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Ok, I’m the first one to post on here, and please give me advice, I need it. So, there is a boy in my pe class who bullies me daily. I go to a private school that I’ve gone to all my life, so I am not used to being bullied. He physically hurts me, targets me, and occasionally hurts my friends. The thing that really gets me is when he goes after my friends, but he has hurt me so bad that I am on the floor crying, trying to gain my breath back. My friends are awesome, but they are both shy and don’t stand up to him. Just to clarify, I am a junior high girl, and the kid bullying me is a seventh grade boy, which is really embarrassing, so only my friends know. He constantly threatens to hurt me, and our pe teacher is c**p and hasn’t noticed anything. I feel like I should give the guy some sympathy since his parents are dead and he is raised by his grandma, but still. I don’t know what to do. I have just been faking injuries to get out of pe recently, but that isn’t working anymore. What do I do?
You and your friends can use your phones to record evidence. Then, show it to your parents. If they still won' t help, then show it to a school counselor or different teacher. The loss of one's parents is no excuse for being a bully.
I just majorly f****d up. Like really badly. Ok so my friend asked out 1 of my squishes (platonic crush) who ik has a major crush on me-and he said yes a while ago. I had no clue about whether they're still together or not and kinda ended up talking to him and it ended up me somehow asking him out. My friend found out and is HURT. I still dk whether they were together when I did this but ik for a FACT that they aren't now and I feel so so bad. I even was thinking about the fact they could still be together at the time. I just kinda did is anyway idfk what was going through my head. I'm GUESSING I was just kinda hoping they weren't together and they wouldn't give a f**k which ik is stupid or that if they were together he'd reject me which ik realistically wouldn't happen... Idk how to fix this and I feel so f*****g bad.
You guys shouldn't worry about going steady until after high school. For now, just focus on having fun as platonic friends!
I am still in school and one of my friends friends that I don't know very well is an a*s. He always laughs at me and insults me and bullies me. The other day we were in a choreography club together and I was tapping my foot to the music, trying to get a feel of it and he was laughing at me. I'm also really depressed and hate when my mom calls me lazy, but she doesn't believe that I'm depressed. I also am scared to tell my mom I'm bi because idk how she'll react, and I want her to love me. And my friends sometimes act in ways that I think they're just using me, and then sometimes help me get through things that I couldn't on my own.
Ok, so 1. Tell your "friend" to f**k off because no one should be able to treat you like that. 2. If you think your mom might be homophobic and your safety is in danger, don't tell your mom you are bi, its for the best. This is coming from a lesbian who was closeted all her life, but I got very lucky and was accepted me. I wish you all the luck and love in the world. 3. Dump your friends and find someone who actually cares about you.
One of my friends refuses to accept that I'm bi, constantly telling me it's a phase and agreeing with my very homophobic dad. I try to separate myself from him but he has a crush on me and it doesn't work! My friends tell me to leave the relationship because they don't like who I become around him but I'm just... scared. He's also transphobic to one of my friends and has said how much he hates gay people. Cause they're so obviously sinners.
Also, I made an Ask Pandas post like this yesterday! I didn't see you had already made one, and I'm sorry about that! Also, your pfp is giving me life
Hey! Sorry for the late reply. As an LGBTQ+ person, genderfluid and lesbian individual I understand what you are going through. I feel like your "friend" thinks you might think since you are bi you must be faking it in order to not date him. Drop him. He seems like an a*s. And I'm sorry about your homophobic dad. If he tries to kick you out or anything that endangers you in anyway, call the police or CPS. I hope this helps. Much love from your lesbian bestie. <3
