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Here’s a mind-blowing nugget of truth that y’all probably already know, Pandas: life in different countries is, well, different. Shocker, right? But the fact of the matter is that we can’t expect everyone to behave and communicate the same way as the folks in our comfort zone, social circle, and hometown. When you go abroad, there’s a whole set of hidden rules you have to abide by. Obviously, it’s hard to even be aware of what you might be doing wrong at the start.

Luckily for us, the r/AskEurope online community over on Reddit has spelled it out loud and clear in two threads. The locals from various European countries shared the ‘faux pas’ that some visitors do and stressed what behaviors you should avoid and what you should never ever say. It’s educational. It’s fun. It’s going to go great with a cup of coffee. And it’s a great reminder to never call someone from Scotland “English.”

Remember to upvote the best responses as you scroll down, and tell us all about what tourists shouldn’t ever do when visiting your home country in the comments, Pandas. Think of it as a gentle way to remind everyone to be on their best behavior. Meanwhile, check out Bored Panda's interview about what to never do when visiting the United Kingdom with comedy writer and self-proclaimed Insta story addict Ariane Sherine from London. (Pssst, she also revealed what'd happen if you actually do end up calling someone from Scotland "English.")

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Doing the nazi greeting, denying the holocaust or joke about it. I'm German and a shocking amount of Americans I met found it funny to go "oh you're german, sieg heil!" Just nein.

Bonbonkopf , Mark Fosh from Watford, UK Report

Each country has its own particular character if you will. You’d probably never mix up an Englishman with a Frenchman, though if you do, they’d probably both get mad at you. Quelle horreur!

Comedy writer Ariane shared some of the things you should definitely avoid doing and saying if you end up visiting the UK.

"Asking people their salary is a bit of a faux pas. They probably won't tell you and will think you're odd! Don't say anything anti-Britain or anti-British (we can say it, but you can't, even if we secretly agree with you). Never be mean to an animal: that's one of the absolute worst things you can do in Brits' eyes (which is a bit inconsistent as 86% of us are meat-eaters). Being overly loud won't make you any friends either. And never, ever talk to strangers on the Tube!" she shared, stressing that when you're underground, you should mind yourself, not just the gap.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Germany: Asking about someone's well being just for small talk is rude. When you ask how people feel, be willing to listen.

tschiep_voegelchen , Sora Shimazaki Report

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Don't mention Hitler or other famous Nazis in public spaces. U may get yourself in a awkward situation. It's kind of like Voldemort in Harry Potter. U just dont mention these names in public.

Be as respectful as possible when visiting Memorials of the war, especially concentration camps. I grew up in Dachau so I've had the pleasure of meeting and seeing people from all kinds of places but foreigners sometimes seem to underestimate how much of a sensitive place these camps are for germans. I'm talking about taking pictures of yourself and your travelling partners in the camp and not turning off your phone while watching a short documentary which are being offered in Dachau. It's not natural even for western standards that countries with a horrible past are as open and inviting in terms of learning about their war crimes and so on like germany. Don't try to be judgemental when visting those sites (apart from judging the fkn nazis ofc) but rather be thankful that you've been given the opportunity to see and learn about these atrocities in person.

Ing0sion , hardiktuteja Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These places should be sensitive to everybody really. People died there in the most cruel ways, show some human decency and behave.

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According to Ariane, it's easy to spot someone who's not a local wandering about in London because they're a lot friendlier. "It's not always easy, but cameras and large backpacks are often a sign of a tourist. So are sunglasses, which are generally not strictly needed due to our terrible overcast weather, and (cliché alert) socks with sandals," she quipped.

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We were incredibly curious to learn how bad it would be to call someone "English" if they're from Scotland. Here's Ariane's take on how much of an insult that would be: "About the same as calling a Canadian an American! It won't make you popular," she said that you really shouldn't do this.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Ireland: Don't say no to an old woman who is offering you a cup of tea.

