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Guy Shares Advice On What Is Truly “Sexy” When You’re Married
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Guy Shares Advice On What Is Truly “Sexy” When You’re Married

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By this point, it’s quite clear that the fashion media, influencers, and a number of other players in the industry are setting certain standards for beauty and sexiness. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder, remember? Who’s to say what’s sexy and what’s not if not ourselves, right?

Well, we have one man who has deviated from the “traditional” sense of sexiness and turned everyone’s eyes to what is truly sexy by posting some exemplary selfies on his Facebook.

And it’s all of him cleaning the family house.

Looking hot can be a sexy thing,sure, but do you know what is even sexier? Cleaning up around the house!

Image credits: Corey Peters

Meet Corey Peters, a dad from Rehobeth, Alabama, who has decided to share his insights on what “sexy” means when you’re a family man.

No, it’s not about striking sexy poses for pics with fancy Instagram filters in exotic locations with a kid in your arms. It’s actually as simple as cleaning the house and showing a positive example as a husband who helps out around the house as well as a dad who’s showing what a clean and tidy home ought to look like. When you think about it, it brings a whole new meaning to “talk dirty to me”.

Meet Corey Peters, an Alabaman dad who posted selfies to redefine what “sexy” truly means

Image credits: Corey Peters

Corey posted a handful of selfies of him cleaning up the house with a caption explaining what “sexy” really is:

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“After being with a woman for 7 years, I promise you there ain’t nothing sexier than sending her some [hot flame emoji] pics like this. If you guys think your relationship is getting kinda stale, send her some sexy s@#$ like these and I promise she’ll be all over you when she gets home. #yourwelcome #sexierthannudes”

The pictures essentially include Corey on the left, giving a thumbs-up, blowing a kiss or just smiling, with the “before” and “after” look of the location he’s cleaning on the right. He’s seen cleaning up the living room, the kids’ room, the laundry room, the bedroom, the kitchen, and other locations around the house.

“After being with a woman for 7 years, I promise you there ain’t nothing sexier than sending her some [hot flame emoji] pics like this”

Image credits: Corey Peters

As for how messy the place actually is, it’s for you to decide: toys, drawing supplies, children’s books, and an improvised bed (a.k.a. just a mattress) scattered on the floor, a glob of clothing on an unmade bed, laundry needing attention, dishes needing to be washed, things needing some dusting, and so on.

And you can even see some of the culprits of probably half of this mess—one of Corey’s two daughters is seen in one of the photos rifling through her drawing implements in a very kid fashion by throwing it all on the floor. There are also two puppers in the household, but they might not have been a part of the chaos.

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Corey is seen cleaning the living room and bedroom, doing the laundry, washing dishes, among other things

Image credits: Corey Peters

Roughly half of the entire mess seems to be caused by the kids, judging by the toys, books, and coloring implements

Image credits: Corey Peters

Yeh, yeh, that’s all a joke, I know, but it’s one hell of a joke because soon after posting the “sexy” pics, literally tens of thousands of people saw it, gaining 96,000 reactions with over 98,000 comments and over 420,000 shares on Facebook alone.

It goes without saying that people loved the pictures very much. Many found it hilarious, with some joking that this guy figured out all women everywhere with his sexy cleaning trick, with others saying that they have been doing the same for ages, except they just didn’t take any photos.

The pictures got over 96k reactions with over 98k comments and 420k shares on Facebook

Image credits: Corey Peters

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Image credits: Corey Peters

Now, if you like messy places, Bored Panda has covered a similar story where ladies of TikTok were comparing what their homes looked like and the nightmares that were their boyfriends’ places, cleanliness-wise. But before you leave us, why not let us know what you thought about these “sexy” pics in the comment section below!

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Some time ago, Robertas used to spend his days watching how deep the imprint in his chair will become as he wrote for Bored Panda. Wrote about pretty much everything under and beyond the sun. Not anymore, though. He's now probably playing Gwent or hosting Dungeons and Dragons adventures for those with an inclination for chaos.

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Robertas Lisickis

Robertas Lisickis

Author, BoredPanda staff

Some time ago, Robertas used to spend his days watching how deep the imprint in his chair will become as he wrote for Bored Panda. Wrote about pretty much everything under and beyond the sun. Not anymore, though. He's now probably playing Gwent or hosting Dungeons and Dragons adventures for those with an inclination for chaos.

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Mimi M
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is true and I've told it to a lot of guys. What stands in between a woman and feeling sexy (a lot of the time) is STRESS. Lessen her stress, you free her to feel sexy. Of course this means treating her with respect and caring in general, not just re cleaning.

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Honu
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So true. I would add to that: Having your partner act like another child is a massive turnoff. Not only can it breed resentment, it can kill the admiration and respect we want to have for our partners. If someone is working your last nerve all day, not showing that they care by sharing the tedious, unpleasant work involved in running a home, it's hard to get excited about them at the end of the day. Personally, that's not a switch I can just flip on and off.

