Gay Man Gets Turned Down From Adopting A Rescue Cat, So He Shares The Texts Online
What makes you a good cat dad? Love for the animal? Owning a flat with a large enclosed outside space? Nope. Your sexuality, apparently.
Alex Andreou is a UK-based writer and actor who recently decided it was time to adopt a kitty. Following an ad, he traveled two hours to meet a person who said their little furball was in desperate need of re-homing. However, they changed their mind after finding out that Alex is gay. And that’s just the beginning of the story. As the bigot turned out to be a psycho, things just kept getting weirder and weirder. Scroll down to read the whole story in Alex’s own words.
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This is Alex Andreou, a UK-based writer and actor
He was going to adopt a kitty, but its “religious” owner got really judgemental
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"I am religious..." Well, that's your problem, Lady.... A cure exists, called Thinking by your own
I am religious but I'm not mean and also respect others lifestyles.
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There are some f****d up people in this world.. Glad it worked out for you Alex! Very cute little kittens with awesome names :D
Not f****d up just ignorant...close minded. We all have a comfort zone some people’s zones are that way too big lol
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Wild ride.... but I do so love a happy pet story. Best wishes, Alex, Freddie and George.
We should learn from animals. They don't care if their human is black, white, gay, straight, tall, short or whatever. Just as long as they are nice people who have love and kindness in their hearts, pets are happy.
I'm just replying to Js comment. I am a Christian. I do not believe that I have made the wrong choice or that it is wrong to be a Christian. However, I do find it wrong about what this women said. I feel like some people can become TOO religious and discriminate. NOT ALL CHRISTENS OR RELIGIONS ARE LIKE THIS! Even if I wasn't religious, I would still believe that some people r being a hypocrite. What else would u call saying bad things about a religion because of what they believe and getting mad at them for saying something bad about gays when u r doing the same thing to them? I believe that people have the right to be gay, but people also have the right to be religious without ur harsh comments.
There are religious groups that march in support in my town's Pride parade. I was happy to see a Catholic group (the first) this year. There are also denominations that perform same-sex weddings.
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Would a god that tortures people for all eternity on account of who they fall in love with/ have sex with really be worth worshipping? Any god that did not want Homosexaulity to be a thing could simply have made it impossible, in the same way that drinking Lava does not need to made a sin because it's not posible to do.
Especially given the fact that all 4 verses in the Bible prohibiting homosexuality were inserted by Pope Constantine I as a measure to combat the population decline that was happening at the time. The reason was that the general attitude was that women were only for procreation and were not capable of feeling passion, love, true emotion, etc., so if you wanted a truly passionate loving relationship, you had it with another man. If you needed an heir, you slept with a woman until she was pregnant, then you went back to your boyfriend for the emotional connection. This attitude was contributing to a declining birthrate, so the Pope decreed that G-d said sex between men is evil and you'll go to hell if you do it. Once that decree was made, birth rates started to climb. There's a book about the secular history of the Bible and the Church that is fascinating. It explains how a lot of things the faithful of the major religions assume as the given word of G-d were actually politically, financially, and sometimes just plain a*****e-y motivated.
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I am pretty sure that most people who love their cats will never ever be caught saying "Their cat looks like any other cat".
OMG! When the owner said she used a stock photo "because all cats look alike" I knew she was a scam! And wanting to see their new home... you mean 'case the joint'?
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I'm a Christian and I tell you, I don't get how other Christians can be so judgmental. So happy you finally got your kitties! I have had lots of cats over the past 30 yrs, and am now down to one. They are great company and very affectionate. I miss all my kitties so much, no matter how many years have gone by.
Homophobia is not exclusive to Christians. There are plenty of Muslims, Jews, Buddhists & atheists (just to name a few) who are no better, or worse. Just saying.
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I have faith, though not very religious. You know what my faith says? It says, "Love others the way God loves you." If the hyper-religious would truly live like the Christ tells them, the would would be a better place.
You know the last person in the world the republican party would vote for president? That hippie longhaired jew (who was probably more black than white).
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Religious my a*s! This nut case was posting stock photos of cats because she didn't have any, and then just kept turning people down. Religious but thinks it's okay to lie to people like that? What a psycho.
Cats are loving pets they don't judge. But they will wake you up at 3 am!
I went through a scam like this in October. Answered two different craigslist adds about kittens. They wanted to meet behind a grocery store an charge me $100 for the cats (each diff listing asked for that amount). When I asked for more photos I was sent a pic that was photoshopped. I mentioned I needed to see a few photos not altered to show my husband. Then I get a reply from both texters that they can meet me for one cat. One was grey. One was black. But was from two diff numbers about the black cat. I asked what about the grey one. Oh that was adopted. Well then why are you messsgaeing me from two numbers? Oh that's my gfs phone. Ummm the texts came literally 15 sec apart an w the same info copy/pasted. I went to the adds an reported them. Then replying to both numbers in a group texts I screen shot them replying and told them to stop scamming people. I could have wound up behind a store an robbed and no cats existed. I did go through a local adoption group and got my new baby.
I am religious. And...I think that someone who can find love not matter the sex...its beautiful. And who is she to determine that this man wouldn't be a great dad to those kitties. He may be a better cat owner than someone who's straight. Being religious isn't a crutch to justify cruel behavior. Love is love and beautiful not matter what. Maybe if we all loved each other more the world would be a HELL of a lot better.
It's fine to be gay. It's fine to be straight. It's fine to be transsexual. It's fine to be bisexual. It's fine to be religious. It's fine to be atheist. It's fine to be black. It's fine to be white. It's fine to be Asian. It's fine to be a man. It's fine to be a woman. You wanna know what's NOT fine? To be a hater.
