What is something that feels embarrassing to do, but shouldn't feel that way because there's nothing wrong with it?
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Being overweight and going to the gym. I've actually stopped completely...I just work out at home. The stares and snickering was too much to deal with when I'm just trying to work out.
Going to a shop and walking out without buying anything
Mispronouncing words, grammar mistakes, and word choice while learning a new language. It's way less tragic than it feels, and most native speakers butcher their own routinely.
Admitting you have a severe depression and need to take medsand have therapy to not harm yourself.
(Was told I was "damaged goods" because of my illness)
'damaged goods'?! i'll show them actual damage! that's awful and i hope you're ok!
Being in a deadly silent bathroom where you know some of the other stalls are occupied and trying to quietly change pads without everyone knowing what your doing.
Stretch marks. Body hair, or lack of it. Breast size. Penis size. Mental illness. Starting your life at 40 instead of 16. Niche interests. So many things....
If I was doing now what I was doing as 16, I'd be monumentally depressed. Nothing you've said here is something to be embarrassed about. I hope you find peace! You deserve it.
Buying contraceptives and basically any other sexual wellness products in a physical store.
Compliments, at least for me they feel embarrassing.
Leaking on a period. Sure, it's annoying and uncomfortable, but it's not like it was a choice.
Doing number two in a public washroom. The sounds are one reason why I choose home.
Talking about money. I was invited on a girl's trip and had to say no because I couldn't come up with cash in the short amount of time needed to book the trip. My friend said that I embarrassed her by telling the other girls that I couldn't afford it.
NO ONE should make fun, judge, or criticize someone else for not having enough money.
asking for help more than once in class
Why is this embarrassing? You are just wanting to understand the material, don't be ashamed to ask questions a lot.
Its even worse when the teacher starts getting frustrated with you! I got in trouble many times as a child for losing my temper with teachers who were getting angry at me for NOT UNDERSTANDING!
💯 I had a few teachers like this. They where kinda mean. Maybe they where trying to or thought they where motivating me but I hope my kids never have teachers like that. And if they do I hope they tell me. Cause you best believe I'm gonna be going down to that school
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You're there to learn, you won't learn if you don't ask questions. Your teacher is probably happy you're so engaged with the subject.
Some teachers are like this and them are the best ones. But some are not. Why I loved history so much they loved to know your point and loved to talk about what they where teaching.
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Ok, so I'm not the only one feeling awkward of nervous to ask anything, even though my teachers are super nice.
If one child asks a question, there are likely 2 others, or more, who have the same question or completely lost and that was the one kid who felt brave enough to raise their hand. That should be the teacher's clue to slow down and break down the lesson more.
As a teacher, I used to tell my students that when they asked me a question, I could actually see their brain growing and them getting smarter...that nothing could make me more proud. As a student, I always felt like asking questions meant that I didn't listen closely enough to the lecture.
When I was in 7th grade (13yo), I was in a choir class and one day the teacher was breifing us on some details about a concert we were putting on that night. Well, I missed what time we were supposed to show up, so I decided to wait until the teacher was done and the class was talking amongst themselves. I quietly and discreetly approached him and asked him what time we were supposed to show up. Instead of just answering my simple question, this teacher decides to yell "WHO'S IN CHARGE OF STUPID QUESTIONS?" I was mortified and cried in a corner for the rest of class. My friends were trying to comfort me and I just said I wasn't showing up to the concert. This a$$hole of a teacher heard me and said "well, if you don't, it will affect your grade." No apology, no remorse. Fvck you, Mr. Boyd. 22 years later and I'm still mad about that. I'm still embarrassed to ask questions.
This is why elarning is so much better (even tho I never see my friends). I feel like, since no one can see me, I can ask for help as many times as I like and not feel embarrassed, most of the time
Speaking out / asking questions is also doing a favour for others who are also (very probably) wondering the same things but may be shy / nervous about putting themselves forward.
