The ‘Hard To Swallow Pill’ Meme Has People Sharing Difficult Truths, And Here Are 30 Of The Most Popular Ones
The template of the meme consists of two WikiHow stock images: one with someone looking at a bottle of pills with a label that says "Hard to Swallow Pills" and another with the pills already in the person's hand, ready to be ingested.
People download it, slap a text of what they think is a universal truth on the second picture, and upload it back on the Internet, waiting for upvotes. And we often have to give it to them. Quite a few of these memes capture some universal law, most of which we know but don't want to accept. Like, "some of your problems are your own fault, and won't get better until you actively do something about it" or "you can't make someone love you."
Bored Panda has compiled some of the most popular Hard to Swallow Pills, so continue scrolling, check out the memes, and upvote your favorites.
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Clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst Mary Lamia, Ph.D., thinks that the notion that one is “in denial” seems to have taken on a life of its own as an agent of many ills and as a catchphrase for people who dismiss the implications of their behavior.
"Although denial is considered to be a defense often used by people with addictive tendencies, its attributions reach beyond those struggling with substances," Lamia pointed out. "Denial is also attributed to people who do not want to acknowledge that bad stuff is occurring in their lives, such as those who are attempting to cope with a tumultuous relationship, a life-threatening illness, obesity, a loss, or anything else that one may attempt to disavow."
Sure, we can deny a fact, deny responsibility, deny the impact of our actions, or even deny what is really going on by hiding from our feelings. But according to Lamia, when we use denial to defend ourselves or cope with what we feel, we contradict the reality of a situation or attempt to adjust to a circumstance by neglecting its impact. However, the extent of someone’s denial may not really be the issue at hand.
"What’s important is not that people recognize their denial, but that they are able to accept what they are feeling that leads to the denial in the first place," Lamia explained. "If someone excessively and habitually uses alcohol to medicate their anxiety, for example, we might emphasize their attempts to dismiss the harm that their use of alcohol will cause, rather than focus on the emotions they feel that motivate their denial. If that person stops drinking, one would hope the emotions that were formerly hidden by denial, which often have to do with shame, would be exposed and accepted by the individual."
Poor people have to work even harder than others, just to get a daily meal and shelter
We not only use denial to hide from any negative emotion, including shame, fear, guilt, or distress but to mute positive emotions as well. "Sometimes feeling positively may be just as threatening as negative feelings. We may want to deny the reality of our emotions, because accepting a reality that is uncomfortable, painful, or incongruous to what we expect means we must also alter our perception of ourselves. Thus, if you are in denial, perhaps you are simply trying to ignore the truth about what you actually feel, rather than about what you are doing or thinking."
But if you want to move forward, you have to swallow the truth.
This applies to both guys and gals. Nobody is as kind as they think themselves are.
Yeah, but how many women go around blaming their inability to date on how guys always friendzone nice girls?
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The 'nice guy' trope is a real thing that almost every woman has encountered at some point. I know it *can* apply to everyone, but it does seem more common with guys. Women don't usually go around complaining that they deserve to date a super hot guy because they (the woman) are so 'nice'.
Load More Replies... Guys who describe themselves as "nice guy" are more likely to be controlling abusing mysogynists with a subscription to "Incels Unite" and 9Chan as their favorite bookmark.
sometimes we misjudge people. and idiots are very good at appearing appealing, for a while. really. nice people, are not nice to get laid, but for the sake of being nice. some people are just better at public relations...and also the person choosing, might not be as nice as they think they are either. man or woman...I wonder why is people stuck in that outdated thing, that is the male that is suppose to prove himself, while women are the ones to choose
I think of myself as a dirty, lying, snake, piece of s**t, that won't let people in and ends up losing everyone's trust. The main thing that is keeping me from ending it all is the fact that people DO love me, and people DO care if I die tonight. And cowardice, that too... "To be, or not to be" is a question of suicide. Whether killing yourself would be brave (in actually taking that jab, or slice, or leap), or whether it is cowardly (you don't have enough in you to face the word, and life, and horror of existence). The point that I'm trying to make is that me and the people around me don't need voices telling them that they're worthless. We don't need more than is already in our heads.
I disagree in some respects. The nice guys who aren't really a******s, don't put themselves forward enough to be noticed. So while they're a nice guy, they're also overlooked guys.
This is not restricted to relationships. If you professor tells you he's a nice guy, you might consider changing your degree progamme. I can't tell you how often I've heard lecturers in medicine call themselves a "benign character". Those are always the worst.
Reminds me of alert taught to kids "Adults never ask kids for directions. So if a car pulls up next to you,, Run! Same for your professor analogy.
