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Society puts pressure on everyone: most are expected to be someone, do something and whatever else. But that does not mean that those expectations are valid, or if the pressure is really necessary. Who knows, perhaps we're forced to chase after goals that don't really reflect our true self, or even worse, we can lose our true selves whilst chasing them.

If that's the case, perhaps we need to do the opposite It's very important to continually deprogram ourselves from things that are not true, and in some cases even harmful. Therefore we need to find ways to heal ourselves from the harm that modern life may cause.

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Which is why it's great to have artists like Lainey Molnar, who help others to do exactly that. She has a mission to point out all of the wrong and right things of what it means to be a woman at this day and age, and illustrates these things in a very accurate and aesthetic way. In her comics, she explores the topic of femininity, double standards, societal pressures, expectations, and various other problems that modern independent women face every day.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. It's never about the clothes. You should be able to control yourself and your thoughts.

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And many people are grateful that she's raising awareness on the aforementioned issues. In fact, she's really popular both amongst her fans on Instagram, and you, our beloved Bored Panda readers. Her Instagram has a whopping 896k followers and the two posts (which you may find here and here) were viewed by millions on our page. Lainey an important voice.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok, where are the people who do this? Raise your hand. No one? And there you have it folks, another problem. No one wants to admit they said that

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What's great about these illustrations is that their tone isn't restricted to criticism and negative stuff. While she criticizes, which is an important and a difficult task in itself, she also promotes body positivity and mental wellbeing. She kindly reminds us not to follow norms which don't suit your natural needs, she reminds us that we're all beautiful and normal in our own special way. No size is wrong, no height is wrong, and no habit is disgusting. All of it is you, and you should accept that first and foremost. And if the other's can't accept that, we'll, sucks to be them.

Though the expectations and the pressure for women in our society may sometimes feel like they're crushing you, don't give up, girls. Just remember, diamonds are made under pressure. They're also a woman's best friend. This might be that extra bit of inspiration you may have wanted to hear to get out there and take over the world. Tread on, women!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly! So unfair! You capture the most unseen stuff in this world and put it out there! You are now my new favorite artist

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, we should be over this by now. Nothing sexual about feeding a baby so stop sexualize it. It's weird and disturbing.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's just odd isn't it? If someone is so offended by seeing a tiny bit of areola, they are welcome to look away. That would work wouldn't it? Baby gets fed, mam doesn't feel uncomfortable by being stared at. Person who's terrified of breasts doesn't have to see one. Perfect!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

IN England there is a programme called Naked Attraction where a woman goes on and chooses what man she wants to date by looking at his naked penis. The men, all 8 of them, stand behind a screen that only shields the top half of their naked bodies and the women pick and choose what they want. They also have no problem broadcasting other programmes about sex and nudity and show fully naked bodies from both genders. This is on the same channel that got into trouble when it showed a woman breastfeeding on another programme. So they can show 8 naked penises in full unobstructed view and naked men and women playing around while fully naked, but God forbid they show a woman breastfeeding her baby and using her breast for its primary function.🤔😕🙄😡

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Jose Carlo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Back home in the Philippines, as well as some other Asian nations, breastfeeding is NOT taboo in the way it is here in the West. What did I miss? Or what did Westerners miss?

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Zoe Krishel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You didn’t miss anything! Its a shame we here in the U.S. didnt get the memo

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, what's the big deal with nudity? Ok, so they're body parts that are used to create and nurture babies. So what?

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Zed Muk
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who says "boys will be boys" regarding the criminal act of public urination?

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thatmfkidinc
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Public urination is not accepted by men or women, its illegal in many places as well. This comparison is a little BS to me. I do agree it shouldn't be taboo to breastfeed in public however.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bruh they are letting boys p**s all over the place and not letting women feed their babies

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Charles Kessler
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A man can be put on the sex-offender registry for peeing outside like that.

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Stevie Stevenson
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly " boys " if you're an adult male or female for that matter and you still p**s in public, especially on buildings, you deserve to go to jail. Get you taught some manners. This is not even anywhere in the same realm as public breastfeeding. Nice try though.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uhhhh..public urination can land you on the sex offender registry for life...breastfeeding in public won't.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So pissing or jacking off in a public park but a woman casually breastfeeding her own child minding her own business is wrong?

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Carti Jovan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree it shouldn't be taboo. But I haven't met a single guy that does that.

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Riley Quinn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No one has a problem with boys being boys. We have a problem with men being boys.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least breast feeding women don't leave a wall, room, bush or whatever smelling of pee!

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I'm a girl, but why should I look at other people's naked boobs? It's disgusting. Then let's s**t in front of everyone

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never. My therapist said "your progress is not lost just because you had a bad moment". Better to let it out rather than let it eat you up from the inside. It's just a bump in the road, not the end.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly! I may not feel that I can care for children now, but hopefully one day!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't have big breasts but have long hair down to my butt. I definitely pick food out of my hair sometimes 🤣

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And yet, every time Madonna is featured on BP, she's roasted like a Christmas turkey.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my mom is a super human: she raised two kids ,had a full time job in phycology, was in charge of a building and had her own separate company yet still made time for us.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bro yes. I get really sweaty between and behind my thighs and oddly enough my inner elbow it’s uncomfortable so I always gotta cool down.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our differences are what make us beautiful. The world would be boring if we were all the same!!!!!!

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