If you can you provide food and scratches then you are suitable. It's what the kitties want.
I believe in Jesus, and he is all about LOVE love thy neighbor as your self. does anyone really think cats care who is who as long as they are loved, cuddled and yes feed. goodness me people urg
Im a Christian & i am apalled by the biotry by "people of faith".Dr. King said to judge a person by the content of their character. What a character!!! Ought to be ashamed.Alex.,be you , she has some #/÷,"* to anwer to GOD for..Best to you &the kitties.
Me: oh, this is going to be one of those single images and "the internet" gave its opinion ones... Me later: oh wow Me at the end: OH MY GOSH YES
I absolutely hate anyone who thinks being gay is bad, and if you think you'll go to hell for it, that is completetly wrong. God accepts ALL people, including homosexuals
I too am religious, but your sexual preference is NONE OF MY BUSINESS!!! Glad you got to be a cat dad in the end. George and Freddie are adorable.
There probably is no God. Dare to think for yourself and enjoy life.
That woman clearly has problems. I love the happy ending, though, and the pussycats’ names!
Oh Alex I am over-the-moon happy for you and Freddy and George! You so belong to eachother after all this bullsh_t! I cannot imagine anyone being that sick. But if I would imagine it, it would involve someone religious. They seem to be the most hypocritical of anyone on the planet. So many years of love and happiness for the 3 of you, hopefully someday soon to be the 4 of you, whomever you choose. Big Hugz
"I am religious..." Well, lady, please don't bring in religion when you talk about being homophobic. It causes people to think badly of religion, and it honestly shouldn't have anything to do with it. I should know. I'm an extreme Catholic, and I am fully supportive of the gay community. Heck, all my best friends are Bi. I'm just sick of people hating on religion for stuff like this, you really shouldn't. Religion should make people better, Christianity teaches that you should try to love all people and try to be as forgiving and kind as possible. It doesn't matter what their sexuality, race, religion, or gender is. We all want to make the world a better place, and hating on religion and being homophobic isn't going to help in any way.
All cats look alike? What was she thinking? Does that creep know the least bit about all the different varieties? Especially random-bred moggies (alley cats) that come in a huge variety of colors and patterns.
I drove an hour and a half to get a puppy, the guy sent pictures and agreed to meet at a local aquarium parking lot (For safety reasons) and the guy never showed. I can understand changing your mind, but just flat out ignoring me was a major let down. Maybe there was no dog and he was serial killer. Either way, several days later I met a nice family that was homing some puppies and nine years later she's still the apple of my eye.
This is just my opinion and beliefs so I could be wrong but I think that hell is eternal separation from God. The Bible uses a lot of metaphors, so a lot of scholars and people think that it was just a metaphor for hell. However we could be wrong. Also I am a Christian who supports LGBTQ+ people. I am not LGBTQ+ but I believe in equity and will support them. Why should we tear down people who are different? Telling someone that they can't adopt a cat because the person who wants to adopt is gay is just wrong. I'm glad he finally got the kittens!
Hey Alex, How are Freddie and George doing? I was just reading your story and the tears were just flowing. I am gay also but that should have nothing to do with anything. We all know how that works. I am glad you have the kids. Hope you find Mr. Right soon, if you haven't already. All the best to you Dave Hogg British Columbia Canada
You can disagree how others live their life but that DOES NOT give anyone the right to judge a person or make ignorant statements to a person. I do not care who you are if I don't agree with something that you believe in don't push your beliefs on me period!! I don't give a damn how religious a person is, that person has not always been holy than thou so just because you found "GOD" in your life does not mean everything from your past that you have done just disappears. And I thought it was "thou shall not judge" so obviously you live by some of the Bible but not all of it so mind your business because another person's life does not affect your life so why do you feel the need to go out of your way to insult a person about their lifestyle??? Religious people get on my damn nerves shut tf up and worry about your life and not others because I know y'all aren't the angels you try to make people believe you are!!!
I'm an old combat Vet with a cold approach to the world, but DAMN, this actually made some tears.....and the usual anger, too. One of the very few times I hope (and believe in this case) that the interwierd is a good place. Also, absolutely kick a*s names for the little guys! Cheers from Austin!
You should NEVER, EVER apologise for who you are as long as you are good to others. All this religious rubbish! who the hell do you think you are? other people's life style has naff all to do with anyone- (as long as nobody is being harmed) if you don't agree with how people live just mind your own business. It really is as simple as that!
I was denied a kidney donation for being gay! Come on! weird goes on all levels!
Wonder if SHE was looking for some action... "Oh ....you're gay." "I wanted to be invited to your home!" Sounds veeeeeery strange. (And yeah, I can not even begin to describe my feelings considering her way of trying to make him feel bad about himself..she's a human failure& should keep away from people and cats!)
Glad this guy got some great kitties. Hope that evil religious fake cat "owner" hets struck by lightening for lying. Hey this guy could have called her religiousness and lying being a sin into a think... I would have
Is it like fred and george from Harry Potter?? Congrats on the new pets!
Freddy Mercury and George Michael. Both deceased. Both gay. There's the cleverness in the names. :-)
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Omg I love this man and his love for the kitties. He's a beautiful soul, and anyone hurting him purposely is in fact a demon.
Why advertise if you don't have the product or in this case, cats? Seriously, why waste time doing this. I wonder if the "religious" lady is just evil-incarnate getting her jollies telling people off and that they "can't have her cats." WTH? And that lady also needs to remember Matthew 7:2... "For with whatever judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with whatever measure you measure, it will be measured to you." (just sayin')
A writer ought to be able to come up with a better story than this hackneyed and trite malarkey. This whole story is purposely unverifiable. Its almost like it was written by Jussie Smollett.
