Girlfriend Texts Boyfriend She Shaved Her Head, Doesn’t Expect Reaction Like This
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What would you do if you discovered that your partner had suddenly decided to shave all their hair off? That’s the situation one guy found himself in recently when his girlfriend Amanda sent him pictures of herself minus most of her hair.
He clearly didn’t realize that he was being pranked, and that Amanda had simply used an App to create the desired balding effect she was after, but his inability to comprehend what was happening only made the joke more hilarious. “I had a balding app on my phone and decided to send a picture of myself using it to my boyfriend, assuming he’d probably know it was a joke,” wrote the prankster. “Well, turns out he didn’t, so I just went with it.” How did he respond? Scroll down to see for yourself.
“I had a balding app on my phone and decided to send a picture of myself using it to my boyfriend, assuming he’d probably know it was a joke. Well, turns out he didn’t, so I just went with it.”
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Funny that they are talking about her hair being photoshopped while in reality this entire conversation is photoshopped lol.
It looked like they had to do that to get it all in one picture
Thats not what he meant. Things like this are never real, somebody took the time and effort to come up with a situational joke, you see it a lot these days. Think "If Marvel/DC/GoT had facebook/phones" for instance. Though I'm not sure if this is meant to be funny. It's not really a new thing though, it has been on sketch shows for years, standup comedians do it without the photoshop, they just tell a funny story.
The different colored text bubbles kinda give it away huh? lol
Actually in iMessage, the senders bubbles fade from light blue at the top to dark blue at the bottom...that’s why. It’s not photoshop
This story doesn't go anywhere. I hoped his reaction would have been accepting or something unexpected. He just freaked out and concluded that she photoshopped it, which she did. And that's if the convo even happened. If it's fake, it was a waste of time because it wasn't even entertaining to read. :(
Sure it went somewhere. It showed that he's an idiot and that she should drop him like a hot rock. She learned something all right - that her boyfriend is a superficial jerk.
Ummm, no, there's a difference if she had cancer and shaved her head. I expect my husband would have the same reaction if I just decided to shave my hair off. This "story" was pointless, it didn't go anywhere and her reaction of "I want you to lick my bald head" showed she was just trying to wind him up, but this is all fake so getting mad at it is just the funniest part.
hold on a second, he didn't say he didn't love her/ want to be with her, he didn't call her names, i'm sorry but if someone you find attractive suddenly makes themselves unattractive in your eyes and does it on purpose then it would be far more concerning if you DIDN'T get a bit upset
Nobody bosses Aunt Messy around! I mean, other than her house full of cats, but aside from that, nobody even wants to.
Or he leaned that his girlfriend plays stupid poorly photoshopped jokes....
What the goddamn fuck? I don't see where he got aggressive with her or dumped her or anything. On the other hand, she strung him along for ages. I'm really glad I don't know you.
Actually, if she really did this she has a psych disorder. So he wouldn't be the worse off if she split. You can call him superficial all you want, but what I see is a guy who liked her a lot and thinks she made a major change without talking with him first. Psychiatrically stable people don't do that.
Even if we take that as a real situation... she should have told him first at least and discuss it with him ... she'd be the idiot otherwise and would deserve a cutoff, even though he hasn't even mentioned such thing! Stop playing with men and then acting "don't you love me", if you really deserve to be loved!
Yep. A superficial jerk. I'll stand by that. She doesn't need his "permission" for making a joke, and he never even bothered to check to see if that's what she was doing. Instead, he threw a hissy fit and acted like a toddler making threats because she did something he didn't like. That's the mark of a true asshole. ... If he isn't grovelling and apologizing now, then she should turf him out the door. Let him try and order someone else around.
I'm with Aunt Messy. It's not just that he reacted negatively, it's that he went to such EXTREMES with it. "Oh my god, what the hell happened?" is one thing. Text after text after text of "YOU DID WHAT HOW DARE YOU!?" is controlling and a warning sign. I mean, LITERALLY, "I'm not allowed to change my hair without permission" is a sign of potential domestic abuse. Yeah, she was trying to wind him up, but with how LITTLE it took? I'd be seriously considering kicking him to the curb, personally. (Oh, and by the way, if anyone I were dating grew a beard of mustache, I would be admittedly superficial and refuse to kiss that, but I wouldn't pitch a toddler fit over text messages. And I would admit that it was superficial and try to have a sense of humor about it, instead of screaming that he BETTER SHAVE THAT OFF RIGHT NOW, THIS IS SUCH A NIGHTMARE!)
I know right? I expected him to either break up with her or he was going to be a gentlemen and shock the world. Dumb post for sure
It was unexpected! We expected him to be accepting, and instead we got a mean boyfriend.
you all must be fulled if you think that any guy would like this.
yeah so much for "she didn't expect that reaction"
"What if it never grows back?" *facepalm*
Really? Having "aesthetically pleasing hair" is important enough to warrant this kind of reaction? The delivery of this assumed joke is pretty bloody awful too. Clearly, neither of these people have had a close friend or relative lose their hair suddenly (or more gradually). Cancer treatment, Alopecia, Auto-immune deficiency, stress... My niece at 8 years old was more mature than these two when she shaved her head to raise funds for cancer research. Grow up!