Gallalad , sabinevanerp Report

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Don't say that Ukraine is part of Russia.
Don't call us russians when you hear our language or see Cyrillic.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Never, ever call anyone from Scotland, Wales or Northern Ireland “English”.

Cobbler91 , Tom Parnell Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm English, don't call me Scottish, Welsh or irish

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Roxy Eastland
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm English too. The point is that it happens the other way all too often because people from around the world think England is the same as Britain or the United Kingdom (we can't blame them altogether, it's confusing). No one thinks the whole thing is called Wales and says to an English person "oh, you're Welsh?"

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Mac 🇺🇦
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a Scottish friend who speaks with a thick accent. He used to say, "It's okay if you call me Irish by mistake, but I'll kick your a** if you call me English"

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Full English
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Only ignorance would cause this person to be shocked each of the countries in the UK have a proud heritage which should be respected

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K O
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Calling scots/irish English has a little more bite to it because the English brutalised us for centuries

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Jason Marin
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had a computer teacher in highschool who was Scottish. He was highly offended when we asked if he was from Ireland. To be fair, we couldn't differentiate between a Scottish accent and an Irish one as we never heard either before.

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Tash
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of people (especially from the US) think that the UK is just England. Or that Wales is IN England which drives me nuts!

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Kalyanaraman Subramaniam
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, they have improved then ! Quite a while back, they used to think that UK is London !!

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Rebecca Joan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would you? They are Scottish, Welsh, and Northern Irish.

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Troux
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For the less geographically and culturally informed, there's difficulty distinguishing between England/Great Britain/UK, so there are plenty of people who arrive in London, tour the UK without flashing a passport and call it all England.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

UK is composed of England, Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland (it's a political union). Great Britain is composed of England, Scotland, and Wales. Never call an Irish person British, and should probably avoid doing it to Scots as well. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And vice-versa. When I told some Americans in London I was from the north of England (they asked because of my "cute accent"...) they then asked, "Oh, which part of Scotland? Eddin-burge?". No, I said, Lancashire. In England. [sigh]

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I believe same goes with the China, Korea, Thailand, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Singapore as well! I've seen people saying, “you're Chinese right?” to my Korean friend and I was just smh!

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Janine B.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh how I hate that. Ignorant people telling Asian people they can't tell them apart because "they look all the same." Douchebags.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well obviously - I don't call someone from France German seeing that they're all part of Europe

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Genn1530
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why I ask first. It's not Rocket science, ASK DON'T ASSUME.

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Boredaf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or Republic of Ireland British. Or mention The Troubles. Especially up North or closer to the border.

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Kay Kelly
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a guest from Wales. I said "oh, the UK". He stared at me, then thanked me for not saying Great Britain.

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Mathieu Brouwers
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I´m Dutch, don´t tell me to be from Holland (or Zeeland). I´m from Limburg (and love the famous Limburger cheese)

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James Twong
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am Scottish and while technically British (roll on independence) would never ever refer to myself as British.

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Marion
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The reason is historical. As the english were dominant and not very nice to the scotts, irish and welsh, like forbidding wearing kilts etc..

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess it depends on the circumstances. I was brought to live in England (I was born Northern Irish) when I was between 4-5 & I gained an English accent within a year, so thought of myself as English while using the accent. I was only a little kid, though, so what did I know? Then my mum decided to move us back to our native home country, when I was 7-8. Unbelievably, I didn’t lose my English accent fully until I was 11-12. Kind of a relief, though, TBH! 😅

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Canadian in Wales - I had a Welsh person call me an American because "we're all the same", it wasn't until I called them English that they got the point.

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Jane W.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm American. Don't call me a "rebellious Brit". It's happened.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a thing in the West, I observe. Here in Southeast Asia, we don't care if you mistaken us for another SEA nationality.

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elfin
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also best not to call someone from Mississippi a "Yankee."

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Cornell Tramontana
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

England, Scotland and Wales are part of Great Britain. What if they were called British?

