Emotions are a complex thing. Anyone would say that sadness feels bad, and laughing feels good. But the human psyche is so much more complicated than that, and things are never just black and white.
So in order to see how that works in practice, we’re diving into a collection of posts that will simultaneously crack a smile, and leave you pretty sad. And thanks to the corner of Reddit “Funny And Sad,” which is home to 726k members, there’s a lot to choose from!
Get ready for a very nuanced experience of internet consumption where jokes meet tough reality, and where the reality is not always funny. After you’re done, be sure to check out part 1 of the post right here.
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Why On Earth !?
The Most United States Thing To Say About The United States Ever
Poor Mom
Previously, we spoke with Dr. Lise Deguire, a clinical psychologist and the author of “Flashback Girl: Lessons on Resilience From a Burn Survivor” who said that occasional sadness is a normal part of life.“Happiness and sadness are both normal feelings that naturally arise through life's inevitable ups and downs. When people are numb to their feelings, or try to avoid feelings altogether, they won't experience sadness, but they won't experience much happiness either,” she explained.
However, some people may be more susceptible to sad emotions than others. This may be due to many reasons, but previous experiences, genetics, and mindsets are largely to blame. “This can be partly genetic and partly due to negative life experiences. Mindset is also a factor,” Lisa told us.
“People who tend to be pessimistic, who dwell on the future anxiously, and who ruminate negatively about the past can experience more sadness. However, these are cognitive bad habits that can really be helped by psychotherapy.”
Sounds About Right
Unfortunate Truth
Too Soon?
But most of the posts in this article have to do with the fact that they make a point which is presented in a funny way but is in itself not that funny. Quite on the contrary, many examples present cases of what could be called “a hard truth” which is, as we know very well, a pretty hard thing to swallow.
In a previous interview, Susan Petang, a certified life coach who runs The Quiet Zone Coaching, told Bored Panda that if the truth is something we don’t agree with, it will be uncomfortable to hear it because it all has to do with our core beliefs and values, and the way we view the world.
“When what we believe to be true about ourselves, situations, other people, or the world in general is at odds with what we observe, the result is cognitive dissonance—when our beliefs and our observations are at odds. This can cause considerable stress,” she explained.
What A Bunch Of Sheep
The War In Afghanistan Cost Americans 300 Million A Day For The Last 20 Years
Can you imagine if universal healthcare costed $300 million a day? (It costs a lot less and yet terrifies a lot of Americans)
Load More Replies...Right-wing parties only let things happen if it's going to cause pain to some people or the planet.
So what you're saying is we should spin universal healthcare in a way that makes it seem like it's going to make life in third world countries exponentially worse, then they'll go for it?
Load More Replies...Until we can somehow make sure lawmakers don't profit from war, we will have war. So...war forever?
... and for zero result, while you can just imagine how many lives could have been saved in the mean time with universal healthcare. But wait, someone considered they'd rather make private profit on both sides - pointless wars abroad, insane private health system at home.
Destroying is easier compared to creating. Let,s be honest - north amerika is destructive force
Congress just passed the single largest yearly DoD budget in history. We are not currently at war with anyone. But we can't afford to address climate change, forgive student loans, create universal health care, tax the wealthy and audit them regularly...
You either keep up with the arms race or get left behind. A major war is coming. Question is whether it's China or Russia first. Possibly both at once.
Load More Replies...all that money went to military equipment suppliers... they cringe at the thought of giving it to health care since they are for the most part well-fed with the insurance systems in place now... since the Afghan war is over, they will find some new way to justify more trillions of deficit spending... just hope the jerks don't start WW3
There is not much oil in Afghanistan, Opium on the other hand....
Load More Replies...My 8 yo only wants 10_% this. Not even daily. He's cool with it monthly. And he will even rake your leaves!
Because universal Health Care in the US would cost $8,767,123,287 a day according to the CBO estimate. Not to mention $50 trillion in unfunded liabilities for its first 10 years, not included in the previous costs. The US govt already spends $2,191,780,821 a day currently on Health Care just between Medicare and Medicaid.
