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Racist Neighbor Keeps Calling Security On Guy Because He Looks Mexican, So Here’s What He Did In Revenge
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Racist Neighbor Keeps Calling Security On Guy Because He Looks Mexican, So Here’s What He Did In Revenge

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This Mexican-looking guy kept on getting security called on him in his own neighborhood, so he decided to finally do something about it.

This guy, whose name is unknown, has been living in an older gated community for over eleven years now, yet some of his neighbors apparently still can’t remember him. The guy’s mom is Portuguese/Japanese and father is Swedish/German, but his friend (SharkswithFrigginLazerBeams) claims he kind of looks like an enormous Mexican, and that’s what his neighbor thinks as well. Whenever he walks his dog, he’s constantly asked questions like “Sir, can I help you?”, “Do you live here?” or “Do you realize you’re trespassing?”. And even though he does live there and calmly points it out every time, sometimes he even gets security called on him. One day, when the Mexican-looking guy (who is not straight but low-key about it) finally found out who kept calling security, he decided to do something about it and it was pretty hilarious. Keep on scrolling to see what he did!

This guy has been living in his neighborhood for over 11 years now, yet some of his neighbors still can’t remember him

So he decided to do something about it

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But what he did next was just the best

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cybermerlin2000 avatar
cybermerlin2000
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He should call security on her for her homophobic racism and constant harrassment

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Naima
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So if he was Mexican it would be ok to call security? And what if he wasn't "low key" about being "not straight"?

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Cory Gaskins
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It shouldn't matter either way. But the writer was explaining why people kept calling security on the guy.

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Tisha Bell
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People do know that Mexicans can be pale skinned and blonde too, right?

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Wendy
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you. I can't believe the ignorance on this. Also: south of the border and brown? Must be a Mexican. Couldn't possibly be another nationality.

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Lau Torres
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is funny but i couldnt help feeling weird about the "Im not Mexican so stop calling Security?" so what if he WAS? a better cake would have been: Im Not white but Im your neighbor, b***h.

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Phil Pheel
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The point is his neighbor kept calling security & saying there was a Mexican inside her gated community. This was his way of shaming her into understanding that not all brown people are Mexican, a more than valid point. So he didn't disparage Mexicans, he was denying the essence of her claim.

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Cat Meow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time to call his lawyers. What this Lady does is a clear case of harassment. Can't believe he's tolerated it for as long as he has.

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mimimikas
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if anyone is wondering, puta the portuguese word for hooker

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Paula Casas
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's also the Spanish word for whore. It makes more sense, even though it's mentioned that his mum is half Portuguese, that he is insulting in Spanish because "he is Mexican" (according to his racist neighbor).

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Keley Babs
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and yeah, why is it a "good" thing in this story that he's low-key about being gay. If you're a law-abiding renter or owner, you should be able to be whatever culture, nationality, sexual orientation, gender identity etc. you want!

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Adrijana Radosevic
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe they're trying to say he wasn't bothering anybody. Some gay people are too openly sexual, and too openly... open. I respect everyone's right to be gay as long as they respect my right to not give a f**k about who they are and what they choose to suck.

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Aunt Messy
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He needs to sue her for harassment and get a restraining order. What she's doing is harassment. She knows who he is and where he lives, she'd just a racist.

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Linda Aguilar
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So why is "looking Mexican" something that requires calling security is my question...

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Paige Garberding
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That racist neighbor is one of those people who equates "Mexican" with "illegal alien." One of the risks of living in a gated community: getting stupider by the minute.

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Ildiko S.
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the proper reaction from the guy might have been to throw a gigantic Mexican themed gay party! hahah

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Scott Bae
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mother had a racist neighbor like this. Praise God, the old, nosey b***h finally moved away.

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Sunzilla
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn busy-body should get a hobby and stop staring out her window at the neighbours...

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Adrienne St Claire
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he's a resident of the community, it shouldn't matter if he was a flaming drag queen Mexican, he shouldn't have to tolerate this ongoing harassment.

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Sammy Zayante
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He should be careful. Putting stuff in mailboxes is a federal offense. He needs to mail it if he wants it in her mailbox.

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Valentina Lattante
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

but is being mexican a good enough reason to be suspected of doing something illegal?

