Any advice?
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I don't like guessing if someone likes me. I don't think it's productive to remain passive and wait for "signs" or hidden hints.
so i make it very clear that i am interested, than i wait for reaction.
if i say "I'd like to have lunch together" and he responds by saying "wonderful, how about tomorrow" that might be a hint he would also like to have lunch together. if he's not interested at all he probably won't. and that's ok. :-)
Agreed. I sometimes find smaller hints hard to understand and or miss them entirely
some guys will usually try be more confident, which makes them slightly awkward (but I think it's adorable). some guys will be rlly insecure and just be super shy around you. some guys will be super arrogant and show off. the last option is a tricky one, because sometimes they're actually just d*cks. good luck girlie 💕
also...
- if you catch them looking at you
- if they have told their friends, their friends might tease him or discreetly nudge him as you walk past.
- if they really like you, they will make an effort to see you/get your number etc.
again, good luck!
that's very ... unclear. maybe looking in that direction is a coincidence? i would not count on anything mentioned.
If they go out of their way to be kind to you
No idea because nobody's ever liked me, but if they try to spend time with you and look over at you a lot
I doubt that no one’s ever liked you. You just have never know if they have. Curiously, it’s hard to tell if someone likes you, but that’s probably because some people negate signs that people like them with their own logic. What I’m trying to say is, I’m sure someone has liked you. Also great points there.
If they look at you a lot, try to get closer (distance-wise) to you, and are interested in what you have to say. The last one seems kind of stupid, but from my experience, people you don’t know stick around for a reason.
Also, if they’re awkward around you. I’ve noticed people that like you talk with certain patterns, and will fall over themselves trying to fix something if they offend you.
I have no idea. I need this answer aswell.
Most of these answers are misguided.
Guys (like girls) are all different. Yes, some will tell you! But some will think they are telling you by dropping hints, but the hints are so bad you'd never pick-up on them.
Some will flirt when they like you, however some will flirt because they have a flirty personality, but are not interested in you in that way.
Then again some will like you so much that the mere thought of talking with you incapacitates them. Some will die loving you but never finding the courage to tell you.
The only way to be sure (and even then it's not fool proof), takes guts! You need to get them alone and ask, 'do you like me?' If the answer is 'yes', which it likely will be because most of us guys are dense and won't know what you really mean, you need to clarify, or follow up with, 'as a friend, or more?'.
According to scientists there is one sure sign, he cannot control: when he talks to you/looks at you and his pupils are widening, no matter how light it is, he is positively excited about you or feels in love. There are certainly also a lot of other signs of excitement, he cannot control, but might not be visible. Apparently the amount of saliva we produce, when around someone we like, is increasing. Sort of like: “he/she makes my mouth water”. Body language hardly ever lies... no matter what he says to you or about you.
To be honest, ask them. There’s a few posts here saying if they talk to you or have interest in what you’re saying, but I have a lot of male friends who are like that, but solely as friends. I’m also friends with their wives and partners too. Sometimes a nice man is a nice man.
I personally haven’t a clue how to flirt (I can barely pull a toilet chain, let alone a person).
Nor can I pick up on the signals that someone likes me. I’m a complete moron in that respect.
Thank god I married a drunken one night stand more than a decade ago!! Had we been sober, neither one of us would have made a move!
If they want to be around you, like, a lot, that's a sign to keep looking.
One way I find out is if when they say a word, just one word, it doesn't matter what word it is, smile or laugh. If they say the word more often they probably like you.
Another way to tell is if their feet, legs and arms are pointed toward you. It's weird but it works.
If you need more help, there are a lot of websites that give advice for this, good luck!
They become protective and get easily annoyed when you prioritise someone-else over them.
He’ll text you and say “I like you”
That happend to me of ft with a guy and the next day over text he said he did but didn't. A week later he friend zoned me.