Thank you. An intelligent comment.
i do apologize that people can joke about things which are in essence horrible, i have a friend who is disabled who makes cripple joke constantly, should he stop so he doesn't offend? Jokes are a way for people to deal with things and how dare you try to take that away
Or you could just take it as it is, a joke, and not apply it to your life. Everyone is so easily offended these days. Grow some balls, nancy.
Yeah I do because cancer and cancer awareness is hilarious right?
Well. At least she knows that he loves her for her great personality, right? Such a poor guy. What if she gets cancer and loses her hair? Is he going to dump her then??
He sounds like a jerk. Time to take him to Dumptown.
Exactly what I was thinking. If my girlfriend told me she shaved her head cause cancer awareness, I'd shave mine too, and be sooo proud of her. Actually I'm single right now but would be sooooo proud of her either way. Love me. :'(
My ex use to always say to me "what if I coloured my hair____" green or blue or some other unnatural colour and I'd always tell her go ahead do whatever you want, it's your hair but YOU have to live with it, good or bad comments, everyday until it grows out or gets coloured again.
Hah, first learn how to make a convincing text conversation in photoshop then come to BP
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Was it a photoshopped one ? =D
a photoshop of a Godzilla sized one???
Oh! I thought that was you!
if that was my boyfriend I'd dump him. Who the actual fuck talks like that to his girlfriend regardless of her outward appearance? I mean, it's obvious he doesn't really care about her at all if the hair is such a huge deal to him.
Most attractive girls her age won't give bald men the time of day unless they're loaded, so how is he any more shallow than a young female?
I'm young,and looks don't matter to me at all. It's sad there is so many expectations
holy shit, he didn't say he felt any differently, he didn't threaten to leave her, most couples don't consist of a pair of delicate fucking china cups, healthy couples SHOULD be able to insult each other, and joke with each other like this, what kind of healthy relationship is all sunshine and unicorn farts 24/ 7?
Fun fact: After you just shaved your head, you still see the hairline, because the skin is much lighter.
A question, should a person in a committed relationship consulte their significant other of drastic physical changes?
I was with my husband 19 years and I might have consulted with him if I wasn't sure of my choice but if I was decided I might have told him in advance. If he had such a rediculous reaction there'd have been trouble. In the end he did have a negative reaction to my broken spine and so is my ex-husband. Love is about personality not hair or working legs :)
As a married person in a 7+ years committed relationship, I say yes, kinda. Sure, it's not to criticize on their "bad" choices or something, but you will definitely want the opinion of the one you can trust before making huge changes. Also, if your partner is suddenly going through drastic aesthetic changes it can mean, sure, they were just bored with their old look, but they might be also going through a certain phase as well. In either case it's good to talk about it and you can never jusy ignore it.
As a married person of 25 years, I might ask for my husband's opinion, but I sure as hell wouldn't "obey" him if he said not to do something. A haircut is just a haircut. Hair is a renewable resource. It's not a big deal. Put it this way, if this is your biggest problem, then stop whining.
Under no circumstances does a person have to "consult" a SO about changing their hairstyle or mode of dress or what have you. The end.
Sure, Aunt Messy. Nobody said anything about "obeying" anyone. Just advices. And it works with both sides. I was giving my statement while imagining a situation where my husband would be the one to change his looks and I were the one to notice as well.
Would just depend on the change, I suppose, but changing one's hair is hardly a drastic physical change. Hair grows back. Guy I'm involved with is planning to do something crazy with his hair for haunted house season. I think it's going to look absolutely ridiculous, and I'll likely have to stop myself from laughing, but ultimately it's his hair, he can do what he wants with it, and I'm not going to love him any less just because he did his hair crazy for a while.
I question your definition of "drastic physical change," honestly. It's hair. It grows back. It's not like it's a piercing or a tattoo, which is much harder to undo. No, I'm not going to "consult" before I cut my hair. It's my hair, and I'll do what I want with it. If you come to me in a mature fashion and tell me that you prefer it, say, longer in the back because when we spoon it gets in your mouth if it's too short, I will consider that--but I'm not keeping waist-length hair and the attendant severe headaches I get from that much hair just because you like to run your fingers through it. And if you throw a temper tantrum about it, I'm likely to not even verbally slap you down so much as look at you and say "Get out, we're done."
You both make good points but what if the thing that attracted you to your was suddenly changed by them, isn't that a deal breaker?
The thing that attracted me to him is his brains and his personality, and for that to change all of a sudden.... It would be a very sad and tragic scenario. If, God forbid, he had an accident, a brain stroke or a mental illness, it's not like it would be a deal breaker, in fact, I'd try to help first at least, but you don't know in which ways it can develop and I hate imagining such cases because my mind is a scary place.
What attracted me to him was his personality above all else. I find him to be a handsome, sexy guy, but ultimately it's the fact that he's an absolute sweetheart, and the most adorable dork I've ever met, that makes me so crazy about him. So, little chance of that suddenly changing, and as long as he didn't turn into an abusive A-hole I doubt it would become a deal breaker if his personality did change. Things happen, people change. That's how life goes. If someone is really important to you then you'll find a way to work with the changes.
