Being single and living alone can be pretty awesome, and these illustrations show why.
Created by LA-based painter, illustrator and occasional animator, Yaoyao Ma Van As, this series of illustrations pretty much sums up the magic of living alone. From leaving your marks everywhere to cleaning up whenever you want - living alone really has its perks. Keep on scrolling to check them out and don't forget to vote for your favorites!
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Enjoying Some Peace And Quiet
Playing With Your Pup
Escaping Reality
Reading is one of my greatest pleasures, but I've switched to my Nook eReader. That way I can carry it anywhere I choose to go, and it holds a charge for a long time. My favorite spots are the couch, or my queen bed, where Charlie can be next to me, and I can pet him while I read. When I was young, I would never have dreamed of such a thing. :O
Working Whenever You Feel Like It
Enjoying A Cup Of Tea While Watching The Rain
Doing Nothing All Day
Dancing Like No One Is Watching (Cause No One Is)
Cuddling With Your Best Friend
Binge Eating All You Want
Ah yes! This is how I imagined my death scene would look like. Me lounging on the couch surrounded by boxes of takeaway with Netflix playing in the background...What a way to go
Being A Little Clumsy
Bathing As Long As You Want
Am I the only one that doesn't find baths in this kind of tub that relaxing? I'm not able to stretch out in them. I much prefer a hot tub or hot spring.
Enjoying The Little Things
I am blessed to be able to enjoy little things.... a hummingbird outside the front window; watching a turtle bury its eggs in the yard; electric colored, shy , bluebirds with a new family; wild ducks munching on sunflower seeds , a stray fox or wild turkey .... the beautiful sunrises & sunsets that are free to all . Life is good !
Having A Carefree Sort Of Walk
Having A Party With Yourself
Snacking Whenever You Feel Like It Without Anyone Judging You
Or eating your favourite food every day with no one knowing the depth of your obsession.
This is what life is like when you actually don't care what people think.
You can do that, but you are the one judging yourself and making yourself depressed
literally everything here you can do with your partner, except this post is for people living alone so they don't have to feel bad lol
And making up one egg's worth of cake mix and eating it all out of the bowl
Enjoying A Morning To Yourself
Meditating Without Distractions
Working The Way You Like
Treating Yourself To A Whole Batch Of Cookies
i don't think i've ever made cookies without eating half of the cookie dough T.T
Enjoying Some Quality Me Time
Taking Your Time In The Mornings
Creating Your Own "Fine Dining" Rules
Dreaming On A Rainy Day
Cleaning However You Like
Stretching In The Morning With The Room To Yourself
Having Your Puppy Around All The Time
Waking Up With Your Pup
Taking It All In On Your Morning Walk
Melting Away Your Troubles
Marking Your Territory
Doing Laundry Wherever You Want
Trying On All Your Clothes
Releasing Your Inner Artist
Being By Your Pups Side
Working On Your Flexibility
Making A Mess
Leaving Your Hair Everywhere Because You Can
At her age I would never have thought of such a thing. Being alone would have been so depressing. But now at 73, I love my solitude more than almost anything else. My Charlie shares my bed at night, and I can do pretty much what I wish, because I'm self-employed, and my shop is in my basement. But what seems so natural to me looks a bit out of place with someone so young, and by all appearances content with herself. Of course, I suffer from depression and she obviously doesn't. 🤔
Oh John, I always love your comments on Boredpanda. You seem to be such a gentle and loving person! Take care of yourself 😊😊
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I think the ultimate form of freedom when living alone is going to the toilet without closing the door! :D
Unless you have a pet....and then you're never going to the toilet alone ever again.
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I think that it is as beautiful as it is educative! YES a woman is able to live alone and enjoying it, it's not sad it's AWESOME! I live alone and dont want a partner or kids, i'm fine, i do what i want when i want, i'm so free to do anything, everything. I travel the world alone and i enjoy the fact that i'm totally free to meet people, to know people as want, and i travel to the middle east a lot without any fear. Leaving alone is really good for confidence, i can repair my dryer or my boiler without any help, repair anything and cooking really good... Self-sufficiency is an accomplishment, not a sad thing at all. What i find sad is my friends who are relationship because "its time", "it's for the kids"... because of social pressure and they don't share anything, they are not living together they are living parrallel lives and are not happy at all. Life is short, don't waste it to please others.
Living with others doesn't hurt my self sufficiency tbh. But you're right, getting into a relationship and not being in the relationship on a connective level is sad.
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i love the drawings but to be honest.... if you can't do 99,9% of all these things while being in a relationship, the problem is not the fact that you are in a relationship. It is either the s****y attitude of your partner, or your own misguided notion that it would not be ok to do these things. But lovely drawings. nice atmosphere.
