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Forrest Gump was right, life really is like a box of chocolates—you never know what you’re going to get. Most often, it’s a mixed bag: there’s a lot of bad with the good and good with the bad. However, some days are pretty one-sided.

One day might be full of optimism, sunshine, and enough motivation to move mountains. Another day might be full to the brim with exhausting challenges while you’re losing your faith in humanity, desperately trying to hold the tears back. It’s those days that leave us thoroughly defeated and sad to the core, disappointed not just in ourselves but in others as well.

The r/sadcringe subreddit is an online community of nearly 1.2 million members that has been documenting some of the most awkward and embarrassing situations since 2013. We’ve collected their best recent posts to share with you, Pandas. But keep in mind—some are so awkward and cringey, they might just throw your day out of whack.

Meanwhile, read on for Bored Panda’s interview with Psychologist and Wellbeing Consultant Lee Chambers about accepting and embracing flaws, and why not running away from our vulnerabilities makes people respect us more. When you’re done with this article, you might want to take a peek at our earlier posts about r/sadcringe here: Part 1 and Part 2.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ohhhh where's the marshmallows? Time to make some s'mores on this roast

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Psychologist Lee, the Founder of Essentialise Workplace Wellbeing and PhenomGames, told Bored Panda that it’s important to accept that people—from ourselves and our friends to complete strangers—are not perfect. In fact, they’re far from perfect. However, our flaws make us who we are as individuals.

“As humans, we are a wonderfully unique mix that is personal to each one of us. It can always be difficult to find peace with our flaws,” he told us.

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“Whether they [the flaws] be physical, mental, intellectual, or social, many of us will at some point in our childhood been bullied or singled out for our differences,” Lee said that people’s vulnerabilities can mean that others make fun of them. Being different is hard.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was on the teacher. who asks 4th/5th grader to do this? Just asking for drama.

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Incels Online Are Cringe. In Person? Even Worse

Incels Online Are Cringe. In Person? Even Worse

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You think the Chads are upset at the term like the Karens seem to be, or do they take the D**k approach and just kinda laugh it off?

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Say You’re Insecure Without Saying You’re Insecure

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

haha don't wear your makeup lol XD I'm insecure XD afraid you're going to try to steal my boyfriend lol haha I mean I don't care if you want to wear makeup for yourself my boyfriend will also be there haha lol XD so maybe don't XD

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“It can be easy to ignore them [the flaws], and pretend they don't exist, but the real power comes in accepting them, embracing them, and realizing that some flaws we can change, and others might not be flexible,” Lee told us.

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Having a growth mindset is very rewarding and can lead to a higher quality of life. The psychologist told Bored Panda that we have to draw our attention to the areas where “we will have developed in other ways and have amazing strengths as a result” despite our other flaws.

According to the mental health expert, what really helps in our journey through life is to realize that nothing and nobody is ever perfect. Nobody is immune to embarrassment. Nobody has avoided sadness. And absolutely nobody hasn’t ever made a fool of themselves in some awkward way. They’re all part and parcel of being human.

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Monday
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you wana marry him why not just propose yourself? Worst thing that could happen is he'll say no right?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BREAKING NEWS: WOMEN CONFIRMED TO BE SAME SPECIES AS MEN, 8TH TIME TODAY. (this appears in the news every week)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

😂😭😭😭😭 I really feel bad for Gary- just look at that exclamation mark 😭

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Instead of shying away from our mistakes, embracing them is the healthy way to react. By acknowledging our vulnerabilities, we become stronger and more resilient. We also become more respected by our peers.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor old drummers. They're always there at the back getting no credit, and even in death this guy only merited four words (and three full stops).

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“The beauty is that sharing our flaws helps us to become more human and connect with others, as we all have weaknesses, and being vulnerable and open will have others seeing you as authentic, honest, and courageous,” Lee said that there are definite upsides to honesty.

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When You Have Run Out Of Attention And Need Others To Acknowledge Things That Didn’t Happen

When You Have Run Out Of Attention And Need Others To Acknowledge Things That Didn’t Happen

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, every 7 year old writes those kinda notes.... and the handwriting is .... Oh fu*k it, who cares.

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“The process of taking ownership of your flaws is powerful as it also makes us more accepting of the flaws of others and less worried about fitting in. For as long as we don't embrace our flaws, we will be running from them and be more judgemental of others, less tolerant of differences, and more controlling,” he said.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get it stings but you can't expect people to keep everything you give them

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Betty (Bet He) Regrets Telling Her That

Betty (Bet He) Regrets Telling Her That

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Betty (bet he) thinks it makes it larger by calling it a "Macropenis".

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Earlier, one of the moderators running the r/sadcringe subreddit, u/Niceboihappy, told Bored Panda that their community has been growing bigger and stronger since the start of the pandemic.

According to the moderator, it’s best to own up to any embarrassment or mistakes if things don’t go your way. “I would say be confident, but not too confident. And, especially, for an unexpected response, it is probably best to just own it and make light of it,” they said.

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Anon's Rejection

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men do not realize a woman alone at their home it's very scary and she was working at a job where you're paid to be friendly also it's normal to be friendly. When something happens we're blamed for doing a job where we "put" ourselves in harms way or we're not believed at all bc we could've "given mixed signals". It's awful

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Everytime I See This It Makes Me Cringe. I Present, A Poster At An Anime Convention

Everytime I See This It Makes Me Cringe. I Present, A Poster At An Anime Convention

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What should really make you cringe is the fact that they needed to put up a poster.

