Hey Pandas, Got Any Questions For The Guys? (Closed)

Might come in handy when I need an alibi

I wish ppl would work harder to find what we have in common rather than pick at the differences.

Daffodils

We tease each other.

please guys this is a struggle to know cause one minute yall act like you love us the next you hate us please help us understand you

I think shy girls are more mysterious, hang in there

Don't. It's not worth it. Just do you.

Apologise as i back up the excavator and call emergency services while trying to perform first aid (that i don't know very well) and then weep.

Can't take life too seriously or you'll go insane. Everyone should laugh more and stop worrying about laugh lines.

Probably the same things we do at girl sleepovers, get high and make out.

He's 10 years old. Wait a bit.

Pan here, I don't care as long as they 1. Aren't racist 2. Support basic human rights 3. Believe in science 4. Is kind, that's all I need :)

Girl here. Pretty sure that’s just adjusting the twig and berries to a more comfortable position. Fabric bunches, and the bits get shifted and squashed. Ya ever have to adjust your bra after being in a certain position?

Approach in quiet area with them alone (not too private, in library or cafe with them sitting alone) that way they are not "putting on a front" for the bro's.

Do you not hug women too? It feels the same to us as to you.

Depends on the guy. A quiet guy could be intimidated, or just as easily repelled because it's so different than him. Energetic and rambunctious can be really attractive, but it depends on what you say. Do you like loud guys? It's probably more important what they actually say, right?

Rabbits

it really seems to me that the guys count you as one of the "boys" so a sudden change in your appearance might have confused them. Just a theory.

In general, yes, it matters, but the details vary. Different people are pretty in different ways. For example, I know I have a weakness for dark, wavy hair, but have no clue why. Maybe because I have light, curly hair. That said, I've seen some amazingly attractive blondes, so it's not very important. Clothes and hair matter to some extent, but a girl's attitude is a major, major factor. The first thing I notice, other than approximate age is her facial expression. Does she look fun to be around? Does she looked stressed or angry? Then I listen. Is she selfish, cruel, or demeaning? Is she intelligent?

This is why we do the crotch thing.

4chan logic.

There is no average man. I imagine most guys think a women without kids is far more available for fun, and I'm not talking only about sex. If a guy wants to take you to parties or some sports game or whatever, then non-moms are preferable. If a guy wants a meaningful relationship, then a woman with kids is probably more grown up, has clear priorities, and therefore easier to understand and appreciate. But if the kids are too wild or actnasty, that's not a good sign.

I learned details in 4th grade, so I was 9 or 10. The teachers sent all the girls to the gym for a presentation, then later it was the boys turn. There were separate videos for the girls and boys, but my school showed both videos to everyone, to show there were no secrets. They didn't go into a lot of detail, but said enough for us to know there's blood for several days, and crucially, _why_ there is blood, so that it made sense.

The stick doesn't. The balls on the other hand...

Can be any number of reasons. Including but not limited to seen as out of their league

Generally that's low self esteem, you'll see that sometimes in relationships regardless of gender

For exactly the same reasons that women cheat.

Girl here, but I read somewhere else that there was a poll someone did about this and it said that guys would much rather the girl made the first move so that they would know for a fact she was interested.

I never had a compliment from someone apart from my family and it makes me feel insecure

For many guys, a hard hitto the crotch is all they understand.

Only assholes act like that. If a guy refers to women as whores or bitches, run fast run far. He is not worth your time.

You didn't provide enough information, so I have no idea what age group you are in, what your personality is like, or what horrible things they do. I'll assume you are somewhere in the range of 13-16, probably the hardest years. As a first guess, I imagine they perceive you as 'different' and have no idea what to make of it. Kids that age are trying to convince themselves they are more grown-up than they really are, and one way to do that is to try to fit in to a group. If they fit in, they feel safer from ridicule. It's not until later that most people realize they don't have to fit into groups. The best advice I can give is to find something you are good at, so that others can be impressed. For example, can you play a guitar? Can you make really good paintings? That short-circuits the 'group' mentality.

You can’t. There is nothing inherently masculine or femininine about personality, actions or clothes.

I know this one, although I'm not sure I should share because it breaks my heart every time I think about it. Men are by and large not raised to be emotionally supported and often even actively encouraged to tamp down their emotions under penalty of being found weak and rejected by their peers. The punching is as close as some can get to friends willing to hug them. Some men I know have literally never had a friend they can talk to they way they speak with me. Two of them call their fathers 'sir' and have immense difficulty coming to grips with or even understanding the emotional range of their partner. Their partners see their men as stoic and terse, but that is only the wall around them. On the one hand I long to show them the light inside their partner, on the other it's not my place and I feel awful that I'm even considering meddling.

The "men don't cry" and the "men only want sex"

Smoke.

Because a select group of humans are gay and like to.