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Time and again we have written about choosing beggars, the kind of people who feel like the whole world revolves around them. Not only do they act entitled, but they go into a full breakdown if someone refuses to fulfill their unfair expectations. To see what I mean, scroll through our previous posts with blood-boiling examples of choosing beggars here, here and here.

But luckily the world is built on karma, and if there’s darkness there must be light too. Just like this corner of Reddit titled “Choosing Givers” which is basically an antidote to the previously mentioned notorious subreddit. Choosing Givers is thoroughly dedicated to good-hearted, selfless people who make this world go round and remind us that whatever happens, we still gotta believe in humanity.

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The Opposite Of Choosing Beggars - My Wife Trying To Sell Her Car

The Opposite Of Choosing Beggars - My Wife Trying To Sell Her Car

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That was about 2 millioprahs of joy (1 full oprah of joy is the sum of joy from giving away 300 new cars).

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Pearl
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love you word. Using it now! My feelings for 2022 is equivalent to 3 millioprahs of excitement

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's lucky the buyer decided to to into detail about why they needed it! Once someone told me "Sorry, I can't hold it" I'd have just said I totally understand and left it at that.

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zoponex
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me, too! I would feel embarrassed to share. Not that there is any shame in being in need, but we are made to feel that way in the US.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The amazing thing is that the giver got more joy from this than did the receiver. That's the beauty of generosity.

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Dorothy Parker
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So incredibly kind. Both parties will be smiling about this for a long time.

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ZAPanda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here are some cool anecdotes. First case. Friend of mine (let's call him "A") wanted to buy his friend's car (let's call the friend "C"). C was offered $3000 by the dealer. A said to C, "no way that is too low!" A then paid C $4500 for the car. People with ethics do exist. Another friend of mine. Got a new iPad and iPhone. *Gave* me the older ones. He's done this about 3-4 times, whenever he gets an upgrade. I am amazed every time and always offer to buy them.

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Cecily Holland
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every year an anonymous guy pays off about 8k in laybuys at a local shop

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Janet Sturgess
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is a true heart that cares. What a wonderful blessing - carry it forward is the best thing the recipient could do.

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Vicky Zar
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would so love to do such a thing! I nearly cried reading this. So wonderfull

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zoponex
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Buy a coffee for the person behind you in line at the drive through. It won't change a life, but it can make a day.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So my partner and I are homeless right now- the past 2 years have been a steady series of unfortunate events that. We lost our home, partner lost his job, I became ill and had to leave my job and to top it all off we lost our car in car crash. We've set up a gofundme as we are just struggling so much and can't seem to catch a break. Some absolute angel of a woman donated to our gofundme and a month or so later she contacted us again to say she was getting a new car and she had decided to just give us her current car instead of selling it (it was valued at a couple grand.) Restored my faith in others, we thought this kind of thing only happened in movies and certainly not to people like us.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember a man that found an ad for a Rolls Royce listed for $50. He thought it was probably a typo and they forgot the "K" behind it. Still he answered the ad and the woman told him that no one else had called. He went to look at the car thinking it would be a pile of junk, but it was in pristine condition, low miles. The lady said it belonged to her husband, but that she didn't drive so there seemed no need to keep it. He told her she could get much more for it. She said "Probably, but my husband would want it to go to someone that really needed it."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone can do this in a small way. That is the beauty of it. I helped out a couple of times. People who didn't had enough money at the checkout. Just little amounts. Helping elderly carrying something. Whatever. This one is beautiful, a car for someone who really needs it. But you can also do it in small ways. ❤

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Channon Doughty
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Now that's just good people. Warms my heart and I hope it inspires others to such generosity as they can afford

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

.....and of course i didn't cry, i am a very tough person and very intimidating

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Joy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That gave me shivers. Wonderful lady 🤗 And that is how you change someone's world.

