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Imagine a world without any rules. It’s pretty hard to do, right? It’s possible that human beings as a species simply can’t exist without hierarchies and structure and deciding how long one’s lunch break should be. Civilization as a whole wouldn’t exist without ideas and behaviors we can all agree on.

However, some rules seem unjust, unfair, and all-around oppressive. That’s why folks try to bend them without breaking them, and Bored Panda has collected the most clever and creative ways how people beat the system by following the rules to the letter. It’s some truly amazing inspiration for all of you Pandas who might feel too restricted, whether it’s at work or elsewhere. And it’s rock-solid proof that you don’t necessarily need to resort to anarchy to beat the system at its own game.

Remember to upvote your fave pics as you scroll down, and be sure to drop by the comment section to share your own stories about how you worked around unfair rules. Oh, and in case you need some more examples of how the rules are powerless against the human imagination, check out Bored Panda’s earlier two articles about it right here and over here.

Suzanne Degges-White, Licensed Counselor, Professor, and Chair at the Department of Counseling and Higher Education at Northern Illinois University, shared her insights about the importance of rules and structure in life with Bored Panda.

“While novelty is always enticing, for the most part, humans need structure and routine— especially as young kids and then mature adults. Structure gives us security and even though we may fight against it, we feel safe knowing that rules exist that keep us (and others) in bounds,” she explained to us.

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Celebrating Pride Despite Our HOA Not Allowing Pride Flags. They Don’t Regulate Yard Lights Though, So... There’s Always A Loophole

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According to Professor Degges-White, we might feel the urge to rebel when we become teenagers. However, this doesn’t change the fact that rules, as a whole, are vital to have.

“During adolescence, the urge to challenge parents takes hold, but without rules/expectations, we would feel adrift. While some of us will always try to bend the rules, break the rules, or challenge the rules, there is comfort in knowing that large-scale chaos isn't going to happen due to the rules that we may be fighting against,” she told Bored Panda.

It shouldn’t come as a surprise that everyone has a different level of tolerance for following the rules. Some might embrace them to the fullest and have a difficult time living outside their routines. Meanwhile, others rebel against any and all rules (sometimes to the point of absurdity).

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Old Lady At The Bank

Old Lady At The Bank

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That other Panda
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My gran is reading over my shoulder and just said ‘do you have that lady’s number?’

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Stephen Smith
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate stupid rules like this, so well done to her, next time you will let her withdraw only 10 won't you ?

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Vicky Z
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair it's not the employee's fault! The rules are indeed stupid though and it's infuriating that the rules are always less friendly for the elderly and nobody really cares

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CanidaeVulpes
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe a stupid rule, but not the employee's fault. She could have just asked for $100 (or $110) and kept the frustration to a minimum. Honestly, I'm not sure how using an ATM is worse than going in person no matter your age

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Mary Rogers
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some elderly people may have eyesight issues that would make it difficult to use an ATM. They may also not know how to use one.

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New Everywhere
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Employees don't make company rules! I appreciate gangsta granny's spunk but she didn't have to make it hard on the employee. Who, if left to their own rules, would let you withdraw any amount of your money.

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AMH
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The comments here are ridiculous. This older woman isn't a badass for taking out her frustration on the bank teller following the rules.

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Hmmmmmmmm
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do something similar with cash back sorta, if they only allow multiples of $20, I purposely leave one item in the basket, check everything else out, get the cash back, then start over and buy the last item with a $20 to break it.

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Ross Bernard
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So she wasted everyone's time, including her own, by using a teller instead of an ATM...

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Mary Rogers
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There may have been a reason why she didn't use the ATM, like eyesight problems or safety issues with the location of the ATM. That said, she should not have taken out $1000.

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Alexis Dominey
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I admire her spunk, but she didn't have to be mean to the employee.

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Lady Gypsy Rain
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s awesome. And such a strange policy. By the time someone is in front of you, it’d take less time to just conduct the transaction than to have to explain why you can’t. Also, must be where I live in the USA or something, but my local atms only dispense $20s.

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Anne McKinney
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Counting out 1000.00 in tens is not that big of a deal. But that old lady is damn funny. Good on her.

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Oddly Me
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ATM's don't let you take out $10, it has to be in incurrments of twenty.

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Silvia Jafet
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a saying that the Devil is scary not because he is the Devil, but because he is old....