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This whole myth is for young dumb girls. Real women and smart girls like the nice guys . Pick better girls
I agree, but very hard to 'pick a better girl' when you are a young man with little going for you and all the girls your age are dating obnoxious dickheads. I am so thankful that as we get older we make better choices in our partners.
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I was once with someone who looked like a "bad guy" to almost everyone. He just was an introvert , who really didn't care, what others think of him. He was a kind hearted guy who loved animals and bubble baths, was liked by my parents ... and treated me like a princess.
*furiously pointing at this post whenever someone says: "they only like bad people!"*
It's like being a hero or a "very stable genius": if you're calling yourself one, you aren't one.
They all have something that is NOT NICE. Women included!
No, only nice girls love nice guys. Unfortunately, most girls and most guys are not nice and that appears to be getting a greater proportion every minute.
And some girls aren't interested in romance, and that's perfectly fine, too!
Women think they can change men for the better. It's ingrained in us
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Maybe you should stop trying to date dysfunctional people? The reason you can't get a date is not because you're too nice. You're either: 1. Not in fact nice at all or 2. Are solely attracted to traumatized and emotionally damaged people. Either way, you need to work on yourself instead of blaming the women who reject you.
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I know exactly what I want. You just choose to believe otherwise because it doesn't align with what YOU want.
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Another pill: just because you think highly of yourself doesn't mean you're qualified to give out advice, and it certainly doesn't mean you're better than others. Also, posting a picture of yourself with a dog doesn't mean you're a good person--Hitler loved dogs too.
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Married to who? A woman, yes? Then you just proved your own argument invalid.
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I like this one. Re-evaluate your worldview every so often, visit other places, talk to people from other communities, read books, and so on. It's character building too.
This one should not even have to be a thing, but sadly it is.
This is the one thing every teenager (including me) has to understand. Not everyone has to like you, nor do they have to hate you. We just gotta let it be.
Possibly so, but believing that the Earth is flat, or that vaccinations don't work does make you stupid and deserving of ridicule.
The three big things needed in a relationship are trust, compromise and respect. Of course there are more like having each others back, liking the other person etc. Relationships are hard work, you need to make the effort to help it grow.
No but you can tie them up in your basement til stockholm syndrome kicks in.
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One I would add is: choosing to have a baby won't necessarily magically change your life for the better or take away your depression. And even if you do everything right, your child could suck.
Children are not fashion accessories, life accoutrements, or there to fulfill some life's mission. They are children. They are to be loved, taught, protected and guided. They are not there to fulfill your "lost opportunities."
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Hard Pill to Swallow: 95% of diets fail, and yo-yo dieting is actually worse for your health than being overweight.
That's because 'dieting' is the wrong way to lose weight. Sustained, healthy lifestyle change is the only way to do it. You can never 'diet' then stop and hope for lasting results, it's something that you change forever.
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Here's one: For some people, even negative attention is still attention.
Which it why it was such a great decision by the P.M. and the media in New Zeland not to use his name. "New Zealand media put Christchurch gunman in his place with focus on victims" And "after the gunman was sentenced to an unprecedented life in jail without parole, Ardern reiterated her commitment to never speak the terrorist’s name, saying he deserved “a lifetime of complete and utter silence”.". https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/aug/27/new-zealand-media-put-christchurch-gunman-in-his-place-with-focus-on-victims
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SOOOOO many contradictions. Half of these are "you are a victim" and the other half are "suck it up, only you are accountable for you"
Also: 'Your inability to grasp Black Lives Matter is entirely your fault. Everyine has been informed what it means, at this point you're just racist'
Not all of these are true, by any means. I suspect a lot of smartass teens who think they know everything just following a meme format. Don't sweat it.
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some of those are false yet looking smart. And the real "smart" ones doesn't help either. Life is not easy, you know. (real "smart" because it's very smart but rather openminded)
you do not have to trying to prove somehing you do is right, just beacause you do it
How about "Just because you decided to become a teacher or a nurse, you aren't any more special than the next person." Please stop patting yourselves on the back.
Statistically speaking, if you really did tell the truth all the time, occasionally you would have something good to say. Being consistantly negative and insulting the people around you, doesn't mean you're telling the truth. You actually are just being an a*****e.
I've got some too ! 1) Men should receive compliments just as much as women, everyone's pretty 2) (for you pro-gender-role people) "Pretty" can be used to describe everyone and everything, not just women and flowers and sunsets and seas. Men can be pretty too. 3) ALL SEXUALITIES ARE VALID. You don't choose what your favorite color is, or what goes on in your body and brain. You can't choose or control who you love. 4) ABORTION SHOULD BE LEGAL AND AVAILABLE TO EVERY WOMAN. Rape-babies AREN'T THE WOMAN'S FAULT. Stop making it seem that way. Old white men shouldn't care what a woman does with an accidental clump of cells. 5) Women don't dress for men, and men don't dress for women. Some might, but they shouldn't have to if they don't want to. 6) Cancel Culture is immature. Period. Y'all really be ruining someone's life and shooting them into a life of poverty because they couldn't go to college, just because they posted a pic with a Trump flag.