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Juniper
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bar for men is set so low its a tavern in Hades.

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Toasty
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, that was funny. You made me laugh at something I didn't agree with. Congrats.

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K.G.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When women clean up do they also get applause and internet articles about how sexy they are?

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JessG
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No because women take initiative and clean anyway, I would say that lots of men do not

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s not really sexy, it’s just responsible and considerate and maybe even sweet to a certain extent. A grown man doing his share of the chores isn’t anything special, and it isn’t sexy. It’s just normal. Sexy is sexy. I feel sorry for women with such a low bar.

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Savanna Sawyer
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They got twin girls!!!!??? (Look at the toy room one, they have two of everything)

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Helen Haley
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nothing sexier than a man who can take care of himself and his kids. This is also good advice for single men dating.

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922Terry
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just watched a U Tube video of a woman reenacting what a 50's housewife did daily including wearing the clothes & girdle. You make a Gr8 2020's guy who helps out around the house! Roles may flip & return but one thing is for sure, a partner helps no matter the era or what sex they are. It's called being good to each other!

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Zophra
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I realize this is funny, but it hit me a different way as woman. This might not be a popular opinion, but if a woman cleans up, well, that's her job and responsibility. If a guy cleans up the house that he lives in and also contributes to the mess... somehow women laud that as special enough to deem as "sexy." This feels like women gushing when a father "babysits" his own children.

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Bob Belcher
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Saturday routine I get so much done by multi tasking. Start the laundry, them do the dishes. Make breakfast for our daughter. By time that's done the first load of laundry is done. Put that in the dryer and then I make breakfast for myself. After about 45 minutes the dishes are done and so is the dryer. Empty the dryer and put the second load in. Empty dish washer and then clean the stove top and counters. Bam. Just did all that in by 10am. Every Saturday.

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EVERLEIGH
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sexy is truly in the eyes of the beholder for sure! When I see my husband as being sexy, it's when he is being an awesome dad to our kids and when he does things for me ( sometimes without even being asked). So, sexiness can definitely can defined in so many ways.

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Becca Gizmo the Squirrel
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, and, doing or undoing things you have done. Like open closet-SHUT CLOSET. Get something out of drawer-PUT BACK IN DRAWER. Get shirt off hanger and change mind-PUT BACK ON HANGER! Simple things.

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Rachel Reynolds
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd settle for putting the clothes IN the hamper, not in front of the hamper. My husband really does help out a lot, but that just drives me nuts.

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zovjraar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

when i come home to a clean house- that i didn't have to do- i'm immediately in the mood.

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Damon Gates
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminds me of a "Porn for Women" calendar that had male models with captions like, "The Super Bowl is on today? Terrific! There should be plenty of parking at the craft fair we're going to this afternoon!"

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Stille20
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously! If I'm worrying about the food from dinner sticking on to unwashed dishes, I can't be concentrating on other things.

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Steve Cruz
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for Corey! This is his house and those are his kids, too. Now if he does this every day without expecting congratulations, that is super super sexy, and what every partner should do.

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Ruth Beaty
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Works for me!! Fortunately my husband and I were both messy, lol, but he loved coming home to the smell of cooking.

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Frenchiefan
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love how he flashes his necklace in the “sexy” pic, a little extra to fit the part.

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Jessica Bertram
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

mmmm...I'm going to say 'no'. He is not doing her any favors here, he is doing what a partner SHOULD do: share the mental load of running the household. He does not deserve a bj for that, and should not expect her in lingerie as a thank-you either. 🙄 glad mine just DOES stuffs, without expecting me to shower him with praise. (and same goes for me...i neither need nor expect praise for completion of chores). Romance looks different for every couple, to be sure, and maybe she specifically responds to 'acts of service'...then great for them....but it's reductive to say it's good for everyone or that this is modeling healthy behavior.

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Treessimontrees
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Robovac, Robomop are one less job to do on the floors. If someone could invent one for dusting next please.

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Honu
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really do love my robovac. It runs every day and helps get rid of the daily dust and pet hair between deeper vacuuming. I still need to pull out the big one about once a week, but it helps keep the place looking much better day to day.

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Arctic Fox Lover
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3 years ago

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Just... Just teach your wife and kids how to clean up after themselves.

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Mimi M
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is true and I've told it to a lot of guys. What stands in between a woman and feeling sexy (a lot of the time) is STRESS. Lessen her stress, you free her to feel sexy. Of course this means treating her with respect and caring in general, not just re cleaning.

alisa-fender avatar
Honu
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So true. I would add to that: Having your partner act like another child is a massive turnoff. Not only can it breed resentment, it can kill the admiration and respect we want to have for our partners. If someone is working your last nerve all day, not showing that they care by sharing the tedious, unpleasant work involved in running a home, it's hard to get excited about them at the end of the day. Personally, that's not a switch I can just flip on and off.

