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Convincing someone you’re right is all about confidence. If you fake it, you’ll make it, right? R-right? Having bucketloads of confidence is great (and certainly dramatic), however, it’s never enough in isolation… especially if you’re just plain wrong and everyone around you knows it.

Being direct. Looking assured. Feeling unwavering and braver than Braveheart—these are all wonderful qualities to have, but without other substantial things to back it up, it’s all just bravado without the bite. And darn it if it isn’t entertaining as heck to watch!

We’re not the only ones to think so. In fact, that’s why the ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit, with over 404k members, exists. Their community is built around poking fun at people who are chock full of confidence but get deflated the moment someone with an ounce of logic and common sense chimes in. There’s plenty of facepalm moments waiting for you, so get scrolling and upvoting your fave pics. Remember to visit the r/confidentlyincorrect community if you like their stuff!

Bored Panda interviewed the creator of the subreddit, redditor ShadowAlchemy. Read on for what they told us about how the community started and got popular, as well as for their thoughts about to what extent confidence is important in real life and what we should do if we ever find ourselves to be confidently incorrect.

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The ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit has been growing by leaps and bounds. Created just over a year ago, in January 2020, they’re continuing to provide awesome content that keeps us humble. (And it’s a gentle reminder to double and triple-check even facts that we’re completely sure about.)

ShadowAlchemy told Bored Panda that they founded the 'Confidently Incorrect' subreddit "on a whim" just over a year ago. "Someone posted a video of Conan interviewing Jennifer Garner to another subreddit called r/WatchPeopleDieInside. I scrolled through the comments and saw someone who thought stuff like that would make a great community of its own. It was super late at night when I saw that, so I made a subreddit really quick for no reason, posted a video or two, then went to bed."

But what ShadowAlchemy couldn't foresee was how quickly the subreddit went viral. They woke up to see a huge surprise. "I wake up with probably 1,000 or so notifications, apparently the sub had blown up overnight! Tons of people were talking about the ridiculously fast growth of the sub, I think we got around 30k members in our first day. It was super popular its first week, and its growth died down a bit after that. We've been on a steady increase ever since. We just hit 400k members, actually!" the founder shared their joy.

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Raine Soo
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Twice an idiot in the span of two statements. That is impressive.

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In ShadowAlchemy's opinion, confidence is "an incredibly important" part of our personalities. "Without confidence, we're nothing. Confidence is what gets us out of bed, what gets us out the door to face life. People definitely listen to those who show confidence,"

The founder told Bored Panda that we don't have to look far to see the vital role confidence plays in our lives. "Just look at politics. Politicians are probably some of the most confident people on the planet, and a pretty large amount of people just listen to what they say. Our sub is probably 75-80% politics. It's people parroting what they've heard their favorite politicians say, and they parrot it because they believe those politicians. They believe that confidence."

They added, "No one's gonna listen to a shy person with all the facts."

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The founder of the sub also had some spot-on advice for anyone who's been confidently incorrect in their lives. And it all starts with openly admitting that you're wrong (both to others and to yourself). "If someone corrects you and they're right, you've just gotta accept it right then and there. Insisting that you're correct is what makes you look like a dumbass, and what makes you remember it for years and years. Nobody wants to be confidently incorrect, but if you are, you've gotta admit it. You've gotta admit that you're wrong."

ShadowAlchemy said that nothing would be possible without the incredibly supportive members and moderators that make up the r/confidentlyincorrect subreddit. "Thanks to all the people who've brought this subreddit up so much, it was quite the surprise for me. Thanks to my mod team for keeping this sub together."

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"I'm Not Sure If I Agree But Ok"

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Hmm... Yes. That Sounds Right. Zeus, Mr Horny Year Round, Has Only One Son

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love it that he was random things like animals and gold showers (gold thank you not golden lol), like who were these women like "damn, that goose is sexy!"

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Third Hole?! Surely You Jest!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people should really be forced to take anatomy before being allowed to go near any hole.

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There’s a deep sense of shame that we feel when we’ve been outed being wrong even though we thought we were in the right. It’s an embarrassment so powerful, it can still make us flush beet-red and cringe years after it happened.

However, there is a possible upside to this. Research has shown that, counter-intuitively, it’s far easier to correct the errors made by people who are extremely confident that they’re right, compared to correcting the mistakes made by those who have ‘low confidence’ that they’re correct.

This is called the ‘hypercorrection effect’ which essentially means that we’re more likely to remember the correct answer to a question if we’re proven wrong when we’re extremely confident that we actually know the ‘right’ answer. Or, in other words, we remember being shocked at how at odds the truth was with our confidence that we were right.