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deanna woods
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This kind of situation happened to my family. I got into a car accident that totalled one of our cars and we were down to one car. A few days after this happened, my aunt's friend just gave us a car that she didn't need anymore. We were so thankful to her.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We need to be like this all day everyday. We need to see that helping others is not a handout and there is nothing wrong with just doing stuff out of the kindness of our hearts, wanting nothing in return. That's literally the definition of generosity. Helping and caring about the welfare of others. Most of us are out here just trying to eat and exist. Busting our backs just maintaining ourselves is hard as it is. We just need better people like this so everyone can be okay.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This i really nice, the "so excited" at the thought of the car when she paying for it and then gets it for free, we see so many on here who would swear at her or something and this shows, be nice and humble sometimes and people will be the same right back.

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Lisa Suhay
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The idiom is wrong. The expression is “Beggars can’t be choosers.” Which would mean choosy beggars not choosing beggars.

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Magrata Cesnekova
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it is referring to many stories about "choosing beggars" that circulate around internet, from subreddit of that name.

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Lebisa Morales
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, I gave my car to a mom of four and it felt ridiculously good. Recommend.

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ChickyChicky
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I did this once. Gave away a $1500 minivan to a family with a third baby on the way. The van had some cosmetic issues but the engine and drivetrain were in great shape. Now you all know, but don't tell anyone okay?

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Vasana Phong
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve been in that exact same scenario, I hope he knows what’s he’s done for her is priceless

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The person giving the car is a woman. There’s nothing that suggests the person receiving the car is a woman.

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Alex Hamilakis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just wish things like this happen in real life everywhere. Also no need for screenshot or video. I am asking for too much, am i?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Serial killers are adapting. Nobody buys the "help me put this inside my van" anymore. %) Happy new year.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I guess I'll be the party pooper no. But I would NOT accept anything for "free" / gift from strangers because of the fact that Nothing is free. I learn that the very, very, Hard way and of course, have trust issues. But - if the person really got the car and the story ended there then; yey. But once again, trust no one but your pets is my motto, pitty.

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Cashier Pays For An Elderly Mans Groceries Who Doesn’t Even Realise

Cashier Pays For An Elderly Mans Groceries Who Doesn’t Even Realise

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aaw, doing this for the man and not even expecting or wanting a thank you. True compassion.

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This Guy Selling His Action Figures On Ebay

This Guy Selling His Action Figures On Ebay

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When you scroll through this list, you can’t help but wonder what exactly drives these selfless acts and behaviors. Are some people born altruists, or is it something they acquire throughout their lives? After all, humans have a notorious reputation for being selfish creatures who put their own needs ahead of everyone else's.

According to researchers, altruism involves helping others at a cost to the self, not only when such behavior is supported by strategic considerations like reciprocity or cooperation, but even in the absence of expectation for future benefit. In other words, people who choose to do something good for others don’t necessarily expect anything good back from them.

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My Best Friend Fully Supporting Me And My Artwork By Commissioning Me And And Refusing To Pay Less Than Full Price

My Best Friend Fully Supporting Me And My Artwork By Commissioning Me And And Refusing To Pay Less Than Full Price

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My Landlords Response To Me Not Being Able To Pay Rent On Time. We Need More People Like Him In Our Lives. He Is The Definition Of Being A Bro. I've Got Tears In My Eyes Rn

My Landlords Response To Me Not Being Able To Pay Rent On Time. We Need More People Like Him In Our Lives. He Is The Definition Of Being A Bro. I've Got Tears In My Eyes Rn

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why can't all people be like this amazing landlord? Sometimes i just wonder how on earth did we get people this kind, and they could be neighbours with absolute a**holes?

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Bought A Used Car From An Older Gentleman And Found This After I Got Home

Bought A Used Car From An Older Gentleman And Found This After I Got Home

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's all this stuff that keeps the world going. Unspoken kindness and respect just because you can

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This illuminating study suggested that each altruist act is a choice just like any other, with pros, cons, and even the occasional mistake. The authors of the study found that generous choices took more time to make than selfish ones, especially for those who made more selfish choices overall, consistent with their decision-making model. Interestingly, about half of the generous choices participants made appeared to be mistakes.