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Joshuah Manuel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had a Scottish woman get mad because I couldn't tell she was Scottish. Someone had asked me what she was and I said "I think she's... Irish?" Responds with "don't ever call me Irish" angrily. I was like I was more asking than calling you Irish

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Joseph Georgiadis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, you're right, but for the rest of the world, incorrectly, Great Britain=England. Calling you english isn't on purpose, just habit

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is there a name for the collective land mass of Scotland, England, and Wales?

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Lisa Cloud
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How are we supposed to tell you apart? If we are tourists and don’t know you are an Englishman visiting in Wales. What is the difference? How do we know? I would never be rude or unhelpful to anyone for this.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never call anyone from Luxembourg a german or luxembourgish as a german language 👀

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked at a hotel and I had been to England. We had a guest check in with a familiar sounding accent. I asked which part of Britain he was from and in a tone that sounded like he might want to throttle me he said "I'm Welsh".

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A few years ago we spent about 15 days in Scotland and, knowing this, we always call them Scots and Scotland as their country instead of England or the United Kingdom. That simple gesture got us a lot of smiles. The same thing happens to us Uruguayans when we are abroad and people ask us if we are Argentine. The answer is very convincing: NO, we are Uruguayans, and the change in people's attitude is very noticeable, they become more friendly.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We spent some 15 days in Scotland some years ago and, knowing this, never refer to them as English. We always said that we were enjoying a lot visiting their beautiful country, and that simple word "cuntry" was enough to make them smile. To us, Uruguayans, happens the same when we are abroad and people ask if we are Argentinians. The same thing happens to us Uruguayans when we are abroad and people ask us if we are Argentine. The answer is very convincing: NO, we are Uruguayans, and the change in people's attitude is very noticeable, they become more friendly.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In German, the Britain and Ireland are referred to as "die Britischen Inseln" so I assumed that in English they'd be called "the British Isles". And called them that in a conversation with an Irishman... He made absolutely sure I understood my mistake.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As I heard a UK visitor say upon being called "English", "I SPEAK English - I AM British."

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Peter Korsten
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same for the Netherlands: don't call me a Hollander. I come from a part of the Netherlands that isn't Holland, with its own language and culture.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Serious question, how does a visitor know the difference?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm confused about the Wales part because of the current crown connecting all four "area"s; please expand or explain

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

UK: England, Wales, Scotland, Northern Ireland. All 4 are separate countries, but collectively they make up the UK. (Britain is just England Wales and Scotland). Eire/Republic of Ireland is independent and not part of the UK at all.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sports commentators are the worst especially during the Olympics as they assume every Brit that wins a medal is English

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is this "an obscure animal fact that'll impress even the biggers animal lovers"? BP, are you alright there?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about Wannabe English. Let's face facts, Scots, Welsh and the Irish are just mad because they're not English

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Aren’t a sizable portion is the people in Northern Ireland technically English?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Northern Irish people are technically British, NOT Irish, but calling them British is dangerous unless you know whether the specific person you're talking to is a unionist (wants NI to be part of the UK) or a nationalist (wants NI to be part of an independent unified Ireland).

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British, English, Scottish or whatever... 7 billion people don't give a sh!t.

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Bored Panda also wanted to get Ariane's opinion on just how European the UK actually is, culturally speaking. You see, it's a bit hard to gauge things with Brexit and all.

"Well, London is very European in terms of its diversity and culture. It's the most multicultural city in Europe and all the better for it, and most big UK cities are similar. The less said about the rest of England and Wales's attitude towards Europe, the better, frankly!" Ariane told us.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Denmark: Not a **huge** no, but please don't call people Mr/Ms [LastName] unless they're old enough to have experienced the Napoleonic wars.

Practically everyone in Denmark is on a first name basis, up to and including the prime minister. Different rules for the Queen, but if you chance upon the Crown Prince in an informal setting, he prefers the informal tone, too.