It is it really is. And I don't think it should be when your in school. Or when I was in school I aways worried about what people thought of me and I was shy. So it was kinda hard. But I think sometimes it can be the teachers fault. Not trying dis teachers or anything. But I think they should say if you need help let me know. Not raise your hand it brings to much attention. Or say it a lot so the children know it okay that you need help and okay to raise your hand for help
And to top it off, you then have those teachers or professors who will LOUDLY and CLEARLY state your name... and then thoroughly explain to everyone that they're having to go through the answer a **SECOND** time because THAT STUDENT needed it repeated (would happen quite often in first year University... often with the professors who made it clear they wanted tenure and were being held 'at gunpoint' to lecture).
Sometimes a teacher can be out of their depth and unable to understand or explain something on more than one way. That can lead to them being frustrated with questions.
Back when I was in the gifted and talented program no one wanted to look dumb by asking for help which really hurt some kids
They get 90% of your waking life. The least they can do is explain things to you. If you weren't there, your teachers wouldn't have a job. It's you in control. Not them.
I always used to tell my students: The only dumb question is the one you don't ask.
Especially if its about the same thing, I am anxious that people will think im dumb for not understanding so i just struggle through it
Never be ashamed to ask for help - ever - especially if it's something that will help you learn.
Being hungry at a friends house, or having your host offer you something and saying yes, WHY DOES IT SEEM SO SO RUDE AND EMBARASSING!? Haha
Talking about feminine things in front of my dad. Example: periods , bras, pads ect
I talk about stuff like that with my dad all the time. He already knows about it, so its not that awkward, he did marry a woman lol
enjoying ""childish"" things as an adult
people can give others a hard time abt this too, i still feel embarrassed for enjoying animated things and i got a lot of grief abt it over the years but like its so dumb bc? its usually made by adults too lmao??? regardless tho it shouldnt be embarrassing idc
Singing in front of other people. I know lots of other people do it, but it just makes me feel really exposed and awkward.
Practicing any instrument you are learning at home around family. You don't know how to play very well which is why you need to learn and practice but you feel dumb struggling through easy songs with people that can hear you.
Getting out of the pool Its just so awkward. and also when your crouching in the shallow end and someone goes "you could just stand ya know" LIKE YEA I KNOW IM JUST INSECURE.
Omg the last part is the most relatable thing ive ever seen. and when you swim in the shallow part and someone tells you you could walk but you just dont want people to see you lol
Wanting to go home because you are done socializing. But if you say so, everyone is offended and it’s embarrassing, even though it barely has anything to do with them.
Going to a sex shop. And generally everything with sex as a topic is seen as vulgar and a complete Taboo.
I (F) had the same problem - until a friend (F, too) really dragged me me into a sex shop. Simply to make me have a new experience. Found out I felt totally normal...
When you have to run to catch the bus, you're out of breath, and you start breathing heavily on the bus. Idk why but this just seems to embarrassing to me.
Sometimes it happens to me at work. My boss is at the second level of our building and my office is on the ground floor. If I have to go to his office I run on the stairs (no elevator) and when I get there I am breathing very heavily and I feel like it's the only thing you can hear.
Coming out.
I know it is a little embarassing but I swear I almost died of embarassment.
Farting and burping.
when a car is stopped to let you cross the street 🙈
Try a smile and a small wave,will show your appreciation of drivers conduct..
Opening a gift- expectations of my reaction.
Having your period
Luckily I don't get awkward talking about my period. I used to talk about it with this guy at my school and complain about how annoying it was and how I was running out of feminine products that I liked and he was so weirded out and confused, it was great
My false teeth. Since high school. I know there's nothing wrong but i still didn't tell to anybody
Well, don't worry. Nobody will think it's weird, and if they do, then they are jerks.
A giant zit on your cheek that make up won't even begin to cover.
Haha I hate makeup so I've learned to embrace my zits and if someone comments on them i smile and comment on theirs.
When your talking to someone and they correct you because you got something wrong. Even if its just the pronounciation of a random word. I always feel so amshamed and I don't know why
I know that, too. For me, it's helpful to confess about my feelings in these moments - people instantly try to comfort me.
puberty
Hey,It's natural to go through puberty.It is kinda strange though.
Asking for the bathroom key at those gas stations that require one, especially when they take a really long time to get it.