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Buying A Stranger Some Work Boots That He Couldn’t Afford So That He Can Keep His Job

Buying A Stranger Some Work Boots That He Couldn’t Afford So That He Can Keep His Job

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a lovely story, but is it typical in the US for companies to expect employees to pay for their own PPE? In the UK companies are legally obliged by health and safety regulations to provided any and all PPE.

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My Mother-In-Law Passed Unexpectedly Yesterday Morning. Her And My Wife Were Supposed To Go Get Haircuts Together Soon So My Wife Went To Get One Just To Get Out Of The House And When She Went To Pay They Told Her Someone Else Had Paid For It And Left This Note On The Back Of The Receipt

My Mother-In-Law Passed Unexpectedly Yesterday Morning. Her And My Wife Were Supposed To Go Get Haircuts Together Soon So My Wife Went To Get One Just To Get Out Of The House And When She Went To Pay They Told Her Someone Else Had Paid For It And Left This Note On The Back Of The Receipt

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A Text From Our Landlords This Morning

A Text From Our Landlords This Morning

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In reality, the strength of good-hearted people who don’t expect anything back has to do with their sense of compassion. And compassion starts with empathy — imagining putting ourselves in the mind of another person and imagining what they’re going through. Once we’ve empathized, and feel their suffering, the second half of compassion is wanting to end that suffering. This is when good-hearted actions may occur.

But most importantly, in order to make a compassionate move, a person has to get themselves out of the way and to think of the other person. On the other hand, it’s been suggested that compassionate behavior may be appealing for people because it reduces the feelings of guilt from their privilege and good fortune.

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My Friend Is A Manager At A Popular Fast Food Restaurant And Posted This On Fb Yesterday

My Friend Is A Manager At A Popular Fast Food Restaurant And Posted This On Fb Yesterday

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is great, but don't assume that people who don't do this don't care. I don't have $75 to spare like that, doesn't mean I don't appreciate what people do.

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An Absolute Win

An Absolute Win

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am having a hard time understanding here whether this person really is someone who thinks the item deserves more or genuinely does not know that 260 is more than 240!

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I Run A Small Roadside Stand In Nj Where Eggs Are Pay What You Can. A Bro Decided To Pay It Forward

I Run A Small Roadside Stand In Nj Where Eggs Are Pay What You Can. A Bro Decided To Pay It Forward

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m glad to see there’s still people using the honest system, I do remember as a kid driving by in NJ( the farm area) some stalls have people tending it, some just have a sign to pay and put $ here

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I'm A Cook In A Restaurant. Someone Came In And Gave These To The Hostess And Told Her To Give Them To Every Employee And Then Immediately Left. I Didn't Even Get To Thank The Person Because They Were Already Gone. Thank You So Much!

I'm A Cook In A Restaurant. Someone Came In And Gave These To The Hostess And Told Her To Give Them To Every Employee And Then Immediately Left. I Didn't Even Get To Thank The Person Because They Were Already Gone. Thank You So Much!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's crazy amazing!! Being a server has always been rough. Now it's bananas!! That's the stuff that helps me to at least keep pushing through yet another insane service lol

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Blue Was Selling One Of Her Favourite Watches To Pay For Her License And Red Offered To Pay The $200 So She Could Keep Her Watch And Get The License

Blue Was Selling One Of Her Favourite Watches To Pay For Her License And Red Offered To Pay The $200 So She Could Keep Her Watch And Get The License

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Paying Stranger’s Parking Meter So They Avoid Getting A Ticket

Paying Stranger’s Parking Meter So They Avoid Getting A Ticket

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's illegal in a lot of places to top up somebody else's meter. Imagine, kindness being illegal!

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When You Appreciate Someone's Work...

When You Appreciate Someone's Work...