And ugaas wiihoog, if the only reason you were attracted to me was my hair, then good fucking RIDDANCE to you, because you are shallow as fuck and not worth my time.
If it's the only thing they truly care about then it's a good thing it's s deal breaker. She can do soo much better. If I had an SO who told me they were shaving their head for cancer awareness I would be proud even if I loved their hair. It's called perspective.
I started losing my hair because of alopecia.... I cried because my fiance had recently said he preferred me with long hair.... He is actually super supportive of me and has been there for me as my hair very slowly grows back.
Big difference beteeen losing your hair and deliberately doing something stupid.
Most likely this conversation is fake
Was this whole post really necessary? I think not.
Boring
9/10 of these text message trying-to-be-funny articles are just overdone photoshopped clickbaits :(
The person curating this site should be fired for posting this.
I know it's silly, but - Guy's a complete pussy & she would be much better off without him. She could have shaved her head in support of a friend's cancer (which she said) and he's still freaking out about FUCKING HAIR? He's a complete douchebag.
Most attractive girls her age won't give bald men the time of day unless they're loaded, so how is he any more shallow than a young female?
I would react pretty badly too, if my wife shaved her long beautiful hair, because I love it. I wouldn't be as much of a drama queen as this guy, but I feel his pain. I would still love my wife just as much if she shaved her head, but I would be less attracted to her. That is the same reason I don't grow a long beard, she would still love me but she finds it unattractive. We are both adults and can do whatever we want, but we want to make our significant others happy too.
If her hair is the only thing about her you are truly attracted too then you're with the wrong person.
Or she is
If that was the case, I would just hump a wig. But yes my wife's long hair is one of her assets I find very attractive, and if she didn't have it anymore I would find her less attractive. I would still love her the same amount as I do right now, I would still find her attractive, but it would be less. I don't know why this is so controversial.
The point isn't whether or not he loves her hair, it's really that he threw a temper tantrum worthy of a five-year-old over it. That's not just being a "drama queen," it's being pretty damned controlling. "Sweetheart, you know you're not getting much more than cuddles until that's at least shoulder length again, right?" would be one thing. "OH MY GOD, WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU DO!?" is only appropriate to having actual body parts removed or finding out about an arrest warrant.
Fair enough.
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Wow. You ARE that big a jerk. Tell ya what. YOU grow out your hair and fondle that on your own. She's way to good for you.
Pretty funny - still, the kid is an @$$#*/= for his entitled and possessive reaction - especially after she told him it was for cancer awareness!
Had a boyfriend of mine ever acted like their liking me was dependent on my hair-he would have been gone in a hot minute. As a mom of 3 and having been with my husband since we met in 1997- I can't tell you what a mistake it would be to stay with this guy. In the delivery room, in the ER next to our child, at our kitchen table with our bills when one of us lost our job- lemme tell you how you don't want some idiot moron immature dolt who gives a rats ass about your hair. I am hoping this is some joke for you guys-although you're giving credence to a horrible notion that some little girl might be reading this and thinking it's normal for a guy to attribute some amount of worth to your hair!
Then just remove all your physical attributes, wear rags and assume we are just spirits, not human beings who are attracted to some people and not to the others. Yes, girls. Some guys will like your short hair and others will like your long hair. But no one will stop loving you - if they ever did - only because you change your hairstyle or become sick. Just consider that if you go for a guy who liked your long hair, he may need some time to get used to your new appearance if they weren't prepared for that change, that's all. Same for men of course. Basically this is about any CHANGE in human life. If you're not prepared for it and someone implements it, most probably you won't understand it and you won't like it until someone explains it or you get used to it.
And he can CALMLY tell me that he's not fond of my hairstyle and wishes that I would grow it back out. If he can't TALK to me instead of pitching a fit, I don't want him around. ESPECIALLY if he's pitching a fit about something as superficial as my hairstyle. "Man, I REALLY don't like that hairstyle" is fine. "WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU DO!?" is not.
She should dump his ass.
Would have been way funnier if she found out he was really into it and was disappointed to find out it was fake.
The fact that he said that he doesn't like women with short hair or bald women shows that his "love" conditional. She needs to dump him now.
Even if it was real, the fact is he doesn't care at all about her as a person. Just cares about how she looks. If it was real, I would hope she ditched him real fast.
Lmao
She's a bald influence. I swear I read that.
Really? This guy cannot see the obvious difference in skin where the balding filter takes over??
Her boyfriend is a bit shallow. I can understand being shocked, but his comment about not having a thing for girls with short hair just didn't sit right with me. If he loves her it shouldn't matter what her head looks like.
my wife is partially bald actually. she wears a wig in public. at home she doesn't have to. and I don't care. those wigs can get hot. she is about the sweetest person I know. that's more important to me. but I am more of a serious person and if I thought she pranked me, I wouldn't be happy.
Absolutely love it 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟
Find another guy,
Hope she learned something from this experiment...and when he starts losing his hair, hope he and take the criticism the same way he was able to dish it out.
