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Convincing someone you’re right is all about confidence. If you fake it, you’ll make it, right? R-right? Having bucketloads of confidence is great (and certainly dramatic), however, it’s never enough in isolation… especially if you’re just plain wrong and everyone around you knows it.

Being direct. Looking assured. Feeling unwavering and braver than Braveheart—these are all wonderful qualities to have, but without other substantial things to back it up, it’s all just bravado without the bite. And darn it if it isn’t entertaining as heck to watch!

We’re not the only ones to think so. In fact, that’s why the ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit, with over 404k members, exists. Their community is built around poking fun at people who are chock full of confidence but get deflated the moment someone with an ounce of logic and common sense chimes in. There’s plenty of facepalm moments waiting for you, so get scrolling and upvoting your fave pics. Remember to visit the r/confidentlyincorrect community if you like their stuff!

Bored Panda interviewed the creator of the subreddit, redditor ShadowAlchemy. Read on for what they told us about how the community started and got popular, as well as for their thoughts about to what extent confidence is important in real life and what we should do if we ever find ourselves to be confidently incorrect.

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The ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit has been growing by leaps and bounds. Created just over a year ago, in January 2020, they’re continuing to provide awesome content that keeps us humble. (And it’s a gentle reminder to double and triple-check even facts that we’re completely sure about.)

ShadowAlchemy told Bored Panda that they founded the 'Confidently Incorrect' subreddit "on a whim" just over a year ago. "Someone posted a video of Conan interviewing Jennifer Garner to another subreddit called r/WatchPeopleDieInside. I scrolled through the comments and saw someone who thought stuff like that would make a great community of its own. It was super late at night when I saw that, so I made a subreddit really quick for no reason, posted a video or two, then went to bed."

But what ShadowAlchemy couldn't foresee was how quickly the subreddit went viral. They woke up to see a huge surprise. "I wake up with probably 1,000 or so notifications, apparently the sub had blown up overnight! Tons of people were talking about the ridiculously fast growth of the sub, I think we got around 30k members in our first day. It was super popular its first week, and its growth died down a bit after that. We've been on a steady increase ever since. We just hit 400k members, actually!" the founder shared their joy.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Twice an idiot in the span of two statements. That is impressive.

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In ShadowAlchemy's opinion, confidence is "an incredibly important" part of our personalities. "Without confidence, we're nothing. Confidence is what gets us out of bed, what gets us out the door to face life. People definitely listen to those who show confidence,"

The founder told Bored Panda that we don't have to look far to see the vital role confidence plays in our lives. "Just look at politics. Politicians are probably some of the most confident people on the planet, and a pretty large amount of people just listen to what they say. Our sub is probably 75-80% politics. It's people parroting what they've heard their favorite politicians say, and they parrot it because they believe those politicians. They believe that confidence."

They added, "No one's gonna listen to a shy person with all the facts."

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The founder of the sub also had some spot-on advice for anyone who's been confidently incorrect in their lives. And it all starts with openly admitting that you're wrong (both to others and to yourself). "If someone corrects you and they're right, you've just gotta accept it right then and there. Insisting that you're correct is what makes you look like a dumbass, and what makes you remember it for years and years. Nobody wants to be confidently incorrect, but if you are, you've gotta admit it. You've gotta admit that you're wrong."

ShadowAlchemy said that nothing would be possible without the incredibly supportive members and moderators that make up the r/confidentlyincorrect subreddit. "Thanks to all the people who've brought this subreddit up so much, it was quite the surprise for me. Thanks to my mod team for keeping this sub together."

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"I'm Not Sure If I Agree But Ok"

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Hmm... Yes. That Sounds Right. Zeus, Mr Horny Year Round, Has Only One Son

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love it that he was random things like animals and gold showers (gold thank you not golden lol), like who were these women like "damn, that goose is sexy!"

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Third Hole?! Surely You Jest!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people should really be forced to take anatomy before being allowed to go near any hole.

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There’s a deep sense of shame that we feel when we’ve been outed being wrong even though we thought we were in the right. It’s an embarrassment so powerful, it can still make us flush beet-red and cringe years after it happened.

