We all hold some unpopular opinions and have done some things we’re not proud of. We keep them to ourselves because we’re afraid of being judged, shamed, and ridiculed. Fortunately, the Confession Bear is here to lend us a helping and healing paw. The well-known meme format helps people share their secrets while staying anonymous, and Bored Panda has collected some of the best new confessions.

Remember to upvote the confessions that you related to the most and, when you’re done, check out our previous post about Confession Bear posts right here. Do you have anything that you want to get off your chest? Share your thoughts in the comment section (in bear form if you want) because bottling everything up isn’t good for your health.

Know Your Meme's Senior Editor and expert in all things related to memes, Matt Schimkowitz, told Bored Panda that the Confession Bear arose at a time in meme culture when Advice Animals were everywhere. "In very much the same way that people look for unique reaction images today, back then, people wanted advice animals," he said. Read on for the rest of Matt's insights into the iconic Confession Bear, the reasons for the meme's popularity, as well as its staying power.

#1

This Is Why I Hate Laundry Day

This Is Why I Hate Laundry Day

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Verena Gitterle
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1 month ago

well done!

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#2

Confession Bear

Confession Bear

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Hans
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1 month ago

Someone who reads to their children every day **is** a hero.

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#3

Anti-maskers.

Conspiracy theorists.

Karen's and Kyle's.

Hold your [friggin] opinion. Put the piece of GD fabric over your mouth (and no, not mesh you absolute imbecile) and wash your dirty little hands. It is LITERALLY the simplest task we could do to protect someone other than ourselves.

EVEN IF this whole thing is "a hoax" (it's not. I've seen it, and may God save your idiotic soul), we were mildly inconvenienced for a short duration of our life.

Smarten up

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Hans
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1 month ago

This is not a confession, this is a description of a reasonable approach.

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The Confession Bear format was born in June 2012 when redditor F-18Bro wanted to confess a lot of weird stuff anonymously. Their post went viral and the friendly-looking Malayan sun bear leaning against a log was forever cemented in meme history. It has even become the focus of scientific studies.

According to Matt from Know Your Meme, people related to the Confession Bear because it had such an original look. "It was also the same year that the secret sharing app/website Whisper launched. I guess secrets and confessions were in the zeitgeist," Matt pondered about why the bear became so popular on the internet at the time.

"I think animals just have more staying power than other memes," Matt explained why the Confession Bear meme is still in use to this very day. "Maybe people get tired of people’s faces or seeing the same memes. But when it comes to animals, I think people find them more endearing and therefore they endure. I mean the bear is very cute and sad!"

#4

Yes I Chose The Cat

Yes I Chose The Cat

Long time friend, suffers with bi-polar and had been a s**t all evening. Salem ‘adopted’ us about 5 months ago as a kitten. It’s taken a lot of work to socialise him with the dog and other cats. Very brave, very placid but is used to scrounging for food. Friend was drunk and raiding the kitchen and took exception to Salem trying for crumbs and generally being annoying. (He will leave you alone if you are stern with him). Started yelling and throwing things at cat. I said I think he should leave. Asked ‘So it’s me or the cat?’ Said ‘Yes, I choose the cat’. He left and txt me all cats are evil. Salem has come a long way and he is a good kitty. Doesn’t bite, not aggressive, just used to fighting for food. I choose the cat, sorry not sorry.

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Hans
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1 month ago

People who are arseholes to animals are arseholes to people.

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#5

A Dire Confession, I Know

A Dire Confession, I Know

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N G
Community Member
1 month ago

Maybe you're wife was keeping it a secret for you too

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#6

They Really Are Kinda Cute Though

They Really Are Kinda Cute Though

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Kim Charles
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1 month ago

You go load angry dude! We are all Disney princesses!

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The Confession Bear had some spin-off relatives, including the Confession Tiger (who was very jealous of the ever-popular bear) and the Confession Kid. However, the bear proved to be the most enduring and people are still asking for its help to share their peculiar secrets 8+ years later.