Drop him like a sack of diseased shit that he is.
If I didn't already regularly shave my head I'd have a blast with this =)
If I didn't already shave my head I would have a blast with that... lol
lol Definitely a jerk. Hell, I met my now husband when I was still bald from chemo. He's said his thoughts when he first saw me was "She's cute! She's.. bald? She loves anime! I have to talk to her!" Nearly four years later, we were married and still the closest after 15 years of marriage.
I realize this isnt real but i seriously hope that there are not real arses like that who are so unbelievably superficial
Yeah, unfortunately, not only are there real arses like this, they're common enough that reactions like the one posted here are considered warning signs of potential domestic abuse.
You're* Your*
Dude needs to up his meds
"What if it doesn't grow again?" and "I want to feel your saliva all over my scalp?"... Better than a fiction conversation...
This is the exact same picture used for another post about a sister who mistook hair remover cream for shampoo. Fake.
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OK, so everyone knows the guy and judges him basing on private conversation someone decides to publish. To achieve what? Make him look like an idiot? He just overreacted to A PRANK, that's all. Probably didn't really mean most of he wrote and would apologize for it. Now try to imagine what you would think being surprised by someone you know shaving top of their head and sending you photo. Probably: 'WTF?!'. He just said it. Maybe it was revenge or maybe she is pushing him to the limits every single day. So stop bringing cancer, making him controlling heartless beast, etc. Most of you should be ashamed of judging freely someone you don't really know. I guess everyone says stupid things to loved ones, anyone willing to share it and be judged by bunch of fortune-tellers?
Mmm...you do realize that "I didn't really mean it" is the most common phrase in the vocabulary of a verbal/emotional abuser, right? This wasn't just a line or two of "What the hell is this?" which would not be unreasonable. This is a WALL of texts of total temper tantrum. There's a MASSIVE difference between, "I love everything about you just the way it is" and "OH MY FUCKING GOD, HOW DARE YOU CHANGE ANYTHING WITHOUT MY PERMISSION!?" There's an equally massive difference between "I don't like that haircut" and "THIS IS A NIGHTMARE." I'm not saying the guy absolutely HAS TO BE an abuser...but I AM saying that this kind of over-the-top reaction needs to be shut down so that it doesn't TURN into abuse, either.
There is also other side of this story: 1) People like to feel attractive and are attracted to others. 2) People like to look nice and be complemented. 3) People like to compete with each other, also to attract their future partner. Let's focus on physical part of human. Imagine you have a partner you lured with your physical appearance and you know somehow what are their preferences (anything - eyes, beard, muscles, weight, height, etc.), but of course they like your overall look (that's why you got in touch at all). Would anyone just freak out if they told they like your appearance and you shouldn't change it, because for them it's just perfect? Anything you were previously aware of they like so much in your body, you would just completely change or remove on purpose to prove they don't own you? Of course, it's your body and no one should force you to do anything with it against you.
(...) But if you're saying you don't care about their opinion and yours is only that matters, why you considered it at the beginning of your relationship you? Why wore make-up, nice clothes, fragrance, push-up on first date if then you say it's not at all important? Would you similarly overreact if your friend told you to pick the other dress because it suits you better or just consider their opinion? Why then making a gender war with your partner? One more thing, the hair which is not at all important. You have haircuts and colours, discuss it with your friends, etc. You are upset if they got accidentally cut or burnt. Feel depressed if you lose them. Dye if you have white hair to early. This is fine, but guy who overreacts because his completely healthy girlfriend fakes shaving top of her head out of nowhere is a heartless controlling bastard. LOL.
"I don't have a thing for women with short hair. Especially women who are bald." Sweetie you had better know that if you do ever need chemo this guy will drop you without a second thought. He failed this test miserably.
It's obviously about cancer.
bald girls are hot.
BF: You're so shallow, ROR!
I'm with him on that one
I love how supportive this made up boyfriend is!
I actually did this for real. Shaved off half my head, beard, mustache and all. Just like the comedian Will Forte!!! My girlfriend freaked!!! It actually brought her to tears!!!
Honestly? I kinda feel like you should perhaps question that relationship. Not so much the "OMG WHUT" initial reaction, but being brought to TEARS over it is kind of...yeah. Along the same lines as this post, shall we say?
The guy is overreacting and crying like a little baby...
What a fucking douchebag.
LMAO I should definitely do the same thing
I thought his reaction would be something like "Ok, it was for a great cause and I'm with you" and then send her a selfie with HIS head shaved - for real. But no, it was just a douchebag freaking out.
Funny but boyfriend is a selfish asshole :)
"I wanna feel your saliva all over my scalp." Bahaha!!
And ?
Idiot (the boyfriend)
The second photo looks as photoshopped as shit.
No comment found: If it would be my girlfriend I would break up. Not because a bad joke, because she sent it online. With her face in pictures. So all our friend can read it.
Ya know what? Now that I looked twice? Are we sure "she's" not a "he" just messing with us? I'd like to see full photos of before & after. Just sayin'.
I wonder what that app is called? Could be interesting.
Ladoti Armstrong haha
So was it fake??
