A Girl On Tinder Said This Guy Was Too Fat For Her, So He Shut Her Down
Tinder is an online dating lottery. You never know who your match really is until you’ve met them in person. They might be the funniest person you’ve ever met, but they also could be a total weirdo. This guy, however, got the third option – a complete a-hole with the lowest possible self-esteem, which boosts their ego by liking a Tinder dating profile just to vomit disgusting body shaming insults at its owner. Probably not exactly what he or anyone else would desire. Little did the fat shaming brat know, however, that this dude had the calmest of nerves and wouldn’t lose it to some rude people’s delight. Although not all of the hope is lost as after posting this terrible conversation online, the little missus got all the savage comebacks that she deserves. Scroll down to check out the whole story and the best comebacks that followed it, but before you decide never to use it (again), check out these Funny Tinder Profiles that prove it’s not entirely devoid of decent human beings.
People couldn’t believe somebody was that toxic
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What the... She didn't have to let him know.... Just cancel the like. No harm done. If he got back in touch to ask who she was, she could just say she mistook him for someone else and not be a poophole. I think we need an obbligatory education about good manners that will include psychology and neurology, to understand the importance of it all.
most people these days dont understand decency anymore. they dont realize that you can look at someone who is fat and not tell them they are fat. worse they expect when they are a******s to others the other person doesnt retaliate. this is why i dont want to live on this planet anymore.
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What? That's it? He just shut her up by calling her a c*nt? Well, that's disappointing... Next BP post, "a guys tells a girl that she is not very nice because she didn't say hello to him while he was taking the trash out".
He didn't even shut her up, you can see she sent him more messages after that.
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So, does every cranky bit of "someone insulted me" have to go on BP these days? I thought this page was there to have fun.
Maybe it's just me, but I happen to like big guys....always have. Something about them makes me think of a big protective teddy bear. Ripped muscles do nothing for me. Nice to look at, but who wants to snuggle with a rock?
Once a guy from my high school called me fat. I said "Well I can lose weight, you will have an ugly soul forever". 10 years later and BAM! I lost weight, I exercise regularly and look quite well. And him? He's getting divorced and asked me out recently.
So "c**t" is the "perfect comeback? That is not witty, it is merely a reply with an insult.
What a shallow, mean-spirited woman. Just say, "Sorry, matched you by mistake.". Nah, she had to needlessly go into full b***h mode
Oh no, an a*****e on Tinder?? What is the world coming to! xD I mean, I've had so many guys say all kinds of s**t, from "You need to get on a plane back into your league" to "I'm not paying for a date though bc u look like you ate enough already". Joke's on them because they were the ones who swiped right, but it's not exactly surprising that you have some girls who are toxic too
My response would likely have been more along the lines of "why would I want to kill myself over some narcissistic bimbo whose opinion I don't give two shits about?"
Unpopular opinion. Let's be honest, it's Tinder. The whole Tinder idea is based on looks only and is shallow af. She is looking for a particular build and he doesn't comply with it and she told him that in a brutally honest and yes, maybe a hard way. But come on, what did you expect on Tinder. This kind of things probably happens every minute on Tinder. If you can't take this kind of honest and insult then don't go on Tinder and find someone in real life or even try other methods.
Sure, Tinder is based on looks but she could have simply unmatched him or cancel the like or whatever instead of going out of her way to message him only to criticize his build insulting him repeatedly, and then he goes insulting her back in return....this whole conversation between them is absurd and entirely unnecessary. And I have no idea why it's here on BP
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Kiki I'll break this down for you because you clearly are r******d. Yes I know you was referring to me personally, as you where being very rude. I don't have issues with my weight, but you obviously do. (My weight, not yours, in case you didn't understand that.) Before you got personal, you where siding with the rude woman in the story. All I said was, is that I have been fat shamed. So what is your problem with that? I AM the person I like and I don't need s**t from the likes of you. Now f**k off r****d!
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Someday she will marry ‘Mr. Right’, they will have kids and he will leave her because she got fat. Karma is a nasty reward for a nasty gal.
Omg that’s so shallow it’s scary. Size means nothing, absolutely nothing. I know very skinny people right through to morbidly obese and it’s their personalities that matter. I’ve never even found weight to have that much of a factor on health. I knew a wonderful man of perfect weight who died of heart failure and his very over weight brother was perfectly healthy. I went to school with an aerobics instructor who was as wide as she was tall. I’m married to a man that was very under weight when we started going out and a little over weight when we got married and I love him and will continue to love him whatever size he is at any point.
I think he dodged a bullet ... imagine if she HAD decided to go thru with the match ... [shutter] he would have been saddled with that sack of shjt. If this is a fake post, then all the better to show what really happens in true life if you happen to be 'not the norm'. [Been there, had that happen.] People will never get better, they will only get worse. Mark my words. Not being negative, being real.