That's what I thought too... if you can't do those things because someone else lives in the house, either your relationship with that person (be it a friend, or family, or a partner) is not very good, or you're way too sensitive to what others will think of you. I live with my elderly father, I do pretty much all of this. I do most of it at my best friends' house when I stay over too.
Load More Replies... I love both the pictures and the sentiment here - absolutely beautiful! I think sometimes people fear being alone - these pics capture the beauty and contentment in enjoying your own company.
I agree Daria. When we are young and virile, being alone can be a wonderful time to enjoy things that are impossible around others. But after awhile, reality kicks in and..................
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I don't know what this all has to do with being single... I do ALL of these things either way and don't give a darn about what anyone thinks...
I am not as cute (nor have I ever been) but I am really happy to see a beautiful depiction of a confident happy woman living alone. Obviously, I also have moments where I wish I wasn't alone (Usually when having to lift something heavy or watching something funny and there is noone around to laugh about it with me) but very often it is exactly like shown. And I think if there was a more positive image in the media about living alone, not so many people would remain in incredibly unhappy relationships.
so... basically being single is being a lazy slob. that's what you get from those pictures.
I really like the artwork. For the social comment : sometimes i love being alone and sometimes i can't stand it. you've just got to choose for yourself whichone you need the most. But i doubt most people living alone will ever release their inner artist that way or do half of the images. Living together for me also means giving eachother space for themselves sometimes.
When we are alone, TIME is not a concern. Our activities depend on mood rather than time.
I do best when my family's gone and all the house is for me. I draw, jump around, read, write my book and spend time on dreaming in my degus or my dog' s company. I think that the artist is basically my soul mate, the four only things that distinguish me are my firm belief that spending free time to care for my look is worthless, the fact that I hate finding my hairs everywhere, my drawing style that makes me incapable of drawing people well and my rather short temper. ;)
No need to be so messy i find my place is spotless cause the only one making the mess is yourself! Laundry builds up but unless you mix your items and colours!
But the luxury of being alone is also not having to care! Though I'm like that too, less people means less mess 😜
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it's sad that someone would think being in a live-in relationship makes all of those things impossible. I can eat all I want, whenever I want, even with a partner being in the house and he would never judge me or Interrupt me. If he did, he wouldn't be my partner.
On fb people have been hating over this harmless post. If it doesn't relate to you just stfu.
And you can tell you found the one when you can keep doing all that an be together. Not saying you all should find someone, just saying you can enjoy life as much alone or with someone. Except for the hair part... that's disgusting even when living alone... lol
I am alone for 10 years, I can do all that, but sadly I would trade all that for person who loves me. It is fun when you're young thou. I am lucky to have my teen child and a cat, but they are just about messy as me, so we all three live like on this pictures. Still miss someone fourth, as messy and laid back as us, to love me, well I am human.
Wow, by seeing all your picture, feels like im happy single and alone.. and theres a lot to do alone and surely fun.. love all your pictures
I'm just sitting here wondering WHAT IN THE HELL DID YOU DO WITH LILO AND STITCH?! I've been alone pretty much my entire life. I'm 40 and the normies have always been a little supicious and frankly s****y towards people who stand alone. You get enough abuse as a kid you learn to stay the f**k away, WAY away, from people. At some point in adolescence they declare you defective and possibly dangerous. I didn't realize the "normies" found basic time alone stuff to be an alien concept. Interesting.
As a dad I can definitely find the silver lining in alone time, which is rare and usually in the bathroom. But those quiet moments make being with my wife and son all the more special!
It could be great for some time but over time you will want to share with someone else..💑
Well, I think you forgot the best one yet: Moving around in underwear or not at all. Otherwise, it's really depressing living alone...
I do all those things except I do them with my partner rather than a dog. That seems sad. Also we get our daily 4hrs alone time as she works since morning and I afternoon :)
Same here. My wife and I do these both together and alone (she works nights roughly about 3 days a week, so there's plenty of alone time when she sleeps during the day and is gone at night and also plenty of time together to do these)
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Pesonally I have given up believing that I will ever be loved or in a relationship. All my dreams have been shattered, time and time again.
I am single and do not need any cartoon reminder of the advantages of being single. This seems to me kind of justification for oneself when feeling lonely, in that there are advantages in being single. When you are single of course you can do what you want, but you also need to set rules, if you do not want to end up like the hoarders tv series. Hygiene and order are not optional. And sometimes you have bad days too, like i don't stand myself. BTW, there is no illustration of when she has those bad days aka period. is she content in those days too? I don't think so.
Loneliness is NOT living alone. Loneliness is living with the wrong person, that is a never-ending heartbreaking soul-aching mind-numbing loneliness that never ends.
This list makes no sense! If you can't do all that with your husband, fiancee, bf, whatever... around, then you have chosen wrong! This list is simply: what you can do with your loved one because you can.