Hahaha, whether she shaved her head or not this is hilarious!
CaptianCyph3r ain't wrong
Dump his shallow ass!!!!!
Uhm, ok so.. dump that idiot.
"SHES A BAD INFLUENCE" you could say she's...a BALD influence,hee hee
ill get the door
Asinine prank. Gotcha.
It looks like he's acting surprise because his life is boring and needs to amuse girlfriend in this pathetic way.
Oh no this is wonderous hhh, it's so funny
Funny that they are talking about her hair being photoshopped while in reality this entire conversation is photoshopped lol.
It looked like they had to do that to get it all in one picture
Thats not what he meant. Things like this are never real, somebody took the time and effort to come up with a situational joke, you see it a lot these days. Think "If Marvel/DC/GoT had facebook/phones" for instance. Though I'm not sure if this is meant to be funny. It's not really a new thing though, it has been on sketch shows for years, standup comedians do it without the photoshop, they just tell a funny story.
The different colored text bubbles kinda give it away huh? lol
Actually in iMessage, the senders bubbles fade from light blue at the top to dark blue at the bottom...that’s why. It’s not photoshop
This story doesn't go anywhere. I hoped his reaction would have been accepting or something unexpected. He just freaked out and concluded that she photoshopped it, which she did. And that's if the convo even happened. If it's fake, it was a waste of time because it wasn't even entertaining to read. :(
Sure it went somewhere. It showed that he's an idiot and that she should drop him like a hot rock. She learned something all right - that her boyfriend is a superficial jerk.
Ummm, no, there's a difference if she had cancer and shaved her head. I expect my husband would have the same reaction if I just decided to shave my hair off. This "story" was pointless, it didn't go anywhere and her reaction of "I want you to lick my bald head" showed she was just trying to wind him up, but this is all fake so getting mad at it is just the funniest part.
hold on a second, he didn't say he didn't love her/ want to be with her, he didn't call her names, i'm sorry but if someone you find attractive suddenly makes themselves unattractive in your eyes and does it on purpose then it would be far more concerning if you DIDN'T get a bit upset
Nobody bosses Aunt Messy around! I mean, other than her house full of cats, but aside from that, nobody even wants to.
Or he leaned that his girlfriend plays stupid poorly photoshopped jokes....
What the goddamn fuck? I don't see where he got aggressive with her or dumped her or anything. On the other hand, she strung him along for ages. I'm really glad I don't know you.
Actually, if she really did this she has a psych disorder. So he wouldn't be the worse off if she split. You can call him superficial all you want, but what I see is a guy who liked her a lot and thinks she made a major change without talking with him first. Psychiatrically stable people don't do that.
Even if we take that as a real situation... she should have told him first at least and discuss it with him ... she'd be the idiot otherwise and would deserve a cutoff, even though he hasn't even mentioned such thing! Stop playing with men and then acting "don't you love me", if you really deserve to be loved!
Yep. A superficial jerk. I'll stand by that. She doesn't need his "permission" for making a joke, and he never even bothered to check to see if that's what she was doing. Instead, he threw a hissy fit and acted like a toddler making threats because she did something he didn't like. That's the mark of a true asshole. ... If he isn't grovelling and apologizing now, then she should turf him out the door. Let him try and order someone else around.
I'm with Aunt Messy. It's not just that he reacted negatively, it's that he went to such EXTREMES with it. "Oh my god, what the hell happened?" is one thing. Text after text after text of "YOU DID WHAT HOW DARE YOU!?" is controlling and a warning sign. I mean, LITERALLY, "I'm not allowed to change my hair without permission" is a sign of potential domestic abuse. Yeah, she was trying to wind him up, but with how LITTLE it took? I'd be seriously considering kicking him to the curb, personally. (Oh, and by the way, if anyone I were dating grew a beard of mustache, I would be admittedly superficial and refuse to kiss that, but I wouldn't pitch a toddler fit over text messages. And I would admit that it was superficial and try to have a sense of humor about it, instead of screaming that he BETTER SHAVE THAT OFF RIGHT NOW, THIS IS SUCH A NIGHTMARE!)
I know right? I expected him to either break up with her or he was going to be a gentlemen and shock the world. Dumb post for sure
It was unexpected! We expected him to be accepting, and instead we got a mean boyfriend.
you all must be fulled if you think that any guy would like this.
yeah so much for "she didn't expect that reaction"
"What if it never grows back?" *facepalm*
Really? Having "aesthetically pleasing hair" is important enough to warrant this kind of reaction? The delivery of this assumed joke is pretty bloody awful too. Clearly, neither of these people have had a close friend or relative lose their hair suddenly (or more gradually). Cancer treatment, Alopecia, Auto-immune deficiency, stress... My niece at 8 years old was more mature than these two when she shaved her head to raise funds for cancer research. Grow up!
Thank you. An intelligent comment.
i do apologize that people can joke about things which are in essence horrible, i have a friend who is disabled who makes cripple joke constantly, should he stop so he doesn't offend? Jokes are a way for people to deal with things and how dare you try to take that away
Or you could just take it as it is, a joke, and not apply it to your life. Everyone is so easily offended these days. Grow some balls, nancy.