However, there is a possible upside to this. Research has shown that, counter-intuitively, it’s far easier to correct the errors made by people who are extremely confident that they’re right, compared to correcting the mistakes made by those who have ‘low confidence’ that they’re correct.

This is called the ‘hypercorrection effect’ which essentially means that we’re more likely to remember the correct answer to a question if we’re proven wrong when we’re extremely confident that we actually know the ‘right’ answer. Or, in other words, we remember being shocked at how at odds the truth was with our confidence that we were right.

Of course, there are some nuances like how some high confidence errors can ‘reemerge’ if we’re not tested on our newfound knowledge quickly enough. But on the bright side, being confidently incorrect might just be the best way to retain facts and figures after we make complete buffoons of ourselves online. So go out there and don’t be afraid to fail, dear Readers—your newfound knowledge will stick in your mind like a panda in a bamboo grove.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But he is not homeless. That is where he chooses to live and loves it. Omg I am defending a puppet. Never saw that coming lol.

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1) Star Is A Shape And 2) Oranges And Blackberries

1) Star Is A Shape And 2) Oranges And Blackberries

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Covid Has Brought Out The Best In Everyone!

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Communism Is When You Are Only Allowed To Buy One Share Of A Stock

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Both are wrong. This is quite unlike how capitalism is supposed to work, but that doesn't make it communist. Also, communism is not simply a lack of capitalism.

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Tina Hugh
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It took me a minute to figure this out. Abilgail is a transwoman and Hot Take Harry is unintentionally being super supportive.

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America Didn’t Import Slaves

America Didn’t Import Slaves

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The phrase 'slave-class' is really irksome, like what does she mean?

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He Wasn’t Even Italian, He Was Austrian And Born In Modern Day Croatia. Not To Mention He Was Also An American Citizen At One Point

He Wasn’t Even Italian, He Was Austrian And Born In Modern Day Croatia. Not To Mention He Was Also An American Citizen At One Point

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many wrongs. Nikola Tesla is a Croatian Serb (minority group). He lived well into the 20th century (not the 1700s). He is not Nikolai or Nicolas, but Nikola. Ford parts mostly come from the EU + Japan, Venezuela, Canada...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think they teach geography in US schools... I saw a lot of these things online during the elections

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Someone Doesn’t Understand How The Food Supply Chain Works... Or Agriculture, For That Matter

Someone Doesn’t Understand How The Food Supply Chain Works... Or Agriculture, For That Matter

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Ben...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Serious answer: If you can speak (and make a sound), it means you can exhale. It doesn't mean you can inhale.

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Three Perfect Example. Except For, Not

Three Perfect Example. Except For, Not

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plus JKR actually got a grant so she could write HP. Guess where the money came from?

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I Guess Aztecs Are Not Native To The Americas...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if these guys stare at the keyboard and poke slowly to make sure they pushed the right keys.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd kinda like the commenter to be right. Because then we could pretend that Marjorie Taylor Greene isn't a congresswoman. But she is.

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1 Kilometre Is Less Than A Mile

1 Kilometre Is Less Than A Mile

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Apparently, Skin Color Is An STD Now

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait.. we change color according to the color of the man we marry? How does that work? If I marry several men of different color... do I become a rainbow?

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Never Leave Home Without A Clean Tampon!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Andy: "Sir, I have three sisters and a fiance, and I'm sure they would agree with me that you've been using your tampons incorrectly the whole time."

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Confidently Incorrect About North America

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this really this common that Americans don't know geography outside USA?

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The President Of The United States, Totally Ignorant Of History That Took Place During His Own Lifetime

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Diamonds Are Heavier Than... Diamonds?

Diamonds Are Heavier Than... Diamonds?

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peter howard
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok first diamond isn't a metal (it's carbon) and 1g of diamond is still 1g of diamond ( the old question of which is heavier a tonne of feathers or a tonne of lead)

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An Interesting Way Of Adding Percentages....

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Lil Nas Is 21...