I do not live alone, but i must confess that i relish those days that my husband has to work and i have the house to myself for the day. I see alot of myself in these illustrations. I really just wanted to comment on the ARTIST'S mastering of light......moon light, light from the computer monitor, bright sun light, low rainy-day light..........all very effective to create a mood. Beautiful work.
Seems like the cat only makes cameo appearances cuz all you hear about is the pup more than anything lol.
love it!!! <3 i live with my pup and i feel happy and free <3 i wouldn´t change this for noone
Great sketches but unfortunately most people need to work to afford such a house. Unlike this lazy girl who does nothing but stretch, eat snacks and cuddle.
did anyone else catch all the disney characters in those illustrations? mugs, stuffed animals, dog toys, etc! loved these, so great! & who hasn't noticed or made shapes with their hair in the shower?! haha maybe it's an artist thing. her illustrations were fantastic though, the walks, baths & puppy snuggle drawings were all so relaxing 💕
The illustrations are lovely but, I don't currently own a dog and I can do all those things with my girlfriend around (and enjoy them more for sharing the experience with her).
Reading is great, and you need to do it alone. But living alone is for the dispossessed. I hope you have a relationship-filled day.
Cool art, ignorant statement. Living alone is more like working 35+hours a week, so you really don't have time to do any of that stuff because you're at work, and you're definitely not "Working whenever you feel like it" you're working when your boss says your to work, that is, unless you come the Upper Middle-Class / Upper class and have a rich family that will pay for your housing, at which point you can do this sort of thing....
I'm 20years old, and will be moving out in a year or so. The idea of having room mates sounds hectic and could damage the relationship I have with that person. So living alone I think would be better. I can have company over on my time, when I feel like having it. Plus I can sleep butt naked, and wake up with a nice butt scratch, then make breakfast naked. I cannot wait.
Walking around naked??? That's what I do whenever my roommate's not home!
People tend to confuse living alone with being alone. When I lived alone, I was also very lonely, but there were days where it was nice and peaceful. Now that I am married and have two kids, I relish the times I have the house to myself.
You can do all of that with significant other too you can share your solitude, combine it with the one who you heart choose
If you can't do all of these things when your partner is around, you need a new partner lol
Looks more like someone, who longs for someone to share all these moments with. Cool artwork though!👍😊
So living alone means being a fat slob that talks to herself because she is wealthy enough to afford a palatial Midwestern estate? Must be nice.
I dont know how other's relationships are, but the girl in these illustrations lives just like my girlfriend. and we live together. besides the waking up part and messing around the bathroom, she lives just as free as this girl. And does the same things. I think people should stop being so judgmental and free them selves of their fear of being judged.
Well, with a pet she's not turkey alone... But still....I sense her loneliness when she's staring out that rainy window.... I agree with the old geezer up top, seems weird
fir a single young adult this girl has a WAAAAAAY nicer house than I do
I could have written/drawn this (not as well of course) and added 100 more reasons as well. Realistic and charming, beautiful artwork! Thanks.........
Well good for there artist for having places that look like that while they are single. Must have tons of MONEYYY.
The woman is me......that house w the plants is my home..that furry is my Mocha...This blissful life is mine...and I absolutely love it!!!!
I'm retired and my rule is that we should all do "whatever we damn well please" (tho the phrase must be said in a lilting voice with Damn being emphasized beyond the norm.) I don't do all these things, but . . . DO see the early morning sky start to lighten up occasionally before heading to bed.
This is rather silly. You can do almost all those things living with a bf. That's just something a sat single person came up with.
And what does this person do that she can work when she wants and afford a massive apartment to live in by herself?
Wow. Except for two illustrations I have experienced all of those scenarios with two minor differences: the dog is replaced by my penis, which i am "petting" vigorously.....
Ah, to be young and wealthy enough to have a beautiful house and garden and never have to go to work for The Man.
I have never understood the panic over being alone, at any age. I have always enjoyed my alone-time, haven't had more than a few partners over the years, but I have never felt lonely. I feel free, I can do whatever I want, without having another person in my personal space, because like it or not, we do put on a performance if we are with someone. We try to look our best, not make fool of ourselves, we wonder what the other person think of us, and what we do. But alone, I can do what I like, without wondering if it shocks people, or think I'm nasty (when I fart), or look disgusted if I put my feet on my table. I love being alone. It's my power position.
I gotta wonder if the artist is from Disney. These all have a curious Disney feel to them and I also noticed a lot of disney characters spread here and there (Stitch, Flounder, Mickey, a mug that looks like Mike Wazowski...)
is that the deathly hallows on her tshirt in the 10pic? haha she is a Harry potter fan
that is if you can work from home. otherwise, that's basically my weekend :D
that is if you work from home. otherwise, that's basically my weekend. puppy included :D
I'm not sure how accurate you are at capturing the feeling of living alone, I've never done it before but your art work is beautiful the use of colours, the story that the pictures tell in a single frame are just mesmerising. Well done.
omg I looooooved this so much! Such beautiful pictures, I smiled on so many of these. Thank you so much <3
I do all of these things and so does my girlfriend, and we live together. It's amazing when you are completely happy and can just be yourself around your partner.
