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Social anxiety is one of the most widespread fears that usually starts during teenage years. And while many occasionally worry about social situations, someone with social anxiety feels overly worried before, during and after them. It affects their everyday activities, self-confidence, relationships and work or school life, so you can imagine what a heavy burden it may be.

But whoever is looking for a support group online, the ‘Social Anxiety’ corner of Reddit is a safe space to talk about hard things. With 309k members and counting, the subreddit has people sharing painfully funny memes on how it feels to live with this anxiety.

“Whether it's approaching someone you're attracted to or if it's giving a presentation in class, everyone gets a little nervous at times. You may have social anxiety, however, if you feel like throughout your day you're bombarded by anxious thoughts/feelings during social situations that otherwise seem so effortless for most people,” states the subreddit’s description.

“Welcome to the club,” it adds, showing that you won’t feel left out and a bunch of people here do know how you feel. So why don't you all just laugh at it?

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I Genuinely Love This Subreddit

I Genuinely Love This Subreddit

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless you are tormented by anxiety you don't know what a gift was given. God bless whoever did this!

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I Hate When This Happens

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It’s important to understand that social anxiety is more than being shy. Although many people occasionally feel anxious in social situations, those with social anxiety have the fear interfering in their daily lives.

NHS.uk states that you may have social anxiety if you have any of these symptoms: worry about everyday activities, such as meeting strangers, starting conversations, speaking on the phone, working or shopping; avoid or worry a lot about social activities, such as group conversations, eating with company and parties; always worry about doing something you think is embarrassing, such as blushing, sweating or appearing incompetent; find it difficult to do things when others are watching—you may feel like you're being watched and judged all the time; fear being criticized, avoid eye contact or have low self-esteem; often have symptoms like feeling sick, sweating, trembling or a pounding heartbeat (palpitations); have panic attacks, where you have an overwhelming sense of fear and anxiety, usually only for a few minutes.

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True

True

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And in the end you don't watch Netflix because you keep thinking all these!

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Social anxiety may be especially daunting when things go against the plan and this, as we all know, happens much more often than we’d like. It’s really hard to keep yourself in control for those who don’t have it, but for people with social anxiety it may seem like mission impossible.

The good news is that there are some cognitive emotional skills that anyone can learn to get through those stressful situations better. Improving such skills has to be made a priority by those with social anxiety, and many other mental health issues like depression, generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, etc.

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It's Like I Forget I Have Sa For A Second

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I also have the best advices for other people problems .... not for mine of course! Shouldn't that be some kind of a super power?

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"Don't Dwell On Things" They Tell Me... Meanwhile

"Don't Dwell On Things" They Tell Me... Meanwhile

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Here’s Some Abuse

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*currently reading bored panda, listening to 90's pop music, not planning to speak to anyone and imagining myself going out in the evening*

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Bored Panda reached out to Alice Boyes, a former clinical psychologist turned writer and the author of “The Healthy Mind Toolkit” and “The Anxiety Toolkit” to find out more about controlling our frustration when things go against the plan. Alice said that in practical terms, “the more buffer you have in your life, the easier it is to handle stress. Therefore practical solutions like creating an emergency fund can help.”

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*Checks Excuse Book*

*Checks Excuse Book*

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While wishing desperately someone will cancel or a tornado will hit the city and you won't have to go with these plans

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Having said that, she suggests that if your life isn’t overscheduled and you have more flexibility, then it’s best “to give yourself time and nurturing to recover from knocks. ”Psychologically, it’s always best to remind yourself to take stressful situations one step at a time. “Like, if your car breaks down on the highway, all you need to do first is get out of traffic. Don't get ahead of yourself mentally,” Alice explained.

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Never Were Truer Words Spoken.

Never Were Truer Words Spoken.

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Another way to handle stress is giving yourself some sources of pleasure, like exercise, or podcasts you like. “Things you look forward to, that you can still do even when you're experiencing stress,” the former psychologist explained. In the end, it’s always helpful to remind yourself that stressful events happen to everyone. “They're part of life, but we don't necessarily know what's going on behind the scenes for other people,” Alice concluded.

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Always The Outcast Of Every Group

Always The Outcast Of Every Group

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Getting A Call From A Unknown Caller

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Teachers : *surprised Pikachu*

Teachers : *surprised Pikachu*

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What ? Being an insensitive bully who uses their tyranical power to publicly humiliate a child does not help them ? How surprising ! /s

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I Have Stitched No Truer Words

I Have Stitched No Truer Words

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes, I feel like a meeting one-on-one is harder because the onus is on you to make a 50% contribution to the conversation.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

oh, no. this is where good questions come into play. if you ask good questions? they'll carry 85% of the load for you....

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously! Like I’d like to come watch your football game but there’s going to be so many other people there. If it was just the kids and parents that’s cool but I can’t deal with half the school being there.

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Thanks Brain, Very Cool

Thanks Brain, Very Cool

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm still thinking about that time I was 8 (almost 40 years ago) and it was my birthday. I got a toy from my parents and was so happy with it, I ran to my aunt when she came in to show it to her and she had bought the exact same present. I still feel bad about it and I know it's stupid, my brain says it's stupid, I have a million reasons of why it is stupid, but I still feel bad. I hate emotions.

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Anyone Else?

Anyone Else?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup.right in the eye every time. And you just feel like yelling " I could do it until you got here, doggone it!" My especial special hate; when I'm painting. I paint for me. If you say it's pretty, usually, I love you so much I will give it to,which I'm told is a pretty cool thing. But, don't walk up and say,after watching and umming for a few seconds, " you need to do..." Whatever. I will smack you with a full pallette in my dreams.

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Every Time

Every Time

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Anyone Else?

Anyone Else?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes this is why i make plans when I'm in a good mood! To force myself to go out! But I regret it most of the times

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Here We Go Again

Here We Go Again

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is absolutely me. When I find myself not worrying I start to worry about not being worried.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why I had such a hard time accepting a diagnosis of depression: I actually WAS happy in bed. Sorta.

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Show Me A Better Duo, I’ll Wait!

Show Me A Better Duo, I’ll Wait!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It actually helps me to know most people probably think about their own failures all the time instead of mine :D

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A Little Hyperbole To Remind You You're Not Alone

A Little Hyperbole To Remind You You're Not Alone

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Meanwhile, the people who you think laughed at you (they probably did not) have already forgotten.

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Make That 6 Weeks

Make That 6 Weeks

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is fine. This is less about social anxiety and more about the energy that is needed to be "on" around people. Three weeks might be a little long, but taking quiet time to recharge is perfectly normal. It can be normal for introverts AND extroverts.

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Me Today

Me Today

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Can't we, like, have them all killed ? -No, ma'am. -Why not ? -Magna Carta. -Oh... Right... F**k that thing."

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College Parties

College Parties

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Yes

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My parents actively taught me how to speak up about stuff like this because they knew I was really shy (they don’t know it’s clinical social anxiety) and didn’t want me to be unable to advocate for myself. I’ve gotten money back from a hotel that tried to rip me off.

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You Are Not Supposed To Call!

You Are Not Supposed To Call!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

mobile phones are the worst! We take them everywhere we go and they can ring at any moment! No wonder we're all losing our minds... constantly dreading the next call

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Never Related To Something More

Never Related To Something More

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I Feel That

I Feel That

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