Lil Nas Is 21...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Without wanting to sound rude. Can someone please explain this fetishisation of the military in the US? My country had mandatory service until 2008. Pretty much everyone has served. Literally no one is running around expecting special treatment because of it. We also don't randomly go up to people to thank them for their service. Yes, veterans do get some special allowances and a card that gives them special discounts under certain conditions.

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She Was So Confident

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this seems to be the most US people's thinking in the nutshell - I don't know what it is so instead of learning I shall scream about my ignorance...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

MLK promoted non-violent protests. His saying, "Riots are the voice of the unheard," was voicing understanding of riots, not promoting them.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But it still often costs more due to it’s location. Some parts of very north Scotland and the Scottish Isles also incur a higher postal rate.

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"You Really Are Uneducated"

"You Really Are Uneducated"

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's very short. Several organizations publish it in pamphlet format and hand them out. HINT: Most of what you hear is in it isn't.

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Hate To See It- Love My Dad Tho

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would like to say as a Christian that we don't discriminate against LGBTQ+ people or people with other beliefs. God told us that we should love everyone. It is God's role to judge not ours.

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*Laughs In Free Healthcare*

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Raine Soo
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this is so, then why are so many people being bankrupted by it? Or having to go without medication because they can't afford it? America's 'for profit' healthcare works only on behalf of those who are wealthy. But, doesn't every citizen have a right to proper healthcare? Oh, but no, that would be socialist, and we can't have that.

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Dynein
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The holocaust was so much worse than the current discrimination of non-white people, though. The Nazis didn't just exploit the Jewish, they wanted them DEAD. Imagine if the KKK was running the US - not just wanting to, but actually RUNNING, as in, making the laws and controlling the police. There would be barely any riots, not for lack of want, but for fear of death!

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So They Asked King George III Very Nicely For Independence, To Which He Cheerfully Agreed

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people should not be allowed on the internet...not talking about the post btw

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Gotta Love University Rivalries On Dating Apps

Gotta Love University Rivalries On Dating Apps

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That’s Definitely Joe Statistics Work

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad works at a hospital. He knows 20+ people who have died of COVID. It's still shocking to me how many people don't believe this is real.

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A Quick Google Search Could Have Shown Them They Were Wrong, But Instead They Chose To Spread Misinformation On Twitter

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A Covid Vaccine With A 95% Success Rate Definitely Means That 5% Of The People That Get The Vaccine Will Die

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Speeding was made illegal by speed limit laws. I guess that means nobody speeds anymore.

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This Happens Once In The History Of Today...

This Happens Once In The History Of Today...

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60fps Makes Movies Longer

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Apparently Britain Isn't Part Of Europe!?

Apparently Britain Isn't Part Of Europe!?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So first we don't exist and now we're a continent?! Lmao why do people hate us XD

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"No Species Has Been Found In Which Homosexual Behaviour Has Not Been Shown To Exist, With The Exception Of Species That Never Have Sex At All, Such As Sea Urchins And Aphis. Moreover, A Part Of The Animal Kingdom Is Hermaphroditic, Truly Bisexual." - Wikipedia

"No Species Has Been Found In Which Homosexual Behaviour Has Not Been Shown To Exist, With The Exception Of Species That Never Have Sex At All, Such As Sea Urchins And Aphis. Moreover, A Part Of The Animal Kingdom Is Hermaphroditic, Truly Bisexual." - Wikipedia

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I saw a statement years ago along the lines of: homosexuality has been observed in so many species but homophobia has only been observed in one

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Yes. I Am

Yes. I Am

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Confidently Corrected The Game's Art Director

Confidently Corrected The Game's Art Director

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“Roman Numerals Aren’t Part Of The Alphabet” On A Thread About Elon Musk’s Baby

“Roman Numerals Aren’t Part Of The Alphabet” On A Thread About Elon Musk’s Baby

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“Water Boils At 112 Farenheight”

“Water Boils At 112 Farenheight”

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends where you are. That is based on the location being at sea level.

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Imagine An American Being This Stupid About American History

Imagine An American Being This Stupid About American History

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A civil war is when a faction tries to take over a country. In the American Civil War, the South was trying to secede, not take over. The Civil War was not a civil war; it was a war of secession.

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