Girl Explains Why She Won’t Send Nudes On Tinder, Guy Convinces Her Otherwise
‘Send nudes’ has become the punchline of many a visual joke on the Internet, where you follow instructions to manipulate an image and end with a tongue-in-cheek request for provocative pics. Unfortunately, there is also a much darker side to it, too, with many people, particularly women, constantly harassed on online dating sites and apps to snap pics of themselves. Who knows where these profoundly personal images from dating apps might end up?
Tinder user Catherine took on this issue straight up on her dating profile, using a lighthearted analogy with the movie ‘Titanic’ to make her point. “No one is safe!” she jokes, and having read her amusing Tinder bio story, she is quite right.
Not to be deterred, however, one guy decided to put Catherine’s theory to the test and cheekily found a loophole in dating rules to exploit. She shouldn’t send nudes for his sake, but for her children!
Catherine was so impressed with the creativity and humor of this guy’s pick-up line that she just had to show her mom, who recommended her daughter send nudes post-haste. At one fell swoop, he has got the girl, won her mom’s approval, and talk of children is already on the cards. Well played, sir!
Here’s what people had to say about the hilarious exchange
I am sorry, say what you want but I keep thinking that asking for nudes to random strangers is very rude...
And considering to take or send nudes with untrusted devices (which essentially most smartphones are) is negligent.
Why am I not feeling the joy and warmth and romance of this exchange that apparently so many other people are, including the woman's mother (wtf?)?
Me neither. Too many of these nudes end up being used for revenge porn when the relationship ends and the one who got dumped gets spiteful and nasty.
what the heck is wrong with people? first of all, the couple in titanic didn't exist, it wz make believe, a MOVIE. second, i don't know anyone that had a good turn with nudes being sent, so far everyone has been bitten. third, her mom is as much of a nut as the guy. what if it turns out he uses those images to blackmail her? do people think anymore? stories like these make me rethink Bored Panda and humanity. ACTUALLY I'M THROUGH, i will stick with dogs and leave it at that.
I'm pretty sure that the part about the photos of the couple was all tongue-in-cheek. I'm sure no-one thought that there were real photos in that movie, even if they thought the couple was real. Also, I doubt her mom did more than joke about sending nudes. It's funny. Actually sending them would be a different matter, and nowhere does it say that she did.
Also, the pictures in the movie were sketches, not even photos. Even back then nude photos could have been used for blackmail. Photos have never been in the same category as artwork.
My mother addressed this problem with me decades ago, long before social media existed. She told me not to put anything in writing or on film that you wouldn’t be embarrassed for everybody you know to see. That advice still rings true today. The internet is available to everyone around the world, including those who would use what you post there to hurt you. It’s also permanent and hackable. You want to be a successful and respected professional woman? Don’t post compromising pictures, whether nudes or drunk/wasted party pics. Once those get hacked and sent to your bosses, your credibility goes into the toilet. Same goes for guys sending dick pics. You don’t think about these things when you’re young, but let me tell you, they really do matter later in life. And the logic the guy uses to try to convince her to start posting nudes is ludicrous. And kind of sleazy too. I hope she doesn’t fall for it, and that her mother was being facetious when she said to go for it.
Did anybody take notice that the poster's name is Squirt Fingerz King? ewwwww
I'm not a prude, but sending someone nudes gives them ownership over naked photos of you. Frankly if you aren't seeing me naked in person, why I am giving sending you stuff that you can keep and share.
Maybe this is just me, but if a woman doesn't feel comfortable sending nudes, I don't think it's a guy's place to tell her why she should be sending them. Ever. Even if it is a joke, it's bad taste
If the man respected you he would not ask for nude photos. If the woman had any sense she would not even respond to this request. Remember anything you post electronically is out there forever. Nude photos may come back to haunt you one day.
A man can’t respect a nude woman?
Thank you for that John "Fedora Hat" Louis..........
So a guy asking a stranger for nudes is suddenly cute cause funny?
I hate tinder
All the girls who commited suicide after revenge porn. All the girls who had their lives destroied bc of guys with distorted, viscous and cruel impulse to humiliate and revenge girls who dumbed them, nasty bastards who never really respected a girl. All those girls will disagree with you.
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But what about all those girls(or women) that have launched careers off of the back of having their nudes leaked? You cannot deny the cultural impact of the Kardashians.
Dogs are naked, send a picture of your dog.
Any guy who would ask for nudes in the first place should be a hard pass.
This...is a strange bored panda article....please stop....
I won’t even send nudes to my hubby, I trust him but I don’t trust hackers etc.
I had a guy ask me for a nude shot, so I sent a picture of a plucked chicken.
Stupid! Must be a lie, if a woman has denied nudes so long, why would she suddenly fall for a shitboring talk from a shitboring guy and send it anyway, and with her stupid mother's blessing no less??? "Look at me, I want children, so the first dick that promise me kids can have my fucking nudes!!!" Stupid!!!