Confessing secrets and opening up can have very powerful positive effects on your physical and mental health, as well as improve your relationships with others. For instance, one study found that self-disclosure on Facebook helped students cope with stress.

Meanwhile, other researchers explain that keeping secrets (especially in close relationships) leads to increased stress and anxiety. We tend to obsess and constantly think about secrets and it drains us. Letting go is freeing in more ways than one.

#7

Should I Tell Her?

Should I Tell Her?

I made a joke that she can come be my private teacher now, but I guess she took me seriously? She's been stopping by most nights after class to talk/hang out.

I'm not sure if I'm being mean lying to her but it seems to make her happy so I guess I'll play along for now.

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Bardhi's Dad
Community Member
1 month ago

You are doing good making her feel that what she's doing is important - not only for her, but for you to

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#8

Teachers Don’t Get Enough Credit

Teachers Don’t Get Enough Credit

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Sarcastic Cow
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1 month ago

Aww, that´s nice.

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#9

Confession Bear

Confession Bear

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Steve Barnett
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1 month ago

I only reply to a comment if I have something worthwhile to say, that or a funny quip. Today I've made a rare exception.

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On the flip side, sharing secrets in a non-judgmental environment reduces stress and helps individuals actively deal with their issues. Writing down a secret for yourself to keep, sharing it anonymously online, or telling it to the people closest to you can all be great ways to deal with inner turmoil and to get a different perspective on what’s eating you up inside.

It might be something small like actually enjoying Nickelback’s music (I’m guilty of this) or something much more personal, but sharing secrets with others increases trust and reduces the burdens on our minds and emotions. So if you’re feeling like you’re overwhelmed with secrets, ask the Confession Bear to help you voice it all online. The bear’s there for a reason.

#10

When I got accepted into law school, I felt "blessed" and I felt that I needed to learn more about Islam and the Quran to serve Allah better as a good Muslim and a good citizen. I grew up in Afghanistan until I was 13. During the Taliban, I learned to read the Quran at school and at the local mosque, but we were never taught the meaning of the Quran. So, when I stared learning the meaning of the Quran here in the US, I started to question it. I started learning about other religions and ended up reading the Bible and learning about Christianity and Judaism as well. The more I learned about religion, the more questions I had. I have read books on both sides of the arguments for and against religion, I have watched lectures and debates and I have spoken to priests and mullahs. I have also read Richard Dawkins and Christopher Hitchens. Also, evolution is apparently a thing that religion loves to hate. I was actually disappointed that I arrived at nothing at the end of it all. I concluded that religion is man-made and there's as much proof for God's existence as there is for a unicorn or a teapot in the sky as Richard Dawkins likes to put it. My family and relatives are devout Muslims and I know that many would be disappointed, to say the least, when and if they find out I have turned away from Islam. For a Muslim to become an atheist is the biggest step that you can take in your life. It is a decision that will arguably alter the rest of your life. I could lose many or all of your family and relatives. If i was still living in Afghanistan, the punishment without question would have been death. I know that i will lose many loved ones, but i honestly don’t know how long more i can pretend and keep it to myself. End of rant. Thank you for reading my story.

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Beeps
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1 month ago

I was all alone in hospital and didn’t have anything to do (this was before mobile phones and my family hadn’t made it to me yet to bring me something to read) so I started reading the bible I found in my night stand. After just a short wile, I got so angry at how unjust the individual stories in it were that I just couldn’t read any further.

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#11

There Are Nice Karens

There Are Nice Karens

I’m a nice person and my name has become an embarrassment.

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Lekha
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1 month ago

Ridiculing people based on their names is so immature

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#12

Maybe I'm Just Too Cynical

Maybe I'm Just Too Cynical

Whenever I see people whip their phone out and film how they are helping the homeless makes me cringe. (IMHO) Volunteering should not be cover to promote oneself.

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R L
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1 month ago

I agree

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#13

Mixer Solutions?

Mixer Solutions?

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Violet brown
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1 month ago

this is such a good idea...

