There's been a lot of stress lately, if there's anything you want to say, you can just say it.
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Ive been so scared and concerned for someone that i have been crying myself to sleep but i need to hide it from my parents and i dont know what to do about it...
I just recently realized or probably admitted that quite a lot of things make me anxious. It's something I should take care of, but I find it difficult.
Before you do something, take deep breaths, stand back and look at the situation, think about it and then see what is the best way to deal with it. This will help you see the better positive picture.
I am beyond sadness and anger. I cannot sleep or eat. But i have to stay strong. We live in a country where no one gives a s**t about anyone, they want what is best for them no matter how many they have to step on in order to ensure that. I am beyond grief and i have to keep my head down and let pride take some hits. After all, my dignity is intact, and s**t people are just that : s**t, and s**t washes away. I promise i will not give up. I promise to stay strong. If there isn't a way, i will make one. Somehow there is a light beyond all these, and if it's the thing i do, i will get to it. I'd rather die burning bright than let the darkness swallow me.
the hiccups I have rn
(but that's more of in my chest)
I know it's random but I can't focus while I have the hiccups.
can someone pls tell me how to get rid of them ;-;
That I just like responding to these Ask Pandas because it's fun to relate to other people. When it doesn't, you feel lonely and "out of the group" I guess.
i was abused since i was 5 because i hated girly clothes and my mom wanted me to be a girly girl. she would make me were makeup and a dress she hated my dad because he was ok with me being me and after he died her and my sister would abuse me every day until i went to school and my friend noticed my bruises and cuts and she told the teacher he called the police and her and my sister went to jail now i live with my friend
Who forces their kid to wear makeup? Even though I don't want to wear makeup I wouldn't be allowed if I did. I'm glad you are safe with your friends
I'm really self conscious about how i speak and word things. When i say something that kinda sounds like a brat would say it i feel like the lowest scum on the earth.
I know... like my cousin asked me last year “why does it seem like you always get everything you want all the time”? I felt like the worst person on the planet and I still will never live that down. I was humiliated.
Lately, i've started to slack in school because of stress (i've been answering less questions and my screen is off for most of the time) and my teacher has talked to me about it, i told her that it was because i have anxiety that i'll get the question wrong, thats half true, it's also because i space out more and i don't know what question she asked, but when a student asks here what the question was she gets mad.
Online school is hard, also on the other site, believe me! Just tell your teacher you have trouble following/focusing what's happening on the screen, maybe she can write her questions down, so everybody can see it instead of just hearing, that's what I do.
Im drowning in fake friends. I was born gifted, so quite smart for my age. And being a new kid in first grade, I desperately wanted a friend. I got verbally bullied quite a lot if i didnt listen to what the swearing 6-year-olds said. I ended up fighting back at 7 and they stopped bullying me. So bullying solved, but i was friends with the worst ppl. The first friend i made was such a fake. Was using "but i was ur first friend" as an excuse to get answers. Have very big trust issues with ppl. The bully boys are better than whiny girls using me. Everybody was closing in on me saying they're my "best friend"to score an a on a test. Ended up being REAL friends with a couple shy girls and some of the guys.
Sorry for wasting your time.
TEACHERS we love and respect you, but PLEASE don´t complain about all the homework you have to grade if you´re the one giving a lot of it.
I don’t like Thor. Everyone expects me to because I’m a Marvel fan but I’ve just never really like Thor.
I don't like Iron Man....but his fate still made me cry. Maybe you'll like Mighty Thor more 😉
I tell everyone I’m fine with only one friend but I’m really not. I wish I had a close circle of friends who would understand me. My only real friend who has stuck around even with my awkward personality is my cousin. I’m also scared for my grandma who is 78 with lots of memory problems. She gets tired walking down three steps. She has many problems and I know it’s only a matter of years before she forgets who some of us are. She is probably going to be gone by the time I got to college and I think about this almost every night.
I hate living with who I'm living with, and I wish I could afford to leave. I desperately want to leave, I want my own space so, so badly.
I'm working on a project with my friend and she decided that she was the leader of the project. So while she is doing the easy stuff, I'm working butt off on the harder parts. I mean she keeps talking like we're both working on this, but all she's doing is putting together a video. Update: As I was typing she texted me to say that she started the documentary without me and she needs ideas for a title. Look, girlfriend, if you want help with your part of the project you need to at least answer some questions that I have about my part. Like, did you seriously think that because you're putting the documentary together you can do everything without me? Earlier this month she asked me if we could use my old video recorder and I swear if she asks me if she can use it without me I will bomb the paper on purpose.
Update: now she wants to come over to work on it. My prediction is she'll be sitting there running her mouth while I listen and she asks for my opinion a total of once
Oh boy, here we go... *internal screaming intensifies*
WHY AM I ON BORED PANDA I'VE GOT SCHOOLWORK TO DOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!
my mom is constantly stressing me out about schoolworkj and s**t like that. if i ever get less then 90 %, she will take my phone and my Playstation for a week
I don’t even know what to put here. Stuff I could never say to my parents, sure. K here the venting comes (btw I’m writing this at almost midnight secretly sooo...) Because of stereotyping against women and girls It has become my style to be the most tomboy possible. Irl you will NEVER see me without my hat 🧢, I wear athletic type clothes and do sports like wrestling, cross country, track, boxing. I have never worn makeup (except for that one time I had an ugly pimple and used concealer or something) I refuse to paint my nails. When I turned 13 I finally felt comfortable in my own skin, something just, changed. I know a lot more than my parents think I do, about the world and stuff like that. In 5th grade a would swear, like a lot. Not in a mean horrible way tho and not anymore really (It’s my friends fault) I use Quora, BP, and occasionally Buzzfeed. And I read books with swearing and mild sexual content, my parents have no idea. Don’t judge me in the comments. I know I’m secretive, but isn’t that part of being a teenager? I don’t want them to take the happiness I get from BP and the books I read, away from me. My parents are not bad, I promise. They are actually pretty cool. I just don’t wanna be judged. Sorry about this long vent. I’m just an insecure teenager.
You seem to be old enough and selfaware for all of this. I don't see a problem there. Be yourself and be a teenager as long as you can, your adult life will be long enough
