can tell s**t is not adding up! Our first instinct is to question the girls.. B is the older one and she's an odd soul, she's not a burden though.. but C.. oh my god she's the worst bitch ever, she's a liar, her mom's little pet, and she physically hurts her sister (Just baffling, right?) so she starts crying (which she never does cos she's 'always right'. A few hours go past and we talk to C about turning on the gas, and when we figured it out, Z just ignores the situation and acts like it never even happened in the first place, so that just gave me the inkling C did it, and wanted to blame it on my brother (as always because he's the youngest and Z is a "kill all men" woman)
So yeah, Z is a horrible mother and doesn't deserve kids.
TL,DR; Woman I lived with was a drama queen, accused my little brother of potentially killing everyone in the house, and defends her daughter who ACTUALLY turned it on.
sorry, tldr is supposed to say "Accused my little brother of potentially killing everyone in the house WITH GAS**
well i was in grade 9 and there were two girls, dekota and macee they were the mot toxic of friends they bashed each-other up and left scars Dekota had scars on her forehead so that ruined her school photo... and macee was left with a few bruises and scratches. further on in the year we all got into a fight over a can of peaches... yes...a can of PEACHES... and so we all hated each-other for a day, we apologised and became friends again... about 5 months later we all joined soccer club and macee and Dekota suddenly hated us again for NO reason at all so they never passed the ball to us, i quit soccer, their team got cut, they hated us even more... just to add to the problems we had a group of 3 one of our friends (Alex) just so happened to be our friend AND their friend but he was ACTING to be my friend which offended me that he was using me and my best friend to get "information" off us for the toxic girls so Alex told the girls we were going to bash them (which we didnt say) and so the girls beleived him and threatened to bash us and leave us bloodied! Lol sorry for the long and boring read. lol but in the end me and my other BEST friend who didnt leave my side stayed best friends
