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Parents Throw Daughter The Best Pride Party Ever After She Came Out To Them
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Parents Throw Daughter The Best Pride Party Ever After She Came Out To Them

coming out to your parents about your sexuality probably isn’t the easiest thing in the world, especially if you’re only 17 years old, and have a strong fear of rejection and homophobia. But for Kinsey Ratzman from New Jersey coming out of the closet about her sexual orientation turned out to be the most awesome experience ever. Why? Because her parents responded to the news by deciding to throw her a surprise “Pride Party!”

They told her that they were going to be having an early 4th July party, and then while she was at the mall with her cousin her sneaky parents got busy with the preparations. They covered the entire house with rainbow-themed decorations and they even made a bunch of rainbow-colored food. Her aunt even baked her a “vegan gay cake” because Kinsey is the only vegan in her family.

It’s been a pretty dark time for the gay community recently due to the devastating Pulse nightclub shootings in Florida, but Kinsey’s family could not have responded to their daughter’s sexuality in a more amazing way. If only everybody had parents like this!

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When 17-year-old Kinsey came out to her parents, she didn’t know how they’d react

They told her they were having an early 4th July party, so they sent Kinsey to the mall, but when she came back she saw this!

Her parents had thrown her a surprise “Pride Party”

Everything in the house was rainbow-themed

Including the food!

Her aunt even made her a colorful “gay vegan cake”

Why can’t all families be this awesome?

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Grace Barclay
Community Member
6 years ago

Total acceptance of the human being who is their daughter. Awesome parents...

Christian Hill
Community Member
6 years ago

When my daughter came out I said, that's nice. I didn't and dont care. It's not an issue. Can you imagine celebrating someone's sexuality? No, I can't either. I long for the day when this doesn't have to be celebrated and no one cares. That's equality.

Sergio Bicerra
Community Member
6 years ago

Good point. Let's hope that day comes. In the meantime, have a nice day Chritian!

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brandon sat
Community Member
6 years ago

I don't understand why its so important for express their sexuality in this day and age...who cares if you are gay or straight. I just don't see why people have to do this. as long as you are loved by your family and friends.....why do you have to make it so public about your sexuality.

Brin Hauptmann
Community Member
6 years ago

Spoken like someone who's never had to hide their sexual identity because to openly express who they are would expose them to violence or rejection. Enjoy your privilege.

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AnnieLaurie Burke
Community Member
6 years ago

Awesome parents, courageous daughter. Maybe one day we will be civilized enough, kids won't have to "come out". They'll just be who they are.

Celeste Spaniel
Community Member
6 years ago

Honestly I wouldn't want this attention if I were to come out. I would just want to be treated normally, because it shouldn't be a big deal!

Lars Roed
Community Member
6 years ago

Parenting done right!

Annetta Wockenfuss
Community Member
6 years ago

She's one lucky 17 year old. That's unconditional love right there people.

Anna Sell
Community Member
6 years ago

This parents are the best role models ever! If you love your kid (or someone else), it doesn't matter if it's gay, if it studies or if it's plumber. You just have to care about that the beloved person is happy! <3

Judy Pack
Community Member
6 years ago

Can you imagine what the world would be like if every parent loved and respected their children as much as these parents do?

Erik Wright
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6 years ago

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A world where there is lots of VD and no one reproduces?

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Community Member
6 years ago

I'm afraid of coming out to my family because They think it's weird, but I had to decide and I decided not to because I'm afraid of pplz op.

Tigerlily Wolowitz
Community Member
5 years ago

You can't help what you love. At first I didn't tell my parents, I thought it was weird.But then my teacher said you can't help who you love

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Norah Morris
Community Member
6 years ago

Grzegorz this is 2016 not 1970 people change

Lou Wow
Community Member
6 years ago

Sweet, wonderful parents!

Paul Mavrovouniotis
Community Member
6 years ago

Great parents and for her to be surprised like that. The cake looks delicious!

Paul Mavrovouniotis
Community Member
6 years ago

Great story. The cake looks delicious!

Antonia
Community Member
6 years ago

So cool!

MeowingSofi
Community Member
6 years ago

I wish my parents did that for me! These parents are real role models.

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

Why so many hate comments? Are you people so uneducated that you don't even know that you're born Gay???? It is in the womb of the mother that the sex is determined. Sometimes hormones get mixed up and that is why the baby becomes Gay. Look it up in a biological book on the subject. We no longer live in the 19th century.