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Ashley Wright
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve heard this story before. Nice that you’re retelling it to make it your own. 😂 *Withdrawals” not “withdraws” in this case

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Ashley Wright
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve heard this story before. Nice that you’re retelling it to make it your own. “Withdrawals” not “withdraws” 😙

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Mickie Shea
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for Old Lady. Bank management is getting worse every day..

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Shirley Heyn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We do get feisty the older we get, not more jaded, not mad at new rules, just wiser!

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Johanne Trudeau
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't mess with the older generation!! They've lived longer and have had to think outside the box!! This is how you get things done with screaming and yelling...

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Geordie Girl
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She doesn't trust ATMs, or those people standing near, & I don't blame her - good on her!!

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Lindsey Judd-Bruder
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, lol. This is yet another variation of an often retold, well-known anecdote, that literally everyone claims has happened to them, or someone they know. IJS, I've never heard of a bank with that silly rule. And ATM's only allow one to take out money, in multiples of 20. Though I suppose those could be different, in other countries. Also, unless the old woman said something ahead of time, she would've been given that $1000 in $100 dollar bills, or at least 50s, MAYBE $20s. She wouldn't be given $10s, $5s, or $1s. It's much faster and easier to count the bigger bills, so that's the bank's default method. Unless otherwise specified. And if the lady asked for small bills ahead of time, she would have tipped her hand, and exposed her little scheme, before she got a chance to execute it. Also, why ask for $1000, and redeposit that much, when all she had to ask for was $100? 1/2

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Lindsey Judd-Bruder
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All that aside, if OP really worked at a bank, they would know that the correct word for a sum of money taken out of a bank is *withdrawal*. Not withdraw. Withdraw is a verb. If you *withdraw* less than $1000... For *withdrawals* less than $1000... Any bank employee ought to know this terminology. I mean, it's what they DO. Nah. I'm sorry, fellow Pandas, to be a Negative Nellie. And I'm sorry to call you out like this, OP. But I smell búllshit. And lying for likes only makes you look dumb. Better lich next time, lol. 2/2/End

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Janet Graham
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is absolutely brilliant! If enough people follow their stupid rules, perhaps they will change them!

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elfin
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This doesn't sound real. Banks nowadays don't hold as much cash as they used to. I wanted to take out $5,000 on day and had to come back for it later. Why would a bank have 99 $10 bills?

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Thalia Ann
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stupid is as stupid does! She is Forest Gump smart, what a old lady!

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Tijuan Hoffpauir
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow she really wanted the ($10.00 dollars) lol & she wanted the rest of her money back into her bank account.

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Prezli
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for her for making your job harder for making her life harder than it has to be when you could have just made it easy for the both of you by opening her account to give her the $10 withdraw she asked for to begin with.

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Lemon Beans
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bank teller isn't the one who made the policy tho, they're only abiding by it so they don't get fired. Old lady could have just took out $100 in $10 bills and deposited the remaining $90 (which would have been funny and a clever solution) but instead she wasted her's, the teller's, and other customers time just to be petty. Like ,, she did this as an f you to the teller, not as a loop hole :/

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Radim Petrikovic
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The teller should serve the lady the idea of withdrawing 100 and deposit 90. He did not and the lady took lead. Simple.

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D. M. Melendez
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just give the lady her $10 and thank her for her business. The "old gal" has game and pimp slapped your rude "bank policy" crutch out from under you.

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Dee Bowmer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminds me of a friend who paid a parking ticket all in pennies.

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Gino Garcia
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love it! I bet they would tell me they don't carry that many $10 bills

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Brandon Riner
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No she didnt. This is a story that has been passed around the internet for years and years. Stop.,

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Amy Stone-Chandler
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dumb rule. Many many people don't know how or simply do not use ATM's. Yeah, 'gods' forbid a bank teller do their job 😕

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Hope 4Peace
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is brilliant! Instead of making a scene, she was able to get $10 from her account.(Does the bank offer a $10 ATM withdrawals?) @rudy_betrayed, what's your passion? It doesn't sound like it's banking or customer service, so I'm sure it's still out there. Enjoy the journey. And thank you for assisting this customer with her transaction. I'm sure having access to her money means the world to her.

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Shreeky
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such a smart ol'lady! Reminds me of what Sophia off of Golden Girls would had done for revenge😂😂😂😂

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Angela Mccar
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of ATMs don't have just 10 dollar bill most of ours are 20's only

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Craig
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a BS folk tale circulating online. I have seen this countless times on linked in with different photos of the elderly woman in question and every time I google search the image it's from a different story that has nothing to do with the withdrawal post.