Yeah I do because cancer and cancer awareness is hilarious right?
Well. At least she knows that he loves her for her great personality, right? Such a poor guy. What if she gets cancer and loses her hair? Is he going to dump her then??
He sounds like a jerk. Time to take him to Dumptown.
Exactly what I was thinking. If my girlfriend told me she shaved her head cause cancer awareness, I'd shave mine too, and be sooo proud of her. Actually I'm single right now but would be sooooo proud of her either way. Love me. :'(
My ex use to always say to me "what if I coloured my hair____" green or blue or some other unnatural colour and I'd always tell her go ahead do whatever you want, it's your hair but YOU have to live with it, good or bad comments, everyday until it grows out or gets coloured again.
Hah, first learn how to make a convincing text conversation in photoshop then come to BP
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Was it a photoshopped one ? =D
a photoshop of a Godzilla sized one???
Oh! I thought that was you!
if that was my boyfriend I'd dump him. Who the actual fuck talks like that to his girlfriend regardless of her outward appearance? I mean, it's obvious he doesn't really care about her at all if the hair is such a huge deal to him.
Most attractive girls her age won't give bald men the time of day unless they're loaded, so how is he any more shallow than a young female?
I'm young,and looks don't matter to me at all. It's sad there is so many expectations
holy shit, he didn't say he felt any differently, he didn't threaten to leave her, most couples don't consist of a pair of delicate fucking china cups, healthy couples SHOULD be able to insult each other, and joke with each other like this, what kind of healthy relationship is all sunshine and unicorn farts 24/ 7?
Fun fact: After you just shaved your head, you still see the hairline, because the skin is much lighter.
A question, should a person in a committed relationship consulte their significant other of drastic physical changes?
I was with my husband 19 years and I might have consulted with him if I wasn't sure of my choice but if I was decided I might have told him in advance. If he had such a rediculous reaction there'd have been trouble. In the end he did have a negative reaction to my broken spine and so is my ex-husband. Love is about personality not hair or working legs :)
As a married person in a 7+ years committed relationship, I say yes, kinda. Sure, it's not to criticize on their "bad" choices or something, but you will definitely want the opinion of the one you can trust before making huge changes. Also, if your partner is suddenly going through drastic aesthetic changes it can mean, sure, they were just bored with their old look, but they might be also going through a certain phase as well. In either case it's good to talk about it and you can never jusy ignore it.
As a married person of 25 years, I might ask for my husband's opinion, but I sure as hell wouldn't "obey" him if he said not to do something. A haircut is just a haircut. Hair is a renewable resource. It's not a big deal. Put it this way, if this is your biggest problem, then stop whining.
Under no circumstances does a person have to "consult" a SO about changing their hairstyle or mode of dress or what have you. The end.
Sure, Aunt Messy. Nobody said anything about "obeying" anyone. Just advices. And it works with both sides. I was giving my statement while imagining a situation where my husband would be the one to change his looks and I were the one to notice as well.
Would just depend on the change, I suppose, but changing one's hair is hardly a drastic physical change. Hair grows back. Guy I'm involved with is planning to do something crazy with his hair for haunted house season. I think it's going to look absolutely ridiculous, and I'll likely have to stop myself from laughing, but ultimately it's his hair, he can do what he wants with it, and I'm not going to love him any less just because he did his hair crazy for a while.
I question your definition of "drastic physical change," honestly. It's hair. It grows back. It's not like it's a piercing or a tattoo, which is much harder to undo. No, I'm not going to "consult" before I cut my hair. It's my hair, and I'll do what I want with it. If you come to me in a mature fashion and tell me that you prefer it, say, longer in the back because when we spoon it gets in your mouth if it's too short, I will consider that--but I'm not keeping waist-length hair and the attendant severe headaches I get from that much hair just because you like to run your fingers through it. And if you throw a temper tantrum about it, I'm likely to not even verbally slap you down so much as look at you and say "Get out, we're done."
You both make good points but what if the thing that attracted you to your was suddenly changed by them, isn't that a deal breaker?
The thing that attracted me to him is his brains and his personality, and for that to change all of a sudden.... It would be a very sad and tragic scenario. If, God forbid, he had an accident, a brain stroke or a mental illness, it's not like it would be a deal breaker, in fact, I'd try to help first at least, but you don't know in which ways it can develop and I hate imagining such cases because my mind is a scary place.
What attracted me to him was his personality above all else. I find him to be a handsome, sexy guy, but ultimately it's the fact that he's an absolute sweetheart, and the most adorable dork I've ever met, that makes me so crazy about him. So, little chance of that suddenly changing, and as long as he didn't turn into an abusive A-hole I doubt it would become a deal breaker if his personality did change. Things happen, people change. That's how life goes. If someone is really important to you then you'll find a way to work with the changes.
And ugaas wiihoog, if the only reason you were attracted to me was my hair, then good fucking RIDDANCE to you, because you are shallow as fuck and not worth my time.
If it's the only thing they truly care about then it's a good thing it's s deal breaker. She can do soo much better. If I had an SO who told me they were shaving their head for cancer awareness I would be proud even if I loved their hair. It's called perspective.
