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Sick Of Getting Hit On By Creepy Bar Dudes This Girl Starts Giving Friend’s Number, He Destroys Them One By One
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Sick Of Getting Hit On By Creepy Bar Dudes This Girl Starts Giving Friend’s Number, He Destroys Them One By One

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The fake number is a classic escape technique that girls use on creepy guys they meet all the time, but in some cases, it can backfire. They might try to stalk you on social media or harass your friends and situations can escalate. One girl’s guy friend gave her a different solution.

He offered his own cell number up as tribute to the cause and received a wave of creepy messages. Well as some people do when the person on the other line doesn’t know who they are texting, he decided to use the opportunity to troll these guys. Scroll down below to see the text message exchanges between these guys and “the girl” from the bar.

One guy wanted to stop his female friend from being harassed so he decided to take action

“I gotta say, its so much fun seeing how pissed off they get when they realize they’ve been duped and have been “sexting” a dude the entire time”

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Hopefully, these dudes learned their lesson and will rethink hassling girls in the future

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People thought this idea was brilliant and were horrified at how creepy some guys can be

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Night Owl
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An advice: Kids, don't search for a friend who will die for you or kill for you or help you hide a body, look for a friend who would deal with creeps for you. That's a sign of true friendship :)

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Rick
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Take the dude's phone and tell him you will put your number in there. Then change the contact for his mom to your name....

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diane a
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5 years ago

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i gave my number to someone - absolutely by accident 5 years ago - had to change my own

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Molly McCabe
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Parents need to raise their kids better. Don't be a f'n creep boys.

suzi63 avatar
Suzi Gauthier
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If a boy is acting like that, there's a good chance his father is the same.

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DawnMarie
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All this discussion about how she is handling these 'creeps' and no discussion about the real problem. Which is that these 'creeps' not only exist, but are so prevalent that no one seems to think it's weird or out of the ordinary to encounter them. Its not our job to figure out a way to handle you...its your job to stop being so f*****g creepy!

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Night Owl
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone needs a friend like that who would deal with creeps or just with people in general (especially for introverts) for them.

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diane a
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am happy to go alone into most pubs in my small town centre - just to socialise or for a change of scenery, I either know the staff or at least some of the customers. One place in particular, they know me well and would always look out for me so know I am safe - guy who was semi-stalking me is banned from even going in. Would not however go into a club or large strange pub alone.

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diane a
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5 years ago (edited)

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Actually I would, in a strange town, go into a wetherspoons, there is always a quiet corner and newspapers, just so you ignore everyone with a sandwich - no-one bothers you in there

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Nikki D
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, waiting outside the bathroom for half an hour? What if she had been in there hiding from him? And what if he didn't want to walk her to her car so much as something more sinister? Sent chills up my spine.

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Aunt Messy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah...that got me. If he's willing to hang around outside a toilet for hours, he's not just creepy, he's dangerous.

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Isla Reyne
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sad thing is, this friend is entertained by it, while us women have to deal with it all the time and are terrified of the nasties coming out.....like they're entitled to something, just because they bestowed their eyes upon us. Ladies, 1/3rd of all women killed in the U.S. are killed by their boyfriends, husbands or male acquaintances. Don't be a statistic. Be ready.

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Octavia Hansen
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When a pushy guy won't give up, I give them my EX-boyfriend's number. Pushy guy hears a man at what he thinks is my house, and EX thinks I am REALLY popular for all the calls asking for me. Win - Win!

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The Girl on Fire
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy needs to be reported to the police. And oh, Kudos to you for being such a great friend!

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Bunzilla
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's truly sad that this sort of thing even needs to be done. (Kids need to learn basic consent in, like, kindergarten. 'Is it okay to hug you?' 'No.' 'Okay, sorry') That said... kudos to this guy for freaking out these creepy guys.

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B Cool
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every guy needs to stop being a f*****g creep. Giving all the credit to the guy is just furthering the patriarchy.

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R john
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cannibal mode must have made the stalker s**t his pants!

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Sabal Minor
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought lame- creeps would/will just twist it & say "yeah baby come try my sausage" or something similar. Surprised this chap gave up so quick!

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Layla Brown
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just say "no I'm not interested" why even give a number? I made that mistake ONCE and never again. If I'm not into you, no number.

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Aunt Messy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You do it hoping they don't wait for you to come out of the bar so they can hurt you.