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Paige Garberding
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Racial profiling alone is not enough for authorities to legally stop and detain people. So far. Who knows now that fascists are in charge of all 3 branches of government. And, of course, cops violate the constitution all the time. So legally speaking, no; in reality, to a racist, it's more than enough.

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Gwendolyn Walker
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

good for him....guess he knows how we feel..even though he should not have to be subjected to that type of aggravation ..

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Gwendolyn Walker
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for him.....now he understands what it feels like to be singled out because who you might be.....even though he should not have had to go through it period..

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Ja Legge
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cupcake is a good final touch if that white person understood what that word meant. Stupidity is when one calls on race.

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Chris Capewell
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white person, I know what "puta" means. His neighbor being white has nothing to do with it. I am certainly not defending her in any way, but don't generalize it like she's racist because she's white.

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Maureen Zappellini
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately crazy paranoia happens a lot in the "older" population, often it's a sign of early dementia- not an excuse but info. Still sad

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Chris Iller
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I doubt any of this happened. Somebody just thought it would be funny if that ever did happen and wanted an excuse to bake some goodies for a picture.

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Christina Operhall
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm half Vietnamese and half Polish. I don't look Asian and people are always asking me if I speak Spanish.

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Lisa Thaviu
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He could get a restraining order against her for harassing him in violation of his civil rights.

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Suzanne
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously, you're going to leave us hanging??? What happened after the cupcake???

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philthy alfred
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look no one likes Mexicans but it's better to try and get along.

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Dixie Wilson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder...what does a Mexican "look like"? Ridiculous. There are all kinds of nationalities that are dark skinned, dark haired, etc. Doesn't mean they are Mexican. And even if they are...SO WHAT??

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Paul Ciavarelli
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, you cannot stick letters or cupcakes in the mailbox. Yes he didn't NEED to call her a whore, BUT, enough was enough and his cupcake was harmless. I would not call that stooping to her level though. Stooping to her level would involve daily harassment. Personally, i would have hired a "gay" taco truck to park in front of my house, and a gay mariachi band to play on my front awn.. LOUDLY during permitted hours

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Rainee Oakes
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF'S up with the security? They should know the residents and refuse the complaint. I'm a real estate agent and I actually get this s**t all the time from a******s. It's not just people of color, it's families with small kids or teenagers or gay couples or mixed couples. I'll have residents run over and ask for my card when I show houses then they'll call me to let me know they don't want "their kind" in our neighborhood. My response is always the same, "it is a violation of federal law for me to steer clients away from areas for any reason. I do appreciate the call so I can point out the a*****e in the neighborhood to my buyers." Then I call their HOA and file a complaint and the listing agent so they can do the same. Unfortunately it's not against the law to be a fucktard....but at the very least we can call them out on their b******t.

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Karl Humphreys
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every HOA in existence have rules contained in legal written contracts against this type of harassment. She would be warned and after so long, the HOA would take her to court and she would be forced to move.This entire story is baloney!

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Susan Koscielski
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband is Polish and Japanese but he gets asked what tribe he's from. It shouldn't matter to people what another person looks like. If she had any decency she would strike a conversation up with him and get to know him.

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Larry A DeShane jr
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But ya know he's low key about being GAY (not straight) not like those pushy out there ones!

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Elizabeth Guiles
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Regardless of his genetic heritage, his neighbor is a racist idiot

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Eirik Guttulsrud
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gated communities... it just feels so much like Trump's dream, scaled down a bit.

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Ria Hyams
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ignorant b***h. So what if he looks/is Mexican /gay/ straight/ pink/lilac etc etc.

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bigoldthor
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the few times where the "C" word could and should be used on the the old b***h...frequently and with enthusiasm. On the cupcake, change "Puta" to "C*unt" and you're off to a good start.

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Azure Adams
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was nice about it and with cake... its now security and lawyering time

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Maureen Zappellini
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In any case, dementia or not- this behavior is dangerous- can possibly initiate violent reactions- the cakes were a great response

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Lucina Sandoval-Gordon
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm Mexican and this feels wrong to me. If he was Mexican would the harassment be understandable. :/

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Vincent Jay
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd stop interacting with her, and call my lawyers to place a civil law suit.

