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There is a vast valley with steep slopes and a raging river winding its way through the bottom that separates the people who are genuinely nice and those who only proclaim themselves to be ‘nice.’ Most of us know from experience that guys who are actually nice act very differently than those who are ‘nice guys.’

However, this post isn’t about nice guys. No, this one is about nice girls. Or rather—‘nice girls’ who believe they’re entitled to ‘perfect’ partners while dripping with hatred for the world and showing their true colors when things don’t go their way. In fact, there’s a place where they get called out: the r/Nicegirls subreddit that proves that fake ‘niceness’ knows no gender boundaries. See for your yourselves, dear Pandas. Be sure to read on for Bored Panda's interview with one of the moderators of the subreddit, user CTFOE_is_Free.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with the reply. She deserves so much worse and he deserves so much better.

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Hans
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just mentioning "caste" should be enough. Ifyou think money will buy you happiness, good luck shopping!

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Ola Polowczyk
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is is with women wanting an expensive ring? My bf could propose to me with a cheeto and I would gladly accept. Someone wants to spend the rest of their life with you and you focus on the price of the ring? That's so shallow

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Vicky Zar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a cultural thing. In Europe much much MUCH more simple rings are preferred.... if any. Plus: our weddings are not as big as in the US for example. There are no bridesmaids for instance. Nor groomsmen. Only two witnesses, if even that.

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Mohsie Supposie
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do I sense some (a lot of) humble bragging? Anyway, she would make a living hell for him if this is her attitude.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was wondering that as well. I thought perhaps the ending was going to turn into some kind of history lesson.

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Carmen Elena
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

omg if she makes aaaaaall that money, she can fu...g spoil herself, and her boyfriend too. But I agree with the reply: he deserves better!

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varwenea
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She sounds old school even though not old, speaking of caste. Maybe Indian? Very unfortunate. She can cling to these old expectations or let him go, which would benefit the ladies around him.

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Blueplanet
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um is it only me or is there someone else who actually appreciates partners that can get you nice but not overpriced things

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Catlady6000
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Frankly, if it's nice and you trash picked it for free off the side of the road, just because you knew it was something I would love. Ohhhh mmmyyyyy.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honey, the only ring you deserve is the one you’ll get in your ear after being bish slapped back into reality.

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CatWoman312
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Of the right caste” who tf goes around saying this? Poor guy. He deserves way better.

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Davor Jelacic
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Forgive me, but a kick in the butt is what she should get for Valentines

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WildHoneyPie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The right "caste"? Yeah he should definitely dump her and find someone who will love him for just being him. And there's nothing wrong with Zales.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree! The point of a relationship isn't to be spoiled and show off things, people need to understand that. The gift came from his heart. That's all that matters.

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Simon Bradley
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean two properties is still a heck of a lot more than most of us!!

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Sarah Stalder
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's still in school, FFS. Very short-sighted for a gold-digger.

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Russian Otaku
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"of the right CASTE" That one line speaks louder then everything else

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Marianne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This girl should go and get happy with her parent's money which seems to ber her true love.

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Kyla Fierro
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

His family has two properties! I think that he’s fine but yes dump him so he can get a good girlfriend

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Donna Leske
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My heart is hurting for him. I hope the blinders come off before he makes the mistake of proposing. Any engagement ring he picks is going to 'embarrass' her. Any home he suggests they buy together will be beneath her perceived self-worth. And the designer clothes for the kids as they come along? That will be the straw that breaks him.

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Jo Choto
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As soon as she said "caste" it all made sense. Unfortunately when you build class systems into society and decide that some people are better than others by birth, you have this constant competition to keep on being better than someone.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my fiancé proposed to me with a white gold and diamond ring, the second thing I said ('of course' being the first) was 'please tell me you didn't spend crazy money on this' - it was his grandma's thank goodness. I feel very uncomfortable when I get expensive gifts, it just doesn't sit well. I think anyone who equates expense with affection needs therapy because that isn't healthy (to be fair most people could do with therapy, everyone has issues they could use some help with).

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Justin Seagull
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she finds someone just like her so she won't ruin other nice people.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can’t put a price on happiness and mutual love, but she seems to think you can. Best off without her.

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Camila PerezDuran
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you can get nice gifts for under thirty dollars. I don't understand. does she want hundreds of roses and big candy bars and all that? Valentine's day isn't about the gifts, it's about the love and showing your partner how much you love them. even if it's a small gift, it's better than nothing. and it's the thought that counts

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KieLeaHar
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That guy deserves so much better than toxic thing. I hope he somehow sees it and runs. Runs for the hills, makes triple what SHE makes in the future and laughs when she tries to come crawling back..

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Crep 105
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, in other words this girl is a selfish, gold-digging unappreciative brat.