And that is why she will be constantly judged on her body size by others because she does the same to people... while my chubby a*s is being loved and shagged by my skinny AF spouse who doesn't give a s**t if I'm eating too many sugar cookies or had an extra serving of mash potatoes with dinner. I still look good with clothes on and I rock their world with clothes off.
I would have said "I don't know why anyone would want to kill themselves over a narrow minded tramp with an inflated ego and a false sense of importance. Personally, I'm surprised you're getting matched with anyone. Hey? Did you lie on your application?"
Some of these comments are absolutely PRICELESS!!!! Also, someone made a REAL stretch and attributed to her some human being type qualities! (NONE of which she has!) LOL She also is as shallow as a puddle after a 5 year drought!
I suddenly feel very good about my life because I don't have anyone like her in it.
This wasn't news article worthy. All he did was call her a c*nt. Nothing witty. You lost points with this one, BoredPanda.
When I was online dating I met some real winners. One guy was extremely bitter and apparently hated women (but he's online trying to find one) Okaaaaay. I walked out after 5 minutes. Another guy had a picture on his profile that had to be at least 10 years old. He also listed himself as HWP (height/weight proportionate) but was probably a good 100 lbs. overweight. It didn't bother me so much that he was heavy, it bothered me that he thought of himself as HWP, which indicated to me he probably had some underlying issues I didn't want to wade through. He seemed like a nice guy, I just wasn't attracted to him. Luckily I found my Honey in a relatively short period of time (11 years ago, BTW). He's a little chubby, but in a cuddly kind of way!
normal size? THAT is something new, thank God I am not normal in any aspect of my life
Ben voyons la conne. Tu fais juste "remove like" et tu fermes ta yeule.
Back when IRC was a thing, i used nickname "Fatso" (in reality i was nothing if not skinny my entire life). People used to PM me just to tell that no woman will ever date a sweaty fat pig like me.
Not a good thing to do, but you have to wonder what her life is like if she thinks it's acceptable.
She could just undo the like, but the internet makes people feel safe to say anything they like to anyone. You have to feel pretty bad about yourself to strike out at other people for no reason at all like that. Pity her, I do.
As the first response to this guy's comeback says: There's no cure for being an a*****e. This is true. Very true indeed.
She is hardly the catch of the season herself, ugly inside and out
Everyone's got their own standards and that's ok; beauty is highly subjective. With that said, if she wasn't interested, she could have had a modicum of decency and just told him she had met someone else already or something along those lines and not intentionally been a witch. And my response would have been "That's ok, someone will love you someday even though you're a c*nt" Or maybe not.
Bored Panda: A day might come when we stop posting stupid "shutdown" posts....BUT IT IS NOT THIS DAY!
I don't know about men, but every girl or woman I've seen who trashes others for being fat is borderline fat or has to fight the fat constantly. I think it's a case of "if I have to work so hard to stay then, then I resent anyone who doesn't" & possibly fear.
What the... She didn't have to let him know.... Just cancel the like. No harm done. If he got back in touch to ask who she was, she could just say she mistook him for someone else and not be a poophole. I think we need an obbligatory education about good manners that will include psychology and neurology, to understand the importance of it all.
most people these days dont understand decency anymore. they dont realize that you can look at someone who is fat and not tell them they are fat. worse they expect when they are a******s to others the other person doesnt retaliate. this is why i dont want to live on this planet anymore.
Load More Replies... What? That's it? He just shut her up by calling her a c*nt? Well, that's disappointing... Next BP post, "a guys tells a girl that she is not very nice because she didn't say hello to him while he was taking the trash out".
He didn't even shut her up, you can see she sent him more messages after that.
Load More Replies... So, does every cranky bit of "someone insulted me" have to go on BP these days? I thought this page was there to have fun.
Maybe it's just me, but I happen to like big guys....always have. Something about them makes me think of a big protective teddy bear. Ripped muscles do nothing for me. Nice to look at, but who wants to snuggle with a rock?
Once a guy from my high school called me fat. I said "Well I can lose weight, you will have an ugly soul forever". 10 years later and BAM! I lost weight, I exercise regularly and look quite well. And him? He's getting divorced and asked me out recently.
So "c**t" is the "perfect comeback? That is not witty, it is merely a reply with an insult.
What a shallow, mean-spirited woman. Just say, "Sorry, matched you by mistake.". Nah, she had to needlessly go into full b***h mode
Oh no, an a*****e on Tinder?? What is the world coming to! xD I mean, I've had so many guys say all kinds of s**t, from "You need to get on a plane back into your league" to "I'm not paying for a date though bc u look like you ate enough already". Joke's on them because they were the ones who swiped right, but it's not exactly surprising that you have some girls who are toxic too
My response would likely have been more along the lines of "why would I want to kill myself over some narcissistic bimbo whose opinion I don't give two shits about?"