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tristessa avatar
Juniper
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bar for men is set so low its a tavern in Hades.

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Toasty
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, that was funny. You made me laugh at something I didn't agree with. Congrats.

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K.G.
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When women clean up do they also get applause and internet articles about how sexy they are?

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JessG
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No because women take initiative and clean anyway, I would say that lots of men do not

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Mewton’s Third Paw
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s not really sexy, it’s just responsible and considerate and maybe even sweet to a certain extent. A grown man doing his share of the chores isn’t anything special, and it isn’t sexy. It’s just normal. Sexy is sexy. I feel sorry for women with such a low bar.

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Savanna Sawyer
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They got twin girls!!!!??? (Look at the toy room one, they have two of everything)

sammyanne1_sh avatar
Helen Haley
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nothing sexier than a man who can take care of himself and his kids. This is also good advice for single men dating.

shakirawheelden avatar
922terry avatar
922Terry
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just watched a U Tube video of a woman reenacting what a 50's housewife did daily including wearing the clothes & girdle. You make a Gr8 2020's guy who helps out around the house! Roles may flip & return but one thing is for sure, a partner helps no matter the era or what sex they are. It's called being good to each other!

delphinum4 avatar
Zophra
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I realize this is funny, but it hit me a different way as woman. This might not be a popular opinion, but if a woman cleans up, well, that's her job and responsibility. If a guy cleans up the house that he lives in and also contributes to the mess... somehow women laud that as special enough to deem as "sexy." This feels like women gushing when a father "babysits" his own children.

drummerkramer avatar
Bob Belcher
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Saturday routine I get so much done by multi tasking. Start the laundry, them do the dishes. Make breakfast for our daughter. By time that's done the first load of laundry is done. Put that in the dryer and then I make breakfast for myself. After about 45 minutes the dishes are done and so is the dryer. Empty the dryer and put the second load in. Empty dish washer and then clean the stove top and counters. Bam. Just did all that in by 10am. Every Saturday.

mekalaw avatar
EVERLEIGH
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sexy is truly in the eyes of the beholder for sure! When I see my husband as being sexy, it's when he is being an awesome dad to our kids and when he does things for me ( sometimes without even being asked). So, sexiness can definitely can defined in so many ways.

jacobbeccagizmothesquirrel avatar
Becca Gizmo the Squirrel
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, and, doing or undoing things you have done. Like open closet-SHUT CLOSET. Get something out of drawer-PUT BACK IN DRAWER. Get shirt off hanger and change mind-PUT BACK ON HANGER! Simple things.

rachelreynolds avatar
Rachel Reynolds
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd settle for putting the clothes IN the hamper, not in front of the hamper. My husband really does help out a lot, but that just drives me nuts.

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zovjraar avatar
zovjraar
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

when i come home to a clean house- that i didn't have to do- i'm immediately in the mood.

damonrn avatar
Damon Gates
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminds me of a "Porn for Women" calendar that had male models with captions like, "The Super Bowl is on today? Terrific! There should be plenty of parking at the craft fair we're going to this afternoon!"

hazelree avatar
Stille20
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously! If I'm worrying about the food from dinner sticking on to unwashed dishes, I can't be concentrating on other things.

cruzarts avatar
Steve Cruz
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for Corey! This is his house and those are his kids, too. Now if he does this every day without expecting congratulations, that is super super sexy, and what every partner should do.

beatyruth avatar
Ruth Beaty
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Works for me!! Fortunately my husband and I were both messy, lol, but he loved coming home to the smell of cooking.

robinrhea avatar
Frenchiefan
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love how he flashes his necklace in the “sexy” pic, a little extra to fit the part.

jessica-bertram1 avatar
Jessica Bertram
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

mmmm...I'm going to say 'no'. He is not doing her any favors here, he is doing what a partner SHOULD do: share the mental load of running the household. He does not deserve a bj for that, and should not expect her in lingerie as a thank-you either. 🙄 glad mine just DOES stuffs, without expecting me to shower him with praise. (and same goes for me...i neither need nor expect praise for completion of chores). Romance looks different for every couple, to be sure, and maybe she specifically responds to 'acts of service'...then great for them....but it's reductive to say it's good for everyone or that this is modeling healthy behavior.

simon_37 avatar
Treessimontrees
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Robovac, Robomop are one less job to do on the floors. If someone could invent one for dusting next please.

alisa-fender avatar
Honu
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really do love my robovac. It runs every day and helps get rid of the daily dust and pet hair between deeper vacuuming. I still need to pull out the big one about once a week, but it helps keep the place looking much better day to day.

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Arctic Fox Lover
Community Member
3 years ago

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Just... Just teach your wife and kids how to clean up after themselves.

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