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Lemon Beans
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So it's ok to be a d**k to employees who are just following company rules because they don't want to get in trouble, just because that rule happened to inconvinced you?? I would have thought someone who's "been around" would have a bit more compassion, but sure ok

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Donna Partain
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

MESS WITH OLD LADIES IF YOU WANT TO...BUT THIS OLD LADY DOES NOT RECOMMEND IT! 👍

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Yasmin Mazur
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If only it was that simple - where I live there is commition on each action - so she would have paid twice for 2 actions.

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Wang Zhuang
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stupid bank policy, I hope the teller's boss took note of that

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EP
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve seen the new rules lately. It’s clearly to help Banks save money by needing less staff. This is hilarious.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is making me think of the title of a British series. Some Mums Do Have 'Em

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Swanson Swanson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This woman is 100% a badass and has no Fs left for any nonsense. I love her.

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RoseTheMad
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly this old lady is the amount of petty malicious compliance I aspire to lmao

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Marilyn Russell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love her. We live in a stupid world now despite all the advantages of modern technology. The human touch is sadly lacking.

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Molly Harris
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's ridiculous is that she took out her frustration on an employee who was just doing their job the way they were told they had to do it. It's not the employees fault the rule is stupid. So all she did is waste everyone's time. To you and all of the other people applauding this,I hope you are the ones stuck waiting behind people that do this kind of thing.

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Carole G.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol...Score one for us old folks, we been around the block a time or two!

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Molly Harris
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh,please. It wasn't the employee's fault the bank has a stupid rule. So all she did was waste everyone's time. The employees( who had nothing to do with that limitation) and other customers most likely waiting behind her. Imagine being proud of the fact that you just wasted everyone's time and effort just to be an entitled A hole because of your age.

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Lori E
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is it commonplace now to get less than $20 @ an ATM? I personally have yet to see one that does, honestly asking

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Sabrina Bowen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1. I love this woman. 2. I used to work for Huntington National Bank and we would have refused her request. We had strict limits on how much we could give in each denomination w/o pre-approval. She would have been told she could get $1000, but not in $10s unless she ordered a day ahead. I'd love to know what she'd have done w/that!

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Stretsh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Would be even more "fun" if she asked for smaller notes...

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Daniel Brown
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not cool to make him count out a full $1000 in 10's when he doesn't make the rules. Sould have asked for the $100 minimum, then deposited $90 back.

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SIREN 27
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Moral of the story don't mess with the elderly, they will always be smarter!

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Matthew Klinger
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was going around Facebook about 6 months ago. My grandma told me about it probably 10 times.

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Vicko Fidelis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's actually a good story and has a good meaning. but many think this is just the story of a stubborn old lady.

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Robert Turley
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is dumb. What stupid bank has that rule? I've been a teller and had bank accounts at at least a dozen different institutions and have never seen a rule this dumb. Also, most ATMs only spit out 20s, so most people wouldn't assume they can get any amount of money out of one meaning this has to be a common occurrence of people waiting in line to be told they can't make a withdrawal.

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“There are some people who feel that any attempts to get them to ‘fall in line’ are unacceptable. I once worked with someone who would always turn in their reports late—whether it was late by a day or just a couple of minutes past the stated deadline, they were consistently going to buck the deadline,” Professor Degges-White revealed to Bored Panda.

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“When asked why they behaved in this way, their response was that they were able to maintain control when they didn't follow the rules. For them, rules at work were something to be broken in order to satisfy their ‘control freak’ tendency,” she said.

“Others, though, use rules as ‘base level expectations’ and want to exceed those expectations and follow rules to a ‘t.’ They maintain their own sense of control by staying way inside of the rules—they take pride in this behavior.”.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Both of them are rocking those skirts! Edit: thanks you guys for the upvotes, this is the most I've ever gotten!

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Whatever each individual’s tolerance for rules might be, society as a whole would fall apart without them.

“Everyone has a different view on rules/boundaries and it might be nature for some and nurture for others. However, on a larger scale, societies cannot function without clear rules and boundaries. Chaos and anarchy result—at any level—when rules fall by the wayside,” the professor told Bored Panda.