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Donna Leske
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Heyyyyy, there's a big ol' mirror in the bathroom. You can shut the door and kiss yourself for hours in private.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Its not about money. Time that someone invests in you is far more precious, it is priceless and can never be returned. I always value someone for the time they give me, not by the amount of money they spend.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're at UC Berkeley either you picked the wrong school or you reveal a dirty truth, that many liberals are also super rich, spoiled brats that are part of the problems blamed on everyone else.

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Carmen Honacker
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a self-entitled asshat. I hope he found someone who really loves him.

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Wendy Baecke
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow. I really hope he saw her for the brat she is and found someone who would care about the right things needed for a relationship. Just wow.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if she hadn't already lost me by the time i hit "he's of the right caste" i would've been lost there. what a horrible person.

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Marco Conti
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is she the sister of that chick that convinced her boyfriend to kill himself?

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Deborah Blair-Krosnicki
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I can just hear Karma waiting in the wings saying, "just wait for what I have in store, sweetie, just wait..."

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Rustyn Birch
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn. She is someone raised hook line and sinker on Capitalism. It breeds very shallow people with very little empathy. Very depressing.

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Debrina Blackmoon
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WOW. The audacity is just lovely...uppity bitch doesn't quite cover it.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Right caste" suggests a South Asian family. They tend to be very status oriented.

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Bacony Cakes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ma'am, the only caste you deserve is one of angry human-sized worker wasps. With shotguns.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Going through divorce with the partner you love is like been in hell, my husband filed for a divorce without giving me reasons. I was totally down for I had no idea of what was happening and I tried to confront him to know what led to such action but he didn't give me listening ears. I tried getting to know what happened through his family members but that didn't work either and this time was going mad about everything till I searched for help online and I came across Lord Zakuza contact number +1 740-573-9483 and I messaged him to let him know what I was going through and Lord Zakuza encouraged and promised to help me with his powerful spell and within 48 hours after contacting Lord Zakuza and followed all his instructions, my attorney called me to get me informed that the divorce case has been cancelled and after 30 minutes, I got a call from my husband pleading and begging for forgiveness and right now we are back together with so much love and care. Thank You Lord Zakuza..

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In all fairness, someone that's this big of a stuck up bitch can't be overlooked. He HAS to know she's a C U next T. And if he's choosing to stay, then he must enjoy it lol.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love the veiled sexism in the 'even my MOM makes more than his DAD'. What a cow.

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Camil Gagnon
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's not even remotely "nice", it's pure entitlement coupled with shitty values.

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Callista pierce
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

oh wow when i first started reading i thought it was about a nice girl wanting to help her boyfriend but its actually a story about an insensitive, snobby, rich spoiled brat with no empathy or kindness. this is disgusting.

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Nikki Sevven
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this how it happens to wealthy people? One day, they lose all sight of what's real, and are only interested in amassing more and more wealth? They're like dragons, ffs.

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KT
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yikes. Money isn't everything. If he is loyal, kind, loving and fun that is what's most valuable

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Randy Farhi
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't even believe this is real -- it's a joke or fake, right?

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Kerrie Brown
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even though I know there are really people out there like this, it shocks me to see that there are literally people out in the world like this, walking among us

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why people don't like wealthy people, because so many of them have their every need (and desire) met, yet they still want more from the people around them.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have to assume stuff like this is fake - for my own mental health.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow... I mean... I .... yup no words, what a worthless piece of s**t she is.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

is this one of those rare spoiled girls that are too lazy to look for thier sugar daddy?

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Sara Hoffmann
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who's out there discussing their parents' salaries with their BF/GF???

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kjorn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

what a bitch.... sorry did not want to be rude... What a TURD!

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Aria Singh
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do people only want to marry for money instead of love nowadays?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They should break up, I'm pretty sure he might also have reservations on this thing too. The truth is, society has different classes and even when there is plenty of love to go around, if you're different in what you like in life, then it won't work.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Differences can work if they're complementary (such as the poet househusband whose wife is a university professor and happy that he's a good father to her child), but they're in conflict here.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Obviously from a culture where caste is important which explains the toxic hang ups over the differences in family wealth

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This bîtch sounds like an inbred from the mid 1970s. “My family owns blah blah” as if she had anything to do with that, or that has anything to do with her relationship. And I bet the guy acts the same way about people poorer than him.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She may be mentioning caste because it means that they are of the same social rank appropriate for marriage. It's the least problematic piece of info she's giving out.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd argue it's one of the most problematic given how archaic the caste system is

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Selfishness and altruism aren't as black and white as you might think. According to research, human history has shown that some forms of selfishness can be considered to be "healthy" while some altruism can be "pathological." Healthy selfishness led to higher levels of psychological well-being and a "genuine prosocial orientation." Meanwhile, pathological altruism was associated with vulnerable narcissism and selfish motivations for helping others. If that sounds familiar, it's the scientific basis for the difference between nice and 'nice.'