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#14

Loneliness

Loneliness

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Bardhi's Dad
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1 month ago

That's sad man

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#15

Everyone Gets A Turn

Everyone Gets A Turn

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Tabitha L
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1 month ago

I do this. I don't want them to feel neglected.

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#16

I Know It's Sad But Still

I Know It's Sad But Still

Recently had all my money stolen from out of my account. Bank is working on refunding me all the cash, but in the mean time i need to try and find as much loose change as possible to buy food

Went to the supermarket and bought some milk and things, came up 70 cents short

I asked the attendant if she could unscan one of the items for me but she just shrugged and gave me the rest of the money i needed

I know it's only small but i wish her all the best

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Kesyra
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1 month ago

It's the small things. I hope you get your situation back to normal soon!

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#17

This Is What I Get For Teaching Them About The Rebellions That Happened Throughout History

This Is What I Get For Teaching Them About The Rebellions That Happened Throughout History

They’re in 8th grade and I had them write a children’s book based on their history textbook. I already extended the deadline by a week, so I could not be more disappointed in them right now.

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Irina Deneva-Slav
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1 month ago

If you had felt guilt, that would have been wrong. What a bunch.

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#18

The Plutocracy Is Born

The Plutocracy Is Born

I do better than a large portion of the country. I still get bent over. I know people making less than me get bent over even further. Then we get lectured by these pigs about the ethics of "Hard Work" and "doing whats right for the country" while they rail us from behind. It's disgusting... I don't know what to think anymore.... But the IRS can go shove it up their a**es.

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tuzdayschild
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1 month ago

It is your country and you can try to do something about it on or before November 3rd.

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#19

Lost In Fog.

Lost In Fog.

At first I felt like [crap]. Then I thought that maybe it meant that I was finally ready to start living again.

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funny AF Amazing Films
Community Member
1 month ago

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Its okay. You're not celebrating her death. Im sure you remember her and think of her daily. That's all that matters. Im sure your wife would want you to move on and be happy. Anyone who loves someone would.

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#20

I Know I'm A [Crappy] Person For Feeling This Way

I Know I'm A [Crappy] Person For Feeling This Way

I feel crappy for seeing parents who have a lot of kids and are complaining about their problems, and thinking they shouldn't have had so many kids in that case.

I have sympathy for the kids, but not these parents.

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Violet brown
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1 month ago

your not crappy, it's fine not to want kids...

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#21

Future Me?

Future Me?

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Radek Suski
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1 month ago

Same

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#22

Heroes

Heroes

Getting very sick of the "heroes work here" messages plastered all around my hospital. I know it's well-intentioned, but it feels impersonal and like the public is saying it to relieve guilt. The COVID crisis should not be as bad as it currently is in the supposed "best healthcare system in the world". I am no more of a hero now than I have been for going to work for the past five years taking care of people with infectious diseases. Why are we being celebrated now? Because we're going to work in unsafe conditions? Because we as a country can't get our [crap] together enough to obtain enough N-95s to prevent workers from dying unnecessarily?

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JKE
Community Member
1 month ago

Too true. Rainbows and clapping don't pay the bills.

Troux
Community Member
1 month ago

This isn't about "I would rather have money than praise". They are annoyed at being praised by the general public and elected officials for enduring harsh, unsafe and depressing conditions which are caused by the same general public and elected officials. WW2 vets fought for decency and the fate of democracy and the lives of innocent civilians, but most of the vets alive today fought morally and purposefully questionable wars and may have come home feeling unfulfilled by that, and then we thank them for fighting a cause, but what's being done about the politicians who seem to be fabricating these causes?

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StinkyMonkey
Community Member
1 month ago

Branding people in difficult situations (nurses, doctors, supermarket workers etc) heroes, takes the focus away from the people and systems that force them into that situation and makes it harder for these people to demand fair recompensation.

PR
Community Member
1 month ago

Someone has to do difficult job. Who should it be?

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Colette Connor
Community Member
1 month ago

I'm not from the U.S, and I'll admit I'm sleepy, so I read that post far to many times wondering why vets (animal doctors) would have an issue with that statement.