I did read this report and there is one big problem with it - they use current level of costs in calculations! This is unreasonable, because negotiating power of single payer system would drastically reduce it (insulin for 400$ while there is 20 times cheaper alternative as an example).
Load More Replies...I hate to say it but the U.S. really sucks on soooooo many levels.
Wish I could upvote this more, $300m PER DAY seems like a pie in the sky figure made up by someone with a pacifist agenda.
Load More Replies...Militarise the hospitals and shoot at the sky and America will be happy to pay
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-47391821.amp according to this, ~825bn was spent on wartime efforts. 825000000000/365/20=~113m. Be nice if they could get the numbers right, given 113m a day is still a fuckton
I think you'll find that was the amount spent by the entire coalition too. I can't remember where but I read the US contributed about $80m per day. Still a large amount but nowhere near the 300m quoted here. I can't believe I've had to scroll this far down in the comments to see this pointed out by someone. Clearly a lot of people don't question wildly inaccurate statistics quoted without a source!
Load More Replies...Afghanistan allowed the US government to launder $2 trillion into the US economy through the US based contractors there without being hit with the inflation that printing $2 trillion and just circulating it normally would have.
and things still ended up the same in the end. That is the worst value.
All that money for nothing. If they invested in global heathcare and economic projects, people will have better prospects, can make their living in their country and then they will not longer support Taliban or other extremist groups. It's when people suffer, have no stable income or food that extremist groups can take advantage of the situation.
And yet, people will defend this system or blame others for it... Don't believe me? Read the comments...
You just can't make the same mind-blowingly egregious amount of money on those other two, whatever you said.
This is why I end up thinking, "I know how to bleed out before an ambulance can get to me...".... Off to look at puppies and kittens!
The war monger was voted it democratically and then re-elected. Who's fault is that?
Because GUNS! GODDAMMIT! The side that pushes for ridiculous allowances, everybody needs to be able to have a magazine for their .50 caliber which will hold, at a minimum, 50 rounds because you never know when the government is going to go all wild west on your ass and try to impose ALL of the various evils that said government has spent 200+ years actively fighting against. It is, without doubt, an absolute fact that the Forefathers of THIS GREAT COUNTRY anticipated this wild west behavior and The Right To Bear Arms clause in the document of Bills rights clearly indicates that the average Citizen of THIS GREAT COUNTRY is actually allowed to own (bear), at the very least, the highest level of defensive weapon which THIS GREAT COUNTRY fields as well as, at least, one pair of bear arms. Front or back is up to the bearer. Hopefully the dripping sarcasm is/was evident from the second word of this post. But yeah, the priorities in the grand old U.S. of A. are sorely lacking.
Really? Because turning the whole freaking world against them has been pretty expensive. Every bomb they drop, every bullet they shoot is the seed of an anti-American jihadist. And I don't blame them.
Load More Replies...LMAO at your math. Some people don't use healthcare every day. Some people have bigger needs. It works in all civilised countries. But then again, the USA isn't a civilised country.
Load More Replies...Your statement has been proven wrong plenty of times. For f*cks sake, stop spreading your trumpet agenda.
Load More Replies...When They Tell You To Work Hard To Be Rich
My 12yo wants to live in Iceland when they grow up and I'm encouraging them because I want my kid to have a better life than I've had and getting out of the USA is going to contribute to making that possible.
On the other hand, when we talk about truth, we have to be aware of the fact that it’s really a question of perception. Unless it’s a stated, scientifically-backed up fact, or a law of nature, all truths can be challenged. “So, what I have experienced as 'truth' may not be what you have experienced as 'truth.' For example, one could say that the truth is that water boils at 212 degrees. Or does it? If you use the metric system, water boils at 100 degrees,” Susan said.
Unfortunately It Gets Swept Under The Rug Because We Don’t Have Our S**t Together
I Couldn’t Help But Laugh
I Guess The Hotline Technically Worked?
She Found The Root Of The Problem
"In my time, 50 euros were a lot of money, you know... -Yes grandma, but your time is over."