Moderator CTFOE_is_Fee told Bored Panda that the reason why some women are 'nice girls' is a combination of a few factors. "Some of them are too immature to realize what they're doing. Others are that manipulative on purpose. Lastly, some do not even realize what they're doing," they explained.

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But Why? Smh Entitled Queens Lol

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This kind of messaging is why men think they should try harder, and how you create an unsafe feeling for a lot of woman. Because a man will take away from this that no means yes. And that you have to keep trying, even though the woman made clear that she is not into you. It's a dangerous game to play!

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The Cat Isn’t What He Should Be Getting Rid Of

The Cat Isn’t What He Should Be Getting Rid Of

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cat has been there before her and judging by her being jealous of a cat, the cat will be there after she's gone

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We were curious to find out where the line between genuine niceness and fake 'niceness' was for the moderator. Here's what they had to say: "Personally, for me, the line is drawn when you can tell that someone is being passive-aggressive; when you can sense the subdued maliciousness in their words and actions. If your gut is telling you that something is not genuine about the person then they probably are not genuine. I think we've all experienced a few relationships like that in our lives. I do not see there being a large grey area between the two. You know when someone is being kind or not."

According to CTFOE_is_free, one of the things that new members need to keep in mind if they decide to join up is to read and follow the subreddit rules. "We have a strict No doxxing policy, as we work to respect and protect the privacy of the subjects of the content as well as that of the posters."

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I Went On One Date With This Girl And She Spent The Whole Time On Her Phone Drinking Coffee I Bought Her

I Went On One Date With This Girl And She Spent The Whole Time On Her Phone Drinking Coffee I Bought Her

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A Message To All Nice Girls Who Might Have A Screw Loose

A Message To All Nice Girls Who Might Have A Screw Loose

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or maybe... confront him and talk about it ? Then make a decision ? I understand this is meant as a kind of joke with a twist, but it's not good advice, either way.

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According to the creators of the subreddit, the 'Nice Girls' community is like the ‘Nice Guys’ online group, but different in that they focus on women instead. Bored Panda has even written about them before. You can check out that post right over here once you’re done enjoying this list. Spoiler alert: proclaiming that you’re nice doesn’t make it so. The proof is in how you act, not the mild-mannered facade you show the world.

“For all the self-proclaimed ‘nice girls.’ For the women who complain ‘guys are only interested in [promiscuous women].’ For women who complain that men are shallow for not dating overweight women, while also demanding that their man have washboard abs. For the women who hold others to the highest possible standard, but have no standards for themselves,” the r/Nicegirls creators explain what their group is all about.

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A Nicegirl Daydream

A Nicegirl Daydream

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Now That's A Logical Leap

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Laughter is not good for my tummy pain right now, but that reply was funny as heck.

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The main focus of the subreddit is to shame these ‘nice girls’ in all their glory through images, articles, videos, and everything else. “This sub is not for female incels. This place is not for crazy girls. If you swap the genders and it doesn't belong on r/niceguys, then don't post it,” they explain.

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What’s more, the moderators point out that their community is “not a women hating subreddit.” They encourage members to be polite and “refrain from making sexist comments or being a bigot.” They have a zero-tolerance policy regarding things like that, so mind your manners. Yes, there’s a certain unsurprising irony there that a group about shaming people who are supposedly ‘nice’ actually requires folks to be nice.

However, just because r/Nicegirls deems these women worthy of being shamed doesn’t mean that they’re having an all-out war with them. Members of the group can’t post any identifying information about people: this way, they’re protected from internet users who might want to criticize them or insult them. After all, just because someone’s ‘nice’ now doesn’t mean that they’re not learning to be actually, genuinely nice. I’m a big believer that people can change if they set their minds to it.

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So You Know It's Wrong, But You Did It Anyway?

So You Know It's Wrong, But You Did It Anyway?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh boy, and I bet that she still doesn't get the irony after being called out on it.

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So I Broke My Leg, And She Wanted To Go On A Date....

So I Broke My Leg, And She Wanted To Go On A Date....

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"I Just Said Goodnight, But I'm Gonna Throw A Tantrum If You Say Goodnight Back"

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh yeah coz men can read our minds and know exactly how we are feeling. How about stop playing games and tell him.

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Urban Dictionary defines 'nice girls' as women who believe they're the best choice to be someone's girlfriend. They're deemed by the internet to be manipulative, have self-esteem issues, and can be passive-aggressive. They also have problems with jealousy and being self-centered. Especially if rejected.