I didn't see Titanic. How does it end??
This is one of the most boring Panda posts I've seen.
I always get much more excited by the subtle hints in the seduction of lace under silk, the loosening of a necktie under a starched. The curve of a woman's back and hips. The muscles of a mans back. The muscles in the buttocks as they tense and relax. Leaving something to the imagination is like taking a new way home. It's slower and a hell of a lot more interesting.
So we invented clothes then we decided that not wearing them is a taboo. Why? So many rules in a world that last few years for each of us.
no means no...?
It's quite pornographic to show intimate conversations on tinder or real/physical life. Who cares? Is really it a bored panda issue now?
What if Catherine sent a nude to be funny, then her mother sent one to double down on the hilarity, but then dear old dad joined in?
Wait I thought you can't send pictures on tinder at all? Do women get the ability to send pics?
I am late, I know, but I saw this article a week back and the title itself made me feel sick. But today, I was curious and checked if it ended how I hoped it would end - nope. I knew I had a reason to hate it; sorry for overreacting, but asking for nudes is a ridiculous and dangerous thing. Blackmails, hacks, phone being stolen, etc etc etc mishaps happen! And what even is the point of nudes? Over hundreds of thoudands of evolution, and yet today, the only way some of us can communicate is through virtual, easily hackable images of our naked bodies. I don't intend to hurt or shame anybody, however, nudes is essentially useless and extremely risky. I don't understand why the mother was impressed by this.
tl;dr: no means no.
In the time it took him to type that out and have the rest of the conversation, dude could have just searched porn and gotten the whole job done.
The level of common sense/intelligence displayed by the woman, her mother and most correspondents is painfully low. This is one of the most cringe-making entries I've ever seen on BoredPanda.
This is quite a clever response, but a rare occurrence. Her point still stands, but sometimes one will stumble across that one lucky individual case.
check out the dude's screen name...
Shes already on Tinder to hook up, why would she send pictures like that?
Oh yeah. She'll send no nudes while pretty much whole her profile Pic consists of her boobs.
Dumb, I could have been playing Dr Mario which would have a better waste of time than this stupid article of opposite yet equal tinder trolls.
BUT DID THEY MEET?!?! I need to know how this ended! lol
She sent him nudes, and he wasn't interested.
If I sent nudes, that would be the END of it.. lol ..
Great way to raise your daughter, mom. Is your last name Kardashian?
Don't believe anything you hear and only half of what you see. And, no, don't send compromising photos to anyone.
"Nudes are like wine. The longer u hide them away, the more valuable they get" Any connoisseur can tell you that eventually they _all_ turn to vinegar.
I'll take "Things that never actually happened" for $500, Alex.
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This is not your personal website and ad campaign go fuck off and do that somewhere else
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Did he get those nudes or not?
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You know what's more ridiculus than sending nudes to others? The taboo which girdle nudity.
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I dont know if she is ok with the nudes but leave you to drown and freez to death, was it worth it?
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pictures or it didn't happen....
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This is dumb.
I am sorry, say what you want but I keep thinking that asking for nudes to random strangers is very rude...
And considering to take or send nudes with untrusted devices (which essentially most smartphones are) is negligent.
Why am I not feeling the joy and warmth and romance of this exchange that apparently so many other people are, including the woman's mother (wtf?)?
Me neither. Too many of these nudes end up being used for revenge porn when the relationship ends and the one who got dumped gets spiteful and nasty.
what the heck is wrong with people? first of all, the couple in titanic didn't exist, it wz make believe, a MOVIE. second, i don't know anyone that had a good turn with nudes being sent, so far everyone has been bitten. third, her mom is as much of a nut as the guy. what if it turns out he uses those images to blackmail her? do people think anymore? stories like these make me rethink Bored Panda and humanity. ACTUALLY I'M THROUGH, i will stick with dogs and leave it at that.
I'm pretty sure that the part about the photos of the couple was all tongue-in-cheek. I'm sure no-one thought that there were real photos in that movie, even if they thought the couple was real. Also, I doubt her mom did more than joke about sending nudes. It's funny. Actually sending them would be a different matter, and nowhere does it say that she did.
Also, the pictures in the movie were sketches, not even photos. Even back then nude photos could have been used for blackmail. Photos have never been in the same category as artwork.
My mother addressed this problem with me decades ago, long before social media existed. She told me not to put anything in writing or on film that you wouldn’t be embarrassed for everybody you know to see. That advice still rings true today. The internet is available to everyone around the world, including those who would use what you post there to hurt you. It’s also permanent and hackable. You want to be a successful and respected professional woman? Don’t post compromising pictures, whether nudes or drunk/wasted party pics. Once those get hacked and sent to your bosses, your credibility goes into the toilet. Same goes for guys sending dick pics. You don’t think about these things when you’re young, but let me tell you, they really do matter later in life. And the logic the guy uses to try to convince her to start posting nudes is ludicrous. And kind of sleazy too. I hope she doesn’t fall for it, and that her mother was being facetious when she said to go for it.