I started losing my hair because of alopecia.... I cried because my fiance had recently said he preferred me with long hair.... He is actually super supportive of me and has been there for me as my hair very slowly grows back.
Big difference beteeen losing your hair and deliberately doing something stupid.
Most likely this conversation is fake
Was this whole post really necessary? I think not.
Boring
9/10 of these text message trying-to-be-funny articles are just overdone photoshopped clickbaits :(
The person curating this site should be fired for posting this.
I know it's silly, but - Guy's a complete pussy & she would be much better off without him. She could have shaved her head in support of a friend's cancer (which she said) and he's still freaking out about FUCKING HAIR? He's a complete douchebag.
Most attractive girls her age won't give bald men the time of day unless they're loaded, so how is he any more shallow than a young female?
I would react pretty badly too, if my wife shaved her long beautiful hair, because I love it. I wouldn't be as much of a drama queen as this guy, but I feel his pain. I would still love my wife just as much if she shaved her head, but I would be less attracted to her. That is the same reason I don't grow a long beard, she would still love me but she finds it unattractive. We are both adults and can do whatever we want, but we want to make our significant others happy too.
If her hair is the only thing about her you are truly attracted too then you're with the wrong person.
Or she is
If that was the case, I would just hump a wig. But yes my wife's long hair is one of her assets I find very attractive, and if she didn't have it anymore I would find her less attractive. I would still love her the same amount as I do right now, I would still find her attractive, but it would be less. I don't know why this is so controversial.
The point isn't whether or not he loves her hair, it's really that he threw a temper tantrum worthy of a five-year-old over it. That's not just being a "drama queen," it's being pretty damned controlling. "Sweetheart, you know you're not getting much more than cuddles until that's at least shoulder length again, right?" would be one thing. "OH MY GOD, WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU DO!?" is only appropriate to having actual body parts removed or finding out about an arrest warrant.
Fair enough.
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Wow. You ARE that big a jerk. Tell ya what. YOU grow out your hair and fondle that on your own. She's way to good for you.
Pretty funny - still, the kid is an @$$#*/= for his entitled and possessive reaction - especially after she told him it was for cancer awareness!
Had a boyfriend of mine ever acted like their liking me was dependent on my hair-he would have been gone in a hot minute. As a mom of 3 and having been with my husband since we met in 1997- I can't tell you what a mistake it would be to stay with this guy. In the delivery room, in the ER next to our child, at our kitchen table with our bills when one of us lost our job- lemme tell you how you don't want some idiot moron immature dolt who gives a rats ass about your hair. I am hoping this is some joke for you guys-although you're giving credence to a horrible notion that some little girl might be reading this and thinking it's normal for a guy to attribute some amount of worth to your hair!
Then just remove all your physical attributes, wear rags and assume we are just spirits, not human beings who are attracted to some people and not to the others. Yes, girls. Some guys will like your short hair and others will like your long hair. But no one will stop loving you - if they ever did - only because you change your hairstyle or become sick. Just consider that if you go for a guy who liked your long hair, he may need some time to get used to your new appearance if they weren't prepared for that change, that's all. Same for men of course. Basically this is about any CHANGE in human life. If you're not prepared for it and someone implements it, most probably you won't understand it and you won't like it until someone explains it or you get used to it.
And he can CALMLY tell me that he's not fond of my hairstyle and wishes that I would grow it back out. If he can't TALK to me instead of pitching a fit, I don't want him around. ESPECIALLY if he's pitching a fit about something as superficial as my hairstyle. "Man, I REALLY don't like that hairstyle" is fine. "WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU DO!?" is not.
She should dump his ass.
Would have been way funnier if she found out he was really into it and was disappointed to find out it was fake.
The fact that he said that he doesn't like women with short hair or bald women shows that his "love" conditional. She needs to dump him now.
Even if it was real, the fact is he doesn't care at all about her as a person. Just cares about how she looks. If it was real, I would hope she ditched him real fast.
Lmao
She's a bald influence. I swear I read that.
Really? This guy cannot see the obvious difference in skin where the balding filter takes over??
Her boyfriend is a bit shallow. I can understand being shocked, but his comment about not having a thing for girls with short hair just didn't sit right with me. If he loves her it shouldn't matter what her head looks like.
my wife is partially bald actually. she wears a wig in public. at home she doesn't have to. and I don't care. those wigs can get hot. she is about the sweetest person I know. that's more important to me. but I am more of a serious person and if I thought she pranked me, I wouldn't be happy.
Absolutely love it 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟
Find another guy,
Hope she learned something from this experiment...and when he starts losing his hair, hope he and take the criticism the same way he was able to dish it out.
Drop him like a sack of diseased shit that he is.
If I didn't already regularly shave my head I'd have a blast with this =)
If I didn't already shave my head I would have a blast with that... lol
lol Definitely a jerk. Hell, I met my now husband when I was still bald from chemo. He's said his thoughts when he first saw me was "She's cute! She's.. bald? She loves anime! I have to talk to her!" Nearly four years later, we were married and still the closest after 15 years of marriage.