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The "I Don't Want Anything" Classic

The "I Don't Want Anything" Classic

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ugh another one playing stupid Games. If you say you don't want something then expect to not get it.

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Spanish Girls Are Her #1 Enemy

Spanish Girls Are Her #1 Enemy

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We Have The FBI And Then We Have This

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an absolute f*****g bitch. There is no sugar coating how I feel about people doing s**t like this.

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Usually, 'nice girls' are women who get others to pity her into dating her. In short, they're the female version of 'nice guys,' with all the drama and seething hatred you'd expect to see from them. Both 'nice girls' and 'nice guys' feel like they deserve to be in a relationship with anyone that they want or anyone that so much as smiles at them.

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Double Standards Are Great !

Double Standards Are Great !

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There’ll Be Blizzard In Hell Before I Stop Eating Cinnamon Toast Crunch For Breakfast

There’ll Be Blizzard In Hell Before I Stop Eating Cinnamon Toast Crunch For Breakfast

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They also believe that the world owes them what they want just because they're 'well-mannered.' The moment things go south and they don't get what they want, they rage at the world and proclaim that it's not fair that things are this way. Whereas a genuinely nice person is kind to others without expecting a reward, a self-proclaimed 'nice girl' or 'nice guy' hides the fact that they're really just after the reward. Usually, the reward they have in mind is romantic or [ahem] something more.

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I'm Sure Nick Appreciates Your Support!

I'm Sure Nick Appreciates Your Support!

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My Ex Girlfriend Wanted To Meet For A Drink And I Said No As I Was Visiting My Terminally Ill Grandmother. She Said My Grandmother Was Lucky Be Dying Because She Would Be Ashamed Of Me. Then Put This Message On Her Instagram

My Ex Girlfriend Wanted To Meet For A Drink And I Said No As I Was Visiting My Terminally Ill Grandmother. She Said My Grandmother Was Lucky Be Dying Because She Would Be Ashamed Of Me. Then Put This Message On Her Instagram

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The Gentleman’s Journal suggests that the difference between nice and ‘nice’ depends on how honest we are with ourselves about our intentions. For instance, they explain that you should be generous, but that you shouldn’t use your generosity as a bargaining chip for other things. That means that why you’re doing something is just as important as the fact that you’re doing it.

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Don't Get Me What I Ask For

Don't Get Me What I Ask For

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Come on, you cant be THAT unappreciative! You should be grateful you even have a boyfriend with that attitude

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One thought in particular raised by the Gentleman’s Journal stuck in my mind: “Do be kind. But don’t do it just because you think you ought to.” The implication here is simple: being kind is vital. However, making the decision to be kind because you believe it’s the right thing to do is the key here.

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Nice Girls Don’t Exi-

Nice Girls Don’t Exi-

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's insane, I think she needs professional help. Super stalkerish. Hopefully she was charged.

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Being nice, polite, and kind just because you feel pressured to doesn’t make you nice. It makes you ‘nice.’ After all, kindness under duress isn’t really kindness, is it? But what do you think, dear Pandas? Why do you think ‘nice girls’ and ‘nice guys’ act the way that they do? Where do you think the line between actual kindness and fake kindness lies? Can we tell which is which from a distance? Share your thoughts with everyone else in the comments below.

#31

Okay, Thats Not Toxic At All

Okay, Thats Not Toxic At All

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#32

It's Only Okay If I Can Go Through Your Phone

It's Only Okay If I Can Go Through Your Phone

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you can't trust your partner and have to go through their phone then maybe it's the wrong relationship for you or you need help with getting over your trust issues.

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#33

Damn... I Don‘T Even Know Her

Damn... I Don‘T Even Know Her

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#34

It’s Almost Like They’re There To Workout?

It’s Almost Like They’re There To Workout?

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Sum Guy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow... they are focused on working out at the gym? I have never heard of that before

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#36

The Truth Comes Out. My Former Best Friend, Who I Ended Up Dating And Then It Killed Off Our Friendship When Things Went South

The Truth Comes Out. My Former Best Friend, Who I Ended Up Dating And Then It Killed Off Our Friendship When Things Went South

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#37

Feel Like This Belongs Here

Feel Like This Belongs Here

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#38

And Breaking Worth 40$ Isn't Cruel?

And Breaking Worth 40$ Isn't Cruel?

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Raine Soo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, keep on telling yourself that after your boyfriend breaks up with you, and you're sitting home alone fuming.

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#39

This Is The Second Time I've Ever Talked To Her, What The Hell

This Is The Second Time I've Ever Talked To Her, What The Hell

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#40

Nice Girl Has Trouble With Her Spelling

Nice Girl Has Trouble With Her Spelling

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