Of course, there are some nuances like how some high confidence errors can ‘reemerge’ if we’re not tested on our newfound knowledge quickly enough. But on the bright side, being confidently incorrect might just be the best way to retain facts and figures after we make complete buffoons of ourselves online. So go out there and don’t be afraid to fail, dear Readers—your newfound knowledge will stick in your mind like a panda in a bamboo grove.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But he is not homeless. That is where he chooses to live and loves it. Omg I am defending a puppet. Never saw that coming lol.

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Ah, Us Politics... A Neverending Source

Ah, Us Politics... A Neverending Source

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1) Star Is A Shape And 2) Oranges And Blackberries

1) Star Is A Shape And 2) Oranges And Blackberries

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Covid Has Brought Out The Best In Everyone!

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Communism Is When You Are Only Allowed To Buy One Share Of A Stock

Communism Is When You Are Only Allowed To Buy One Share Of A Stock

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Something
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Both are wrong. This is quite unlike how capitalism is supposed to work, but that doesn't make it communist. Also, communism is not simply a lack of capitalism.

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Tina Hugh
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It took me a minute to figure this out. Abilgail is a transwoman and Hot Take Harry is unintentionally being super supportive.

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America Didn’t Import Slaves

America Didn’t Import Slaves

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Autumn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The phrase 'slave-class' is really irksome, like what does she mean?

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He Wasn’t Even Italian, He Was Austrian And Born In Modern Day Croatia. Not To Mention He Was Also An American Citizen At One Point

He Wasn’t Even Italian, He Was Austrian And Born In Modern Day Croatia. Not To Mention He Was Also An American Citizen At One Point

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Serial pacifist
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many wrongs. Nikola Tesla is a Croatian Serb (minority group). He lived well into the 20th century (not the 1700s). He is not Nikolai or Nicolas, but Nikola. Ford parts mostly come from the EU + Japan, Venezuela, Canada...

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“Where’d You Get That, From CNN?”

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think they teach geography in US schools... I saw a lot of these things online during the elections

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Someone Doesn’t Understand How The Food Supply Chain Works... Or Agriculture, For That Matter

Someone Doesn’t Understand How The Food Supply Chain Works... Or Agriculture, For That Matter

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Ben...

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K.Kobayashi
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Serious answer: If you can speak (and make a sound), it means you can exhale. It doesn't mean you can inhale.

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Imtiredandiwannagotobed
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depending on the choking method, it’s easy to exhale, but you can’t inhale. So stupid, this mayor is.

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Leo Domitrix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Medical here. You may have enough breath to gasp, "I. Can't. BreaThe!" but not enough to get sufficient air into or out of your lungs to allow for proper oxygenation of the blood. It's why strangling someone takes a while. Say, nine minutes.

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Piet Puk
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But wearing a mask? Oh no, that's some real suffocation!

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That person
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right? By his logic, if someone says "this mask is suffocating me", we should say "then how are you talking"

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Marnie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I so admire people like this who can make a point with so few words. I'd be writing an essay to try to argue with the idiot.

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Alex Hall
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know an easy way to settle this. Let's have mr. mayor lie down on the ground and have another person place his/her/their knee on his neck for as many minutes as the kneeler sees fit. Let's wait for nine or ten minutes, just to be on the safe side. We should film this, you know, for evidence. Let's test your theory HAL MARX. You ready to prove your point?

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Luisa Vasconcelos
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe a man's last words was " I can't breathe" and someone is actually saying... Oh jezzzz.

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BabaBizzle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“I’m being murdered” this fat f***s logic : “well you’re alive so how are you dead” He needs to “not breathe” to back up his asinine statements and shut his fat F***ing mouth.

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thepinkrobot
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this is why cops continue to kill Black folks. Because assholes like this don't see anything wrong with violence.

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brukernavn340
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually, drowning people are usually quiet, and unable to call for help, or give any indication they need help, since all their energy goes to staying afloat.

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HOT CHOCOLATE <3
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

keep this in mind. drown-ING means CURRENTLY DYING OF NOT BEING ABLE TO GET TO AIR WHEN YOU ARE IN THE WATER. not "dead"

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Id row
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly, this is actually very on brand for Mississippi.

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pansexualandproud
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hhygfigcvkh,bjgulkdxjf (that was the sound of my brain shutting down)

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Helena Houzarová
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's an argument for not doing emergency tracheotomy yet, not an argument for not helping!

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Iapetos
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That guy would look much less gross if he put a mask on.

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Lisa Chambers
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh I thought he was talking about people who dont want to wear a mask.