I realize this isnt real but i seriously hope that there are not real arses like that who are so unbelievably superficial
Yeah, unfortunately, not only are there real arses like this, they're common enough that reactions like the one posted here are considered warning signs of potential domestic abuse.
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Dude needs to up his meds
"What if it doesn't grow again?" and "I want to feel your saliva all over my scalp?"... Better than a fiction conversation...
This is the exact same picture used for another post about a sister who mistook hair remover cream for shampoo. Fake.
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OK, so everyone knows the guy and judges him basing on private conversation someone decides to publish. To achieve what? Make him look like an idiot? He just overreacted to A PRANK, that's all. Probably didn't really mean most of he wrote and would apologize for it. Now try to imagine what you would think being surprised by someone you know shaving top of their head and sending you photo. Probably: 'WTF?!'. He just said it. Maybe it was revenge or maybe she is pushing him to the limits every single day. So stop bringing cancer, making him controlling heartless beast, etc. Most of you should be ashamed of judging freely someone you don't really know. I guess everyone says stupid things to loved ones, anyone willing to share it and be judged by bunch of fortune-tellers?
Mmm...you do realize that "I didn't really mean it" is the most common phrase in the vocabulary of a verbal/emotional abuser, right? This wasn't just a line or two of "What the hell is this?" which would not be unreasonable. This is a WALL of texts of total temper tantrum. There's a MASSIVE difference between, "I love everything about you just the way it is" and "OH MY FUCKING GOD, HOW DARE YOU CHANGE ANYTHING WITHOUT MY PERMISSION!?" There's an equally massive difference between "I don't like that haircut" and "THIS IS A NIGHTMARE." I'm not saying the guy absolutely HAS TO BE an abuser...but I AM saying that this kind of over-the-top reaction needs to be shut down so that it doesn't TURN into abuse, either.
There is also other side of this story: 1) People like to feel attractive and are attracted to others. 2) People like to look nice and be complemented. 3) People like to compete with each other, also to attract their future partner. Let's focus on physical part of human. Imagine you have a partner you lured with your physical appearance and you know somehow what are their preferences (anything - eyes, beard, muscles, weight, height, etc.), but of course they like your overall look (that's why you got in touch at all). Would anyone just freak out if they told they like your appearance and you shouldn't change it, because for them it's just perfect? Anything you were previously aware of they like so much in your body, you would just completely change or remove on purpose to prove they don't own you? Of course, it's your body and no one should force you to do anything with it against you.
(...) But if you're saying you don't care about their opinion and yours is only that matters, why you considered it at the beginning of your relationship you? Why wore make-up, nice clothes, fragrance, push-up on first date if then you say it's not at all important? Would you similarly overreact if your friend told you to pick the other dress because it suits you better or just consider their opinion? Why then making a gender war with your partner? One more thing, the hair which is not at all important. You have haircuts and colours, discuss it with your friends, etc. You are upset if they got accidentally cut or burnt. Feel depressed if you lose them. Dye if you have white hair to early. This is fine, but guy who overreacts because his completely healthy girlfriend fakes shaving top of her head out of nowhere is a heartless controlling bastard. LOL.
"I don't have a thing for women with short hair. Especially women who are bald." Sweetie you had better know that if you do ever need chemo this guy will drop you without a second thought. He failed this test miserably.
It's obviously about cancer.
bald girls are hot.
BF: You're so shallow, ROR!
I'm with him on that one
I love how supportive this made up boyfriend is!
I actually did this for real. Shaved off half my head, beard, mustache and all. Just like the comedian Will Forte!!! My girlfriend freaked!!! It actually brought her to tears!!!
Honestly? I kinda feel like you should perhaps question that relationship. Not so much the "OMG WHUT" initial reaction, but being brought to TEARS over it is kind of...yeah. Along the same lines as this post, shall we say?
The guy is overreacting and crying like a little baby...
What a fucking douchebag.
LMAO I should definitely do the same thing
I thought his reaction would be something like "Ok, it was for a great cause and I'm with you" and then send her a selfie with HIS head shaved - for real. But no, it was just a douchebag freaking out.
Funny but boyfriend is a selfish asshole :)
"I wanna feel your saliva all over my scalp." Bahaha!!
And ?
Idiot (the boyfriend)
The second photo looks as photoshopped as shit.
No comment found: If it would be my girlfriend I would break up. Not because a bad joke, because she sent it online. With her face in pictures. So all our friend can read it.
Ya know what? Now that I looked twice? Are we sure "she's" not a "he" just messing with us? I'd like to see full photos of before & after. Just sayin'.
I wonder what that app is called? Could be interesting.
Ladoti Armstrong haha
So was it fake??
Hahaha, whether she shaved her head or not this is hilarious!
CaptianCyph3r ain't wrong
Dump his shallow ass!!!!!
Uhm, ok so.. dump that idiot.
"SHES A BAD INFLUENCE" you could say she's...a BALD influence,hee hee
ill get the door
Asinine prank. Gotcha.
It looks like he's acting surprise because his life is boring and needs to amuse girlfriend in this pathetic way.
Oh no this is wonderous hhh, it's so funny