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Going to a hair salon every few weeks to cover gray roots is something most women are very familiar with. It seems that our society not only pressures women to constantly look their best, but it’s also no secret that gray hair is often associated with letting yourself go. In the process, many forget their roots and do all they can to maintain their artificially altered appearance, but some stop and ask themselves if that's really what they want.

Thanks to the #FreeTheSilver movement that’s been taking over social media lately, more and more women feel comfortable about their natural hair color. Be it grey, silver, white, or a monochromic palette that brings all the in-between shades from white to dark, natural hair is back and it’s here to stay.

So let’s see some of the most beautiful and inspiring #FreeTheSilver pics that would make anyone throw their hair dye in the bin if they haven't done it already. And after you’re done, be sure to check out our previous article with women totally rocking their natural gray hair.

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Would pick this woman over an instagram-influencer in a heartbeat. What a true beauty (and way out of my league).

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Long forgotten are the times when discovering your first gray hair brought a sense of disappointment. These days, more and more women and men are embracing their natural beauty and opening up to discovering the silver lining in going gray.

To find out more about the #FreeTheSilver movement, Bored Panda reached out to author Karen Phillips, who’s been sharing her wonderful gray hair transition on her Instagram account to 40.5k followers. Karen is also a growth mindset and positive aging advocate, as her hope is to normalize silver hair so women see it as one of many acceptable and beautiful options.

When asked about the common stigma around silver hair, Karen explained that “The cultural narrative that seems pervasive around gray hair is that gray=old and unacceptable. Culture says gray will make you invisible and less attractive. Culture says embracing your gray is letting yourself go.”

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People pay lots of money to make their hair look this wonderful! She looks fantastic!

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Meanwhile, “women are expected to be young and beautiful forever and should do everything to hide their gray hair. Culture says you're too young for what is growing naturally from your body, many times as early as your teens.”

Karen said she herself embraced this narrative for many years until she went on a health journey in her early 40s. “I was reacting poorly to hair dye and was worried about the health ramifications of consistent use of dark hair dye. I was on a journey of health, self-love, and acceptance,” she told us.

But in order to come to the decision to let her natural hair grow out, Karen had “to shift my perspective on what gray hair means and decide to be okay with going against the cultural norm.” “I wanted to let go of holding so tightly to this notion of looking young and to age with grace and gratitude. It was way outside my comfort zone, but I got more comfortable as time passed. The crazier my multi-colored hair looked, the more my confidence grew in no longer caring what others thought.”

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After some time, Karen recounted feeling good to be doing something that she knew was right for her. “For me, embracing my silver hair was very much an act of self-care and the next step on my journey to a healthy lifestyle. It became about so much more than hair and was really an empowering journey of self-growth.”

“It wasn't always easy, but I like to encourage women to have a strong 'why' going into any new endeavor. It will give you strength on the challenging days to go back to that why,” Karen said and added: “For me, the journey to silver grew me as a person and was such a liberating and empowering decision.”

Luckily, Karen believes that more and more women these days are more willing to ditch their hair dye. “I'm so encouraged by messages I get from young women who are excited for their silver hair to come in and say they plan on embracing it from the start! I feel like the cultural perspective is starting to shift ever so slightly.”

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Having said that, Karen added that she would never push this on anyone. “It's a very personal choice. I think the pandemic really helped a lot of women who had been wanting to do this to try it out. There is a huge growing number of women who are embracing their silvers and loving it!”

Meanwhile, a 26-year-old Martha Truslow Smith also decided that she’s had enough of the stigma surrounding gray hair and founded the Instagram account Grombre as a place of support and positivity for those women who choose to embrace their roots. “Grombre” is a play on “ombré,” a trend in hair color that was everywhere a couple of years ago. Grombre caused such a buzz on social media that it immediately amassed 225k followers on Instagram.

“The underlying reason I started Grombre was to start a different dialogue around gray hair on women and find the answer to some earnest questions of my own: "Is it true that my gray hair is ugly, makes me look old, and means I'm no longer good enough?” Martha told Bored Panda in a previous interview.

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Grombre paved the way for many more inspiring social media accounts that celebrated going gray. Finally, women could feel empowered in the sense that they no longer felt like they had to hide something which is inherently natural. As a result, the belief promoted by hair salons and hair coloring products that gray hair somehow shows that a woman doesn't put effort into her beauty is now steadily disappearing.

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But according to the founder of Grombre, “The thing about silver hair dye is that it’s just that; it’s dye,” Martha told us. “I respectfully don’t understand the comparison between natural silver hair and dyed silver hair: between these two, one challenges the perspective of yourself, your priorities, and your insecurities, all while being a public statement of vulnerability that takes patience to endure, while the other is a chosen color that can change on any given day and may or may not reflect your natural self.”

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Martha believes that the comparison takes two different categories and wraps it up in several neglected conversations. “This isn’t said to knock anyone who is dyeing their hair—if you enjoy it, go for it! If you don’t, then the question I ask is: should you have to?”