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Ray Lebowski
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this neighbor is as big a turd as described, she'll go after him for putting the cupcake in her mailbox, which is technically a federal crime. Only mail is to be put in a mailbox, either incoming or outgoing. What he should have done, after the cake didn't produce any change in behavior, was to get together with some of her immediate neighbors and paid a friendly house call. "I live here, I'm not a criminal, please stop the harassment". But that doesn't generate any clicks or get the media interested,does it? I'm on his side. The neighbor is wrong, period. BUT this could have been resolved without splashing it all over the Internet.

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Dianna Slowey-Thomas
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is perfect! Tells her straight up in a very 'sweet' way. (Even mentioned his lawyers)They'll be neighbors for years so it's always best to give the other neighbor a way out, so that there is an open door down the road to develop a neighborly relationship.

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Blind Oracle
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope he didn't really put that in her mailbox. That would be a federal crime that she could use against him. He's a beautiful soul who doesn't deserve her abuse.

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Lidee Moril
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All sponsored by that great, lovely guy called Trump *sigh/barf*

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Ray Lebowski
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure, because nothing like this ever happened before this past January or November. Racism and homophobia are brand new things, started by Trump.

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cyberbird
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe this enormous mexican-like fellow should stop walking his dog wearing his Mariachi outfit through the grated neighborhood.

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Acucena Freitas
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It´s not an embrace of a new found heritage cause the word is also portuguese and so it's his mother's heritage. It means b***h, as well, and it's perfect for the situation...

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Keley Babs
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, so what if he IS mexican? The cake should just say "I live in this neighborhood lawfully, and I'm not a criminal". Hopefully this story doesn't get TOO much praise, because his cake is an indirect slap in the face to anyone of Mexican heritage who owns a home.

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Tara Partlow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

mexican or not gay or not...if he is a nice person ....what does it matter.....you can only push someone so far,and that was harmless compared to what he could've done

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lunanoir69
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The complainer is lucky this man is so nice and clever, because if it was me, she and the gated community would've already received letters from my attorney!

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K. Villareal
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well at least he know neighborhood watch are doing their job. Hahaha! Sounds like fake news to me anyways.

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Sheralyn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cakes are GORGEOUS. Someone tell me how to make them!!!

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Patrick Davies
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Passive aggressive behaviour like this will do nothing to end the harassment. Calling her a whore is just gonna escalate matters

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Emily Susan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Now I'm gonna call this story a bit fake, more than likely.They must have both bought same cake letters at the store cuz they are same ones.

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David Cooke
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this article is a load of virtue signalling bullshine. SJWs foaming at the mouth over their keyboards. If it is true, maybe he dressed like a tramp and walked along the street shouting and swearing? Maybe he doesn't wash? Not everyone is a victim you know.

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Adam Nedeff
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I'm glad he has lawyers, because putting the cupcake in the mailbox is actually a federal offense. That lady has him over a barrel if she wants to call the cops for that.

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Will Escobar
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She should get a nice letter for violating the peaceful enjoyment of one's home due to her harassment, bigotry & add homophobia from the governing board. If she continues, inform her of possible eviction from the community and hire a Latina drag queen to deliver the message with a cake.

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K. Villareal
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well at least he knows neighborhood watch is doing their job. Hahaha! Sounds like fake news to me.

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pepjrp
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet it is totally fake too! But it's designed to push an agenda. Good catch.

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Nick Vaginitis
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6 years ago

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actually, puta - w/ an 'a' - is whore. puto - w/ an 'o' - is the homophobic slur I think she was going for - so she's homophobic AND stupid

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Doreen Ball
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It sounds like the neighbor (it is one person from how this reads) may be suffering from Alzheimer's. Was that ever considered? The questions he's been asked are neither rude nor racist if the woman doesn't recognize the man and she sees someone she believes is a stranger walking around within a gated community (especially an "enormous" man with dogs). This is frankly one of the most hypocritical posts I've seen on this site. I have to question why the "homophobic letter" wasn't posted and am quite unclear where Mexican heritage has ever been expressed by sending vulgar cupcakes to a woman. If anyone should be called out here it is the poster who apparently thinks having a Mexican neighbor is a cause to call security and being gay is acceptable only if you don't "act gay".