ScriptThat , Edmond Dantès Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, interesting! Exactly the oposite here in the Czech Republic; it is considered very rude to use the first name unless the one you're addressing offers the first name basis (or you offer it - depends on age and social status, meaning boss-employee etc.) or is a child...

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Ireland: Never get off a bus without thanking the driver is a big one here that has got me the occasional odd look when outside of Ireland.

caighdean , Alex Noble Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always thank the bus driver no matter what country I'm in. Tip: In any country. at least learn "thank you" and "please" in their language. ("Excuse me" comes in handy a lot!)

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Sweden: Go into someone’s house with your outdoor footwear on.

RegalSniper , Andrew Neel Report

"But I think mainland Europe is a lovely forgiving place, as evidenced by our runner-up place in Eurovision. I'm pretty sure most of Europe know that a lot of us wanted to remain in the EU and that the vote was very close. At least, I hope they do...?!"

It'd probably be a sin not to ask a Brit about the weather, and Ariane was kind enough to share what's outside her window at the moment: "It's very variable here!"

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Finland: Violating personal space. Like sitting next to someone in the bus if there are empty seat rows. Being closer than like 2 meters to someone at a bus stop without a reason. Talking to strangers with no apparent motivation or reason.

Bad behavior in Sauna. There should be no arguing and provocations, no sexual approaches, no farting.

Thinking we are Russians. This happens more with foreigners who have very little knowledge about Finland. And it's not that Finnish people dislike Russian people, but our entire history has been defined by trying to be distinct from Russia. First being a buffer zone of Sweden against Novgorod/Russia, then trying to be independent of Russian Empire and then trying to defend ourselves against Soviet Union. Saying we are Russians is like erasing much of our history.

Toby_Forrester , nissan Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why can’t all countries be like finlands first paragraph .. extroverts SHOULD be considered rude

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Italy: Please don't sing Bella Ciao in a joking way. It's a serious song about Resistence against the fascists. La Casa de Papel did a disaster with that song.

Please don't call us mafiosi, even if you're joking, much less if you use the Godfather as a major source of info about italians.

Italians are very talkative people so if you're not used to strangers approaching you it may shock you a little. Don't be scared tho, many italians are just curious about tourists and would be pretty offended if you just ignored them!

This is what comes to my mind at least

randascuriosity , Griffin Wooldridge Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of my daughters married an Italian & they live in Australia. Went to Italy on holiday & several people in Venice yelled 'Go home, tourists' to them. Probably more a Venice thing because of the number of tourists & the fragility of the city. My SIL thought it funny rather than upsetting

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Ireland: Go to everyone’s funeral. If a friend’s distant aunt twice removed dies, you turn up.

R3nmack , TuendeBede Report

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country In Ireland if you are out to lunch or dinner with family you must literally fight or deceive them so that you can pay for it. If you don't try then you are a bad person. In England I found that people thought it was rude and awkward when I kept trying to pay!

My granny is a pro at this. One time when we were eating dinner in a restaurant, she went to the bathroom during the meal. I saw my chance, and ran to the cashier to pay. I was stonewalled. My granny had already told the staff in her local restaurant not to let me pay. Absolute pro.

Also on another occasion my mother literally fell over and hurt her knee because she was racing her sister to the cashier.

Burglekat , Helena Lopes Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Father ted: the mainland. Mrs Doyle fighting with her friend over who pays for their tea.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country In France: not saying hello to the shopkeeper/ the other clients in small shops. This is particularly true in smaller cities.
I've seen many tourists forget to do this and they usually end up receiving poor customer service.

Heure-parme , Le grand Cricri Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But you have to say it in French, otherwise they ignore you. It’s like without Bonjour you don’t exist

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Estonia: Associating us with today's Russia or the old Soviet Russia. Bad memories.