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We’ve always been good tippers, if someone is doing a service for us, and the price is so low, we would feel guilty and give them much more, lately it’s been the mom and pop auto mechanics

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A Lady Was Seeking Advice On Euthanizing Her Suffering Pet And Cremation Bc She Can’t Afford It Right Now. A Local Stranger Is Meeting Her Tonight To Pay For The Whole Process

A Lady Was Seeking Advice On Euthanizing Her Suffering Pet And Cremation Bc She Can’t Afford It Right Now. A Local Stranger Is Meeting Her Tonight To Pay For The Whole Process

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Apparently I’m A Choosing Giver

Apparently I’m A Choosing Giver

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Perfectly Fits Here

Perfectly Fits Here

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this happens, compromise - ask the person what their favorite charity is and donate to that charity if the person won’t accept payment.

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One Of My Former Coworkers Absolutely Flooring Me With His Kindness. I’m 25, Have No Ged Or Driver’s License, And Live With Parents Who Aren’t Very Kind To Me. He Said He’d Probably Give Me The Car As Well

One Of My Former Coworkers Absolutely Flooring Me With His Kindness. I’m 25, Have No Ged Or Driver’s License, And Live With Parents Who Aren’t Very Kind To Me. He Said He’d Probably Give Me The Car As Well

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My old grandma used to say 'Giving of oneself is greater than giving money'. As a little girl, she grew up in poverty and used to get up before dawn to go check the street gutters for lost coins from the night before. I think what she meant was that you didn't have to be rich to help people less fortunate than yourself. No amount of money ever bought a second of time.

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My Wife And I Are Bartenders And Our Landlord Pays For A Guy To Come Out Once A Week And Mow The Property. He Left This On Our Doorstep Today. We All Need More People Like Blake

My Wife And I Are Bartenders And Our Landlord Pays For A Guy To Come Out Once A Week And Mow The Property. He Left This On Our Doorstep Today. We All Need More People Like Blake

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Not Trying To Flex, Simply Hoping It Inspires Some To Give If They Are Able

Not Trying To Flex, Simply Hoping It Inspires Some To Give If They Are Able

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wow that is amazingly generous. The most I've given as a tip I think was about $10, which translates here to about 3 days groceries for two.

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My Friend, The Polar Opposite Of A Choosing Beggar

My Friend, The Polar Opposite Of A Choosing Beggar

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The Opposite Of A Choosing Begger, Because We All Need A Little Positivity Now And Then

The Opposite Of A Choosing Begger, Because We All Need A Little Positivity Now And Then

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I Think I’ve Found The Opposite Of A Choosing Beggar...?

I Think I’ve Found The Opposite Of A Choosing Beggar...?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Understandable. If you have an excess wooden pallet without any intentions for a hipster-desingned balcony and no crobar / car to haul it away, that seems to be reasonable payment for someone to get rid of that.

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Don’t Think It’s Supposed To Work This Way...not A Choosing Beggar

Don’t Think It’s Supposed To Work This Way...not A Choosing Beggar

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If only there were ways to transfer money from one bank account to another......

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My In-Laws Being Bros. A Skunk Has Made Itself At Home In Our Crawlspace And It's Gonna Cost Us Over $4k To Get It Removed And Have The House Sealed. They Offered To Pay For It

My In-Laws Being Bros. A Skunk Has Made Itself At Home In Our Crawlspace And It's Gonna Cost Us Over $4k To Get It Removed And Have The House Sealed. They Offered To Pay For It

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol being a cheap and redneck farmer all I can think of is the time I spent in a crawlspace dressed in plastic bags and ski goggles to sedate and remove a skunk. You definitely go nose blind on the smell and even covered in plastic bags I still smelled like skunk for about a month afterwards. The skunk was fine and released about an hour away from my house (farm at the time). Still laugh at myself for this. I looked ridiculous.

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The Opposite Of A Choosing Beggar But Funny This TV Was On For Free

The Opposite Of A Choosing Beggar But Funny This TV Was On For Free

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A free Samsung TV that need fixing can become very costly. I once tried to get a Samsung TV repaired, but was told that if I spend € 50 more, I would walk out with a new one.

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