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Imma Letchofinish
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6 years ago

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So instead of having a conversation with her or sending her a note telling her to knock it off..he throws shade via a cake then calls her a s**t using a cupcake. Ummm...yeah, this guy is trash.

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Phil Pheel
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah... he quietly suffered 11 years of racist BS and after all that, he sent her a cake... so he must be the one at fault!! what the f**k are you smoking? i guess all racists are just fine and dandy folk to you!

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Tiffany Harding
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Hell, I'd act like a racist cow toward him if it means I could get free cake.

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darknessIsMyOutfit
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're willing to be a piece of s**t for a piece of cake clearly you are a cow.

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cybermerlin2000
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He should call security on her for her homophobic racism and constant harrassment

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Naima
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So if he was Mexican it would be ok to call security? And what if he wasn't "low key" about being "not straight"?

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Cory Gaskins
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It shouldn't matter either way. But the writer was explaining why people kept calling security on the guy.

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Tisha Bell
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People do know that Mexicans can be pale skinned and blonde too, right?

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Wendy
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you. I can't believe the ignorance on this. Also: south of the border and brown? Must be a Mexican. Couldn't possibly be another nationality.

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Lau Torres
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is funny but i couldnt help feeling weird about the "Im not Mexican so stop calling Security?" so what if he WAS? a better cake would have been: Im Not white but Im your neighbor, b***h.

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Phil Pheel
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The point is his neighbor kept calling security & saying there was a Mexican inside her gated community. This was his way of shaming her into understanding that not all brown people are Mexican, a more than valid point. So he didn't disparage Mexicans, he was denying the essence of her claim.

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Cat Meow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time to call his lawyers. What this Lady does is a clear case of harassment. Can't believe he's tolerated it for as long as he has.

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mimimikas
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if anyone is wondering, puta the portuguese word for hooker

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Paula Casas
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's also the Spanish word for whore. It makes more sense, even though it's mentioned that his mum is half Portuguese, that he is insulting in Spanish because "he is Mexican" (according to his racist neighbor).

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Keley Babs
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and yeah, why is it a "good" thing in this story that he's low-key about being gay. If you're a law-abiding renter or owner, you should be able to be whatever culture, nationality, sexual orientation, gender identity etc. you want!

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Adrijana Radosevic
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe they're trying to say he wasn't bothering anybody. Some gay people are too openly sexual, and too openly... open. I respect everyone's right to be gay as long as they respect my right to not give a f**k about who they are and what they choose to suck.

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Aunt Messy
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He needs to sue her for harassment and get a restraining order. What she's doing is harassment. She knows who he is and where he lives, she'd just a racist.

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Linda Aguilar
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So why is "looking Mexican" something that requires calling security is my question...

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Paige Garberding
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That racist neighbor is one of those people who equates "Mexican" with "illegal alien." One of the risks of living in a gated community: getting stupider by the minute.

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Ildiko S.
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the proper reaction from the guy might have been to throw a gigantic Mexican themed gay party! hahah

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Scott Bae
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mother had a racist neighbor like this. Praise God, the old, nosey b***h finally moved away.

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Sunzilla
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn busy-body should get a hobby and stop staring out her window at the neighbours...

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Adrienne St Claire
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he's a resident of the community, it shouldn't matter if he was a flaming drag queen Mexican, he shouldn't have to tolerate this ongoing harassment.

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Sammy Zayante
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He should be careful. Putting stuff in mailboxes is a federal offense. He needs to mail it if he wants it in her mailbox.

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Valentina Lattante
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

but is being mexican a good enough reason to be suspected of doing something illegal?

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Paige Garberding
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Racial profiling alone is not enough for authorities to legally stop and detain people. So far. Who knows now that fascists are in charge of all 3 branches of government. And, of course, cops violate the constitution all the time. So legally speaking, no; in reality, to a racist, it's more than enough.

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Gwendolyn Walker
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

good for him....guess he knows how we feel..even though he should not have to be subjected to that type of aggravation ..

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Gwendolyn Walker
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for him.....now he understands what it feels like to be singled out because who you might be.....even though he should not have had to go through it period..

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Ja Legge
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cupcake is a good final touch if that white person understood what that word meant. Stupidity is when one calls on race.