Having structure in your life can help you deal with stress. Strict schedules and routines can be very useful when the world seems unpredictable and your future looks uncertain. It’s something to fall back on. Something to rely on. It’s something to give you a sense of control when there’s chaos left, right, and center.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Look at me! I’m a duck! Quack quack.. quack.. it’s pretty cold down here”

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ummm I'm pretty sure that writing a book while you are supposed to be working is still against the rules

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In fact, a lack of structure can actually lead to more stress down the line. “If people don't have structure and are sitting around with less to focus on, then they also probably will find themselves thinking about the stressful situation more, which can also lead to additional stress and anxiety,” Rachel Goldman, Ph.D., told Very Well Mind

Besides lowering your stress levels, having a regular routine can help you form healthy habits, and make you feel more focused and productive. This can work both with self-imposed and outwardly-imposed routines. However, in some cases, we might not agree with all the rules in place. We might question the need for them or we might feel that the alternatives that we propose are far better.

This can lead to tension between those imposing and enforcing the rules, as well as those who are expected to abide by them. Let’s be frank, some workplace rules are truly bonkers, have no bearing to reality, or might be in place to stroke some managers’ egos. Meanwhile, others might be there for good reason (even if it’s not immediately apparent). It all comes down to good, effective leadership and whether or not bosses actually care about their employees. A good leader can create rules that make sense and benefit (nearly) everyone, not just the few.

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Eddy Ng, the Smith Professor of Equity & Inclusion in Business at Queen’s University, told Bored Panda earlier that strong leaders in the workplace are those who are moral, principled, and choose to do the right thing. They stand in stark contrast to weak leaders who only do the things that make them popular and have a hard time making firm decisions: they flip-flop, they dither, they can’t make up their minds.

“The notion of servant leadership is gaining attention in the workplace. Although it is associated with many of the strong leadership traits such as empathy, selflessness, and humility, the focus is on the leader’s propensity to serve (or support) their followers. Servant leaders empower and lift up followers (employees) to motivate and fuel their passion,” the professor explained to Bored Panda.

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Czech Fans Were Forced To Take Down The Ukrainian Flag At The Championship. So They Found A Loophole

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

On those flags it says "Go home Ivan" and "Natasha waits for you". Those are lines from pretty good song wrote to protest the invasion. Funny thing, in their clip the role of Ivan is played by Petr Novotny, who is major of one part of Prague and he is a huge pain in the a*s for Russians for a long time.

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“Employees can manage that relationship to have work satisfaction. In this instance, employees need to communicate what they need (tools) or work conditions (autonomy) in order for them to perform optimally when working with a controlling boss. Employees need to convey what they can and are able to perform,” he said that the principle of exchange is an important one in workplaces.

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My Kindergartener Was Feeling Proud Of This Solution To Her Homework

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However, it’s not just at work where we find rules to abide by. Whether we like it or not, we also adhere to certain limits at home, too. In healthy relationships, both partners make the rules together, communicate efficiently, and respect each other’s boundaries. However, in some relationships, one partner might hold too much power or someone might not be able to enforce the rules and boundaries that matter to them.

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Sandwich Only Sits With My Wife, But I Think I Found A Way To Beat The System

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“In relationships and life in general, too much power can corrupt a person’s behavior. A man or a woman who is normally a very nice, caring, loving and understanding person, can sometimes become quite selfish, mean and unloving if given too much power in a romantic relationship,” Dan Bacon, a dating and relationship expert, told Bored Panda recently.

“Sometimes, a woman will be in a relationship with a man who says that he has boundaries, but then lets her defy those boundaries on a daily basis because he doesn’t know how to stand up to her in an assertive, loving, and effective way,” he explained that boundaries need to be enforced for them to matter.

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Cat Isn't Allowed On The Table, Found A Loophole To Still Be The Center Of Attention While We Eat

Cat Isn't Allowed On The Table, Found A Loophole To Still Be The Center Of Attention While We Eat

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I'm Not Sure That's What They Meant

I'm Not Sure That's What They Meant

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“All he does is get upset, sulk and seek pity from her when she defies his boundaries, which she sees as weak, wimpy, and possibly even pathetic. This can then result in her losing respect for him, which can then make her feel as though his so-called ‘boundaries’ aren’t something that she needs to adhere to,” the expert pointed out that boundaries mean nothing if they’re only theoretical. Pleading, demanding, or trying to reason with someone will not get them to respect your boundaries.

“That kind of problematic outcome often happens when one person has way too much power in a relationship.”

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It’s 70’s Day And This Kid Is Dressing For The 1770’s

It’s 70’s Day And This Kid Is Dressing For The 1770’s

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It's Not Medicine, It's Pepsi

It's Not Medicine, It's Pepsi

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A healthy relationship means that the power dynamic isn’t skewed too far one way or the other.