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Aunt Messy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I don't kink shame." ...///... Classic. I LOVE that line.

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Mandy Phillips
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Excuse me but why give them your/any number? Tell them to get lost, never give your number to anyone like these guys its madness!

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noitall man
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a guy who will turn 50 soon, I can maybe count 5 or 6 people I have ever met in my entire life that were like these types of guys. But the internet makes it seem like ALL guys are like this. This couldn't be further from the truth...

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Si
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a guy, what makes you think you know how creepy your guy friends are to women?

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Sarah
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This gave me a good laugh XD some guys are just idiots

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Lee from Phoenix
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a work meeting in a conference room next to a popular bar in a Seattle hotel. During our break the pay phone n the wall rang so I answered. It was a guy who was trying to call some girl he met there on Saturday night. I wish I had been as cleaver as this guy.

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GlynisLailann
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A friend of mine gives them the number of the help line Suicide Watch. Seeing as they answer the phones there, sending them a text wont go very far.

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phil blanque
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh no.....the d*ck pic wins. But I don't get it...why would a guy get freaked out over a picture of a duck? They are fine animals.

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Carol Emory
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a friend that used to do this for the single girls he knew. He was former military and didn't like how creepy guys would treat them. He'd even go so far as to set up meeting times with the guys and when his ripped self would show up instead..they got the idea that they'd F***ed up.

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MsChloe
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just tell them no, politely at first. After that, if they still persist I walk away and join my friends. I never go to the clubs alone so I know my friends will always have my back.

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Kim Lorton
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well! We all should have a man friend like this! If a woman approached a guy in a bar, and after a while asked for his phone number, he’d think she couldn’t get a date, and or she was easy . No means no, even when asking for a phone number.

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Jace
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is cool and funny. Just out of curiosity, I would love some stats on the guys who she gave the number to who eventually weren’t d***s when they texted. Like, how many of them are just d***s through and through (and we see their texts here) and how many of them are just awkward guys that haven’t figured out how to navigate the whole meeting women thing (resulting in getting the number, but who don’t act like complete dickheads when confronted via text).

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Kira B
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it would be stronger for this girl to develop the ability not to give her number to guys she doesn't like. The word is "no" and she needs to find strength in it. Its funny she is punishing creeps, but I think its more of a step to have boundaries. Good on her friend for trying to help.

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Octavia Hansen
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My strategy for unwanted guys is to hand them my EX-boyfriend's number. Pushy guy hears a man answer at what he thinks is my house and EX thinks I am REALLY popular for all the calls asking for me. Win - Win!

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diane a
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Win-win? - when your risking a cross angry "pushy" person coming round your house after you have just made a fool of him. you might be really popular - but you are in trouble

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Beth Simpson
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why I don't go to bars.....I'd rather be at home with friends and drink that way!

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Aunt Messy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not the point. We have a right to go out in public, not cringe in our locked houses with the blinds closed.

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Sandra Lent
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know, women could try a new technique..."No thank you, I'm not interested," when some dude asks for their number.

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Tarryn Louise
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5 years ago

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Sooo girls chat to a guy, get free drinks then give the guy their number so they can humiliate them? Gee, well done.

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Angie
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5 years ago

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O, I remember the time I was young and hot and guys wouldn’t stop harassing me so I gave a fake number just to get rid of them... yeah, how I don’t miss those times... aging, lack of sleep, having kids and gaining weight sure solved that problem!

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Mont
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5 years ago

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The guy with the phone number wants to have sex with her too, he's just trying to friendzone/male feminist route. Creepy either way.

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Misterscooter
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5 years ago

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If this is the kind of thing you find at a particular bar, stop going to that bar.

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Aunt Messy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're right. Abusive men should stay away from bars altogether. They should learn how NOT to stalk people and make rapey comments.

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Notsoswift
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5 years ago

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that's one lonely guy sitting there texting others guys

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Xiaolaohu
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a cell phone, a MOBILE phone,, he doesn't sit home waiting and hoping someone will try to hit on her so he has human contact.

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John Louis
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5 years ago

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What bars does this girl go to. Most of the bars I went to when I was young did not seem to have these kind of creeps. Maybe she should consider a better class of drinking establishments.

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Aunt Messy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, those slutty men throwing themselves at anything that breathes really need to go somewhere else.