Also, mentioning that I'm not ok. Whenever someone thinks im unhappy i get super embarrassed and it makes it all worse
Asking for anything especially at restaurants
Yesss, whenever I go to a restaurant I always try to bring someone more direct than me so i can ask them to tell the waiter because I dont want to seem rude (even though im not im just asking for what i came there for lol)
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It broke my heart how many people said "periods" in this article. We need to normalize people with vaginas getting periods. Talk about it. Share when you're on yours. It's normal.
I was thinking the same thing! But it's everything about the female body that isn't discussed from 1st period to last. Having a baby to raising kids. Like it's still 1950 and women are seen & not heard. Somehow every generation passes down the shame of what should be normal conversation
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I think something that doesn't get talked about more is your bodily smell and the way it can make you feel if you think you don't smell good. You watch movies that show someone working out, and of course she/he gets 1 little sweat mark going down the front of their shirt but their hair and makeup is sill perfect. Characters come home from working all day or being at the gym and just start having sex/oral sex and no one is ever like 'I need a shower first'. No one ever gets up from a chair and leaves a sweat mark. No one ever tells you your vagina will occasionally smell bad for whatever reason and it's usually perfectly normal. No one tells you if you have bigger boobs that you might get a gross, wet rash under them almost all the time. No one tells you that you might have stained underwear because your vagina excretes stuff regularly when it's healthy. And you never see stained undies on tv/movies. Our mothers never talked about this stuff so you think something is wrong with you.
I get super embarrassed at the beach walking around in between everyone's little set up and finding there's a group of young women I have walk around to get to the boardwalk. For some reason they sneer and laugh at me. I don't get why. Like, just continue basting in the sun and ignore my elephant stomps as I try to wade through the hot sand.
Simple bodily functions. Sweating, farting, having to use the bathroom. It's actually unhealthy not to, or trying to postpone
Having an invisible illness.. I have chronic pain disease which affects my muscles and joints mostly. I get to go out 1 every two weeks approximately. It takes a lot of resting before and after and a lottt of painkillers often. I went to see Gabriel Iglesias Saturday and had a comfy blanket with me to cover the plastic chair. The looks on people's faces.. like a was a little entitled princess making her throne 🙄 eyerolls all over. Those days I would like to have a sticker on my forehead that says disabled. Or wave around my papers that proof it. 🤦🏻♀️ I try not to care about it but sometimes it is a bit hard
So many of these seem like they were posted by young people under 25. If that's you, you should know that a lot of the embarrassment of many of these will go away as you get older. Others seem more like a social anxiety thing. If that's you, try exposing yourself to these triggers a little at a time. That's gone a LONG way for me!
Kind of like the restaurant one (and I don't know if this is UK specific) but going to the cinema alone. I've done it lots of times and personally couldn't care less but when I tell people most look aghast. I've never understood what the problem is with it, at the end of the day I'm just going to watch a movie I want to see. Everyone sits there in the dark in silence anyway (most of the time) so what's the issue?
Last time i went to the cinema the girl was on her facebook nearly all the movie (that she chose) so yeah, def gonnna start going alone. Btw, said 'no thanks' to popcorn. Guess who had to shate his pop corn?
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I het rly embarrassed walking around woth my family for some reason. I also hate it when ppl are onto a song then I learn the lyrics and its not a thing anymore. I don't have any form of social media so i am always behind on things and its REALLY embarrassing.
When people try to make you feel embarrassed cuz you don't have exes or you're not divorced by certain age. "Never married" they say like it's a bad thing.lol sorry I thought marriage was technically for life
This may be just me, but I hate when a colleague brings a baby or toddler to work. Everybody else goes ga-ga, but I just stand there. Bring in a dog or at cat on the other hand ...
So many saying period, but not one saying menopause. When you are dripping with sweat, all red-faced and your body feels like a 150 degrees, and everybody around you knows you have reached "that age".
I am a bit surprised that so many are about periods. I'm actually not embarrassed at all about periods. I never got why I should be. Not in public bathrooms and not if it happens during sex. To me it's just so obvious that since I can't control it or choose it it's nothing to be embarrassed about. I find it so sad that that's not the norm.