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Chris Capewell
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white person, I know what "puta" means. His neighbor being white has nothing to do with it. I am certainly not defending her in any way, but don't generalize it like she's racist because she's white.

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Maureen Zappellini
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately crazy paranoia happens a lot in the "older" population, often it's a sign of early dementia- not an excuse but info. Still sad

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Chris Iller
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I doubt any of this happened. Somebody just thought it would be funny if that ever did happen and wanted an excuse to bake some goodies for a picture.

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Christina Operhall
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm half Vietnamese and half Polish. I don't look Asian and people are always asking me if I speak Spanish.

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Lisa Thaviu
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He could get a restraining order against her for harassing him in violation of his civil rights.

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Suzanne
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously, you're going to leave us hanging??? What happened after the cupcake???

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philthy alfred
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look no one likes Mexicans but it's better to try and get along.

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Dixie Wilson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder...what does a Mexican "look like"? Ridiculous. There are all kinds of nationalities that are dark skinned, dark haired, etc. Doesn't mean they are Mexican. And even if they are...SO WHAT??

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Paul Ciavarelli
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, you cannot stick letters or cupcakes in the mailbox. Yes he didn't NEED to call her a whore, BUT, enough was enough and his cupcake was harmless. I would not call that stooping to her level though. Stooping to her level would involve daily harassment. Personally, i would have hired a "gay" taco truck to park in front of my house, and a gay mariachi band to play on my front awn.. LOUDLY during permitted hours

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Rainee Oakes
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF'S up with the security? They should know the residents and refuse the complaint. I'm a real estate agent and I actually get this s**t all the time from a******s. It's not just people of color, it's families with small kids or teenagers or gay couples or mixed couples. I'll have residents run over and ask for my card when I show houses then they'll call me to let me know they don't want "their kind" in our neighborhood. My response is always the same, "it is a violation of federal law for me to steer clients away from areas for any reason. I do appreciate the call so I can point out the a*****e in the neighborhood to my buyers." Then I call their HOA and file a complaint and the listing agent so they can do the same. Unfortunately it's not against the law to be a fucktard....but at the very least we can call them out on their b******t.

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Karl Humphreys
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every HOA in existence have rules contained in legal written contracts against this type of harassment. She would be warned and after so long, the HOA would take her to court and she would be forced to move.This entire story is baloney!

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Susan Koscielski
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband is Polish and Japanese but he gets asked what tribe he's from. It shouldn't matter to people what another person looks like. If she had any decency she would strike a conversation up with him and get to know him.

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Larry A DeShane jr
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But ya know he's low key about being GAY (not straight) not like those pushy out there ones!

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Elizabeth Guiles
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Regardless of his genetic heritage, his neighbor is a racist idiot

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Eirik Guttulsrud
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gated communities... it just feels so much like Trump's dream, scaled down a bit.

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Ria Hyams
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ignorant b***h. So what if he looks/is Mexican /gay/ straight/ pink/lilac etc etc.

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bigoldthor
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the few times where the "C" word could and should be used on the the old b***h...frequently and with enthusiasm. On the cupcake, change "Puta" to "C*unt" and you're off to a good start.

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Azure Adams
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was nice about it and with cake... its now security and lawyering time

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Maureen Zappellini
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In any case, dementia or not- this behavior is dangerous- can possibly initiate violent reactions- the cakes were a great response

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Lucina Sandoval-Gordon
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm Mexican and this feels wrong to me. If he was Mexican would the harassment be understandable. :/

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Vincent Jay
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd stop interacting with her, and call my lawyers to place a civil law suit.

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Ray Lebowski
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this neighbor is as big a turd as described, she'll go after him for putting the cupcake in her mailbox, which is technically a federal crime. Only mail is to be put in a mailbox, either incoming or outgoing. What he should have done, after the cake didn't produce any change in behavior, was to get together with some of her immediate neighbors and paid a friendly house call. "I live here, I'm not a criminal, please stop the harassment". But that doesn't generate any clicks or get the media interested,does it? I'm on his side. The neighbor is wrong, period. BUT this could have been resolved without splashing it all over the Internet.