Little By Little, You Have To Go To Europe To Work
More news: Graduate Americans decide to stay in Europe because they can't see themselves returning to a dystopian society after having experienced what it is to live in a normal country.
Seems To Make Sense
Three Paytriots Trying To Save America
Don’t Get Vaccinated
Millennials In Congress
Considering the average age of a lot of elected officials, it would be best to hire younger people anyway because they have more perspective on what life is like for young people and how much stuff costs
John Boner, I Was Opposed To Recreational Marijuana Until I Started Making Millions Off Of It
One Star Texas?
Nice Going Sis
My Favorite Kind Of Sale
But everything you think you're gonna get is actually from a completely different department, as you got lost in the shop. Keep it anyway.
Tweet: Raising The Hand
Not So Dystopian
We Can't Do Anything Else But Laugh At This Point
Education Matters
Yes, That Is True Icebreaker
*cries In Millennial/Zoomer*
Make A Wish
3 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Open The Door
It Sucks To Be A Diabetic In The US
American Dream Move Out Of Country
Where Are These Robots?
Seen On My Walk To Work Yesterday
The True Answer
Trump: Hi Beautiful Girls I Love All Of You
If You’re Ever In A Fist Fight
Not To Mention Our Ears
Don't give them more ideas! They'll start making us pay for all our individual body parts. Oh you fell and believe you sprained your wrist? Well, you have wrist insurance but X Rays show you also fractured a bone in your hand and you don't have coverage for that.
So True
And The Pizza Parties!
I Have Stage 4 Cancer And Sent This Message To My Friend After Getting My Second Vaccine. This Was His Response
America's Healthcare
I Have This Really Funny Story To Tell You Guys. I Was
It Is Really Funny And Sad
She Has No Brother
Jigsaws
Here We Go Again Another Top 1% Rich
Amazon shills in comments below, beware anyone that denies anyone their human rights.
"One Of My"
Rockets Go Vroom
Good Old Cod Lobbies
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Ya, people from other countries on here love to take a poop on America. Why is it so many people want to come here then?
Load More Replies...Nice another thread bashing the USA 😱surprised face! I’m glad bashing a country makes others feel good!
I get the feeling boredpanda assumes most of it's readers are American and post content based off of that.
Load More Replies...Whataboutism is a false argument. US healthcare / costs are bankrupting families and ensuring that those on the lowest wages get poor healthcare, that’s outrageous. Chinese concentration camps are ALSO outrageous. There are also human rights violations all across the Middle East, Israel is stealing land and homes, there is wholesale destruction of the environment all around the world, there are humanitarian crises on pretty much every continent…….and on and on. The healthcare system can be changed by democratic and concerted effort by the American people, in order to do that it needs to be highlighted and the politicians held to account. The others requires those same politicians to exert pressure on China et al, a regular American citizen can’t contact a foreign official and demand an explanation or indeed change. Instead of undermining legitimate concerns about healthcare how about encouraging positive change AND highlighting the other concerns around the world?
Load More Replies...Ya, people from other countries on here love to take a poop on America. Why is it so many people want to come here then?
Load More Replies...Nice another thread bashing the USA 😱surprised face! I’m glad bashing a country makes others feel good!
I get the feeling boredpanda assumes most of it's readers are American and post content based off of that.
Load More Replies...Whataboutism is a false argument. US healthcare / costs are bankrupting families and ensuring that those on the lowest wages get poor healthcare, that’s outrageous. Chinese concentration camps are ALSO outrageous. There are also human rights violations all across the Middle East, Israel is stealing land and homes, there is wholesale destruction of the environment all around the world, there are humanitarian crises on pretty much every continent…….and on and on. The healthcare system can be changed by democratic and concerted effort by the American people, in order to do that it needs to be highlighted and the politicians held to account. The others requires those same politicians to exert pressure on China et al, a regular American citizen can’t contact a foreign official and demand an explanation or indeed change. Instead of undermining legitimate concerns about healthcare how about encouraging positive change AND highlighting the other concerns around the world?
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