Well I enjoy all of these with and without my wife of 11 years and our fur-baby Freya but then again myaybe we're the exception to the rule as we thankfully don't have kids and both work for ourselves from home.
Happy and healthy compromise...Hubby and I take separate vacations (in addition to the one together) The person who stays home has just as much fun as the one who goes away (sometimes even more fun) Find a life partner you can trust so you can enjoy your days of solitude with a peaceful state of mind.
Well, based on how much she eats she should have been drawn obese. There is no way she can afford a house that nice with a job as an illustrator, and in the pic where she's cuddling with her dog at night she looks depressed and lonely.
I wish people would stop complaining about this comic. Obviously it's meant for the gorgeous illustrations and not for practical reasons
I'm not sure this captures 'living alone'. It definitely nails 'living rich', though :-)
At least we can see from these pictures that only women live alone. Phew, men don't have to be overly defensive and use these pictures as a crutch. Hmm...
Pictures are really nice, I like them, but most of those things I can do being married. If I couldn't I wouldn't be in my relationship ;)
At first she is not really living alone, what about her dog? and second I never lived all by myself but still have done and do most of these things. Yet these are really nice illustrations! :)
While right now I'm in the middle of a divorce, I know I want to spend my life with another woman. Life alone might be okay for some people, I want to share my life experiences with a special woman.
In some of the illustrations she looks so sad and lonely. Binge eating...ummm...then you feel sick, gross and depress.
Not a single activity here that can't be done living with other people..... door + lock.
So, living alone means being a slob? Apparently, she also has no friends or family, since they are never pictured.
Literally, that looks like most of my days and I've been in a relationship for 10 years.
Best part of living alone is being able to pleasure yourself whenever you wish and to whatever turns you on!
Honestly, I do all those same things living in a house with 8. It is easier to portrait a relaxed life living alone, but community rules
To each their own. I personally love the artwork, but I was alone for far too long because I was ostracized. To me that was not bliss but solitary confinement. I enjoy being alone periodically, but I would never give up the time I have with my wife and my children. I pray to never be alone again.
My landlord would kick me out the house if I did half of the things on this list. Especially the painting one.
You really don't need to be alone for these things though. With the exception of marking your territory and leaving your hairs everywhere (both equally gross and I would never do those even if living alone), me and my wife both do all of these things, when together, alone, or even with our daughter.
I lived with my mom & brother well into my 20's. I ended up moving out (with my dog, of course), but 14 months later I moved back home. I was so miserable and lonely without my family, I was used to living with other people for so long, being alone 24/7 was like Hell. Being antisocial and having terrible anxiety, I never went out with friends, or went out to do anything. I'm so glad I was able to move back home.
The only difference with this is there isn't another person in the illustration. The only difference as to being single as to a relationship.
"I am completely depressed, but I try to convince myself I am not..." 😂
You've obviously never felt the joy of real solitude. Sad ;)
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How can she afford her own house??. Where I live just renting a room is $800 minimum and can cost up to $1,300 in other parts. :'(
Ther are so beaurifully done, i will forgive the missleading title . She lives with her dog ^_^
They totally thought....not having to put on pants because nobody cares.
I'm a bit tired of the theme even if I can relate, but I absolutely love the drawings so one up from me :)
If you share your home with an animal, you're not really alone. How happy would she be if she were truly alone. And what drives someone do over thirty pieces of art about being happy while being "alone". That's not proving a point, that's writing a book... or attempting to start a movement. As a "loner" type and an artist, this seems more like a paen to living life with a social anxiety disorder.
Also, being happy while being alone is one thing... being happy because you're alone is another.
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I am almost 33. I have realized I have never lived alone. My parents and brothers growing up. To roommates in college and apartments. To wife and son now. I have no idea what it's like to not share a home with someone
Lucky you, because having people around is way better.
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I wish I could afford to live alone in a house that nice! Though I'm not sure why living alone is imperative to going for a walk.
Well, I think you forgot the best one yet: Moving around in underwear or not at all.
The drawings are beautiful but the story is too sad. I hope she has a rich social life outside the house and a significant other (not the canine type) to cuddle with. Otherwise two years from not she may post drawings about the realities of depression.
I don't think it's sad at all - she's comfortable and happy in her own conpany. That's a sign of great mental health, and something some people spend a lifetime trying to achieve. Whether a partner could expand that happiness or not, who knows?! I don't personally believe a partner is necessary for a full and complete life. But I do agree - these pics are beautiful!