Talking to someone about losing my fur baby of 17 years, before I know how they're going to react. I don't know if they'll empathize, or be one of those "it's just a dog" people.
It broke my heart how many people said "periods" in this article. We need to normalize people with vaginas getting periods. Talk about it. Share when you're on yours. It's normal.
I was thinking the same thing! But it's everything about the female body that isn't discussed from 1st period to last. Having a baby to raising kids. Like it's still 1950 and women are seen & not heard. Somehow every generation passes down the shame of what should be normal conversation
Load More Replies... I think something that doesn't get talked about more is your bodily smell and the way it can make you feel if you think you don't smell good. You watch movies that show someone working out, and of course she/he gets 1 little sweat mark going down the front of their shirt but their hair and makeup is sill perfect. Characters come home from working all day or being at the gym and just start having sex/oral sex and no one is ever like 'I need a shower first'. No one ever gets up from a chair and leaves a sweat mark. No one ever tells you your vagina will occasionally smell bad for whatever reason and it's usually perfectly normal. No one tells you if you have bigger boobs that you might get a gross, wet rash under them almost all the time. No one tells you that you might have stained underwear because your vagina excretes stuff regularly when it's healthy. And you never see stained undies on tv/movies. Our mothers never talked about this stuff so you think something is wrong with you.
I get super embarrassed at the beach walking around in between everyone's little set up and finding there's a group of young women I have walk around to get to the boardwalk. For some reason they sneer and laugh at me. I don't get why. Like, just continue basting in the sun and ignore my elephant stomps as I try to wade through the hot sand.
Simple bodily functions. Sweating, farting, having to use the bathroom. It's actually unhealthy not to, or trying to postpone
Having an invisible illness.. I have chronic pain disease which affects my muscles and joints mostly. I get to go out 1 every two weeks approximately. It takes a lot of resting before and after and a lottt of painkillers often. I went to see Gabriel Iglesias Saturday and had a comfy blanket with me to cover the plastic chair. The looks on people's faces.. like a was a little entitled princess making her throne 🙄 eyerolls all over. Those days I would like to have a sticker on my forehead that says disabled. Or wave around my papers that proof it. 🤦🏻♀️ I try not to care about it but sometimes it is a bit hard
So many of these seem like they were posted by young people under 25. If that's you, you should know that a lot of the embarrassment of many of these will go away as you get older. Others seem more like a social anxiety thing. If that's you, try exposing yourself to these triggers a little at a time. That's gone a LONG way for me!
Kind of like the restaurant one (and I don't know if this is UK specific) but going to the cinema alone. I've done it lots of times and personally couldn't care less but when I tell people most look aghast. I've never understood what the problem is with it, at the end of the day I'm just going to watch a movie I want to see. Everyone sits there in the dark in silence anyway (most of the time) so what's the issue?
Last time i went to the cinema the girl was on her facebook nearly all the movie (that she chose) so yeah, def gonnna start going alone. Btw, said 'no thanks' to popcorn. Guess who had to shate his pop corn?
Load More Replies... I het rly embarrassed walking around woth my family for some reason. I also hate it when ppl are onto a song then I learn the lyrics and its not a thing anymore. I don't have any form of social media so i am always behind on things and its REALLY embarrassing.
When people try to make you feel embarrassed cuz you don't have exes or you're not divorced by certain age. "Never married" they say like it's a bad thing.lol sorry I thought marriage was technically for life
This may be just me, but I hate when a colleague brings a baby or toddler to work. Everybody else goes ga-ga, but I just stand there. Bring in a dog or at cat on the other hand ...
So many saying period, but not one saying menopause. When you are dripping with sweat, all red-faced and your body feels like a 150 degrees, and everybody around you knows you have reached "that age".
I am a bit surprised that so many are about periods. I'm actually not embarrassed at all about periods. I never got why I should be. Not in public bathrooms and not if it happens during sex. To me it's just so obvious that since I can't control it or choose it it's nothing to be embarrassed about. I find it so sad that that's not the norm.
Talking to someone about losing my fur baby of 17 years, before I know how they're going to react. I don't know if they'll empathize, or be one of those "it's just a dog" people.