One would almost expect that a writer could come up with a much better story than this hackneyed and trite bs. This whole tale is purposely unverifiable.
Yup, you look gay. ‘Nuff said...now not allowing you to adopt my pet? Well, kind of ignorant, but it IS their pet until they give/transfer it to yiu...
i'm religious and gay. so i literally mean it that i will go to hell for my boyfriend
Georges' color is just BEAUTIFUL. And I too want to name a cat Freddie - Freddie Meowcury!
Well, its ok if you dont agree with lgbt lifestyle, neither do I, but unlike religious people, I have learned something called respect. You know~ respect~ as in, as long as they're doing something legal AND NONE OF UR FKING BSNSS, do not bother people for being different! Many people nowadays do not have enough IQ to differentiate between the concepts of "bad" and "different"... If someone is different from you, it doesn't mean that they are bad and will be going to hell... besides... only fake religious people believe in this hell b******t...
Why is the comment section a war on whether religion is ok? Why don't we all just take a step back, not give a f**k about the life choices of others, and just decide to mind our own business and not scream at a rando?
Well... that's how "religious" people act, instead of sharing love. What else can you expect from that kind of people? On the other hand... what would've have happened if the story was the other way around? Nobody would've even noticed... I respect gay people, but I don't like the idea of them always trying to be "special" and "relevant"... makes no sense sharing this story on social networks to get popular and catch people's attention and support.
Am I wrong? I thought she said something about wanting the cat to go to a married couple? Just cuz he's gay, how does that mean he's not married? OR has children? And I am a Christian, a good one I hope, cuz I believe with my whole heart that people are born to be as they are as adults. Even if it's a separate path they have to take. (sex re-assigning). HOWEVER I will ever and forever hold it against you that you are a cat person. Cuz dogs rule. And I hate cats, so there. heh.
Those are awesome kitty names!!! I especially love Freddie Purrcury! Freddie Mercury had this dedictaction on his 1985 album "Mr Bad Guy" - "This album is dedicated to my cat Jerry - also Tom, Oscar and Tiffany, and all the cat lovers across the universe - screw everybody else!"
She didn't refuse to give him the cats because he was gay. She did the same to others as well. She advertised cats, just so she could say "no" to people. Because she got some sort of a twisted kick out of it. Homophobia is unfair. But, let's not turn this into something it wasn't. She probably refused others based on their race, religion & even hair colour. She's a nutter. Not some rational person. And is hardly a typical representation of all Christians. She's probably not even religious. I would be careful about meeting strangers on my own. Male or not. There are some really crazy people out there. Clearly. Good grief!
Doesn't Gods word (and other religions speak about loving your neighbor ? I know I'm still young and all but doesn't God teach us to love everyone? I say this is pretty hypocritical.
I'm sorry that someone used "being religious" as an excuse to treat you this way. She doesn't sound "religious," she sounds like a nutjob, given the rest of the story. I'm glad you got new kitties tho! Yay!
I love the cat names. People are just people some good some bad. I would be willing to bet that this man will be an awesome Daddy to these kittens. They are very lucky kitties. Don't let someone else's opinion of you affect your life. This lady is obviously and idiot with lots of hate in her heart. Love is Love...ALL Lives matter. God made us and loves us not matter what.
My take on all this is so screwed because though I am very happy about the way it turned out and though I'm disgusted by the weird effectiveness of the power tripper, I kind of want to see a Bourne movie where the entirely LGBQT cast works against a straight power tripper to free her cats. I mean, that dude's beard couldl star. Look at it.
"Are you not afraid of going to hell"? Is there really people that still wrap themself into this heaven and hell superstition coat? Oh well. The most important is he got some cats he can spoil rotten. Yezzz.
"I am religious". Yeah, and so am I, ma'am, a Christian since I was a baby. I'm also lesbian. Sir, kudos to you, you handled it amazingly, and I'm so glad you got your kitties!
I am religious, but not a bigot....and also a cat lover. I am so glad this worked out...except for that weird lady.
Brilliant, figuring out the woman with the imaginary cats was crackers. If she was a cat lover, she'd never say that all cats look alike! So happy to read Alex has two new loves in his life. Wonderful for him, wonderful for the kitties.
Maybe she uses the ad, to try and “ save a soul” or some other trip she is on. Bottom line, we don’t make the final decision on how or who makes it to heaven. So, be kind to everyone, and let God do the choosing on who get in and who doesn’t. Personally, I think HE HAS DIFFERENT requirements than humans do, and LBGTQ, PEOPLE OF COLOR AND anyone, have just as much right as a do folder, to get in to heaven. Just sayin’!
The woman is definitely NOT a cat person if she thinks all cats look alike! This stunt reeks of a teenage prank. Also she's not as religious as she believes if she's so judgmental. (I love the cat names!)
Dude, you rock. Gay men love cats too! Spirituality beats religion, hands down.
Christians: Jesus was a straight, 30+ year old virgin with 12 very close male friends, one of whom was plotting to kill him. Me: Sounds legit. Let's ban gay people from adopting pets. Makes total sense. Mugato: I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!
oh, so you are religious AND offended? Well I am NOT religious ... and YOU offend ME!
Religion is the cause for most all of the problems in this world, and definitely IS the basis for every war ever waged. Mr. Andreou: I would say MOST people don't give a damn about your sex life. The emphasis is, and should be by EVERYONE, that you are an upstanding citizen treating friends and critters with love and care. You would be quite welcome in my neighborhood and in fact, and better yet, my next door neighbor! Be happy, live well and a long and healthy life! Including your critters!
At first I thought Alex was hot. Then I read he was "sobbing" because a person turned him down for adopting a cat. From a bisexual man to this gay man; get a grip. Seriously.
