You know... you see someone and you like them... but suddenly they do something and you're like ..oh... never mind?

#1

Treating women, people of other races and special needs individuals like they are sub-human. Anyone who acts like that is a Neanderthal.

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#2

Rudeness. Pure and simple.

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TheAquarius1978
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stupidity, i don't care how gorgeous you are if i think you're stupid we are done

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#3

Treating restaurant staff like they aren’t human. Simple as that

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Minath
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's a quote from Harry Potter that's something like "to get the true measure of a man look at how he treats his inferiors not his equals" now I'm not suggesting that restaurant staff are inferior, you could exchange "inferiors" to hospitality workers and the sentiment is the same.

#4

Racism and bigotry, whether overt or implied.

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#5

When everything in the interaction becomes a competition where they have to make sure you know that they are better than you, i.e. smarter, wealthier, good looking, better spouse, better job, better car...

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Trisha Howson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do not like anyone like that I can not be around them. It like there a bully kinda

#6

Liars!

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#7

People who are rude and condescending

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#8

When they make racist or sexist jokes. Like, it's not really all that funny and super annoying.

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#9

Okay so this is hard to explain, but the guys that say they are anti-simps, and feel like they are special because of it. Like I keep seeing posts and reels where let's say, a guy ignores a girl who was trying to give him her number, and acts like it's "king behaviour" or some s**t. Even the comment section is full of "You dropped your crown, King" or some variation (I mean I've ignored men's advances several times when I wasn't interested, where is my crown? : P)
I cannot express how repulsive I find it. Don't like chasing after girls and being a "simp"? That's a personal preference and totally valid, but why would you think you're special because of that?

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Nibha
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree ..yk..I never thought about it like that... thanks you gave me a new perspective ✨

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#10

Grown up guys acting like teenagers. I liked this one guy (he was 24), but he acted stupid and misogynistic around his friends, like he wanted to show off or idk... Oh and also.... he non-ironically quoted lines from Kevin and Perry Go Large ... like...all the time. I never got out of a crush that quickly. Huge yikes.

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#11

If they act like they’re better than others simply because of the gender they were born with. Another unattractive quality is when they act really childish, or stupid in purpose.

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Bored Retsuko
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate nothing more than people who "play stupid"! That is, act stupid so they can get what they want and not take responsibility for their actions.

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#12

People who snap their fingers at restaurant staff. I just... don't like it.

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Bored Retsuko
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, that is very disrespectful and cringy. (To me at least; maybe a cultural thing, idk)

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#13

Smoking!

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ItsJess
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I see someone and think they're insanely attractive, if I see them light up a cigarette or cigar, they instantly become unattractive.

#14

Prejudice. Of any kind.

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#15

Not treating people with kindness and respect.

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#16

Because I'm that annoying person: clashing political views. It's not a "matter of opinion" anymore if you think entire minority groups don't deserve rights. If you thing I don't.

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#17

when they insult you in front of their friends just to save face. ugh.

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#18

if you are rude or mean or disrespect anyone ,I will immediately find you unattractive

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#19

No sense of humor..

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#20

Sending mixed signals or not telling you what they want. "Giving hints" is just frustrating and gets you nowhere.

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#21

Judging people by their appearance. Weight/clothing/skin color etc.

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#22

Mansplainers...no thanks.

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#23

An unwillingness to learn.

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Minath
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also not accepting there are things they don't understand and think they are always the smartest person in the room regardless of situation.

#24

If they have a shitty personality. Or if they just act like they are above everyone in general

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#25

Bad table manners.

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#26

If they’re rude and if they say unnecessary mean stuff about others, or if they swear too much

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#27

I can name a few

- Homophobia

- Racist

- Ableist

- Undermines my emotions, my parents already yell at me for crying and anger the last thing I need is a partner doing that too

- This might seem kinda controversial, but someone who freaks out if they hear dark humour

- Being stupid, like as in anti-masking, disorder faking tiktoker stupid

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Sharron Lindsay
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dark humour has its place in the world and I think some people should try to take themselves less seriously. Taking yourself too seriously can make you constantly stressed by other's actions and opinions - the mind is like a parachute according to Mark Twain. Dark humour is often used by the military and emergency services to deal with the horrors they see and help them get up in the morning to go to work knowing they could see the same horrific things day-in day-out

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#28

Anyone who acts and behaves as self important.

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#29

Gaslighting. If you act like an *ss and try to pretend it didn’t happen, then tell me that my emotions are unfounded and ‘I’m being ridiculous,’ there’s the door.