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This Poor Guy's Got Some Big Issues

This Poor Guy's Got Some Big Issues

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So I think Gramma has realized there ain't no great grandkids coming from Little Chadwick here...

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When Being Antivaxx Is Your Only Hope

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Controlling "Wifey"

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And then there's me, liking it when husband plays X-Box in the evening, because then I have time to read or write in peace 😆

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K Witmer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So glad my husband can regulate himself wo me having to infantilize or mommy him. I don't think I'd be able to be his mom and still want to have sexy time. Lol

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lenka
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes. the wife's fault. I mean to a certain extent she is enabling the whole situation so yes, but here is a grown a**e man who needs to be threatened with no screen time before he will contribute to the home and the relationship. If he wants a 'mommy' he should have stayed with his parents. Instead he got married and turned his wife into his mommy. Its gross.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The first two items on the list are foot rub and back rub. This isn't about a husband who is irresponsible and needs parenting, it's about a wife who is an overtly controlling person. And the 'clean the house one'? Must take 30 minute break for affection. If he breaks the rules she sells his stuff. Switch then genders and tell me you're okay with that.

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Giovanna
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, more than a controlling wife it looks like a teenager husband to me

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T. D. Bostick
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Husbands are collectively cringing at the controlling wife. Wives are collectively cringing at the video gaming husband.

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K Witmer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can see the divide on here of men that don't understand gaming 16 hrs a day and not pulling their weight w his family and the women that live with these men that get absolutely no help w daily chores and their kids and no attention from their Men so they're forced to write a lighthearted reminder so they stop "nagging" for help. The men are big screeching tantrum mad just like they'd be at their mommies but they're the ones that forced their wives into this role.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There isn't enough information in the post for you to know what's actually going on here yet you are now including half the male commenters in your rabid generalisation. This guy could be working twelve hour shifts but he needs to rub this b***h's stinking feet before he can start to relax, then when he cleans the whole house he has to interrupt his two hour reward for thirty minutes of affection. I don't know if you can take this revelation but there are plenty of women who don't work, don't clean, don't cook then expect their partner to come home from work and do all the chores.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is this man not pulling his weight in the house? His 'Wifey' (good grief!) should not have to offer a reward to her husband for taking the bins out. TAKE THE BL00DY BINS OUT!

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Beth S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This list pisses me off. Super degrading. I never understood this kind of behavior regarding video games.

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Duncan
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would actually like this, I rarely get to play games and I make dinner every night for a start.

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kjorn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

or his wife is really controling or the guy can't control himself

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At first I thought this was a rules list for a child and then I saw Wifey and almost barfed internally.

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lenka
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uuggghh. How on earth can a woman be sexually attracted to a man that needs to be 'parented" like this.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's what you took from this? That it's a man who needs to be "parented" rather than an overbearing, controlling wife dictating what her husband can do with his own time? Wow.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The adition of foot rubs and back rubs, and threatining to sell the PS5 makes the wife look abusive, but the adition of cleaning and garbage makes the husband look lazy. I need the full story before I can say anything.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, if this is a consensual MD/lb kink relationship, good on y'all and have fun - no shaming here. If it is not, holy s**t, get counseling. Both of you. Individually and together. Also the dog and cat. No way you two aren't screwing them up as well.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Spicy Jesus, what a b***h... I consider my husband's playing time ME TIME!

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Got Myself 4 Pandas
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks like I'm owed a s**t ton of back rubs and house cleaning from my hubby - he's going to be so excited when i tell him

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

in what f****d up alternate universe is this required or OK ?

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Megan Johnson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are we supposed to cringe at the wife here? Husband shouldn't need a note like this. Everyone is suffering in this situation.

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Debby Marengo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hubby is not a child! She is a real control freak and he needs to escape.

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Kira Okah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, witout actual context, comments speculating on what is going on is going to help nothing but spread bull. I posit that the note is fake myself, but the speculation surrounding this is being stereotyping.

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12 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’d tell wifey to go f herself and get out.. ridiculous controlling and manipulative garbage.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I had this I would take out the trash every game one piece at a time.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At first I thought that this was a schedule for a kid that his mum had written but then I saw the ‘wifey’…

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Too many issues to list. Sounds like someone married their mom. And may need to grow up. And ol' mommy dearest needs to take a step back. But their crazy matches each other's for the moment

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the same level of toxic/creepy behavior that I'm used to hearing about controlling men

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Ashen Rayne
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I couldn't take this seriously anymore when I read "30 minute break for affection". This might be a husband with screen time issues (as if these rules would change anything), but this is definitely a wife who wants to be worshipped and is really insecure too.

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Sarah K
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Run away from this woman! She done wrote her crazy thoughts out-saw them on paper and didn't rip it up and have herself committed, that's a woman that needs to be ran away from.

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Rodrigo Villa
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am all about helping around the house but this is like something that a mother would give to her child lmao

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Alex Livingston
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those "rewards" don't seem commensurate to the tasks. How about this one, "Divorce papers - UNLIMITED playing time!"

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LaToya Mack
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wanna divorce is the sentiment of this husband that I’ve never met. I know it I can feel it in my bones

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will bower
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or divorce and you get to do what f**k you like, when ever the f**k you like

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Henry Edison Jurman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would like to shoot the person who made this list. And I dont have a ps5.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder how many times this ocd piece of s**t wrote that before it felt just right.

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No One Showed Up To The Speeding Dating Event

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like how there is a chair just facing a wall. The gave up spot.

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He Bought Tinder Gold To Improve His Chances But Still

He Bought Tinder Gold To Improve His Chances But Still

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm willing to bet all those chats consisted of him being demanding and them backing away swiftly.

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