A happy ending! Love that you got your kitties in the end, they are beaut! I don't even know what to say bout that nasty women, I'm sorry she put you through all that but it's over now and you have kitties!!
Love Love Love! Love how he handled this, and love the new happy family!
YAY! As an officially certified crazy person, I say: blame her for being an evil nasty b***h, not being crazy! Otherwise, XD
I know its a trope to come on the internet, look at cats, and complement those cats ... but those are some handsome cats.
This is a great story and I hope humanity will accept more people more freely!
Congratulations on the new members of his family. Sad there are people out there using animals as ways to manipulate & hurt people. Shame on them, karma is a b***h.
Okay, the fact that this religious mystery cat offering person is simultaneously claiming that the cats are 'so very dear to her' while also stating that 'all cats look the same'... bullcrap. Either you care for your cat or you don't. No one who truly cares for their pet would say such a thing. Also, these days, if you've got a phone, you've got a camera. And almost everyone has some kind of cell phone. I think it was a complete scam from the beginning. Like he said, some sort of weird power trip. Bizarre. Or maybe something more dangerous. Glad he got the ad taken down.
Ok you say you are from London and are wanting to re-home unwanted cats. There are more than a couple of cat rescue centers in the London area. The Cats' Protection League Address: 135 Junction Rd, Archway, London N19 5PX, UK and of course Battersea Dogs and Cats' Home Address: 4 Battersea Park Rd, London SW8 4AA, UK. I am quite sure that the staff there will have no problem about you being gay. After all look at the the amount of series Paul O'Grady did with the people in Battersea and he is well gay. I know his programmes focused on the dogs but the same staff there look after the cats too. All the staff in these places want is for their animals to go to a warm, safe and loving home where they will be cared for for the rest of their lives and since you are prepared to provide that, there will be no problem for you adopting cats from them. Give them a call, I am sure they will love to hear from you. G☺☺d Luck.
It is incredible how some are called "super religious" yet think that gun violence is okay.
So glad Alex has given a loving home to George and Freddy(great names by the way) .Those kitty's have certainly fallen on their feet(pardon the pun).I have a feeling you dodged a bullet not letting that nutjob into you home .She was hoping "the family would be kind enough to invite me in for tea"....?? Sounds like she was trying to rehome herself...Or she is a vampire,either option ,doesn't have a good outcome ;)
This sent me through so many emotions and thoughts, and the comments section did so too. I’m very glad this man got some cats. He deserves them. Your sexuality (along with a billion other things) shouldn’t be a problem. The woman, according to the man, would try to come up with reasons to not give the cats she supposedly had away, so she may not have been religious.
Truly religious I should say. Excuse that. - Your friendly local bisexual Christian
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Anyone that knows me knows that I love my two cats more than my own life. If something were to happen to me or my husband, I would let this guy care for them in a second. I've found that gay guys are more conscientious, more attentive and just more involved in general than straight guys. I wish I could contact this guy and ask to put him in my will in case I need someone to care for mine. Also, Freddy Purrcury is one of the best names ever. Those are two lucky cats.
What lucky Kittens. Great to have a loving dad to raise them to be the kittens any parent would be proud of. <3 wins!
Best of luck to Alex and your new family, George and Freddy. They will give you lots of love. Best wishes
This is such a weird story, glad it has a happy end! By the way - to any other Londoners who are able to provide home for a cat or a dog, you can definitely check out Battersea Cat and Dog Rescue House! I've been there last year and they always have cats and doggies who are desperate for some love and place to call home.
If anything I would think a gay guy would make the best cat parent ever. Those kitties will be spoiled, get the best of everything, always tasteful. Those are two lucky kitties! That woman is just a crazy nutjob!
I'm not gay but my cat and dog still love me, almost as much as I love them.
Load More Replies... I love kittens, cats, no. Little spawns of satan. So I could bring you puppy. They do not grow up to be little spawns of satan, except my dad’s dog. Actually, he might be satan. Anyway, let me know about the puppy. Cheers
Accurate. However, kitties are awesome. Hail Satan!
Load More Replies... I just hate when people pick and choose from the Bible or use their religion to justify and push their hate. I'm so glad he got the kitties!
They even used the bible to justify slavery back then.
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Stupid people. I hate that people get to make others feel this way without consequences.
Alex, Freddie and George! I hope you will have the best of times together as a new family! xx
I find that most "Christian" people that act this way are very unhappy with their own lives..probably because they missed God's true messages. Love conquers all and treat others as you would want to be treated. Besides, I'm a firm believer that only God has the right to judge another' lifestyle..not us humans. Most "Christians" also forgot one of Jesus's biggest lessons.."Let he who is without sin cast the first stone."
I actually teared up at the end. FABULOUS story !! And I love their names. Congrats FurDaddy!!! <3
I love happy endings 😺 . But that woman was/is nuts; I'm not sure she was ever ready to give up the cats or if there even are/were any cats to begin with or if she made them up. Maybe she's just lonely wants to meet new people, in that case she should find another way.
If she has happily had the cats for months whilst looking for the purr-fect home, then why does she need to rehome them at all??
Load More Replies... One thing that got me is when that bloke said about the burner phone, that he replied with what he did? I did not see that mentioned. I, for one, have a strong dislike for being called out on something I did not do. Segregation much? But besides that, the kitties are gorgeous and am glad he got them!
I thought the burner phone comment was a joke. Poorly timed, maybe, but intended to be funny.
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Th-they refused him because he was gay. How were they trying to help him?
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It was a private person, not a company. Being a c**t is not illegal, sadly.
