Let us know down below what was your worst day this year so far.
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The worst day this year was when we had to bring our cat to the vet to get put down
The worst day was when i had to give away my pet budgies {birds}. i dont know why but i had a mental breakdown, and they are the worst! (upvote if you've had a mental breakdown)
Oh no my budgies are the light of my life could imagine being without them I am so sorry!
The day they announced the lockdown.
Wow you really want to ask that?
1. When I found out my parents were getting divorced
2. When my great grandmother fell and hasn't been doing good at all since
3. When my parents got officially divorced
4. When I realized why my parents got divorced
5. When my cat died
6. When my kitchen caught on fire
7. When my dad got an apartment
8. When my neighbor who is like family died
I can keep going but I dont want to make everyone depressed 😔
Only one day!? Your talking about 2020!
My worst day this year was... today and about a month ago. Yesterday my plans got canceled. B/c of some things. About a month ago... I- I lost... I lost my best friend.
Had ventured out to the shops, all masked up, to get some essentials. Guy starts following me around way too closely, not wearing a mask. I politely ask him to back off, because of social distancing. He leaps right up to me, yells "BOO" in my face and runs off laughing. I'm tiny, and was intimidated as heck. Spent the next 2 weeks freaking out every time I got a tickle in my throat. I now get groceries delivered.
Every day I was Depressed
My mom is in a nursing home because I can't take care of her at home anymore. The nursing home locked down back in March and I hadn't seen her since then. Covid finally got into the nursing home in November and she was one of the first residents who got it.
I almost lost her. She was really close to death and they didn't tell me how close until she was better but a lot of them thought we were going to lose her. That's a week and a half I never want to go through again.
The best thing that happened this year happened on Thanksgiving day. Because she had just had it and her last test came back negative I got to bring her home for a few hours on Thanksgiving day. I don't know when I'll get to see her again but we made it a great day.
July 27
im sorry that im dumb but what happened on July 27? and if its something personal you don't have to answer me.
March 12th. It was the last day I saw my friends and the last day I was in school.
when I found out that my mom thought I was crazy and now I have to go to a therapist. she thinks that its not normal for someone my age to have imaginary friends. =-=
I sympathize. If I told my parents that I see ghosts they would freak
The day I realized I suck at online school yet I still have to do it til June. I was a straight A’s and B’s student but I’m now a C’s, D’s and F’s student. I go into sensory overload and I get twitches now because of how stressed I am with school, yet I don’t do anything about it. Idek why, it’s like I’m a sloth but my brain is being run by a Tasmanian devil .
I haven't been a good student since my big existential crisis, but remote school totally blows. I'm seriously failing too. I'm exhausted, I don't sleep, and I can barely read this right now. My parents berate me for being a lazy asshole.
January 5th. The day I started cutting. I have since stopped and am currently in therapy.
Lets see This year has been hell so I went through a lot of stuff, but here you go. Number 1 my mom and dad getting divorced. Number 2 Not being able to see my childhood best friend anymore because she has obsessive compulsive disorder and is refusing to take her medicine. Number 3 a friend of mine dying of cancer and not being able to attend her funeral... I could rant and list all day but I don't want to bore you.
November 20th. That's the day my mother died.
She died of septasimia, something common.. yet preventable if she had only had an operation the month before to find the ulcers in her stomach.
Organ failure. Poisoned body.
Actually its not a day- but a couple of months. Even since July, i have been feeling more and more sad and i overreact about everything. Everyone tells me "oh its just hormones" when in reality- i dont feel like it is.. like im constantly sad. Usually people think im faking everything but really i wear a mask.. if you know what i mean. If you ever meet me on the street, i will prolly be this hyper, crazy, bitchy but nice person, but im honestly hurt and broken on the inside.
The worst day of my year was when my computer stopped working when i was streaming on twitch and had to get it fixed. It cost 130 dollars, and took 2 weeks
On March 15th my beloved Peter had a massive heart attack in front of me and died. He was only 5 years old and was my emotional support. We never knew he had a heart condition. That will always be the worst day if my life. I now have ptsd.
Probaly today. I had to get my car fixed, again. Second time this year. Fist time cost me 700€ and now 600€. I had finally organized everything at school (resceduled exams, organized extra trainings for students, etc) when the news of school closings came, right after school was finished and all students were sent home already. It was only the peak of a bad week in a bad month in the worst year so far(remember how we all hated on 2019? So I'm not gonna call it the worst year ever, who knows what awaits us).
When my ex-boyfriend forgot about me, hooked up with another guy, and ghosted me.
When these two girls keep misgendering me on purpose and calling me by my dead name.
that is completely unacceptable! gimme their addresses so i can beat some bitches up (not actually but that makes me soooo mad)
Oh wow so many, day lockdown was announced l, the day my parents told us they were fleeting a divorce, the day my pet bird Sky on of the only pure things in my life died, the day my long term boyfriend said he never loved me, the day I was diagnosed with iron deficiency and anxiety. I could go on
Ok so sorry there was so many mistakes in that I type to fast and don’t reread 😅
The day my chicken died.
The day I found out I broke a bone.
A tie between the 2.