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Mélanie Beaupré
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately, this is what they were teaching in my EMT classes not even 3 years ago. Ugh.

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Xebec Yar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

is eaglessoar supporting the defense then? People who are actually drowning don't yell. People who are in danger or distress in water may well do so, but when someone is drowning it is often quick and silent. The person drowning enters an instinctive drowning response, and is unable to call for help or wave to attract attention, they then usually sink underwater within 60 seconds unless a rescue is enacted.

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Lucyna Herman
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Soon there will be a need to wear some neck protection gear, because if you leave your neck exposed in the streets law enforcers with a kink of putting knee to necks will feel tempted to get legsy with you...

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Steve Cruz
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He looks like my idea of a "Mississippi mayor" -- only sweatier.

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ProfessorZ3R0
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm with the mayor...TECHNICALLY. if you could not take in air you would not be able to talk. But I don't think the mayor gets that he could barely breathe and wouldn't be able to breathe if it continued. Or something like that.

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James F. Wilson Jr.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah just listening to those Southern City Mayors making statements as they try to reason, is like listening to a fart. You know that there is a sound there but you are not sure of the results.

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Buzz Anderson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WOW, the ability to use pretzel logic by cons is beyond all sane rationale. In reality it is fueled by hate. I have long come to the conclusion conservatives would love to have a dictatorship and hate democracy with a passion.

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Amery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again, 'BORED PANDA' .... shix like this.. is APPALLING .. AND YOU POST IT. UNSUB'ING.

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T.Milly
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was seriously strangled by someone & trust me, if you can talk or utter a word or sound, you can still breathe. I was trying in vain to yell during the event & absolutely NOTHING came out of my mouth- no sound, no grunts, no spit... nothing. It was the most terrifying experience of my life & I've had quite a few terrifying experiences.

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Liam Walsh
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is all misdirection from the main issue. He clearly didn't get enough oxygen to survive the experience. What was he supposed to say? "Excuse me, I know I can breathe enough to say a few words but it's not quite enough for me to live for much longer so would you mind getting your knee off my neck?" Doubt he had enough breath for THAT.

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Spank a newborn: if she cries then she is using her lungs. Maybe better to have just spanked Flloyd and avoided all of those riots.

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Monika Rhodes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe you should have spanked those cops who already had complaints against them before Flloyd for using excess force. No?

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3 years ago

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If you can say you can't breathe, you're breathing. That is technically true. So the cops think you're lying or exaggerating if you say "I can't breathe". Drowning people don’t yell for help. Because the drowner can't breathe. That's what drowning means.

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Carrie Laughs
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When a person is properly winded the diaphragm goes into spasm and prevents someone being able to breathe. It is temporary but speaking is still possible. I know because it happened to me.

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Three Perfect Example. Except For, Not

Three Perfect Example. Except For, Not

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plus JKR actually got a grant so she could write HP. Guess where the money came from?

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I Guess Aztecs Are Not Native To The Americas...

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Confidently Argued Blind People Couldn't Feel Their Own Fingers

Confidently Argued Blind People Couldn't Feel Their Own Fingers

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if these guys stare at the keyboard and poke slowly to make sure they pushed the right keys.

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It Does

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd kinda like the commenter to be right. Because then we could pretend that Marjorie Taylor Greene isn't a congresswoman. But she is.

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1 Kilometre Is Less Than A Mile

1 Kilometre Is Less Than A Mile

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Apparently, Skin Color Is An STD Now

Apparently, Skin Color Is An STD Now

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Anne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait.. we change color according to the color of the man we marry? How does that work? If I marry several men of different color... do I become a rainbow?

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“Counting Votes After Election Day Has Never Been Done Before”

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Never Leave Home Without A Clean Tampon!

Never Leave Home Without A Clean Tampon!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Andy: "Sir, I have three sisters and a fiance, and I'm sure they would agree with me that you've been using your tampons incorrectly the whole time."

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Confidently Incorrect About North America

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Adam C
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this really this common that Americans don't know geography outside USA?

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The President Of The United States, Totally Ignorant Of History That Took Place During His Own Lifetime

The President Of The United States, Totally Ignorant Of History That Took Place During His Own Lifetime

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Diamonds Are Heavier Than... Diamonds?

Diamonds Are Heavier Than... Diamonds?

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peter howard
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok first diamond isn't a metal (it's carbon) and 1g of diamond is still 1g of diamond ( the old question of which is heavier a tonne of feathers or a tonne of lead)

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An Interesting Way Of Adding Percentages....

An Interesting Way Of Adding Percentages....

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