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"Wants" to be gay? So, you consciously made the decision to be attracted to one sex over the other... You said to yourself, "Self, I am attracted to dudes and I'm attracted to ladies...hmmmm...which one do I want to be attracted to from this moment out?" No one 'wants' to be one way or the other, they just are. It's not a lifestyle choice, it's not a decision, it's not being turned, it is the way people are when they are born. It's terrible to hear that in the 21st century people still think it's a decision or choice and refuse to understand it just is.
Load More Replies... "I am religious..." Well, that's your problem, Lady.... A cure exists, called Thinking by your own
I am religious but I'm not mean and also respect others lifestyles.
Load More Replies... There are some f****d up people in this world.. Glad it worked out for you Alex! Very cute little kittens with awesome names :D
Not f****d up just ignorant...close minded. We all have a comfort zone some people’s zones are that way too big lol
Load More Replies... Wild ride.... but I do so love a happy pet story. Best wishes, Alex, Freddie and George.
We should learn from animals. They don't care if their human is black, white, gay, straight, tall, short or whatever. Just as long as they are nice people who have love and kindness in their hearts, pets are happy.
I'm just replying to Js comment. I am a Christian. I do not believe that I have made the wrong choice or that it is wrong to be a Christian. However, I do find it wrong about what this women said. I feel like some people can become TOO religious and discriminate. NOT ALL CHRISTENS OR RELIGIONS ARE LIKE THIS! Even if I wasn't religious, I would still believe that some people r being a hypocrite. What else would u call saying bad things about a religion because of what they believe and getting mad at them for saying something bad about gays when u r doing the same thing to them? I believe that people have the right to be gay, but people also have the right to be religious without ur harsh comments.
There are religious groups that march in support in my town's Pride parade. I was happy to see a Catholic group (the first) this year. There are also denominations that perform same-sex weddings.
Load More Replies... Would a god that tortures people for all eternity on account of who they fall in love with/ have sex with really be worth worshipping? Any god that did not want Homosexaulity to be a thing could simply have made it impossible, in the same way that drinking Lava does not need to made a sin because it's not posible to do.
Especially given the fact that all 4 verses in the Bible prohibiting homosexuality were inserted by Pope Constantine I as a measure to combat the population decline that was happening at the time. The reason was that the general attitude was that women were only for procreation and were not capable of feeling passion, love, true emotion, etc., so if you wanted a truly passionate loving relationship, you had it with another man. If you needed an heir, you slept with a woman until she was pregnant, then you went back to your boyfriend for the emotional connection. This attitude was contributing to a declining birthrate, so the Pope decreed that G-d said sex between men is evil and you'll go to hell if you do it. Once that decree was made, birth rates started to climb. There's a book about the secular history of the Bible and the Church that is fascinating. It explains how a lot of things the faithful of the major religions assume as the given word of G-d were actually politically, financially, and sometimes just plain a*****e-y motivated.
Load More Replies... I am pretty sure that most people who love their cats will never ever be caught saying "Their cat looks like any other cat".
OMG! When the owner said she used a stock photo "because all cats look alike" I knew she was a scam! And wanting to see their new home... you mean 'case the joint'?
Load More Replies... I'm a Christian and I tell you, I don't get how other Christians can be so judgmental. So happy you finally got your kitties! I have had lots of cats over the past 30 yrs, and am now down to one. They are great company and very affectionate. I miss all my kitties so much, no matter how many years have gone by.
Homophobia is not exclusive to Christians. There are plenty of Muslims, Jews, Buddhists & atheists (just to name a few) who are no better, or worse. Just saying.
Load More Replies... I have faith, though not very religious. You know what my faith says? It says, "Love others the way God loves you." If the hyper-religious would truly live like the Christ tells them, the would would be a better place.
You know the last person in the world the republican party would vote for president? That hippie longhaired jew (who was probably more black than white).
Load More Replies... Religious my a*s! This nut case was posting stock photos of cats because she didn't have any, and then just kept turning people down. Religious but thinks it's okay to lie to people like that? What a psycho.
Cats are loving pets they don't judge. But they will wake you up at 3 am!
I went through a scam like this in October. Answered two different craigslist adds about kittens. They wanted to meet behind a grocery store an charge me $100 for the cats (each diff listing asked for that amount). When I asked for more photos I was sent a pic that was photoshopped. I mentioned I needed to see a few photos not altered to show my husband. Then I get a reply from both texters that they can meet me for one cat. One was grey. One was black. But was from two diff numbers about the black cat. I asked what about the grey one. Oh that was adopted. Well then why are you messsgaeing me from two numbers? Oh that's my gfs phone. Ummm the texts came literally 15 sec apart an w the same info copy/pasted. I went to the adds an reported them. Then replying to both numbers in a group texts I screen shot them replying and told them to stop scamming people. I could have wound up behind a store an robbed and no cats existed. I did go through a local adoption group and got my new baby.
I am religious. And...I think that someone who can find love not matter the sex...its beautiful. And who is she to determine that this man wouldn't be a great dad to those kitties. He may be a better cat owner than someone who's straight. Being religious isn't a crutch to justify cruel behavior. Love is love and beautiful not matter what. Maybe if we all loved each other more the world would be a HELL of a lot better.
It's fine to be gay. It's fine to be straight. It's fine to be transsexual. It's fine to be bisexual. It's fine to be religious. It's fine to be atheist. It's fine to be black. It's fine to be white. It's fine to be Asian. It's fine to be a man. It's fine to be a woman. You wanna know what's NOT fine? To be a hater.
If you can you provide food and scratches then you are suitable. It's what the kitties want.
I believe in Jesus, and he is all about LOVE love thy neighbor as your self. does anyone really think cats care who is who as long as they are loved, cuddled and yes feed. goodness me people urg
Im a Christian & i am apalled by the biotry by "people of faith".Dr. King said to judge a person by the content of their character. What a character!!! Ought to be ashamed.Alex.,be you , she has some #/÷,"* to anwer to GOD for..Best to you &the kitties.
