Psychotherapist Creates Brutally Honest Self-Help ‘Books’ Inspired By His Patients, And The Result Is Hilarious
According to a recent study, the U.S. market for self-improvement is $9.9 billion. Despite that, many therapists think that self-help books are useless. Gregg Williams, for example, says that change is hard, improvements happen unevenly, involve many steps and take a lot of time. Nothing even remotely close to what the self-help reads are preaching. Luckily, Johan Deckmann has something that's way better. By day, Deckmann analyzes the human behavior; by night, he writes down his observations as titles for fictional self-help publications. Using books found in antique shops as a canvas, the practicing psychotherapist transforms their boring covers into witty jokes. Even though most of his pieces balance between the hilarious and the poignant, their faded color and worn texture take the readers on an emotional journey of self-reflection and soul-searching.
"My work is a portrait of human failure and self-sabotage," Deckmann told Bored Panda. "But my underlying motive is to mirror my audience and motivate change. I think my work resonates with people because many people in the western world are raised to believe that they are victims of their surroundings. I show through my works that they are not."
Johan explained that his psychological practice has great influence on his art. It not only serves as a tremendous inspiration for the content of his works but also as a constant reminder of personal responsibility. “I meet many people who suffer from a circumstance that they themselves have created but they choose not to take action," he added. "I think it’s tragicomic that underneath our frustration and self-slavery lies this beautiful opportunity."
Titles like "How to gain instant success by lowering your standards" can resonate with anyone, but instead of remaining sinister, the work is made humorous by using the same language that you might find on a cookbook. "How to build a wall so high that nobody will ever get to know you" might be fitting for people working in an office, and, perhaps: "How to keep doing the same old mistakes and expect a different result" could be considered the most universally human of all one-liners.
2018 is a busy year for Deckmann. His works are traveling from one gallery to another; from New York City and San Fransisco to Amsterdam. "Humour is a pretty convenient companion, given humankind’s condition," he concluded. "I think gratitude, appreciation of being here and a portion of self-irony are the main keys to a happy life."
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You buy the main book, and the "Me" is one of those "bonuses"you get at checkout. ( it's really a blank note book you fill with lists you never finish).
Does it have a section on "how to answer questions with questions"?
Or stupid, works too : there's a famous french singer, who died a few months ago. He didn't speak much, and the vast majority of people who didn't know him well thought he was just a nice guy but a bit, well, not the sharpest knife in the drawer. But he was everything but stupid, and I herad him saying in an inteview that it's sometimes useful to be taken for stupid, because people don't pay attention to dumbasses, so in the long run you just do whatever you want... How smart is that ?!
Foreword by C.S. Lewis "A pipe gives a wise man time to think, and an idiot something to stick in his mouth"
“Better to stay silent and have everyone assume that you are stupid,than open your mouth and remove all doubt“
You are the stones in my kidney. The toothache making me cry.......
Is this the handbook for Life? That annoying time from birth to death...?
Question: Are you sure the "good things" are what YOU "want really bad," or are they what you have been TOLD you should want? Or are you just lying to yourself?
Oh... sounds like"I'm so insecure because my mother couldn't breastfeed me".
I need the addendum, "Giving up when the S**t has really hit the fan."
Another ouch. I bottle up my feelings until I explode or worse implode. If I could cry in front of others many situations would not get so bad. Thought provoking book title this one 😕
Had to think about this one... So, you feel like a fraud but are afraid to let anyone know who you really are?
Step one: Go to a volcanic island. Step two: Find a BIG chunk of pumice stone.
I don't need a manual for this, I can do this quite fine all by myself! 😞😕
Some were brilliant, some made me question his qualifications! His poor clients! I waded through all 260plus images, some gems tucked in and some WTF 😃
At least these are a lot easier to ignore than a whole bookshelf of boring platitudes.
Gah. My life is already in the toilet ATM I think I'll pass on the next 7 pages of depressing titles.
This past just makes it seem like he's making fun of his patients when they go see him for help.
Some were brilliant, some made me question his qualifications! His poor clients! I waded through all 260plus images, some gems tucked in and some WTF 😃
At least these are a lot easier to ignore than a whole bookshelf of boring platitudes.
Gah. My life is already in the toilet ATM I think I'll pass on the next 7 pages of depressing titles.
This past just makes it seem like he's making fun of his patients when they go see him for help.