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I used to be afraid of living alone but now I think it would be nice and relaxing and I would get to live how I want to live, but I also would like the company of a woman sometimes to spend the night with or special times with. Unfortunately, most women and I don't mix very well so I would need special time with a robot woman! lol.
... is it just me or does this whole post seem like someone with no responsibilities = living alone? (i.e. cleaning up after yourself or taking care of yourself or your surroundings) and just "living in the moment and being free" is the whole point of this? if you find a friend and partner or get married... you can literally do all of these things even after you're married... as long as you're both interested in "living in the moment" and not cleaning up after yourselves... or being healthy .... .... .... too cynical? lol
They showing a miserable woman all alone with just a stupid dog in her life. Of course is nice to have quiet and me time sometimes but this loneliness and misery the depict in this illustration is soooooooo depressing.
She failed to find the man with the soul like her. If girl and boy, woman and man fits each to other then they help each other in domestic affairs and make the nights more warm and pleasant But here is one real problem - created by silly women! When woman raises a boy she often to not teach him to help mama in domestic works, to arrange his room and wash his plates. So such the boy may be unconvenient partner in the mutual living in the family! And later the article occurs like published above: "As we, silly women did not teach our sons for the family life, so it is better to stay alone than to have such the "unconvenient husband"!
Oops. XD watching tv and commenting at the same time. Uh, it made most of these better for me, or I could still do them. With a young kid a lot of these things werent really doable, but I know there'll be time for it later. As far as I'm concerned it's the best of both worlds that way :3
Load More Replies... At her age I would never have thought of such a thing. Being alone would have been so depressing. But now at 73, I love my solitude more than almost anything else. My Charlie shares my bed at night, and I can do pretty much what I wish, because I'm self-employed, and my shop is in my basement. But what seems so natural to me looks a bit out of place with someone so young, and by all appearances content with herself. Of course, I suffer from depression and she obviously doesn't. 🤔
Oh John, I always love your comments on Boredpanda. You seem to be such a gentle and loving person! Take care of yourself 😊😊
Load More Replies... I think the ultimate form of freedom when living alone is going to the toilet without closing the door! :D
Unless you have a pet....and then you're never going to the toilet alone ever again.
Load More Replies... I think that it is as beautiful as it is educative! YES a woman is able to live alone and enjoying it, it's not sad it's AWESOME! I live alone and dont want a partner or kids, i'm fine, i do what i want when i want, i'm so free to do anything, everything. I travel the world alone and i enjoy the fact that i'm totally free to meet people, to know people as want, and i travel to the middle east a lot without any fear. Leaving alone is really good for confidence, i can repair my dryer or my boiler without any help, repair anything and cooking really good... Self-sufficiency is an accomplishment, not a sad thing at all. What i find sad is my friends who are relationship because "its time", "it's for the kids"... because of social pressure and they don't share anything, they are not living together they are living parrallel lives and are not happy at all. Life is short, don't waste it to please others.
Living with others doesn't hurt my self sufficiency tbh. But you're right, getting into a relationship and not being in the relationship on a connective level is sad.
Load More Replies... i love the drawings but to be honest.... if you can't do 99,9% of all these things while being in a relationship, the problem is not the fact that you are in a relationship. It is either the s****y attitude of your partner, or your own misguided notion that it would not be ok to do these things. But lovely drawings. nice atmosphere.
That's what I thought too... if you can't do those things because someone else lives in the house, either your relationship with that person (be it a friend, or family, or a partner) is not very good, or you're way too sensitive to what others will think of you. I live with my elderly father, I do pretty much all of this. I do most of it at my best friends' house when I stay over too.
Load More Replies... I love both the pictures and the sentiment here - absolutely beautiful! I think sometimes people fear being alone - these pics capture the beauty and contentment in enjoying your own company.
I agree Daria. When we are young and virile, being alone can be a wonderful time to enjoy things that are impossible around others. But after awhile, reality kicks in and..................
Load More Replies... I don't know what this all has to do with being single... I do ALL of these things either way and don't give a darn about what anyone thinks...
I am not as cute (nor have I ever been) but I am really happy to see a beautiful depiction of a confident happy woman living alone. Obviously, I also have moments where I wish I wasn't alone (Usually when having to lift something heavy or watching something funny and there is noone around to laugh about it with me) but very often it is exactly like shown. And I think if there was a more positive image in the media about living alone, not so many people would remain in incredibly unhappy relationships.
so... basically being single is being a lazy slob. that's what you get from those pictures.
I really like the artwork. For the social comment : sometimes i love being alone and sometimes i can't stand it. you've just got to choose for yourself whichone you need the most. But i doubt most people living alone will ever release their inner artist that way or do half of the images. Living together for me also means giving eachother space for themselves sometimes.
When we are alone, TIME is not a concern. Our activities depend on mood rather than time.