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#30

Willful ignorance and cruelty towards people or animals

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#31

Anything that shows a sign of homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, racism, really just anything that doesn’t support equal rights for all.

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#32

Arrogance.

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#33

I have a few I can thing of right now.
1. You dont like animals.
2. Your homophobic/transphobic.
3. your a rude jerk for absolutly no reason.

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#34

Pouting when they don’t get their way. It’s not cute. It’s childish.

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#35

I mean, if a person is showing off in front of me I feel like hitting them. And ofc if anyone treats someone around them like an accessory they are (insert negative words here).

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#36

If they treat their siblings like garbage then what is stopping them from treating you like garbage in the future. Or any family member.

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#37

When their unable to say thank you or sorry

other :
- smoking
- entitlement
- racism
- alcoholics
- when they always know it better
- unkindness
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#38

Adding one more, and treating/talking about someone like they aren’t human, or don’t have feelings. There’s no need to go somewhere and treat the staff as if they are just robot workers that ONLY do their job. There’s no need to get mad at celebrities for doing something that just... makes them human.

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#39

Smoking cigarettes

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#41

Stupidity.
I don't care how hot a person is.
If you aren't smart, we cant mesh.

Maybe that is a bad attitude to have but, thats my honest answer.

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Bubbles and sparks
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get this one.... In my earlier days I did portrait shoots with semi profesional models. Now I don't really care about good looks, I go for a beautiful inside coming out... One model was insulted that I skipped my turn to do a shoot with her. I was still kind and told a white lie that there was something wrong with my camera I had to fix so she could have double time with another photographer. The truth however was that her personality was so incredibly visible for me, I had to pass because I never work with arrogant models... The rest of the day I had a great time with the rest of the models and got a lot of superb pictures ;)

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#42

people who are to big for their boots

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1 year ago

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#43

A mullet and not being a feminist

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#44

Treating anyone with contempt.
My CEO treats our housekeeping staff with kindness and respect.
No one is better than anyone.

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#45

Not letting someone be weird or goofy or "ham it up" without being made to feel like a child that's had too much sugar.

I finally found someone that will "yes, and..." my random theatrics, and been with them for 4 wonderfully liberating years.

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#46

Transphobia, homophobia, racism, sexism, this is kind of with the whole transphobia thing but being super straight, yeah I could go on but in short hating something people can't control or for their appearance like being fat phobiac is just a big no

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#47

Being an a*****e, all about yourself,

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#48

Being generally combative. Everything you say becomes an argument over who is right.
Everything needs to be dissected into the tiniest technicality at all times.
It's exhausting.
I enjoy a healthy debate, but there's a time and place for everything.
Fine, you win, the sky is technically not blue. Whatever, it makes no difference to me as we're sitting at a traffic light on our way to the grocery store.

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#49

All of the above so far for sure, but the one for me is BAD HYGIENE- especially oral, yuke yuke, nope , no thank you

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#50

Bad hygiene.

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#51

Low IQ

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Catte West
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dated a guy, briefly, who accused me of using 50¢ words. I refuse to lower my vocabulary to be understood.

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#52

Vain and self absorbed
If they talk about themselves...
Also if they do a blink thing...

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#53

Talking without wanting a conversation;
Poor personal hygiene or too much perfume/aftershave
Any bigotry/racism
Lack of empathy for others
Not liking animals, especially cats and dogs;

Oh dear, I’d better stop there, it makes me feel like a grump:)

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#54

Ewwww personal habits out in public - nose picking, playing with genitals, farting, eating with mouth open, talking with food in their mouth, not wearing deodorant........all equally repulsive.......

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#55

If they smell. Deodorant is not expensive.

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#56

1. being sexist. that's a huge no
2. racism
3. rudeness
4.they think they are number one
5. disrepectful of genders

those are the big fat no-no's that I avoid, and hopefully, you do too

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#57

Being A Trump Supporter!!!!!

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#58

Bragging

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#59

Attitude. It's one thing to be proud of what you've accomplished and another entirely to be so full of yourself there's no room for anyone else.

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#60

Judging the hobbies or interests of others. Hey, you do you and what you like, girl/guy/whoever you are. Don't appeal to the masses just to fit in.

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#61

Smoking

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#62

Always apologizing.

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#63

Eating with their mouth open. It's so obnoxious and swine like. It both makes me sick and infuriated to the point that I actually want to physically punch them and tell them to shut their mouth and not eat like a goddam cow.

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Samia Guled
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get that is the thing you don't want ur significant someone doing, but do you have to get so mean and violent about it?