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Juana
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5 years ago

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This all seems so passive aggressive. First, the girls should learn to say no to men asking for her number. When will women learn this? She's in a bar. People are there to meet each other. There's the occasional creep but this many that harass for a number? I'm calling BS. I can't stand women like this. She probably brags about how many creepy men are after her to this guy friend. He trolls them in some kind of faux gallantry to win her over. He should be upfront the minute they text him that it's a wrong number.

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Pavlina G
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope sorry. I guess you never got hit at bars. These creeps have been around for ages. Way before mobile phones, it was so much easier back in the day. They never knew until much later. Sometimes though you would run into the same jerk and they would harass you about the wrong number you gave them.

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Night Owl
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An advice: Kids, don't search for a friend who will die for you or kill for you or help you hide a body, look for a friend who would deal with creeps for you. That's a sign of true friendship :)

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Rick
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Take the dude's phone and tell him you will put your number in there. Then change the contact for his mom to your name....

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diane a
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5 years ago

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i gave my number to someone - absolutely by accident 5 years ago - had to change my own

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Molly McCabe
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Parents need to raise their kids better. Don't be a f'n creep boys.

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Suzi Gauthier
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If a boy is acting like that, there's a good chance his father is the same.

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DawnMarie
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All this discussion about how she is handling these 'creeps' and no discussion about the real problem. Which is that these 'creeps' not only exist, but are so prevalent that no one seems to think it's weird or out of the ordinary to encounter them. Its not our job to figure out a way to handle you...its your job to stop being so f*****g creepy!

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Night Owl
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone needs a friend like that who would deal with creeps or just with people in general (especially for introverts) for them.

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diane a
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am happy to go alone into most pubs in my small town centre - just to socialise or for a change of scenery, I either know the staff or at least some of the customers. One place in particular, they know me well and would always look out for me so know I am safe - guy who was semi-stalking me is banned from even going in. Would not however go into a club or large strange pub alone.

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diane a
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5 years ago (edited)

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Actually I would, in a strange town, go into a wetherspoons, there is always a quiet corner and newspapers, just so you ignore everyone with a sandwich - no-one bothers you in there

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Nikki D
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, waiting outside the bathroom for half an hour? What if she had been in there hiding from him? And what if he didn't want to walk her to her car so much as something more sinister? Sent chills up my spine.

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Aunt Messy
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah...that got me. If he's willing to hang around outside a toilet for hours, he's not just creepy, he's dangerous.

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Isla Reyne
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sad thing is, this friend is entertained by it, while us women have to deal with it all the time and are terrified of the nasties coming out.....like they're entitled to something, just because they bestowed their eyes upon us. Ladies, 1/3rd of all women killed in the U.S. are killed by their boyfriends, husbands or male acquaintances. Don't be a statistic. Be ready.

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Octavia Hansen
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When a pushy guy won't give up, I give them my EX-boyfriend's number. Pushy guy hears a man at what he thinks is my house, and EX thinks I am REALLY popular for all the calls asking for me. Win - Win!

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The Girl on Fire
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy needs to be reported to the police. And oh, Kudos to you for being such a great friend!

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Bunzilla
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's truly sad that this sort of thing even needs to be done. (Kids need to learn basic consent in, like, kindergarten. 'Is it okay to hug you?' 'No.' 'Okay, sorry') That said... kudos to this guy for freaking out these creepy guys.

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B Cool
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every guy needs to stop being a f*****g creep. Giving all the credit to the guy is just furthering the patriarchy.

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R john
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cannibal mode must have made the stalker s**t his pants!

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Sabal Minor
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought lame- creeps would/will just twist it & say "yeah baby come try my sausage" or something similar. Surprised this chap gave up so quick!

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Layla Brown
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just say "no I'm not interested" why even give a number? I made that mistake ONCE and never again. If I'm not into you, no number.

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Aunt Messy
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You do it hoping they don't wait for you to come out of the bar so they can hurt you.

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Aunt Messy
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I don't kink shame." ...///... Classic. I LOVE that line.

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Mandy Phillips
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Excuse me but why give them your/any number? Tell them to get lost, never give your number to anyone like these guys its madness!

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noitall man
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a guy who will turn 50 soon, I can maybe count 5 or 6 people I have ever met in my entire life that were like these types of guys. But the internet makes it seem like ALL guys are like this. This couldn't be further from the truth...

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Si
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a guy, what makes you think you know how creepy your guy friends are to women?

