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This Woman Had A Date During A Family Vacation, Gave Everyone A Leaflet To Answer Their Annoying Questions
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This Woman Had A Date During A Family Vacation, Gave Everyone A Leaflet To Answer Their Annoying Questions

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Everyone who has nosy family members knows how hard it is to have a personal life. It can be really exhausting to deal with all of the questions and snooping around once they suspect that something new is going in your life. However, there are people who learn to skillfully deal with this sort of behavior. Take, for instance, Mary Beth Barone who showed everyone a perfect example of how to deal with curious extended family members.

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27-year-old Mary from New York planned a date during her family vacation

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Mary, a 27-year-old stand-up comedian, and a writer from New York planned a date with a guy she met at a wedding. However the date was supposed to happen during the family holiday to Pompano Beach, Florida, so she was trying to come up with a plan how to sneak away from her family without having to explain where she’s going.

She decided to create a pamphlet to answer all of the questions her nosy family members might have

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“We met at a wedding a few weeks prior to the date! He lives in Miami and I’m in New York so it seemed like a good place to meet up (since my family was vacationing just about an hour outside Miami),” she told Bored Panda.

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After realizing that the best way is to tell the truth, Mary knew she has to prepare to answer a bunch of questions about the date. And she found a brilliant solution to answer all the questions at once – give her family a pamphlet of frequently asked questions. Mary’s family loved this idea. “They all have a great sense of humor! I am the youngest of 6 kids and my family is huge and super close. There were about 30 people on the trip so it was a lot of people to communicate the information to. They all laughed and had a good time with it, ” she said.

Her idea quickly went viral, and while many people were praising her, others wanted to know how did her date go. Mary explained that while the date was great, he actually ghosted her soon after. “But at least I got the pamphlet out of it,” said Mary.

After her FAQ pamphlet went viral people still had questions

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giustizia avatar
Jus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went on family vacation 2 or 3 times as an adult and it was horrible. It should be forbidden for extroverts and introverts to be forced to go together...

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Lars Lasersson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ooh yes. "Why are you so quiet?" "What's the matter?" "Loosen up!" "Have some fun, will ya!" Well I might if you quit yapping for, let's say, a couple of hours, or days...

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get that her family would be annoying and not let her get away without asking questions but I feel like this is a ton of energy and hope placed onto a simple date. That’s a lot of pressure she is putting on herself and him too in a way. And I bet that this attitude is part of why he flat out ghosted her. It’s a bad look.

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Stille20
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it is a bit dramatic. It assumes her family is going to be pushy and informs them that she expects this behavior.

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Non-New-Toni-An
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe she gave a (different) pamphlet to her date as well, and thats why she was ghosted!!!

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Mae
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More questions: 1) Who goes on a family vacation as an adult? 2) Why do you need to tell them you're going on a date? 3) Anyone else interested in finding this Sarah person's brother? (too easy these days when most people have most of their online profiles public)

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Jerome Goodwin
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did you feel it was necessary to tell EVERYONE you had a date?

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Sam Kunz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is screaming "Look at me! Give me attenion! I know no one cares what I do but I need self validation!"

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ivan bolitekurac
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So everyone now needs to know the answers?Yes,you found a funny way to respond to your family but can't people date without social media?Everyone wants a like for being special.So sad...

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Nikki D
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She must not be very serious about stand up comedy, to cancel a show people presumably had already planned to attend, for a date.

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Luna
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My brother meet someone from Twitter at a knuckle puck show and she came over to our house when they were friends(they're dating now) and my parents asked him like all of these questions the next day(also asked me some because I was there!!) he was 21 at the time

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A Rose Among Thorns
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is very sweet, I hope her vacation and date went smoothly. Cool that he is bi-lingual!

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SilverSkyCloud
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it says she had a show and people are saying shes a comedian, does that mean that the show she cancled is a show shes performing? if so thats kind of a d**k move to anyone who paid to go and was looking forward to it

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KT Pinto
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds to me like she wants attention from her family. Most adults would just say "See ya!" and go out.