Steve Cruz
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1 month ago

A video clip is circulating Facebook that features a muscular young guy in fatigues shouting that he didn't spend six years in the military for people to whine that wearing a face mask is "tyranny." He does not stand with racists or anti-maskers. He declares that they are not patriots.

Víctor Alfonso García Olmo
Community Member
1 month ago

Where are you from? France, UK, Italy, Norway, Sweden, or (mine) Spain......or other Western Europe country (plus Australia or Japan). Public Healthecare system are the best.

rabbitsrabbit
Community Member
1 month ago

Its an easy guilt-free way for the public to shift responsibility to frontliners. Thanks for taking care of the problem for us, adieu!

Elaine Mattingly
Community Member
1 month ago

True for some, not all of us.

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tuzdayschild
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1 month ago

I work with nurses who hate being called heroes.

Louloubelle
Community Member
1 month ago

My husband works in a hospital as a plumber. So he is friends with all the nurses, support staff, cleaners, etc. He gets that "hero" thing too. He said the people that work in the hospital all hate it. Mostly because it's the big wigs at the hospital that put up those signs. How about giving them more than 2 weeks of "combat pay". Because they are all risking their lives while the CEO's are sitting in their ivory towers.

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Valentina Lattante
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1 month ago

nurses and doctors shouldn't be heroes; they should do their work without risking their lives and those of their loved ones!

Patty Stier
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1 month ago (edited)

They say thank you because they mean it. People are told of all the multi extra hours, extra hard working conditions and the danger of everything you and others in the health field are having to go through, PLUS. They know that the Healthcare workers could choose to quit, but in spite of the work, supply shortages and danger you, and others stay and keep going ... because you care about other peoples lives. So, yes, they view you as heroes and appreciate all you do and will say "thank you." Many people are donating items needed, making things like masks, bringing food to the Healthcare workers, etc., but not everyone can - so they voice their appreciation, and it's meant. I'm sorry we haven't the means to do more - all of you deserve much, much more. Thank you - and God Bless you all!

abby smink
Community Member
1 month ago

Right! I don't want a thank you, I want proper PPE, people to take it all seriously, and do as they should!

Stille20
Community Member
1 month ago

Agreed, how about instead of a label we pay people what they are worth.

Ellen Daniels
Community Member
1 month ago

O.R. nurse here: YES! It costs nothing to parrot a phrase, however heartfelt. It costs nothing to post uplifting things on Facebook. If you care at all, put your money where your mouth is; dog your representatives to fund pandemic preparedness and safeguard the welfare of responders. Hospital workers don't need pizza; send it to those without food if you care for us.

Ellen Daniels
Community Member
1 month ago

Because we have on long overdue pandemic now does not mean another isn't lurking right around the corner. Insist on preparedness! And the political balls to legally enforce intelligent social restrictions to protect the populace.

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Dorothy Parker
Community Member
1 month ago

Hopes and prayers. I hate that too. But truly, other thank you messages are heartf and deserved.

Krazy Kat
Community Member
1 month ago

While you deserve the praise ( and not just for COVID ) you deserve a pay raise more. The same goes for teachers.

Faith Donovan
Community Member
1 month ago

The term "heroes" seems to be used more and more to dehumanize those who do great things so others feel less guilty about not doing anything real for them.

Debby Bright
Community Member
1 month ago

Yeah, we have a president who's golfing instead of taking care of business.

Birchy Cat
Community Member
1 month ago

Same in UK

CharliAnn Olney
Community Member
1 month ago

Finally, someone gets it! (A veteran - LOL!)

Karen Loftus
Community Member
1 month ago

“Best healthcare system in the world?” The undeveloped world has better healthcare. U.S. healthcare is a disgrace and based on profit, ergo, only the rich get the ‘best’. The covid [lack of] response from current government puts dedicated professionals like you at risk every day. What will we do without all of you? True, the pandemic doesn’t make you heroes - you were that all along - and I’m sorry if you were never told that pre-covid.

M Kate McCulloch
Community Member
1 month ago

You know what they say about good intentions - they pave the road to hell - yours and theirs.