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

Konstantin Nanov, how dare you made such a hateful comment? You must not be someone who has studied much or read anything on this subject. You are so filled with hate that I fell very sad for you. May God bless you and help see the way to a better way of treating your fellow humains.

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

Erik Wright, you are so wrong! Who are you to pass such a judgement. Animals are sometimes also Gay. So what if they don't have children, is it your business? So what if they don't stay their whole life with the same pattern, Don't straight people get divorced and get married over and over again; leaving children bewildered and sad?

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

brandon sat, do you really live with other people around you or are you living alone on an island? Come on, it is very hard to be Gay in any country. Your comment is hurtful. It's proof that you don't understand the stress, nor the pain of being different from the majority of the population.

cat smith
Community Member
6 years ago

i have the same shirt as the girl does in the first picture and this amazing!!!

Michel Guntern
Community Member
6 years ago

Like the rainbow cake.

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

Christian Hill shame on you.

Silly Sausage
Community Member
6 years ago

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Why?.....

Emma Shine
Community Member
6 years ago

Because in this modern society it takes a lot of courage to come out to people close to you as many people immediately reject gays. They were probably not celebrating her being gay, but celebrating the courage it took to admit it.

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Cesi Baca
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6 years ago

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Something seems a little off about this whole thing, even in the photos. Almost like if she came out and said she was an ax murderer they'd have thrown her a party for that too. It's too perfect.

Konstantin Nanov
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6 years ago

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I reject this ! Being sick is not something to celebrate!

Ashley Steidl
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6 years ago

This young woman was BORN this way but you were RAISED to be a homophobic prick. Get your head out of your ass and realize that you are not so high and mighty for being straight.

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Jasminka Tanner
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6 years ago

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This is disgusting. These idiotic gay fucks have made me HATE rainbows! Like now whenever I see a rainbow I want to barf

Vervelende Panda
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6 years ago

Rainbows are unicorn poop, not asshole barf. I mean, everybody knows that.

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Charles Volcher
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6 years ago

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ANOTHER CHEAP LEZBO GO HIDE BITCH

Bill Moss
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6 years ago

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They should have Disowned The ungrateful Bitch !! Maybe when she "grows up" she will know better ,,, Grow out of it !!!

Emma Shine
Community Member
6 years ago

I personally hate the idea of people throwing a party just for expressing their sexuality. Not because I am against the idea of the LBGTQ community, but because we should not have to celebrate people being brave enough to be a part of the LBGTQ community. I hate the fact that stating you are LBGTQ is not treated as normally as stating your star sign or eye colour. You're sexual preference is not something you choose. They can no more be straight than you can be LBGTQ. If you feel uncomfortable by the idea of anyone not being straight, that is fine but don't enforce your ideas on other people. You stay away from us, and we'll stay away from you.

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Bill Moss
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Should have Disowned ,,, the ungrateful Bitch !!

Grace Barclay
Community Member
6 years ago

Total acceptance of the human being who is their daughter. Awesome parents...

Christian Hill
Community Member
6 years ago

When my daughter came out I said, that's nice. I didn't and dont care. It's not an issue. Can you imagine celebrating someone's sexuality? No, I can't either. I long for the day when this doesn't have to be celebrated and no one cares. That's equality.

Sergio Bicerra
Community Member
6 years ago

Good point. Let's hope that day comes. In the meantime, have a nice day Chritian!

Load More Replies...
brandon sat
Community Member
6 years ago

I don't understand why its so important for express their sexuality in this day and age...who cares if you are gay or straight. I just don't see why people have to do this. as long as you are loved by your family and friends.....why do you have to make it so public about your sexuality.

Brin Hauptmann
Community Member
6 years ago

Spoken like someone who's never had to hide their sexual identity because to openly express who they are would expose them to violence or rejection. Enjoy your privilege.

Load More Replies...
AnnieLaurie Burke
Community Member
6 years ago

Awesome parents, courageous daughter. Maybe one day we will be civilized enough, kids won't have to "come out". They'll just be who they are.

Celeste Spaniel
Community Member
6 years ago

Honestly I wouldn't want this attention if I were to come out. I would just want to be treated normally, because it shouldn't be a big deal!

Lars Roed
Community Member
6 years ago

Parenting done right!

Annetta Wockenfuss
Community Member
6 years ago

She's one lucky 17 year old. That's unconditional love right there people.

