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I like helping people with any issues they have, so, if you have any issues and want help and if you feel comfortable sharing it, then feel free to post it here, and I will try to help as best as I can!

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What's the best way to clear your mind?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Take a walk, or listen to some music. Just doodle absent-mindedly. If you have any pets, sit there stroking them (if they allow that!) Do some sort of exercise, it doesn’t really matter what. Have a nap! Bake something.

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I just fell into icy water and have hypothermia what can I do.

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#3

How do you deal with narcissistic parents at a young age?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Try and ignore them. This won’t always work, but if you can try and ignore them, do it. If you can’t, then telling them how you feel is a option, but it depends on what your parents are like. It’s extremely unlikely your parents will change, but, not impossible. Do you have any siblings? If you do, try and team up against them. Or try and get out of the house a lot! I don’t know how strict the virus rules are where you live, but you could go to a relatives/friends house, or just for a walk. Try and distract yourself! As I said, get out of the house, or listen to music, draw, or anything else that makes you feel happy and safe! Hope you stay healthy and happy! :)

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Uhm well my parents are anti-vaxers is there anything I can do I’m 15 and would really like to get vaccinated

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get proof vaccines are a good thing. I don’t know what the rules are in your country, but, if it’s aloud, you could always get a relative to help you get a vaccine. Or tell them that [someone they admire] has got a vaccine and they recommend it.

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#5

how do u help ur friend feel loved even though they know u love them

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just let them know you care! Check in on them everyday, and, if it’s aloud, try and see them.

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probably my dad on thanksgiving we went to his girlfriends house and a few weeks later we went there again and ordered to and we did it the next day too but not at there house and he ordered it there and took out his anger on me and he makes me try to look up on youtube how to code and i dont want to learn and apparently he wants to listen to me talk about video games just so he can get mad at me about it later i need advise

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tell him you enjoy other things, not just coding and video games, Although, he sounds really mean, so that might not work. I’m going to assume here that your parents are seperated and living in different houses. If so, if you really don’t want to go, ask to stay in the house that your dad doesn’t live in. You mentioned your dad has a girlfriend; I don’t know what she’s like, but if she’s nice you could try get her to take your side. Or, just tell him how you feel! Hope this helped, and things get better for you.

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#7

What is one way of figuring stuff out without constantly being stressed?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m not sure what you’re trying to figure out, so I’ll focus on the being stressed part. What I find really helpful is I break whatever I’m trying to do into chunks. Say, I maybe do 20 minutes of work then I take a break. A way to de-stress that works for me, is distract yourself. Take a walk, listen to music, anything that distracts you. Hope you’re happy and well! :)

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#8

how do i stop procrastinating like even though i get thirsty i still just sit watching tv instead if getting up and getting water

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have the same issue as you. If it’s something small, like getting water, think about it. What’s the good things about getting water? If it’s something like work, what I do is I kind of bribe myself. I think ‘Alright, if you do this work you can buy yourself some chocolate’ or something along those lines. Sorry if this advice wasn’t the best.. hope you are healthy and happy! :)

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#9

I suppose I can't accept the fact that I lost someone really close to me, I just won't believe they are dead. And I don't know what to do now. "Life" is crappy for everyone right now I'm sure, but I just can't let her go. And I feel weak because I can't move on. So now I'm just in between, trying to let go, but As soon as I let it go, I snatch it right back. Idk what to do. If you know, you should be a therapist.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

well i know how you feel my grandpa died 2017 and i have not been the same since but thats why i come here to read and help out others

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