Carmen Honacker
Community Member
1 month ago

Yes, and because we want you to keep thinking that you have the best health system and work in the best country ever.

Elizabeth Butler
Community Member
1 month ago

It is thank you BECAUSE it is the worst and most expensive health care in the developed world and all you service folks in the trenches are doing the best you can in personal danger in a bad situation.

JJM
Community Member
1 month ago

Isn't that the truth. It sounds hollow after a while.

Anna Repp
Community Member
1 month ago

Just drove past a sign today that said "Heroes work here $18/hour" This more than a cruel joke, if you ask me.

CatWoman312
Community Member
1 month ago

As I understand I thank you because I am thankful. Not because I feel guilty (I have nothing to feel guilty over regarding COVID), but I’m genuinely thankful we have so many bright, compassionate first responders. I applaud your courage and devotion to healing the sick.

Elaine Mattingly
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1 month ago

True.

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Michael J.
Community Member
1 month ago

it's different. They are called to slavery for a country that doesn't give a DAMN about them! That labels them terrorists when they return; that doesn't provide adequate medical care, and the list goes on. Corrupt politicians use war to THEIR own benefits, not Amerika's...

John Montgomery
Community Member
1 month ago

I hadn't heard vets had a problem with the phrase.

Samantha Lomb
Community Member
1 month ago

Talk to a Vietnam vet and many find it insulting after the crap they endured for decades. Plus it is totally a way to relieve guilt and not deal with the issue of sending kids to die for stupid causes. like "Thoughts and Prayers" on facebook

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Tiny Dynamine
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1 month ago

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Fine, if you don't want people to appreciate you now that they realise how valuable you are, then piss off!

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You sound like an ungrateful bitch.

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#23

Learning Experience: Tldr Drugs Suck

Learning Experience: Tldr Drugs Suck

As some of you will find out, I recently got out of a PTSD/Substance Abuse program at the VA for Veterans. I befriended someone who I thought was ready and willing to change like I was. I spoke it over with my then Fiancée and we both agreed we could open up our home and help a fellow veteran in need. We all agreed that come the 26th, he’s gone. No matter what.

We left for vacation 22 Sept and would return 26 sept. This gave him an opportunity to get everything he needs In order so he can move into Veteran Housing.

We come home married and find our house smelling like Bigfoot’s d**k, smeared in a prostitutes taint, in Afghanny 140 degree heat on the 26th. We get him ready to leave and he says all homeless homes are full. (I recently got off the phone with 2 homeless housing programs and I have his name on reserve). He packs 3 days worth of clothing. (Wife and I purchased 50$ worth of thrift store clothing for him as well as a bicycle for 10$) we drive him to the VA and drop him off.

We come back home and I start cleaning... empty meth bags, heroin resin and cocaine. We had put up a camera and we checked, he had multiple people over while we were gone and did copious amounts of drugs.

I accept what happens as a loss and my wife and I has tried to help out a fellow veteran.

Come this morning; wife left for work at 6am (firefighter) and my door knocks at 630. “Give me my [crap]” is yelled at me as I’m still trying to get the eye boogies out of my eyes and taste my morning coffee. It’s him. Demanding his stuff. I giggle and tell him to go away, that he burned this bridge and we won’t help him any more. I tell him I’ll grab his Hep C meds and other necessities, put them in a bag and he can go get f***ed. I give him the bag as I’m half naked on my front porch and he swings for me. (Every combat veterans dream has just come true in this exact moment, someone has come at them violently.) I drop my coffee and punch him as hard as I can in the face, he goes down. I call 911 and they arrive. I tell them the situation and they take him away. After a few questions they leave. I go inside and call my now wife and explain to her the situation. She wished I had not used violence but is thankful I protected our home. Now I have the rest of the day to process.

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Tee
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1 month ago

Not use violence? What if this man had a weapon? Anything could have happened! Thankfully your husband was not hurt!

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#24

Worst Employer Award Of The Year Goes To Mine. I Don’t Regret It. Love You Grandpa.