“Having boundaries respected is not about a man being overly domineering or bossy and making his girlfriend or wife feel like she has no power or say. That is not loving or effective and it will create many relationship problems and most likely cause the relationship to end in a breakup,” he told us.

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He Is Not Allowed To Put His Paws On The Screen Door So This Is What He Does

He Is Not Allowed To Put His Paws On The Screen Door So This Is What He Does

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Roxy Knows She's Allowed On The Barstool, And Not On The Counter. Roxy Also Likes To Test Her Limits

Roxy Knows She's Allowed On The Barstool, And Not On The Counter. Roxy Also Likes To Test Her Limits

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“A man needs to approach the relationship in a way where his girlfriend or wife feels respected, but also feels the need to respect him in return. If respect is only one way in the relationship, problematic behavior will naturally emerge and boundaries may be defied or disrespected by an otherwise nice, loving, and caring person.”

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If You Have A Stain On Your Shirt, Outline The Stain With A Pen And Give It A Name. This Will Make It Seem Like You Visited A Random Island

If You Have A Stain On Your Shirt, Outline The Stain With A Pen And Give It A Name. This Will Make It Seem Like You Visited A Random Island

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#34

My 9-Year-Old Cousin's Invention. I Think He Did Good

My 9-Year-Old Cousin's Invention. I Think He Did Good

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My Fourth Grader’s Math Homework. She Said “This Way I Didn’t Even Need To Think About It”

My Fourth Grader’s Math Homework. She Said “This Way I Didn’t Even Need To Think About It”

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#38

Playing Outside

Playing Outside

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Today's version of me sitting halfway up a tree reading, after having been told to stop reading in my room and go outside and play

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In The 1990s, A California Man, Steve Comisar, Began Putting Ads In National Magazines Selling "Solar Powered Dryers" For $49.95

In The 1990s, A California Man, Steve Comisar, Began Putting Ads In National Magazines Selling "Solar Powered Dryers" For $49.95

Customers would then receive a simple clothesline in the mail.

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My Professor Asked For The Essay To Be In Times New Roman And A4 Size, He Didn't Say It Needed To Be On Paper Though

My Professor Asked For The Essay To Be In Times New Roman And A4 Size, He Didn't Say It Needed To Be On Paper Though

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Teacher Said We Are Allowed To Bring Single Side Paper For Notes During Final

Teacher Said We Are Allowed To Bring Single Side Paper For Notes During Final

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Very Fussy Chihuahua Will Only Eat If Another Dog Is Watching. Here’s Our Workaround While Our Other Dog Is Away

Very Fussy Chihuahua Will Only Eat If Another Dog Is Watching. Here’s Our Workaround While Our Other Dog Is Away

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He Knows He's Not Allowed On The Counter, But I Never Said Anything About The Lunchbox

He Knows He's Not Allowed On The Counter, But I Never Said Anything About The Lunchbox

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I Wasn’t Allowed To Play Much, So Usually I Woke Up Earlier Than Everyone And Played On The PS1 With The Sound On Mute For A Couple Of Hours. Until I Got Caught

I Wasn’t Allowed To Play Much, So Usually I Woke Up Earlier Than Everyone And Played On The PS1 With The Sound On Mute For A Couple Of Hours. Until I Got Caught

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My Wife Is An English Teacher. She Gave This Student An A For This Assignment

My Wife Is An English Teacher. She Gave This Student An A For This Assignment

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not technically true....they would do this assignment, they'd just do it at the very last minute.

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My Girlfriend Bet Me She Could Write Any Swear Word On My Calculator, I Bet Her $50 She Couldn’t

My Girlfriend Bet Me She Could Write Any Swear Word On My Calculator, I Bet Her $50 She Couldn’t

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Paris Marathon Was Cancelled So This Dude Ran Back And Forth On His 7 Meter Balcony For A Marathon Length

Paris Marathon Was Cancelled So This Dude Ran Back And Forth On His 7 Meter Balcony For A Marathon Length

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The sheer determination and monotony are amazing. But the GPS doesn’t seem overly accurate, so he should do an extra 5k or so.

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#49

My Friend Works As An English Teacher In Sweden

My Friend Works As An English Teacher In Sweden

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#50

My Daughter's Job Only Allows Black Pants And No Rips. Her Normal Pair Was Still In The Washer So She Hacked It. Will It Work?

My Daughter's Job Only Allows Black Pants And No Rips. Her Normal Pair Was Still In The Washer So She Hacked It. Will It Work?

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