I do best when my family's gone and all the house is for me. I draw, jump around, read, write my book and spend time on dreaming in my degus or my dog' s company. I think that the artist is basically my soul mate, the four only things that distinguish me are my firm belief that spending free time to care for my look is worthless, the fact that I hate finding my hairs everywhere, my drawing style that makes me incapable of drawing people well and my rather short temper. ;)
No need to be so messy i find my place is spotless cause the only one making the mess is yourself! Laundry builds up but unless you mix your items and colours!
But the luxury of being alone is also not having to care! Though I'm like that too, less people means less mess 😜
Load More Replies... it's sad that someone would think being in a live-in relationship makes all of those things impossible. I can eat all I want, whenever I want, even with a partner being in the house and he would never judge me or Interrupt me. If he did, he wouldn't be my partner.
On fb people have been hating over this harmless post. If it doesn't relate to you just stfu.
And you can tell you found the one when you can keep doing all that an be together. Not saying you all should find someone, just saying you can enjoy life as much alone or with someone. Except for the hair part... that's disgusting even when living alone... lol
I am alone for 10 years, I can do all that, but sadly I would trade all that for person who loves me. It is fun when you're young thou. I am lucky to have my teen child and a cat, but they are just about messy as me, so we all three live like on this pictures. Still miss someone fourth, as messy and laid back as us, to love me, well I am human.
Wow, by seeing all your picture, feels like im happy single and alone.. and theres a lot to do alone and surely fun.. love all your pictures
I'm just sitting here wondering WHAT IN THE HELL DID YOU DO WITH LILO AND STITCH?! I've been alone pretty much my entire life. I'm 40 and the normies have always been a little supicious and frankly s****y towards people who stand alone. You get enough abuse as a kid you learn to stay the f**k away, WAY away, from people. At some point in adolescence they declare you defective and possibly dangerous. I didn't realize the "normies" found basic time alone stuff to be an alien concept. Interesting.
As a dad I can definitely find the silver lining in alone time, which is rare and usually in the bathroom. But those quiet moments make being with my wife and son all the more special!
It could be great for some time but over time you will want to share with someone else..💑
Well, I think you forgot the best one yet: Moving around in underwear or not at all. Otherwise, it's really depressing living alone...
I do all those things except I do them with my partner rather than a dog. That seems sad. Also we get our daily 4hrs alone time as she works since morning and I afternoon :)
Same here. My wife and I do these both together and alone (she works nights roughly about 3 days a week, so there's plenty of alone time when she sleeps during the day and is gone at night and also plenty of time together to do these)
Load More Replies... Pesonally I have given up believing that I will ever be loved or in a relationship. All my dreams have been shattered, time and time again.
I am single and do not need any cartoon reminder of the advantages of being single. This seems to me kind of justification for oneself when feeling lonely, in that there are advantages in being single. When you are single of course you can do what you want, but you also need to set rules, if you do not want to end up like the hoarders tv series. Hygiene and order are not optional. And sometimes you have bad days too, like i don't stand myself. BTW, there is no illustration of when she has those bad days aka period. is she content in those days too? I don't think so.
Loneliness is NOT living alone. Loneliness is living with the wrong person, that is a never-ending heartbreaking soul-aching mind-numbing loneliness that never ends.
This list makes no sense! If you can't do all that with your husband, fiancee, bf, whatever... around, then you have chosen wrong! This list is simply: what you can do with your loved one because you can.
I do not live alone, but i must confess that i relish those days that my husband has to work and i have the house to myself for the day. I see alot of myself in these illustrations. I really just wanted to comment on the ARTIST'S mastering of light......moon light, light from the computer monitor, bright sun light, low rainy-day light..........all very effective to create a mood. Beautiful work.
Seems like the cat only makes cameo appearances cuz all you hear about is the pup more than anything lol.
love it!!! <3 i live with my pup and i feel happy and free <3 i wouldn´t change this for noone
Great sketches but unfortunately most people need to work to afford such a house. Unlike this lazy girl who does nothing but stretch, eat snacks and cuddle.
did anyone else catch all the disney characters in those illustrations? mugs, stuffed animals, dog toys, etc! loved these, so great! & who hasn't noticed or made shapes with their hair in the shower?! haha maybe it's an artist thing. her illustrations were fantastic though, the walks, baths & puppy snuggle drawings were all so relaxing 💕
The illustrations are lovely but, I don't currently own a dog and I can do all those things with my girlfriend around (and enjoy them more for sharing the experience with her).
Reading is great, and you need to do it alone. But living alone is for the dispossessed. I hope you have a relationship-filled day.
Cool art, ignorant statement. Living alone is more like working 35+hours a week, so you really don't have time to do any of that stuff because you're at work, and you're definitely not "Working whenever you feel like it" you're working when your boss says your to work, that is, unless you come the Upper Middle-Class / Upper class and have a rich family that will pay for your housing, at which point you can do this sort of thing....
