Hey Pandas, My Dad Died A Couple Of Years Ago And I’m Still Having Trouble Fitting In My School. Do You Have Any Tips? (Closed)
How do I fit in school? I'm 13 years old by the way.
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First of all, I apologize for your loss, it indeed must be tough.
Second of all, embrace who you are, find folks who have similar interests, talk to individuals who trustworthy and can relate to you in some way.
Im sorry. You don’t have to be anyone but yourself. Remember that.
I have been going to my school for almost 5 years, and I still don't fit it. My friends have supported me, and that's all that matters. You just need to be yourself, and you don't need to change anything. I am also sorry for your loss.
Stop trying to be the person you want to be and just be yourself. Helped me a whole lot. I wanted to be popular for so long and it ended up being harmful for myself. Now i'm with my best friends and where the kids who don't really have a place anywhere.
Sorry about your dad. That sucks in so many ways. I would suggest be the person your dad would be proud of. By that I mean, be the person you are in any given moment. Be authentic.
honestly the best advice i could give is to just be yourself be confident and love yourself and remember no one is ugly no one is stupid everyone has an opinion but that doesnt mean you have to listen to them I love you sm have a amazing day
ps. so sorry for your loss
Be yourself. Do what makes you happy then find friends through that. If you like sports, do sports. If you like robotics, do robotics. Find something that you enjoy and find friends there.
i dont fit in at school but what i would try doing is find someone that seems cool and nice and try to become friends with them but i dont fit in so i dont know if this will work but try it im sorry if this doesn't work
Nobody exactly "Fits in" To a school. Just be yourself! If people are bullying you, tell the teacher. I've moved to new schools two times! About the dad thing, just try to forget about him dying, but keep pictures up of him. Remember him when he was alive, don't remember his funeral. Try to keep your mind on other things. My step-grandpa died a long time ago, when my dad was still in college, I think. Just try to feel happy. If you have issues, talk to a therapist.
Don't worry, I have some ideas since the same thing happened to me:
-Find some friends to hang out with! When I lost my dad and went to another school, finding friends meant that I had people to hang out with and that I wasn't completely alone.
-Be yourself, don't be scared. :)