Prygikutt , Alejandro Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always politely ask someone's nationality so I don't make this mistake. I really don't want to trigger Soviet bad associations.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Romania: Never ever bring someone an even number of flowers (it is reserved for the dead)

cdanisor , Pașca Daniel Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In New Zealand, for Māori anyway, DO NOT SEND CALLA LILLIES! I grew up in the states but my mum has instilled all the do's and don't's. All the superstitions all came with my family. Last year on a Monday morning I walked into my office to find a beautiful flower arrangement from a co worker. I'd had a minor surgery the week before. I sent a text to my mom asking what I should do because of course there was a calla lily in it. I immediately got a text back "Get a napkin/tissue something and take it out. Wrap it up and throw it away. THROW IT AWAY OUTSIDE! GET IT OUT OF THE BUILDING!" The reason being they are funeral flowers and essentially a death omen. The florist my family used my entire life learned that quickly. They delivered a bouquet to my mum at our business and she stopped them at the door. They never made that mistake again. If anyone ordered a delivery for her through them, they knew what not to do. There's another flower but it's so rarely used it hasn't been a problem.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Spain: do not assume that flamenco is the national culture. IT IS A SOUTHERN THING. In absolutely every TV show in the UK that takes place in Spain (and there are many) they insist on playing flamenco sounding music even when the show is about Catalonia, Galicia or the Basque Country, for example. It is infuriating.

Mantis_Ateista , Frank Liebig Report

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Víctor García
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the topic of bullfighting is also a very sensitive topic and assuming that everyone likes it can be offensive to most

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Romania: Not giving the old people your seat in the bus/tram.

Rioma117 , Ilya Plekhanov Report

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Víctor García
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope this is worldwide. In Spain, if a young person does not give up their seat to someone older (ask first if they are not offended), someone who is pregnant or has an injury may receive disapproving comments and bad looks

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Most countries are: do not mistake us for a different nationality, do not mention bad parts of our history

Italians: DO NOT PUT THE WRONG STUFF ON TOP OF OUR FOOD

AL_O0 , joefoodie Report

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Queuing is the obvious one in the UK. Not understand our (apparently complicated) queuing systems is generally taken as being a faux pas. To Brits all the rules are just obvious but apparently the little things beyond "stand in the line and wait your turn" are hard for some foreigners.

Another would be, if you bump into someone there's a good chance they will apologise. You do not accept this, you apologise back. Everyone knows it's your fault, but you will probably both apologise. This does not mean the other person believes they are at fault.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Wearing your outside shoes indoors, seriously who does that? Calling the icelandic horse a pony just because it's small, that might not be true for everyone though just people that are into horses. Jokes about accidentally sleeping with your cousin, we have a small population but we know our cousins.

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Off-road driving is illegal and people have been fined and made to fix what they ruined. The landscape is delicate and there's been a lot of work in the last few decades to grow the areas that are full of sand. When icelandic people talk about off-road driving it's not off-road driving, we follow paths that should be visible to just about anyone.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country In the UK:

* Using the wrong national label for someone.
* Skipping ahead in a queue
* Similar to above, attempting to get served at a pub before someone who was at the bar before you.
* Being that person who takes part in rounds in a pub but never gets one themselves
* Standing on the left on an escalator in London
* Starting a conversation about religion or politics with someone you don't know, unless it is very context appropriate e.g. in a church/political rally.

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#23

People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country In Portugal, taking your shoes off in someone else's home would be weird as f*ck. There's obviously exceptions, like if the host is close family or a very close friend and you've asked permission, but to take the shoes off out of the blue when entering would be seen as disrespectful.

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Shane S
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow. So the opposite of many other cultures. That’s an interesting pitfall

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Saying that our language sounds like Russian. There *will* be violence.

Saying that we are Eastern European.

Especially around older people, saying *anything* bad about Pope John Paul II. He's like a second God to some of them. That makes any conversation about pedophilia in Catholic Chruch especially difficult, since he didn't do much about it. Current government calls every person trying to criticise The Polish Pope a danger to our nation, our culture and our independence. Don't ask me how, I have no idea. But sadly, due to our propaganda TV called TVP(iS), people believe that.