I'm 20years old, and will be moving out in a year or so. The idea of having room mates sounds hectic and could damage the relationship I have with that person. So living alone I think would be better. I can have company over on my time, when I feel like having it. Plus I can sleep butt naked, and wake up with a nice butt scratch, then make breakfast naked. I cannot wait.
Walking around naked??? That's what I do whenever my roommate's not home!
People tend to confuse living alone with being alone. When I lived alone, I was also very lonely, but there were days where it was nice and peaceful. Now that I am married and have two kids, I relish the times I have the house to myself.
You can do all of that with significant other too you can share your solitude, combine it with the one who you heart choose
If you can't do all of these things when your partner is around, you need a new partner lol
Looks more like someone, who longs for someone to share all these moments with. Cool artwork though!👍😊
So living alone means being a fat slob that talks to herself because she is wealthy enough to afford a palatial Midwestern estate? Must be nice.
I dont know how other's relationships are, but the girl in these illustrations lives just like my girlfriend. and we live together. besides the waking up part and messing around the bathroom, she lives just as free as this girl. And does the same things. I think people should stop being so judgmental and free them selves of their fear of being judged.
Well, with a pet she's not turkey alone... But still....I sense her loneliness when she's staring out that rainy window.... I agree with the old geezer up top, seems weird
fir a single young adult this girl has a WAAAAAAY nicer house than I do
I could have written/drawn this (not as well of course) and added 100 more reasons as well. Realistic and charming, beautiful artwork! Thanks.........
Well good for there artist for having places that look like that while they are single. Must have tons of MONEYYY.
The woman is me......that house w the plants is my home..that furry is my Mocha...This blissful life is mine...and I absolutely love it!!!!
I'm retired and my rule is that we should all do "whatever we damn well please" (tho the phrase must be said in a lilting voice with Damn being emphasized beyond the norm.) I don't do all these things, but . . . DO see the early morning sky start to lighten up occasionally before heading to bed.
This is rather silly. You can do almost all those things living with a bf. That's just something a sat single person came up with.
And what does this person do that she can work when she wants and afford a massive apartment to live in by herself?
Wow. Except for two illustrations I have experienced all of those scenarios with two minor differences: the dog is replaced by my penis, which i am "petting" vigorously.....
Ah, to be young and wealthy enough to have a beautiful house and garden and never have to go to work for The Man.
I have never understood the panic over being alone, at any age. I have always enjoyed my alone-time, haven't had more than a few partners over the years, but I have never felt lonely. I feel free, I can do whatever I want, without having another person in my personal space, because like it or not, we do put on a performance if we are with someone. We try to look our best, not make fool of ourselves, we wonder what the other person think of us, and what we do. But alone, I can do what I like, without wondering if it shocks people, or think I'm nasty (when I fart), or look disgusted if I put my feet on my table. I love being alone. It's my power position.
I gotta wonder if the artist is from Disney. These all have a curious Disney feel to them and I also noticed a lot of disney characters spread here and there (Stitch, Flounder, Mickey, a mug that looks like Mike Wazowski...)
is that the deathly hallows on her tshirt in the 10pic? haha she is a Harry potter fan
that is if you can work from home. otherwise, that's basically my weekend :D
that is if you work from home. otherwise, that's basically my weekend. puppy included :D
I'm not sure how accurate you are at capturing the feeling of living alone, I've never done it before but your art work is beautiful the use of colours, the story that the pictures tell in a single frame are just mesmerising. Well done.
omg I looooooved this so much! Such beautiful pictures, I smiled on so many of these. Thank you so much <3
I do all of these things and so does my girlfriend, and we live together. It's amazing when you are completely happy and can just be yourself around your partner.
Well I enjoy all of these with and without my wife of 11 years and our fur-baby Freya but then again myaybe we're the exception to the rule as we thankfully don't have kids and both work for ourselves from home.
Happy and healthy compromise...Hubby and I take separate vacations (in addition to the one together) The person who stays home has just as much fun as the one who goes away (sometimes even more fun) Find a life partner you can trust so you can enjoy your days of solitude with a peaceful state of mind.
Well, based on how much she eats she should have been drawn obese. There is no way she can afford a house that nice with a job as an illustrator, and in the pic where she's cuddling with her dog at night she looks depressed and lonely.
I wish people would stop complaining about this comic. Obviously it's meant for the gorgeous illustrations and not for practical reasons
I'm not sure this captures 'living alone'. It definitely nails 'living rich', though :-)
At least we can see from these pictures that only women live alone. Phew, men don't have to be overly defensive and use these pictures as a crutch. Hmm...
Pictures are really nice, I like them, but most of those things I can do being married. If I couldn't I wouldn't be in my relationship ;)
At first she is not really living alone, what about her dog? and second I never lived all by myself but still have done and do most of these things. Yet these are really nice illustrations! :)
While right now I'm in the middle of a divorce, I know I want to spend my life with another woman. Life alone might be okay for some people, I want to share my life experiences with a special woman.