7) Just because someone has different views as you does not automatically mean they are stupid and have a low IQ. Some of the most influential, intelligent people in the US are Trump supporters. This does not mean that they are correct in their decision, obviously. Trump is smart on certain subjects, like business. Not windmills, though, he could use some work with windmills. He DOES know a lot about raping little girls and boys, though, because he has experience in that field.
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Eating less and exercising more is the only certain way to lose weight and keep it off. You don't need a 300 page book or a series of videos, you need a post-it note.
I'm an 'older' lady and some of these just smacked of truth for me! Like, DOH!
This one always starts a hate war: truth is in the eye of the beholder
One I would add is: choosing to have a baby won't necessarily magically change your life for the better or take away your depression. And even if you do everything right, your child could suck.
Children are not fashion accessories, life accoutrements, or there to fulfill some life's mission. They are children. They are to be loved, taught, protected and guided. They are not there to fulfill your "lost opportunities."
Load More Replies... Hard Pill to Swallow: 95% of diets fail, and yo-yo dieting is actually worse for your health than being overweight.
That's because 'dieting' is the wrong way to lose weight. Sustained, healthy lifestyle change is the only way to do it. You can never 'diet' then stop and hope for lasting results, it's something that you change forever.
Load More Replies... Here's one: For some people, even negative attention is still attention.
Which it why it was such a great decision by the P.M. and the media in New Zeland not to use his name. "New Zealand media put Christchurch gunman in his place with focus on victims" And "after the gunman was sentenced to an unprecedented life in jail without parole, Ardern reiterated her commitment to never speak the terrorist’s name, saying he deserved “a lifetime of complete and utter silence”.". https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/aug/27/new-zealand-media-put-christchurch-gunman-in-his-place-with-focus-on-victims
Load More Replies... SOOOOO many contradictions. Half of these are "you are a victim" and the other half are "suck it up, only you are accountable for you"
Also: 'Your inability to grasp Black Lives Matter is entirely your fault. Everyine has been informed what it means, at this point you're just racist'
Not all of these are true, by any means. I suspect a lot of smartass teens who think they know everything just following a meme format. Don't sweat it.
Load More Replies... some of those are false yet looking smart. And the real "smart" ones doesn't help either. Life is not easy, you know. (real "smart" because it's very smart but rather openminded)
you do not have to trying to prove somehing you do is right, just beacause you do it
How about "Just because you decided to become a teacher or a nurse, you aren't any more special than the next person." Please stop patting yourselves on the back.
Statistically speaking, if you really did tell the truth all the time, occasionally you would have something good to say. Being consistantly negative and insulting the people around you, doesn't mean you're telling the truth. You actually are just being an a*****e.
I've got some too ! 1) Men should receive compliments just as much as women, everyone's pretty 2) (for you pro-gender-role people) "Pretty" can be used to describe everyone and everything, not just women and flowers and sunsets and seas. Men can be pretty too. 3) ALL SEXUALITIES ARE VALID. You don't choose what your favorite color is, or what goes on in your body and brain. You can't choose or control who you love. 4) ABORTION SHOULD BE LEGAL AND AVAILABLE TO EVERY WOMAN. Rape-babies AREN'T THE WOMAN'S FAULT. Stop making it seem that way. Old white men shouldn't care what a woman does with an accidental clump of cells. 5) Women don't dress for men, and men don't dress for women. Some might, but they shouldn't have to if they don't want to. 6) Cancel Culture is immature. Period. Y'all really be ruining someone's life and shooting them into a life of poverty because they couldn't go to college, just because they posted a pic with a Trump flag.
7) Just because someone has different views as you does not automatically mean they are stupid and have a low IQ. Some of the most influential, intelligent people in the US are Trump supporters. This does not mean that they are correct in their decision, obviously. Trump is smart on certain subjects, like business. Not windmills, though, he could use some work with windmills. He DOES know a lot about raping little girls and boys, though, because he has experience in that field.
Load More Replies... Eating less and exercising more is the only certain way to lose weight and keep it off. You don't need a 300 page book or a series of videos, you need a post-it note.
I'm an 'older' lady and some of these just smacked of truth for me! Like, DOH!
This one always starts a hate war: truth is in the eye of the beholder