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i See You Wondering If You Are Up To The Challenge Of Growing Out Your Silvers.
i See You Searching Online For Pictures Of Other Women Who Have Taken This Path.
i See You Seeking Out Opinions From Loved Ones About Ditching The Dye - Hoping They Will Agree With Your Inclination To Start Your Silver Journey.
i Want You To Know ā„š’®ā„°ā„° š’“š’Ŗš’°...hell, ā„ š’²š’œš’® š’“š’Ŗš’°!
i Understand Your Trepidation, Your Worries And Your Fear. Iā€™m Here To Tell You Itā€™s Okay.
itā€™s Okay To Not Be šŸ’Æ Percent Sure. I Wasnā€™t But Here Is What I Was šŸ’Æ Percent Sure I Was Tired Of:
ā€¢ Wasting The Expense And Time
ā€¢ The Itchy And Dry Scalp
ā€¢ Planning My Events Around Salon Appointments
ā€¢ Seeing The Silver Always Peeking Out In Pictures
my Advice - Just Do The Thing!! You Can Always Dye It Back, Right? This Silver Sister Community Wonā€™t Judge. You Do You!
but The Best Part Is...you Wonā€™t. If You Actually Give It A Chance And Embrace The Journey, You Wonā€™t Go Back.
youā€™re Going To Love The Freedom, The Way Your Scalp Feels But Most Of All, The Way You Change And Grow On The Inside.
what Do You Have To Lose? Trust Me - There Is So Very Much To Gain On This Journey. šŸ‘©šŸ¼ā€šŸ¦³ā¤ļøšŸ‘©šŸ¼ā€šŸ¦³
save Or Share With A Friend Who May Need A Little Encouragement To Ditch The Dye. šŸ’

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I think I've owned those glasses before, and they match really well with her jewelry + shirt

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i Feel Pretty Good Today. A Difficult Very Early Start, But I Napped And Iā€™m Out. Car Window Open. Breathing The Fresh Air. Sun And Breeze Feels So Good ā˜€ļøšŸŒ¬ My Sister Always Says, Never Take A Breeze For Granted.
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Love this picture, she looks like a woman confident in her own skin.

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This is what mine is like, though I have less grays. I have jet black hair and like 3 gray hairs. Looks so stupid so I pull them out.

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This Is Completely Air Dried, With No Product.

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ā€œ7.8 Billion People In The World, Donā€™t Let The Opinion Of One Stop Your Growthā€ ~imandailyā €
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pun Attended! You Will Get A Lot Of Opinions During Your Transition! Remember They Are Just Opinions! ā €
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itā€™s Been 20 Months Since I Started My Journey And I Have Learned That People Will Have Their Opinions And That Is Okay! It Doesnā€™t Matter If They Tell Me They Could Never Do What I Did Or Are You Going To Keep Your Hair That Color? Or My Favorite Is It Actually Looks Good! ā €
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this Process Isnā€™t For Everyone And Thatā€™s Okay! Itā€™s For Me And I Am So Happy I Did This! Hey I Listened To All Of Those Opinions And The Only One That Mattered Was Mine!! ā €
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Happy Saturday Yā€™all!
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šŸ˜Ÿas I Tossed And Turned, So Did The Room. Round And Round. All Night Long. No Sleep. I Have Nowhere To Go Except The Couch, So Again Today I Will Rest. Long Covid Hit Hard This Week. Maybe The Weather Made It Worse?
iā€˜Ve Been Binging On Home Hair Style And Vibrant Hair Color Youtube Videos. Iā€™m Obsessed. Brad Mondo @bradmondonyc You Need To Pay Some Attention To Us Silver Sisters ā€œLiving Our Extra Lifeā€ And Adding Fun Temporary Color To Our Natural Virgin Silvers.
who Are Your Favorite Youtubers?
my Daughter And I Also Binge Jenna Marbles @jennamarbles. She Did A Lot Of Hair, Makeup, And Craft Projects. Sheā€™s Funny And Her Dogs Are Adogable.
i Also Love Bailey Sarian @baileysarian Murder And Make-Up Mondays. She Puts On Her Makeup And Talks About True-Crime Stories. Maybe Thatā€™s Why I Have Trouble Sleeping? šŸ¤£šŸ”Ŗ
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Happy Saturday #silversisters šŸŒž I Hadnā€™t Straightened My Hair In Close To Year! When We Were Sent Home From Work Last March, My Hair Also Took A Break From Heat Tools. It Was One Positive Of Not Having To Be Physically At Work. Well, That & The Decision To #gosilver ! All Iā€™ve Done This Past Year (Gosh, Has It Really Been One Year?!šŸ˜³šŸ„ŗ) Is Air Dry My Hair ā€”(Overnight After My Shower) Which Results In A Wavy-Ish Style Next Morning, And #meh The Next Couple Days Til My Next Shampoo šŸ™„šŸ„“ Iā€™ve Curled It, Like Twice...but It Was My Daughterā€™s Sweet 16 This Week, So I Wanted A Different Look ! I Second And Sixth Guessed The Idea To Apply Heat To My #wisdomhighlights ... But Here I Am! No Color Change šŸ¤œšŸ¼šŸ¤›šŸ¼ šŸ’„ And Updating Progress On My #silvertransition āœØāœØ. My Momā€™s Feedback?: ā€œIt Looks Niceā€”when You Fix Your Hairā€ šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø (She Refuses To Accept My Journey ) šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø Iā€™ll Take That As Another Positive! #canas #mexicanas_americanas
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Happy Wednesday ā¤ļø Today Is Full Of Beauty And ā˜€ļø Canā€™t Believe Its Been Eight Months Since Iā€™ve Started This Journey. Many Thanks To Everyone Helping Me Along The Way.
ā€¢ Love Big
ā€¢ Love Fierce
ā€¢ Love On Purpose
hope Everyone Knows How
beautifully Made They Are! šŸ˜˜šŸ¤©šŸ¤—
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