In some of the illustrations she looks so sad and lonely. Binge eating...ummm...then you feel sick, gross and depress.
Not a single activity here that can't be done living with other people..... door + lock.
So, living alone means being a slob? Apparently, she also has no friends or family, since they are never pictured.
Literally, that looks like most of my days and I've been in a relationship for 10 years.
Best part of living alone is being able to pleasure yourself whenever you wish and to whatever turns you on!
Honestly, I do all those same things living in a house with 8. It is easier to portrait a relaxed life living alone, but community rules
To each their own. I personally love the artwork, but I was alone for far too long because I was ostracized. To me that was not bliss but solitary confinement. I enjoy being alone periodically, but I would never give up the time I have with my wife and my children. I pray to never be alone again.
My landlord would kick me out the house if I did half of the things on this list. Especially the painting one.
You really don't need to be alone for these things though. With the exception of marking your territory and leaving your hairs everywhere (both equally gross and I would never do those even if living alone), me and my wife both do all of these things, when together, alone, or even with our daughter.
I lived with my mom & brother well into my 20's. I ended up moving out (with my dog, of course), but 14 months later I moved back home. I was so miserable and lonely without my family, I was used to living with other people for so long, being alone 24/7 was like Hell. Being antisocial and having terrible anxiety, I never went out with friends, or went out to do anything. I'm so glad I was able to move back home.
The only difference with this is there isn't another person in the illustration. The only difference as to being single as to a relationship.
"I am completely depressed, but I try to convince myself I am not..." 😂
You've obviously never felt the joy of real solitude. Sad ;)
Load More Replies... How can she afford her own house??. Where I live just renting a room is $800 minimum and can cost up to $1,300 in other parts. :'(
Ther are so beaurifully done, i will forgive the missleading title . She lives with her dog ^_^
They totally thought....not having to put on pants because nobody cares.
I'm a bit tired of the theme even if I can relate, but I absolutely love the drawings so one up from me :)
If you share your home with an animal, you're not really alone. How happy would she be if she were truly alone. And what drives someone do over thirty pieces of art about being happy while being "alone". That's not proving a point, that's writing a book... or attempting to start a movement. As a "loner" type and an artist, this seems more like a paen to living life with a social anxiety disorder.
Also, being happy while being alone is one thing... being happy because you're alone is another.
Load More Replies... I am almost 33. I have realized I have never lived alone. My parents and brothers growing up. To roommates in college and apartments. To wife and son now. I have no idea what it's like to not share a home with someone
Lucky you, because having people around is way better.
Load More Replies... I wish I could afford to live alone in a house that nice! Though I'm not sure why living alone is imperative to going for a walk.
Well, I think you forgot the best one yet: Moving around in underwear or not at all.
The drawings are beautiful but the story is too sad. I hope she has a rich social life outside the house and a significant other (not the canine type) to cuddle with. Otherwise two years from not she may post drawings about the realities of depression.
I don't think it's sad at all - she's comfortable and happy in her own conpany. That's a sign of great mental health, and something some people spend a lifetime trying to achieve. Whether a partner could expand that happiness or not, who knows?! I don't personally believe a partner is necessary for a full and complete life. But I do agree - these pics are beautiful!
Load More Replies... I used to be afraid of living alone but now I think it would be nice and relaxing and I would get to live how I want to live, but I also would like the company of a woman sometimes to spend the night with or special times with. Unfortunately, most women and I don't mix very well so I would need special time with a robot woman! lol.
... is it just me or does this whole post seem like someone with no responsibilities = living alone? (i.e. cleaning up after yourself or taking care of yourself or your surroundings) and just "living in the moment and being free" is the whole point of this? if you find a friend and partner or get married... you can literally do all of these things even after you're married... as long as you're both interested in "living in the moment" and not cleaning up after yourselves... or being healthy .... .... .... too cynical? lol
They showing a miserable woman all alone with just a stupid dog in her life. Of course is nice to have quiet and me time sometimes but this loneliness and misery the depict in this illustration is soooooooo depressing.
She failed to find the man with the soul like her. If girl and boy, woman and man fits each to other then they help each other in domestic affairs and make the nights more warm and pleasant But here is one real problem - created by silly women! When woman raises a boy she often to not teach him to help mama in domestic works, to arrange his room and wash his plates. So such the boy may be unconvenient partner in the mutual living in the family! And later the article occurs like published above: "As we, silly women did not teach our sons for the family life, so it is better to stay alone than to have such the "unconvenient husband"!
Oops. XD watching tv and commenting at the same time. Uh, it made most of these better for me, or I could still do them. With a young kid a lot of these things werent really doable, but I know there'll be time for it later. As far as I'm concerned it's the best of both worlds that way :3
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