Me: oh, this is going to be one of those single images and "the internet" gave its opinion ones... Me later: oh wow Me at the end: OH MY GOSH YES
I absolutely hate anyone who thinks being gay is bad, and if you think you'll go to hell for it, that is completetly wrong. God accepts ALL people, including homosexuals
I too am religious, but your sexual preference is NONE OF MY BUSINESS!!! Glad you got to be a cat dad in the end. George and Freddie are adorable.
There probably is no God. Dare to think for yourself and enjoy life.
That woman clearly has problems. I love the happy ending, though, and the pussycats’ names!
Oh Alex I am over-the-moon happy for you and Freddy and George! You so belong to eachother after all this bullsh_t! I cannot imagine anyone being that sick. But if I would imagine it, it would involve someone religious. They seem to be the most hypocritical of anyone on the planet. So many years of love and happiness for the 3 of you, hopefully someday soon to be the 4 of you, whomever you choose. Big Hugz
"I am religious..." Well, lady, please don't bring in religion when you talk about being homophobic. It causes people to think badly of religion, and it honestly shouldn't have anything to do with it. I should know. I'm an extreme Catholic, and I am fully supportive of the gay community. Heck, all my best friends are Bi. I'm just sick of people hating on religion for stuff like this, you really shouldn't. Religion should make people better, Christianity teaches that you should try to love all people and try to be as forgiving and kind as possible. It doesn't matter what their sexuality, race, religion, or gender is. We all want to make the world a better place, and hating on religion and being homophobic isn't going to help in any way.
All cats look alike? What was she thinking? Does that creep know the least bit about all the different varieties? Especially random-bred moggies (alley cats) that come in a huge variety of colors and patterns.
I drove an hour and a half to get a puppy, the guy sent pictures and agreed to meet at a local aquarium parking lot (For safety reasons) and the guy never showed. I can understand changing your mind, but just flat out ignoring me was a major let down. Maybe there was no dog and he was serial killer. Either way, several days later I met a nice family that was homing some puppies and nine years later she's still the apple of my eye.
This is just my opinion and beliefs so I could be wrong but I think that hell is eternal separation from God. The Bible uses a lot of metaphors, so a lot of scholars and people think that it was just a metaphor for hell. However we could be wrong. Also I am a Christian who supports LGBTQ+ people. I am not LGBTQ+ but I believe in equity and will support them. Why should we tear down people who are different? Telling someone that they can't adopt a cat because the person who wants to adopt is gay is just wrong. I'm glad he finally got the kittens!
Hey Alex, How are Freddie and George doing? I was just reading your story and the tears were just flowing. I am gay also but that should have nothing to do with anything. We all know how that works. I am glad you have the kids. Hope you find Mr. Right soon, if you haven't already. All the best to you Dave Hogg British Columbia Canada
You can disagree how others live their life but that DOES NOT give anyone the right to judge a person or make ignorant statements to a person. I do not care who you are if I don't agree with something that you believe in don't push your beliefs on me period!! I don't give a damn how religious a person is, that person has not always been holy than thou so just because you found "GOD" in your life does not mean everything from your past that you have done just disappears. And I thought it was "thou shall not judge" so obviously you live by some of the Bible but not all of it so mind your business because another person's life does not affect your life so why do you feel the need to go out of your way to insult a person about their lifestyle??? Religious people get on my damn nerves shut tf up and worry about your life and not others because I know y'all aren't the angels you try to make people believe you are!!!
I'm an old combat Vet with a cold approach to the world, but DAMN, this actually made some tears.....and the usual anger, too. One of the very few times I hope (and believe in this case) that the interwierd is a good place. Also, absolutely kick a*s names for the little guys! Cheers from Austin!
You should NEVER, EVER apologise for who you are as long as you are good to others. All this religious rubbish! who the hell do you think you are? other people's life style has naff all to do with anyone- (as long as nobody is being harmed) if you don't agree with how people live just mind your own business. It really is as simple as that!
I was denied a kidney donation for being gay! Come on! weird goes on all levels!
Wonder if SHE was looking for some action... "Oh ....you're gay." "I wanted to be invited to your home!" Sounds veeeeeery strange. (And yeah, I can not even begin to describe my feelings considering her way of trying to make him feel bad about himself..she's a human failure& should keep away from people and cats!)
Glad this guy got some great kitties. Hope that evil religious fake cat "owner" hets struck by lightening for lying. Hey this guy could have called her religiousness and lying being a sin into a think... I would have
Is it like fred and george from Harry Potter?? Congrats on the new pets!
Freddy Mercury and George Michael. Both deceased. Both gay. There's the cleverness in the names. :-)
Load More Replies... Omg I love this man and his love for the kitties. He's a beautiful soul, and anyone hurting him purposely is in fact a demon.
Why advertise if you don't have the product or in this case, cats? Seriously, why waste time doing this. I wonder if the "religious" lady is just evil-incarnate getting her jollies telling people off and that they "can't have her cats." WTH? And that lady also needs to remember Matthew 7:2... "For with whatever judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with whatever measure you measure, it will be measured to you." (just sayin')
A writer ought to be able to come up with a better story than this hackneyed and trite malarkey. This whole story is purposely unverifiable. Its almost like it was written by Jussie Smollett.
One would almost expect that a writer could come up with a much better story than this hackneyed and trite bs. This whole tale is purposely unverifiable.
Yup, you look gay. ‘Nuff said...now not allowing you to adopt my pet? Well, kind of ignorant, but it IS their pet until they give/transfer it to yiu...
i'm religious and gay. so i literally mean it that i will go to hell for my boyfriend
Georges' color is just BEAUTIFUL. And I too want to name a cat Freddie - Freddie Meowcury!