Unpopular opinion. Let's be honest, it's Tinder. The whole Tinder idea is based on looks only and is shallow af. She is looking for a particular build and he doesn't comply with it and she told him that in a brutally honest and yes, maybe a hard way. But come on, what did you expect on Tinder. This kind of things probably happens every minute on Tinder. If you can't take this kind of honest and insult then don't go on Tinder and find someone in real life or even try other methods.
Sure, Tinder is based on looks but she could have simply unmatched him or cancel the like or whatever instead of going out of her way to message him only to criticize his build insulting him repeatedly, and then he goes insulting her back in return....this whole conversation between them is absurd and entirely unnecessary. And I have no idea why it's here on BP
Load More Replies... Kiki I'll break this down for you because you clearly are r******d. Yes I know you was referring to me personally, as you where being very rude. I don't have issues with my weight, but you obviously do. (My weight, not yours, in case you didn't understand that.) Before you got personal, you where siding with the rude woman in the story. All I said was, is that I have been fat shamed. So what is your problem with that? I AM the person I like and I don't need s**t from the likes of you. Now f**k off r****d!
Load More Replies... Someday she will marry ‘Mr. Right’, they will have kids and he will leave her because she got fat. Karma is a nasty reward for a nasty gal.
Omg that’s so shallow it’s scary. Size means nothing, absolutely nothing. I know very skinny people right through to morbidly obese and it’s their personalities that matter. I’ve never even found weight to have that much of a factor on health. I knew a wonderful man of perfect weight who died of heart failure and his very over weight brother was perfectly healthy. I went to school with an aerobics instructor who was as wide as she was tall. I’m married to a man that was very under weight when we started going out and a little over weight when we got married and I love him and will continue to love him whatever size he is at any point.
I think he dodged a bullet ... imagine if she HAD decided to go thru with the match ... [shutter] he would have been saddled with that sack of shjt. If this is a fake post, then all the better to show what really happens in true life if you happen to be 'not the norm'. [Been there, had that happen.] People will never get better, they will only get worse. Mark my words. Not being negative, being real.
And that is why she will be constantly judged on her body size by others because she does the same to people... while my chubby a*s is being loved and shagged by my skinny AF spouse who doesn't give a s**t if I'm eating too many sugar cookies or had an extra serving of mash potatoes with dinner. I still look good with clothes on and I rock their world with clothes off.
I would have said "I don't know why anyone would want to kill themselves over a narrow minded tramp with an inflated ego and a false sense of importance. Personally, I'm surprised you're getting matched with anyone. Hey? Did you lie on your application?"
Some of these comments are absolutely PRICELESS!!!! Also, someone made a REAL stretch and attributed to her some human being type qualities! (NONE of which she has!) LOL She also is as shallow as a puddle after a 5 year drought!
I suddenly feel very good about my life because I don't have anyone like her in it.
This wasn't news article worthy. All he did was call her a c*nt. Nothing witty. You lost points with this one, BoredPanda.
When I was online dating I met some real winners. One guy was extremely bitter and apparently hated women (but he's online trying to find one) Okaaaaay. I walked out after 5 minutes. Another guy had a picture on his profile that had to be at least 10 years old. He also listed himself as HWP (height/weight proportionate) but was probably a good 100 lbs. overweight. It didn't bother me so much that he was heavy, it bothered me that he thought of himself as HWP, which indicated to me he probably had some underlying issues I didn't want to wade through. He seemed like a nice guy, I just wasn't attracted to him. Luckily I found my Honey in a relatively short period of time (11 years ago, BTW). He's a little chubby, but in a cuddly kind of way!
normal size? THAT is something new, thank God I am not normal in any aspect of my life
Ben voyons la conne. Tu fais juste "remove like" et tu fermes ta yeule.
Back when IRC was a thing, i used nickname "Fatso" (in reality i was nothing if not skinny my entire life). People used to PM me just to tell that no woman will ever date a sweaty fat pig like me.
Not a good thing to do, but you have to wonder what her life is like if she thinks it's acceptable.
She could just undo the like, but the internet makes people feel safe to say anything they like to anyone. You have to feel pretty bad about yourself to strike out at other people for no reason at all like that. Pity her, I do.
As the first response to this guy's comeback says: There's no cure for being an a*****e. This is true. Very true indeed.
She is hardly the catch of the season herself, ugly inside and out
Everyone's got their own standards and that's ok; beauty is highly subjective. With that said, if she wasn't interested, she could have had a modicum of decency and just told him she had met someone else already or something along those lines and not intentionally been a witch. And my response would have been "That's ok, someone will love you someday even though you're a c*nt" Or maybe not.
Bored Panda: A day might come when we stop posting stupid "shutdown" posts....BUT IT IS NOT THIS DAY!
I don't know about men, but every girl or woman I've seen who trashes others for being fat is borderline fat or has to fight the fat constantly. I think it's a case of "if I have to work so hard to stay then, then I resent anyone who doesn't" & possibly fear.
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