Hmmm there’s not just one but here is the worst highlight reel, I was told my Father was going to die in January after a second heart attack (thankfully he didn’t but imagine the stress) I was threatened by my work they would fire me if I didn’t come in a few hours a week outside my working from home to do “essential” work (opening mail) despite the country being plunged into lockdown & I should have been at home, I developed anxiety, i hadn’t seen my mother in 5 months & when restrictions were eased, she couldn’t care less to see me, we had a massive fight, she said some incredibly hurtful things & now our relationship is near about over, haven’t seen my father or my cat that lives with him in a year now as he won’t let me into the house (that I do I understand cause he nearly died but still tough) my manager was verbally abusing me & the guy I work with, we went to HR & nothing was done, both me & him took a mental breakdown around the same time, he was signed off & then quit, I was diagnosed with depression, have been speaking to a counsellor for 8 weeks now & generally going between wanting to die to wanting to make changes, I am spending Christmas on my own, my friends have all been suffering mentally, I have been talking to them but sometimes I think they just don’t want to hear it. So yeah this year has been hell & 2021 is just gonna be a continuation.
There is way to much to count but I got COVID and was quarenting in my bedroom and fell of my loft bed broke my arm and leg and my parents were outside so im inside upstairs screaming
TW: S**CIDE MENTIONED
I’ve been waiting for this one! February 18th was a train wreck. First, I had art with a “problematic” teacher who is disorganized and generally not the best at communicating. So I was emotionally drained already. It’s fine I got home from school. Got ready for my orchestra concert. Andddddd yay got my first period and my dress is ruined! It’s fine let’s change and put on a pad that feels like a diaper because we don’t have the right size at home and I have to go! The concert just sucked. The other orchestra was so much better. This isn’t just my opinion, everyone in our group agreed. This last part is great. So rewind a few days and I’m texting in a small group chat with two other people. Let’s call them E and F. E suddenly stops replying and when he gets back, he mentions he got really bad news. I asked if he wanted to talk about it but he said no and we went back to our game. He repeatedly brought up how “depressed” he was. In math, he kept trying to cut his fingers with safety scissors. Weird, but ok. It escalated to every 5 minutes bringing up how he wanted to die. We asked if he wanted to talk or needed us to help him get help, but he never wanted to talk anyone. This was like over the course of 2 days. Normally, I would be suspicious for a lot of reasons, but I figured it was better to treat it as if it was real bc that’s not the kind of thing you mess with you know? It’d be terrible if he was depressed and we just shrugged it off. IMPORTANT INFORMATION: both of us (F and I) had had friends that legitimately had terrible depression and wanted to die. So he like “ima s*icide guys” and we spent 2 hours talking him out of it, only for a friend of his to dm me privately with a screenshot of him saying “chill it’s a prank” to the friend. I lost my mind. Even if it was suspicious I was so relieved and angry at the same time that I just cried. I stopped replying that day after messaging F. The next day I yelled at him via text then blocked him and ignored him irl. Still blocked.
Guys I’ve been sitting with this and I’ve only been able to talk to F about this and it’s so calming to let it out after over 9 months.
I had a dingbat art teacher and I’m in a sucky orchestra too, so I can totally empathize with you there. It really sucks when the classes that should be the most fun/easy turn into the most dreadful ones just because of the teacher or people. And I’m really sorry about your friend, I wish both of you guys peace and happiness.
Today. Currently having a pre-midterm breakdown. Bored Panda makes everything better tho. :)
DATE: December 11th or December 12th or December 13th or July 4th
There were so many deaths in my family and shitty things that happened to me this year that I don't wanna bore people with my list, but I have a sudden urge to run my mouth rn so I have something else I wanna say. I have a theory: people who say that lockdown was a traumatic experience have not experienced other trauma before. It's not a bad thing, but just think about it. I have experienced some extremely emotionally shaking things in the past that I still hide inside, and when the pandemic hit and lockdown began, I was completely unaffected. Yes, covid is terrible and I understand that, but I just laugh at all the commercials and short videos about people struggling to stay occupied during lockdown, the "heartbreak" over staying in your house all the time, etc. I just found it funny that people thought that being stuck in your house all the time was a terrible experience. Nobody that I know who has past trauma and mental scars were really that shaken by the onset of the pandemic. Just kinda think about it. Yet again don't take offense bc it's not a bad thing, I just noticed that for a lot of people I know, this is probably the first traumatic event that they've been hit with. And idk I might be wrong. Just my theory from my experience.
my first day of middle school was cancelled by the pandemic. also the rest of the year. i was really looking forwards to middle school, and it totally sucked when i didnt get to go.
My birthday,
My closest old friend and I got in a huge fight, and we haven't really spoken since. It was awful.
This made me sad, I need to go find a wholesome post about dogs or something 😔
My worst part of the year was in February i started dating a girl (i had realized the december before that that i was Bi) and i wasn't going to tell my parents but i accidentally did and i had to switch schools without being allowed to tell anyone what happened, and now my parents make homophobic comments right in front of me and pretend im straight, so thats nice.
This made me sad, I need to go find a wholesome post about dogs or something 😔
My worst part of the year was in February i started dating a girl (i had realized the december before that that i was Bi) and i wasn't going to tell my parents but i accidentally did and i had to switch schools without being allowed to tell anyone what happened, and now my parents make homophobic comments right in front of me and pretend im straight, so thats nice.