Did anybody take notice that the poster's name is Squirt Fingerz King? ewwwww
I'm not a prude, but sending someone nudes gives them ownership over naked photos of you. Frankly if you aren't seeing me naked in person, why I am giving sending you stuff that you can keep and share.
Maybe this is just me, but if a woman doesn't feel comfortable sending nudes, I don't think it's a guy's place to tell her why she should be sending them. Ever. Even if it is a joke, it's bad taste
If the man respected you he would not ask for nude photos. If the woman had any sense she would not even respond to this request. Remember anything you post electronically is out there forever. Nude photos may come back to haunt you one day.
A man can’t respect a nude woman?
Thank you for that John "Fedora Hat" Louis..........
So a guy asking a stranger for nudes is suddenly cute cause funny?
I hate tinder
All the girls who commited suicide after revenge porn. All the girls who had their lives destroied bc of guys with distorted, viscous and cruel impulse to humiliate and revenge girls who dumbed them, nasty bastards who never really respected a girl. All those girls will disagree with you.
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
But what about all those girls(or women) that have launched careers off of the back of having their nudes leaked? You cannot deny the cultural impact of the Kardashians.
Dogs are naked, send a picture of your dog.
Any guy who would ask for nudes in the first place should be a hard pass.
This...is a strange bored panda article....please stop....
I won’t even send nudes to my hubby, I trust him but I don’t trust hackers etc.
I had a guy ask me for a nude shot, so I sent a picture of a plucked chicken.
Stupid! Must be a lie, if a woman has denied nudes so long, why would she suddenly fall for a shitboring talk from a shitboring guy and send it anyway, and with her stupid mother's blessing no less??? "Look at me, I want children, so the first dick that promise me kids can have my fucking nudes!!!" Stupid!!!
I didn't see Titanic. How does it end??
This is one of the most boring Panda posts I've seen.
I always get much more excited by the subtle hints in the seduction of lace under silk, the loosening of a necktie under a starched. The curve of a woman's back and hips. The muscles of a mans back. The muscles in the buttocks as they tense and relax. Leaving something to the imagination is like taking a new way home. It's slower and a hell of a lot more interesting.
So we invented clothes then we decided that not wearing them is a taboo. Why? So many rules in a world that last few years for each of us.
no means no...?
It's quite pornographic to show intimate conversations on tinder or real/physical life. Who cares? Is really it a bored panda issue now?
What if Catherine sent a nude to be funny, then her mother sent one to double down on the hilarity, but then dear old dad joined in?
Wait I thought you can't send pictures on tinder at all? Do women get the ability to send pics?
I am late, I know, but I saw this article a week back and the title itself made me feel sick. But today, I was curious and checked if it ended how I hoped it would end - nope. I knew I had a reason to hate it; sorry for overreacting, but asking for nudes is a ridiculous and dangerous thing. Blackmails, hacks, phone being stolen, etc etc etc mishaps happen! And what even is the point of nudes? Over hundreds of thoudands of evolution, and yet today, the only way some of us can communicate is through virtual, easily hackable images of our naked bodies. I don't intend to hurt or shame anybody, however, nudes is essentially useless and extremely risky. I don't understand why the mother was impressed by this.
tl;dr: no means no.
In the time it took him to type that out and have the rest of the conversation, dude could have just searched porn and gotten the whole job done.
The level of common sense/intelligence displayed by the woman, her mother and most correspondents is painfully low. This is one of the most cringe-making entries I've ever seen on BoredPanda.
This is quite a clever response, but a rare occurrence. Her point still stands, but sometimes one will stumble across that one lucky individual case.
check out the dude's screen name...
Shes already on Tinder to hook up, why would she send pictures like that?
Oh yeah. She'll send no nudes while pretty much whole her profile Pic consists of her boobs.
Dumb, I could have been playing Dr Mario which would have a better waste of time than this stupid article of opposite yet equal tinder trolls.
BUT DID THEY MEET?!?! I need to know how this ended! lol
She sent him nudes, and he wasn't interested.
If I sent nudes, that would be the END of it.. lol ..
Great way to raise your daughter, mom. Is your last name Kardashian?
Don't believe anything you hear and only half of what you see. And, no, don't send compromising photos to anyone.
"Nudes are like wine. The longer u hide them away, the more valuable they get" Any connoisseur can tell you that eventually they _all_ turn to vinegar.
I'll take "Things that never actually happened" for $500, Alex.
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This is not your personal website and ad campaign go fuck off and do that somewhere else
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Did he get those nudes or not?
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You know what's more ridiculus than sending nudes to others? The taboo which girdle nudity.
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I dont know if she is ok with the nudes but leave you to drown and freez to death, was it worth it?
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pictures or it didn't happen....
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This is dumb.