Worst Employer Award Of The Year Goes To Mine. I Don’t Regret It. Love You Grandpa.

My grandfather served in the Korean War in the Army. He was such a light in my life, finding it hard to move on. My best friend and my fishing buddy. Bye Grandpa.

The universe had something totally better planned for me. Higher paying job with peeps I know & a kick ass manager. I told my manager at the other job that it was their mistake letting me go, but it wasn’t. It was my mistake choosing a sleazy company to work for. Moral of the story, choose your employers wisely. Very wisely.

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B-b-bird
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1 month ago

Workplace that has no moral values is not a good place for you to be. You deserve better. All of us always deserve better than that. Always put your loved ones before anything else. There are thousands jobs to do but there will be no substitute for your loved one once he/she is gone.

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#25

Customer For Life.

Customer For Life.

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Valentina Lattante
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1 month ago

YES!

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#26

The Trouble Is, You Think You Have Time

The Trouble Is, You Think You Have Time

During the installation process I got a text saying that Kobe Bryant, his daughter had died in a helicopter crash. Needless to say, my Dad and I were both shocked and lost for words. Eventually we continued our work and finished the install. The water heater worked amazing. Afterwards, we got Jimmy John sandwiches and attempted to work on a crossword together. As the day wrapped up and my dad was about to leave he told me how happy he was that he was able to help me with a project like this and how much it meant to him. Now, I'm just crying, thinking about how important it is to always say I love you. You never know when it will be the last you'll see your father, or kiss your wife, or play with your little brother. I love you, Dad.

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Bardhi's Dad
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1 month ago

Beautiful and lifeworthy experience

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#27

Not Sure What To Feel Anymore

Not Sure What To Feel Anymore

Need to vent a bit. I have been a police officer for a little over 5 years now. Got promoted to Sergeant a year ago because I didn’t like how some of the supervisors were treating officers and I wanted to start making change from the inside. My agency has always been a gold standard in how to police. I stress being respectful to the people we come in contact with my mantra is that just because they did a bad thing does not make them a bad person. Whenever we have issues with officers the charging paperwork is immediately started and the proper consequences follow, including termination. Lately the media has made me unbelievably morose to be at work. It makes me not want to go out in public or see my family for fear they will bring up the bad cops they see on tv. My whole career I have never had a single complaint and have always been a good officer. But s***s getting tough out here. The public don’t care if I saved a child’s life. They see some bad cop from across the country and want me dead or think I’m a huge piece of s**t. I love this job and I love helping people, but I honestly feel like if I could find another job making this kind of money to support my family I would take it, and that makes me incredibly sad.

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Aaron W
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1 month ago

Visit any country with responsible gun laws, and you'll be amazed at how chilled the Police are. Totally different vibe, so nobody gets shot and almost nobody hates the cops like they do in USA.

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#28

Good Times

Good Times

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Fabrice
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1 month ago

From the movie Barry Lyndon : "It was in the reign of King George III that the aforesaid personages lived and quarrelled ; good or bad, handsome or ugly, rich or poor, they are all equal now"

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#29

To Be Honest...

To Be Honest...

I wouldn't describe myself as an introvert but I really appreciate being at home playing videogames or watching movies/TV shows all day and not having to leave the house for anything besides grocery shopping once a week, so these last few weeks have been great for me, I even got to work from home, a thing that would never have been possible before. Now I have become so comfortable with the whole 'social-distancing'/'self-quarantine' thing that I am afraid of the day when I'll have to go back to the office and restart my social life outside of my home.

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Ni Na
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1 month ago

Same.

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#30

Am I A Bad Person?

Am I A Bad Person?

With the latest trend of kids being sent to ask for baseballs caught by adults at games, I wouldn’t give it up. It’s always been a dream of mine to catch a game ball, and although I’m a grown man, my inner child wants nothing more then a game ball I caught to be on my mantle. People argue that it would fulfill a kids dream, but they didn’t earn anything so I think it sets a bad example. It’s today’s “participation trophy” for a kid just pressuring someone for something they didn’t actually earn.

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Zoe
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1 month ago

No, children can't have everything they want.

