Scary Girlfriend Set 22 Rules For Her Boyfriend, So The Internet Gave Him Some Surprising Advice
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Every relationship has its own rules. Mostly implied, sometimes spoken. But one scary girlfriend decided to put it in writing and list every demand she had for her man. The insane dating rules probably would have remained between the two of them, if it wasn’t for a surprising turn of events. You wouldn’t share such intimate details yourself, no matter how crazy your girlfriend was, right?
The guy traded in his car and left the “contract” inside. Later, Twitter user @kkeyes96 found the proof of an abusive relationship and uploaded it online. As it went viral, men all over the internet had moments of silence for their brother, hoping he eventually separated from the overly attached girlfriend. In another twist of the bizarre story, @kkeyes96 had to end up deleting the post. “Too many people who couldn’t read” had mistakenly thought that this clingy girlfriend was his own and started to talk trash about her.
Scroll down to read the rules of a crazy ex-girlfriend and tell us in the comments if at least two of them sound reasonable.
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One guy was so shocked to find a ridiculous relationship “contract” in a used car, he just had to post it online
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I hate the comments like "Maybe he cheated and this was the negotiation". Excuse me, what negotiation?! She is an abusive person! And she literally threats the guy! "If I catch you around girls, I kill you". That's a serious threat. My ex boyfriend was like that. He wanted me to send him photos of my outfits every morning so he could see if I am dressed modestly enough. He didn't want me to paint my nails red, because it was "slutty". He thought in his paranoic mind that I would go take the garbage out and cheat on him in the meantime. I never, ever gave him a reason to be jealous. He was anyway. I broke up with him when he tried to beat me in a club because I wasn't dancing holding hands with him all the time. That's right. No dancing with other guys, just standing freaking NEXT TO HIM and dancing. Please please please, anyone whose partner starts giving hints of a controlling or abusive behaviour, run away and save yourselves.
Flipping heck! No-one should treat people like this! Rule setters will never be happy, whatever you do. If someone cheats than you can only really forgive or walk away - setting rules won't stop a person doing it again. You can't control someone without it being damaging. Ola - I'm very pleased you are out of that relationship. May you find happiness.
My thought is this..if he cheated, he's one foot out the door anyway. The only thing this list will do is push him out the rest of the way. Also, if she thinks she has to become this kind of person to get herself a man, then she's the one destroying the relationship. Last, as other people said...it's abuse no matter what he's done. If he did cheat, then her getting angry and controlling serves nothing. You can't build trust by having one person completely in fear of stepping a toe out of line.
There is NOTHING to indicate that he cheated and EVERYTHING to prove that she's a controlling asshole.
There's a big difference between cheating and threatening to kill someone.
This doesn't feel like he cheated. I've had a lady hand me a list like this in college. the irony being that the only reason I suggested we go out for coffee was because we were assigned a project together, and I wanted to get nominally off campus.
I'm glad you got rid of that creep.
took me 9 years to "save myself"
diane a...a friend of mine dealt with an abusive husband that slammed her into a glass coffee table one night. She "saved herself" by stabbing him in his right shoulder with a kitchen knife she'd wrestled away from him. After he was charged, he tried to return home. Her two rather large brothers were waiting for him. They loaded him in the back of their truck, shovels in one hand, a gun in another. They told him he had a choice..catch a flight that night to a state 1500 miles away and never come back or become landfill in an unmarked and undisclosed location. He opted for the plane ticket.
It's called a "shit test". All girls do it to a varying degree, but this guy must be a fucking idiot, or his game is at a level I'm not seeing and he's just going to drop her the next time he has a better offer. Doesn't sound like it though.
Jesus, I've seen Dom/ sub contracts with more leeway and caring for the other person.
My thought was this is some sort of dom/sub contract, but then I realised it's too f--ing scary for that... Holy crap!!!
My guess was a 15-18 yr old. Sounds so juvenile. At least i hope it is
Yeah, no safe word either!
Except in those relationships, the submissive is in total control.
The big difference is that dom-sub contracts are drawn up for the pleasure and satisfaction of all parties involved. This "contract", it's purely for her and her alone.
This comment just made me snort my Coca-Cola out my nose onto my screen... LOL Damn that hurts!
Me, too.
I would think many Doms and subbies care for each other!
this is abuse...
Thanks captain obvious
I hate the comments like "Maybe he cheated and this was the negotiation". Excuse me, what negotiation?! She is an abusive person! And she literally threats the guy! "If I catch you around girls, I kill you". That's a serious threat. My ex boyfriend was like that. He wanted me to send him photos of my outfits every morning so he could see if I am dressed modestly enough. He didn't want me to paint my nails red, because it was "slutty". He thought in his paranoic mind that I would go take the garbage out and cheat on him in the meantime. I never, ever gave him a reason to be jealous. He was anyway. I broke up with him when he tried to beat me in a club because I wasn't dancing holding hands with him all the time. That's right. No dancing with other guys, just standing freaking NEXT TO HIM and dancing. Please please please, anyone whose partner starts giving hints of a controlling or abusive behaviour, run away and save yourselves.
Flipping heck! No-one should treat people like this! Rule setters will never be happy, whatever you do. If someone cheats than you can only really forgive or walk away - setting rules won't stop a person doing it again. You can't control someone without it being damaging. Ola - I'm very pleased you are out of that relationship. May you find happiness.
My thought is this..if he cheated, he's one foot out the door anyway. The only thing this list will do is push him out the rest of the way. Also, if she thinks she has to become this kind of person to get herself a man, then she's the one destroying the relationship. Last, as other people said...it's abuse no matter what he's done. If he did cheat, then her getting angry and controlling serves nothing. You can't build trust by having one person completely in fear of stepping a toe out of line.
There is NOTHING to indicate that he cheated and EVERYTHING to prove that she's a controlling asshole.
There's a big difference between cheating and threatening to kill someone.
This doesn't feel like he cheated. I've had a lady hand me a list like this in college. the irony being that the only reason I suggested we go out for coffee was because we were assigned a project together, and I wanted to get nominally off campus.
I'm glad you got rid of that creep.
took me 9 years to "save myself"
diane a...a friend of mine dealt with an abusive husband that slammed her into a glass coffee table one night. She "saved herself" by stabbing him in his right shoulder with a kitchen knife she'd wrestled away from him. After he was charged, he tried to return home. Her two rather large brothers were waiting for him. They loaded him in the back of their truck, shovels in one hand, a gun in another. They told him he had a choice..catch a flight that night to a state 1500 miles away and never come back or become landfill in an unmarked and undisclosed location. He opted for the plane ticket.
It's called a "shit test". All girls do it to a varying degree, but this guy must be a fucking idiot, or his game is at a level I'm not seeing and he's just going to drop her the next time he has a better offer. Doesn't sound like it though.
Jesus, I've seen Dom/ sub contracts with more leeway and caring for the other person.
My thought was this is some sort of dom/sub contract, but then I realised it's too f--ing scary for that... Holy crap!!!
My guess was a 15-18 yr old. Sounds so juvenile. At least i hope it is
Yeah, no safe word either!
Except in those relationships, the submissive is in total control.
The big difference is that dom-sub contracts are drawn up for the pleasure and satisfaction of all parties involved. This "contract", it's purely for her and her alone.
This comment just made me snort my Coca-Cola out my nose onto my screen... LOL Damn that hurts!
Me, too.
I would think many Doms and subbies care for each other!
this is abuse...
Thanks captain obvious