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My dog is my co pilot.
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the many many many reasons I love owning a dog. I'm the one who stays behind on my own to look after him. This has been the way for years and it has got me out of family holidays get togethers parties and weddings. I love my family dearly but I hate being forced to go to such parties and having to go on holiday even for just a week or two would kill me. I'm much happier on my own with my dog.

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Isabella
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A 27 yr GROWN UP woman must explain herself to her family members?! - this is SICK situation, seriously.

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Kathleen Barlow
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4 years ago

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I'd be really annoyed if a family member went off on a date during a family vacation. You're there to spend time with your family. I find this so disrespectful. If you're an adult and don't want to spend time with your family, don't go!

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Ben Smith
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4 years ago

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Hm. She’s looks like a lesbian. Surprising.

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Jus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went on family vacation 2 or 3 times as an adult and it was horrible. It should be forbidden for extroverts and introverts to be forced to go together...

lasse_rasanen avatar
Lars Lasersson
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ooh yes. "Why are you so quiet?" "What's the matter?" "Loosen up!" "Have some fun, will ya!" Well I might if you quit yapping for, let's say, a couple of hours, or days...

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mintyminameow avatar
Mewton’s Third Paw
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get that her family would be annoying and not let her get away without asking questions but I feel like this is a ton of energy and hope placed onto a simple date. That’s a lot of pressure she is putting on herself and him too in a way. And I bet that this attitude is part of why he flat out ghosted her. It’s a bad look.

hazelree avatar
Stille20
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it is a bit dramatic. It assumes her family is going to be pushy and informs them that she expects this behavior.

t_janine avatar
Non-New-Toni-An
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe she gave a (different) pamphlet to her date as well, and thats why she was ghosted!!!

pul-ma avatar
Mae
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More questions: 1) Who goes on a family vacation as an adult? 2) Why do you need to tell them you're going on a date? 3) Anyone else interested in finding this Sarah person's brother? (too easy these days when most people have most of their online profiles public)

seeker6 avatar
Jerome Goodwin
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did you feel it was necessary to tell EVERYONE you had a date?

samunfiltered79 avatar
Sam Kunz
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is screaming "Look at me! Give me attenion! I know no one cares what I do but I need self validation!"

imatic86 avatar
ivan bolitekurac
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So everyone now needs to know the answers?Yes,you found a funny way to respond to your family but can't people date without social media?Everyone wants a like for being special.So sad...

nikkid avatar
Nikki D
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She must not be very serious about stand up comedy, to cancel a show people presumably had already planned to attend, for a date.

lunaburke avatar
Luna
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My brother meet someone from Twitter at a knuckle puck show and she came over to our house when they were friends(they're dating now) and my parents asked him like all of these questions the next day(also asked me some because I was there!!) he was 21 at the time

lucasrose avatar
A Rose Among Thorns
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is very sweet, I hope her vacation and date went smoothly. Cool that he is bi-lingual!

rosalie-schnauzer avatar
silverskycloud avatar
SilverSkyCloud
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it says she had a show and people are saying shes a comedian, does that mean that the show she cancled is a show shes performing? if so thats kind of a d**k move to anyone who paid to go and was looking forward to it

ktpinto_1 avatar
KT Pinto
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds to me like she wants attention from her family. Most adults would just say "See ya!" and go out.

ilovemyshilo avatar
My dog is my co pilot.
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the many many many reasons I love owning a dog. I'm the one who stays behind on my own to look after him. This has been the way for years and it has got me out of family holidays get togethers parties and weddings. I love my family dearly but I hate being forced to go to such parties and having to go on holiday even for just a week or two would kill me. I'm much happier on my own with my dog.

izabelaizukulikowska avatar
Isabella
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A 27 yr GROWN UP woman must explain herself to her family members?! - this is SICK situation, seriously.

suicidebride_5 avatar
Kathleen Barlow
Community Member
4 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

I'd be really annoyed if a family member went off on a date during a family vacation. You're there to spend time with your family. I find this so disrespectful. If you're an adult and don't want to spend time with your family, don't go!

beejayw avatar
Ben Smith
Community Member
4 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Hm. She’s looks like a lesbian. Surprising.

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