Well, its ok if you dont agree with lgbt lifestyle, neither do I, but unlike religious people, I have learned something called respect. You know~ respect~ as in, as long as they're doing something legal AND NONE OF UR FKING BSNSS, do not bother people for being different! Many people nowadays do not have enough IQ to differentiate between the concepts of "bad" and "different"... If someone is different from you, it doesn't mean that they are bad and will be going to hell... besides... only fake religious people believe in this hell b******t...
Why is the comment section a war on whether religion is ok? Why don't we all just take a step back, not give a f**k about the life choices of others, and just decide to mind our own business and not scream at a rando?
Well... that's how "religious" people act, instead of sharing love. What else can you expect from that kind of people? On the other hand... what would've have happened if the story was the other way around? Nobody would've even noticed... I respect gay people, but I don't like the idea of them always trying to be "special" and "relevant"... makes no sense sharing this story on social networks to get popular and catch people's attention and support.
Am I wrong? I thought she said something about wanting the cat to go to a married couple? Just cuz he's gay, how does that mean he's not married? OR has children? And I am a Christian, a good one I hope, cuz I believe with my whole heart that people are born to be as they are as adults. Even if it's a separate path they have to take. (sex re-assigning). HOWEVER I will ever and forever hold it against you that you are a cat person. Cuz dogs rule. And I hate cats, so there. heh.
Those are awesome kitty names!!! I especially love Freddie Purrcury! Freddie Mercury had this dedictaction on his 1985 album "Mr Bad Guy" - "This album is dedicated to my cat Jerry - also Tom, Oscar and Tiffany, and all the cat lovers across the universe - screw everybody else!"
She didn't refuse to give him the cats because he was gay. She did the same to others as well. She advertised cats, just so she could say "no" to people. Because she got some sort of a twisted kick out of it. Homophobia is unfair. But, let's not turn this into something it wasn't. She probably refused others based on their race, religion & even hair colour. She's a nutter. Not some rational person. And is hardly a typical representation of all Christians. She's probably not even religious. I would be careful about meeting strangers on my own. Male or not. There are some really crazy people out there. Clearly. Good grief!
Doesn't Gods word (and other religions speak about loving your neighbor ? I know I'm still young and all but doesn't God teach us to love everyone? I say this is pretty hypocritical.
I'm sorry that someone used "being religious" as an excuse to treat you this way. She doesn't sound "religious," she sounds like a nutjob, given the rest of the story. I'm glad you got new kitties tho! Yay!
I love the cat names. People are just people some good some bad. I would be willing to bet that this man will be an awesome Daddy to these kittens. They are very lucky kitties. Don't let someone else's opinion of you affect your life. This lady is obviously and idiot with lots of hate in her heart. Love is Love...ALL Lives matter. God made us and loves us not matter what.
My take on all this is so screwed because though I am very happy about the way it turned out and though I'm disgusted by the weird effectiveness of the power tripper, I kind of want to see a Bourne movie where the entirely LGBQT cast works against a straight power tripper to free her cats. I mean, that dude's beard couldl star. Look at it.
"Are you not afraid of going to hell"? Is there really people that still wrap themself into this heaven and hell superstition coat? Oh well. The most important is he got some cats he can spoil rotten. Yezzz.
"I am religious". Yeah, and so am I, ma'am, a Christian since I was a baby. I'm also lesbian. Sir, kudos to you, you handled it amazingly, and I'm so glad you got your kitties!
I am religious, but not a bigot....and also a cat lover. I am so glad this worked out...except for that weird lady.
Brilliant, figuring out the woman with the imaginary cats was crackers. If she was a cat lover, she'd never say that all cats look alike! So happy to read Alex has two new loves in his life. Wonderful for him, wonderful for the kitties.
Maybe she uses the ad, to try and “ save a soul” or some other trip she is on. Bottom line, we don’t make the final decision on how or who makes it to heaven. So, be kind to everyone, and let God do the choosing on who get in and who doesn’t. Personally, I think HE HAS DIFFERENT requirements than humans do, and LBGTQ, PEOPLE OF COLOR AND anyone, have just as much right as a do folder, to get in to heaven. Just sayin’!
The woman is definitely NOT a cat person if she thinks all cats look alike! This stunt reeks of a teenage prank. Also she's not as religious as she believes if she's so judgmental. (I love the cat names!)
Dude, you rock. Gay men love cats too! Spirituality beats religion, hands down.
Christians: Jesus was a straight, 30+ year old virgin with 12 very close male friends, one of whom was plotting to kill him. Me: Sounds legit. Let's ban gay people from adopting pets. Makes total sense. Mugato: I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!
oh, so you are religious AND offended? Well I am NOT religious ... and YOU offend ME!
Religion is the cause for most all of the problems in this world, and definitely IS the basis for every war ever waged. Mr. Andreou: I would say MOST people don't give a damn about your sex life. The emphasis is, and should be by EVERYONE, that you are an upstanding citizen treating friends and critters with love and care. You would be quite welcome in my neighborhood and in fact, and better yet, my next door neighbor! Be happy, live well and a long and healthy life! Including your critters!
At first I thought Alex was hot. Then I read he was "sobbing" because a person turned him down for adopting a cat. From a bisexual man to this gay man; get a grip. Seriously.
A happy ending! Love that you got your kitties in the end, they are beaut! I don't even know what to say bout that nasty women, I'm sorry she put you through all that but it's over now and you have kitties!!
Love Love Love! Love how he handled this, and love the new happy family!
YAY! As an officially certified crazy person, I say: blame her for being an evil nasty b***h, not being crazy! Otherwise, XD
I know its a trope to come on the internet, look at cats, and complement those cats ... but those are some handsome cats.