Anna Sell
Community Member
6 years ago

This parents are the best role models ever! If you love your kid (or someone else), it doesn't matter if it's gay, if it studies or if it's plumber. You just have to care about that the beloved person is happy! <3

Judy Pack
Community Member
6 years ago

Can you imagine what the world would be like if every parent loved and respected their children as much as these parents do?

Erik Wright
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

A world where there is lots of VD and no one reproduces?

Load More Replies...
-1,000,000 Total Upvotes
Community Member
6 years ago

I'm afraid of coming out to my family because They think it's weird, but I had to decide and I decided not to because I'm afraid of pplz op.

Tigerlily Wolowitz
Community Member
5 years ago

You can't help what you love. At first I didn't tell my parents, I thought it was weird.But then my teacher said you can't help who you love

Load More Replies...
Norah Morris
Community Member
6 years ago

Grzegorz this is 2016 not 1970 people change

Lou Wow
Community Member
6 years ago

Sweet, wonderful parents!

Paul Mavrovouniotis
Community Member
6 years ago

Great parents and for her to be surprised like that. The cake looks delicious!

Paul Mavrovouniotis
Community Member
6 years ago

Great story. The cake looks delicious!

Antonia
Community Member
6 years ago

So cool!

MeowingSofi
Community Member
6 years ago

I wish my parents did that for me! These parents are real role models.

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

Why so many hate comments? Are you people so uneducated that you don't even know that you're born Gay???? It is in the womb of the mother that the sex is determined. Sometimes hormones get mixed up and that is why the baby becomes Gay. Look it up in a biological book on the subject. We no longer live in the 19th century.

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

Konstantin Nanov, how dare you made such a hateful comment? You must not be someone who has studied much or read anything on this subject. You are so filled with hate that I fell very sad for you. May God bless you and help see the way to a better way of treating your fellow humains.

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

Erik Wright, you are so wrong! Who are you to pass such a judgement. Animals are sometimes also Gay. So what if they don't have children, is it your business? So what if they don't stay their whole life with the same pattern, Don't straight people get divorced and get married over and over again; leaving children bewildered and sad?

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

brandon sat, do you really live with other people around you or are you living alone on an island? Come on, it is very hard to be Gay in any country. Your comment is hurtful. It's proof that you don't understand the stress, nor the pain of being different from the majority of the population.

cat smith
Community Member
6 years ago

i have the same shirt as the girl does in the first picture and this amazing!!!

Michel Guntern
Community Member
6 years ago

Like the rainbow cake.

jevais
Community Member
6 years ago

Christian Hill shame on you.

Silly Sausage
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Why?.....

Emma Shine
Community Member
6 years ago

Because in this modern society it takes a lot of courage to come out to people close to you as many people immediately reject gays. They were probably not celebrating her being gay, but celebrating the courage it took to admit it.

Load More Replies...
Cesi Baca
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Something seems a little off about this whole thing, even in the photos. Almost like if she came out and said she was an ax murderer they'd have thrown her a party for that too. It's too perfect.

Konstantin Nanov
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

I reject this ! Being sick is not something to celebrate!

Ashley Steidl
Community Member
6 years ago

This young woman was BORN this way but you were RAISED to be a homophobic prick. Get your head out of your ass and realize that you are not so high and mighty for being straight.

Load More Replies...
Jasminka Tanner
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

This is disgusting. These idiotic gay fucks have made me HATE rainbows! Like now whenever I see a rainbow I want to barf

Vervelende Panda
Community Member
6 years ago

Rainbows are unicorn poop, not asshole barf. I mean, everybody knows that.

Load More Replies...
Charles Volcher
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

ANOTHER CHEAP LEZBO GO HIDE BITCH

Bill Moss
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

They should have Disowned The ungrateful Bitch !! Maybe when she "grows up" she will know better ,,, Grow out of it !!!

Emma Shine
Community Member
6 years ago

I personally hate the idea of people throwing a party just for expressing their sexuality. Not because I am against the idea of the LBGTQ community, but because we should not have to celebrate people being brave enough to be a part of the LBGTQ community. I hate the fact that stating you are LBGTQ is not treated as normally as stating your star sign or eye colour. You're sexual preference is not something you choose. They can no more be straight than you can be LBGTQ. If you feel uncomfortable by the idea of anyone not being straight, that is fine but don't enforce your ideas on other people. You stay away from us, and we'll stay away from you.

Load More Replies...
Bill Moss
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Should have Disowned ,,, the ungrateful Bitch !!

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