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#31

Well Crap

Well Crap

long story short is that I didn't want to meet her child until we have dated a bit so I know how I felt about her. I have had many step dads and "uncles" (who I knew were not family) so I stressed I wanted to wait on meeting her daughter.

Three months into this I really care for this woman, and thought it would be a good time to start with a meet and greet. I got toys, and cooked a big fancy meal and made sure I had plenty of activities planned so I knew it would be a fun day.

When they arrived, she just plopped her in front of my tv and ignored her the whole time except for dinner/bath time. No rules, no trying to include her in anything. I tried my best to bring the focus to her daughter and kept explaining this weekend was about meeting her, but she kept getting b**chy about me focusing my attention on her daughter who is content on just watching tv. Literally boxed up all the toys and stuff I set out and put them in her car saying she can play with them at home.

I want to give it another shot, but am on the fence, if I am not feeling the same after this I don't want to be another dude in/out of a childs life.

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Samantha Lomb
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1 month ago

Run. This woman seems like she would get jealous of any attention paid to the kid quick

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#32

Now I Have To Find A Solution For My Fries.....

Now I Have To Find A Solution For My Fries.....

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Googleman1234
Community Member
1 month ago

Thats brilliant

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#33

Anything To Not Think About My Own Life...

Anything To Not Think About My Own Life...

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Beeps
Community Member
1 month ago (edited)

Low tech version: I often do that when I see planes in the sky.

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#34

True Confession

True Confession

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JKE
Community Member
1 month ago

Explore. It's natural. Maybe you do it just because you enjoy it, or maybe it's a sign of gender dysphoria. Take it where you want. I finally did and came out as trans this year. I now have my first step to transition - a referral from my GP has lead to an appointment at a gender dysphoria clinic. I'm hoping to start on hormones and eventually have reassignment surgery. Good luck to you.

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#35

Fml

Fml

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V Martinez
Community Member
1 month ago

She wasted her own life by staying. She could have made the choice to leave.

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#36

Should Probably Be A Burner Account

Should Probably Be A Burner Account

I gave them her fb info which was public where she posted all her trips. I saw later she posted that they contacted her and cut her off. Was a petty thing to do but I was young and a prick

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Troux
Community Member
1 month ago (edited)

Thanks for doing this, don't care about your reasons why. She gives welfare a bad name, and there are people out there who really need it. Edit: To clarify, I meant social welfare as a wider concept including unemployment, social security, disabilities pay, etc. since I commonly see it attacked as being only for the lazy. Below peeps are correct that unemployment benefits are not the same as the Temporary Assistance program.

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#37

Bride Confession.

Bride Confession.

People keep asking me what I'm most looking forward to about my wedding, and I think they're expecting me to say "walking down the aisle" or "the first dance" or something romantic, but honestly the main thing I'm excited about is coming home from our honeymoon and life going back to normal.

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Bardhi's Dad
Community Member
1 month ago

That feeling is very understandable, I think. You are under stress and it's normal to wish all that to end as soon as possible

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#38

The Name Dies With Me

The Name Dies With Me

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Sofia Sternberg
Community Member
1 month ago

Move to Sweden. Paying taxes here is great bcs we all Benefit.

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#39

Military Confession

Military Confession

I appreciate that people are thankful for the men and women who serve, but when I'm at the store after work I really just want to get my things and leave. I can't be the only one who feels like this.

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troufaki13
Community Member
1 month ago

I have always thought it was weird that Americans thank their troops for fighting a war so far away from their country that they started in the first place :/

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#40

Number One Genie Wish. Plz

Number One Genie Wish. Plz

We had separated in the past for about two years. Everything seemed to be going well after we got back together.

Honestly I just want to not exist.

I am so heart broken for the second time in my marriage. God. I am a wreck right now

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B-b-bird
Community Member
1 month ago

Get a trusted psychologist to help put your mind straight and regain control over your emotions and personal life. You might see things more clear once you get to talk to professional. I'm talking as someone who has psychologists in the family, the work that they do is worth admiration.

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