Wow, by making a comment about big No No's in Poland I managed to end up criticising our government. Guess this subject is inevitable.

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AndThenICommented
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ll never understand how the Church is supposed to be more important than the safety of children.

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Serbia: DO. NOT. TALK. ABOUT. THE. WARS. A lot of people here lost people in the Yugo wars, also you will start a shitload of fights

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#26

People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Putting sauce on your Schnitzel is considered a hate crime in Austria.

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#27

People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Saying Holland is the same as the Netherlands

Saying the Netherlands are the same or somehow linked to Belgium

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But the Netherlands and Belgium do have historic and linguistic links, so definitely not 'the same' but they are 'somehow linked'. From 1815 to1839 the United Netherlands was a country consisting of most (if not all) Dutch and Belgium provinces. Also, Dutch and Flemish are mutually intelligible.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Always, always get your round in. People are not buying you drinks for free; they expect one back.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Could be anywhere but I'm guessing the UK as it is a huge faux pas not contributing

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Austria: The usual, as with most countries:

- Calling us [bigger, neighbouring nationality or people group that speaks the same or a similar language].
(Seriously, we are not Germans. Yes, we all know, we would have been considered as such 100 years ago, but it is in fact not 100 years ago. Believe us, if we say that we are not Germans, we mean that, and we know the history behind it. Don't try to teach us as to why we are acktually "ethnically" or "genetically" or whatever, Germans. Not only is that incorrect, but you'll look and sound like a fool.)

- Doing [certain taboo gesture] or expressing favourable views towards [historical totalitarian or autocratic regime, which is viewed very negatively nowadays].
(Seriously, don't do the Hitler salute here, it's not edgy, but only incredibly shitty. Also it's not only incredibly unfunny and unoriginal, but also incredibly illegal. And you might get punched in the face, and you would deserve it.)

- Eating [national food] wrong.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think anyone anywhere who does the Hitler salute should get punched in the face

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Doing the "Italian accent" like Super Mario. It doesn't sound like an Italian trying to speak english, it sounds like a very very dumb Italian trying to speak English. It amazes me how much Americans love to mock Italians.

Also pineapple on pizza.

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Estonia: Violating personal space. We might not say anything but you certainly won’t be making a friend. We’re massive introverts for a reason.

Also don’t call us or any other baltic countries russian or imply anything similar, there’s a lot of bad history there and quite frankly it’s a bit offensive.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Turkey: Do NOT say "Oh, i thought you would be speaking arabic." or " I didnt know women were allowed to not wear hijabs."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As of June 2, 2022 the country is Turkiye. Not calling a country by its official name would probably get on the list too.

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People Share 37 Things You Should Never Do In Their Country Denmark: Bragging is VERY frowned upon here. Alot will cite the law of Jante should you do it, and even more people will think of it.

The law of Jante is basically a long list of sentences which exclaim that you are nothing compared to the collective.

Examples.
"You are not more than us."
"Don't think you are smarter than us."

If you think of the ten commandments but all centered around you being small and nothing then you're more or less there.

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#34

If it's your birthday you bring cake to work. When it's someone else's birthday they will bring the cake. Yes, I'm serious. No, it doesn't make sense.

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#35

Spain: Talk about politics. You could lose friends because of that, since people here are heavily divided, because, whatever some guy say, the Civil War wounds are far from healed.

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#36

Invading people's personal space in public (Norway). It's fine to ask for directions or something practical but other than that...

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Deb M.F.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish everyone would adhere to that rule. I hate when someone gets closer than 3 feet to me. it isn't nice and I can't deal with anyone invading my space. So very rude

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Off road driving that damages and causes harm to our moss and landscape

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

where in particular ? it's cool not anywhere , but a little geographical info would be nice

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