Recently, I watched a movie with my family and now I have a really big crush on the main character! I also have a crush on a band member. So yeah, I basically don't like anyone I know in real life. Is this unhealthy? Am I going insane?

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Insane? No. It's just puberty.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And being HSP. It will likely settle down, as your hormones do.

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The you have said is that one of your crushes is, "on the main character". This indicates that you know that persona is fictional, which is key.
Pubescent crushes are normal, and as long as you remember that the actors and musicians are real people and might be very different in person, and behave respectfully towards them online / should you meet them, it should be fine.

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I'm pretty sure everyone goes through this phase in life. *cue it's not a phase mom*

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