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Sarah
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This gave me a good laugh XD some guys are just idiots

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Lee from Phoenix
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a work meeting in a conference room next to a popular bar in a Seattle hotel. During our break the pay phone n the wall rang so I answered. It was a guy who was trying to call some girl he met there on Saturday night. I wish I had been as cleaver as this guy.

glynict avatar
GlynisLailann
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A friend of mine gives them the number of the help line Suicide Watch. Seeing as they answer the phones there, sending them a text wont go very far.

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phil blanque
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh no.....the d*ck pic wins. But I don't get it...why would a guy get freaked out over a picture of a duck? They are fine animals.

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Carol Emory
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a friend that used to do this for the single girls he knew. He was former military and didn't like how creepy guys would treat them. He'd even go so far as to set up meeting times with the guys and when his ripped self would show up instead..they got the idea that they'd F***ed up.

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MsChloe
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just tell them no, politely at first. After that, if they still persist I walk away and join my friends. I never go to the clubs alone so I know my friends will always have my back.

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Kim Lorton
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well! We all should have a man friend like this! If a woman approached a guy in a bar, and after a while asked for his phone number, he’d think she couldn’t get a date, and or she was easy . No means no, even when asking for a phone number.

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Jace
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is cool and funny. Just out of curiosity, I would love some stats on the guys who she gave the number to who eventually weren’t d***s when they texted. Like, how many of them are just d***s through and through (and we see their texts here) and how many of them are just awkward guys that haven’t figured out how to navigate the whole meeting women thing (resulting in getting the number, but who don’t act like complete dickheads when confronted via text).

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Kira B
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it would be stronger for this girl to develop the ability not to give her number to guys she doesn't like. The word is "no" and she needs to find strength in it. Its funny she is punishing creeps, but I think its more of a step to have boundaries. Good on her friend for trying to help.

octavia_2 avatar
Octavia Hansen
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My strategy for unwanted guys is to hand them my EX-boyfriend's number. Pushy guy hears a man answer at what he thinks is my house and EX thinks I am REALLY popular for all the calls asking for me. Win - Win!

diane1atk avatar
diane a
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Win-win? - when your risking a cross angry "pushy" person coming round your house after you have just made a fool of him. you might be really popular - but you are in trouble

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Beth Simpson
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why I don't go to bars.....I'd rather be at home with friends and drink that way!

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Aunt Messy
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not the point. We have a right to go out in public, not cringe in our locked houses with the blinds closed.

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Sandra Lent
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know, women could try a new technique..."No thank you, I'm not interested," when some dude asks for their number.

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Tarryn Louise
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5 years ago

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Sooo girls chat to a guy, get free drinks then give the guy their number so they can humiliate them? Gee, well done.

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Angie
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5 years ago

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O, I remember the time I was young and hot and guys wouldn’t stop harassing me so I gave a fake number just to get rid of them... yeah, how I don’t miss those times... aging, lack of sleep, having kids and gaining weight sure solved that problem!

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Mont
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5 years ago

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The guy with the phone number wants to have sex with her too, he's just trying to friendzone/male feminist route. Creepy either way.

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Misterscooter
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If this is the kind of thing you find at a particular bar, stop going to that bar.

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Aunt Messy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're right. Abusive men should stay away from bars altogether. They should learn how NOT to stalk people and make rapey comments.

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Notsoswift
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that's one lonely guy sitting there texting others guys

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Xiaolaohu
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a cell phone, a MOBILE phone,, he doesn't sit home waiting and hoping someone will try to hit on her so he has human contact.

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John Louis
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What bars does this girl go to. Most of the bars I went to when I was young did not seem to have these kind of creeps. Maybe she should consider a better class of drinking establishments.

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Aunt Messy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, those slutty men throwing themselves at anything that breathes really need to go somewhere else.

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This all seems so passive aggressive. First, the girls should learn to say no to men asking for her number. When will women learn this? She's in a bar. People are there to meet each other. There's the occasional creep but this many that harass for a number? I'm calling BS. I can't stand women like this. She probably brags about how many creepy men are after her to this guy friend. He trolls them in some kind of faux gallantry to win her over. He should be upfront the minute they text him that it's a wrong number.

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Pavlina G
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope sorry. I guess you never got hit at bars. These creeps have been around for ages. Way before mobile phones, it was so much easier back in the day. They never knew until much later. Sometimes though you would run into the same jerk and they would harass you about the wrong number you gave them.

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