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Dianna Slowey-Thomas
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is perfect! Tells her straight up in a very 'sweet' way. (Even mentioned his lawyers)They'll be neighbors for years so it's always best to give the other neighbor a way out, so that there is an open door down the road to develop a neighborly relationship.

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Blind Oracle
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope he didn't really put that in her mailbox. That would be a federal crime that she could use against him. He's a beautiful soul who doesn't deserve her abuse.

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Lidee Moril
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All sponsored by that great, lovely guy called Trump *sigh/barf*

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Ray Lebowski
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure, because nothing like this ever happened before this past January or November. Racism and homophobia are brand new things, started by Trump.

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cyberbird
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe this enormous mexican-like fellow should stop walking his dog wearing his Mariachi outfit through the grated neighborhood.

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Acucena Freitas
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It´s not an embrace of a new found heritage cause the word is also portuguese and so it's his mother's heritage. It means b***h, as well, and it's perfect for the situation...

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Keley Babs
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, so what if he IS mexican? The cake should just say "I live in this neighborhood lawfully, and I'm not a criminal". Hopefully this story doesn't get TOO much praise, because his cake is an indirect slap in the face to anyone of Mexican heritage who owns a home.

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Tara Partlow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

mexican or not gay or not...if he is a nice person ....what does it matter.....you can only push someone so far,and that was harmless compared to what he could've done

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lunanoir69
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The complainer is lucky this man is so nice and clever, because if it was me, she and the gated community would've already received letters from my attorney!

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K. Villareal
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well at least he know neighborhood watch are doing their job. Hahaha! Sounds like fake news to me anyways.

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Sheralyn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cakes are GORGEOUS. Someone tell me how to make them!!!

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Patrick Davies
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Passive aggressive behaviour like this will do nothing to end the harassment. Calling her a whore is just gonna escalate matters

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Emily Susan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Now I'm gonna call this story a bit fake, more than likely.They must have both bought same cake letters at the store cuz they are same ones.

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David Cooke
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this article is a load of virtue signalling bullshine. SJWs foaming at the mouth over their keyboards. If it is true, maybe he dressed like a tramp and walked along the street shouting and swearing? Maybe he doesn't wash? Not everyone is a victim you know.

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Adam Nedeff
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I'm glad he has lawyers, because putting the cupcake in the mailbox is actually a federal offense. That lady has him over a barrel if she wants to call the cops for that.

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Will Escobar
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She should get a nice letter for violating the peaceful enjoyment of one's home due to her harassment, bigotry & add homophobia from the governing board. If she continues, inform her of possible eviction from the community and hire a Latina drag queen to deliver the message with a cake.

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K. Villareal
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well at least he knows neighborhood watch is doing their job. Hahaha! Sounds like fake news to me.

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pepjrp
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet it is totally fake too! But it's designed to push an agenda. Good catch.

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Nick Vaginitis
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6 years ago

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actually, puta - w/ an 'a' - is whore. puto - w/ an 'o' - is the homophobic slur I think she was going for - so she's homophobic AND stupid

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Doreen Ball
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It sounds like the neighbor (it is one person from how this reads) may be suffering from Alzheimer's. Was that ever considered? The questions he's been asked are neither rude nor racist if the woman doesn't recognize the man and she sees someone she believes is a stranger walking around within a gated community (especially an "enormous" man with dogs). This is frankly one of the most hypocritical posts I've seen on this site. I have to question why the "homophobic letter" wasn't posted and am quite unclear where Mexican heritage has ever been expressed by sending vulgar cupcakes to a woman. If anyone should be called out here it is the poster who apparently thinks having a Mexican neighbor is a cause to call security and being gay is acceptable only if you don't "act gay".

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Imma Letchofinish
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6 years ago

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So instead of having a conversation with her or sending her a note telling her to knock it off..he throws shade via a cake then calls her a s**t using a cupcake. Ummm...yeah, this guy is trash.

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Phil Pheel
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah... he quietly suffered 11 years of racist BS and after all that, he sent her a cake... so he must be the one at fault!! what the f**k are you smoking? i guess all racists are just fine and dandy folk to you!

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Tiffany Harding
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Hell, I'd act like a racist cow toward him if it means I could get free cake.

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darknessIsMyOutfit
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're willing to be a piece of s**t for a piece of cake clearly you are a cow.

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