This is a great story and I hope humanity will accept more people more freely!
Congratulations on the new members of his family. Sad there are people out there using animals as ways to manipulate & hurt people. Shame on them, karma is a b***h.
Okay, the fact that this religious mystery cat offering person is simultaneously claiming that the cats are 'so very dear to her' while also stating that 'all cats look the same'... bullcrap. Either you care for your cat or you don't. No one who truly cares for their pet would say such a thing. Also, these days, if you've got a phone, you've got a camera. And almost everyone has some kind of cell phone. I think it was a complete scam from the beginning. Like he said, some sort of weird power trip. Bizarre. Or maybe something more dangerous. Glad he got the ad taken down.
Ok you say you are from London and are wanting to re-home unwanted cats. There are more than a couple of cat rescue centers in the London area. The Cats' Protection League Address: 135 Junction Rd, Archway, London N19 5PX, UK and of course Battersea Dogs and Cats' Home Address: 4 Battersea Park Rd, London SW8 4AA, UK. I am quite sure that the staff there will have no problem about you being gay. After all look at the the amount of series Paul O'Grady did with the people in Battersea and he is well gay. I know his programmes focused on the dogs but the same staff there look after the cats too. All the staff in these places want is for their animals to go to a warm, safe and loving home where they will be cared for for the rest of their lives and since you are prepared to provide that, there will be no problem for you adopting cats from them. Give them a call, I am sure they will love to hear from you. G☺☺d Luck.
It is incredible how some are called "super religious" yet think that gun violence is okay.
So glad Alex has given a loving home to George and Freddy(great names by the way) .Those kitty's have certainly fallen on their feet(pardon the pun).I have a feeling you dodged a bullet not letting that nutjob into you home .She was hoping "the family would be kind enough to invite me in for tea"....?? Sounds like she was trying to rehome herself...Or she is a vampire,either option ,doesn't have a good outcome ;)
This sent me through so many emotions and thoughts, and the comments section did so too. I’m very glad this man got some cats. He deserves them. Your sexuality (along with a billion other things) shouldn’t be a problem. The woman, according to the man, would try to come up with reasons to not give the cats she supposedly had away, so she may not have been religious.
Truly religious I should say. Excuse that. - Your friendly local bisexual Christian
Load More Replies... Anyone that knows me knows that I love my two cats more than my own life. If something were to happen to me or my husband, I would let this guy care for them in a second. I've found that gay guys are more conscientious, more attentive and just more involved in general than straight guys. I wish I could contact this guy and ask to put him in my will in case I need someone to care for mine. Also, Freddy Purrcury is one of the best names ever. Those are two lucky cats.
What lucky Kittens. Great to have a loving dad to raise them to be the kittens any parent would be proud of. <3 wins!
Best of luck to Alex and your new family, George and Freddy. They will give you lots of love. Best wishes
This is such a weird story, glad it has a happy end! By the way - to any other Londoners who are able to provide home for a cat or a dog, you can definitely check out Battersea Cat and Dog Rescue House! I've been there last year and they always have cats and doggies who are desperate for some love and place to call home.
If anything I would think a gay guy would make the best cat parent ever. Those kitties will be spoiled, get the best of everything, always tasteful. Those are two lucky kitties! That woman is just a crazy nutjob!
I'm not gay but my cat and dog still love me, almost as much as I love them.
Load More Replies... I love kittens, cats, no. Little spawns of satan. So I could bring you puppy. They do not grow up to be little spawns of satan, except my dad’s dog. Actually, he might be satan. Anyway, let me know about the puppy. Cheers
Accurate. However, kitties are awesome. Hail Satan!
Load More Replies... I just hate when people pick and choose from the Bible or use their religion to justify and push their hate. I'm so glad he got the kitties!
They even used the bible to justify slavery back then.
Load More Replies... Stupid people. I hate that people get to make others feel this way without consequences.
Alex, Freddie and George! I hope you will have the best of times together as a new family! xx
I find that most "Christian" people that act this way are very unhappy with their own lives..probably because they missed God's true messages. Love conquers all and treat others as you would want to be treated. Besides, I'm a firm believer that only God has the right to judge another' lifestyle..not us humans. Most "Christians" also forgot one of Jesus's biggest lessons.."Let he who is without sin cast the first stone."
I actually teared up at the end. FABULOUS story !! And I love their names. Congrats FurDaddy!!! <3
I love happy endings 😺 . But that woman was/is nuts; I'm not sure she was ever ready to give up the cats or if there even are/were any cats to begin with or if she made them up. Maybe she's just lonely wants to meet new people, in that case she should find another way.
If she has happily had the cats for months whilst looking for the purr-fect home, then why does she need to rehome them at all??
Load More Replies... One thing that got me is when that bloke said about the burner phone, that he replied with what he did? I did not see that mentioned. I, for one, have a strong dislike for being called out on something I did not do. Segregation much? But besides that, the kitties are gorgeous and am glad he got them!
I thought the burner phone comment was a joke. Poorly timed, maybe, but intended to be funny.
Load More Replies... Th-they refused him because he was gay. How were they trying to help him?
Load More Replies... It was a private person, not a company. Being a c**t is not illegal, sadly.
Load More Replies... "Wants" to be gay? So, you consciously made the decision to be attracted to one sex over the other... You said to yourself, "Self, I am attracted to dudes and I'm attracted to ladies...hmmmm...which one do I want to be attracted to from this moment out?" No one 'wants' to be one way or the other, they just are. It's not a lifestyle choice, it's not a decision, it's not being turned, it is the way people are when they are born. It's terrible to hear that in the 21st century people still think it's a decision or choice and refuse to understand it just is.
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