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Beggars can’t be choosers or at least they shouldn’t be. But we keep seeing that this isn’t the case—there are plenty of people out there who keep putting their needs ahead of everyone else’s and get featured in the incredibly popular Choosing Beggars subreddit.

This Reddit community has a whopping 1.9 million members and is dedicated to stories about people who are way too picky. Be sure to check out Bored Panda's previous posts about the Choosing Beggars community right here and here, and give their subreddit a visit for some more awesome content.

Meanwhile, scroll down and upvote your fave pics of people who really need to get a grip and let us know in the comments if you’ve ever had the “pleasure” of meeting folks like this in real life. Some people feel like they’re entitled to special treatment and they don’t even realize that they might be hurting someone else. There are psychological reasons for this, so let’s get into them.

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I Finally Caught One In The Wild

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Cb At Walmart Wants To Add Groceries.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, how ungrateful. If someone offered to pay for my groceries I would put the non essentials back (if I had any).

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Feeling special and entitled is entirely natural when you’re a child: kids think that they’re the center of the world and it’s what psychologists refer to as healthy narcissism. However, it’s only one stage of a person’s psychological and emotional development—they eventually need to grow out of it and learn to respect others and what they want, too.

According to psychotherapist and psychoanalyst F. Diane Barth, L.C.S.W, who has a private practice in New York City, sometimes a sense of entitlement can even emerge when people feel mistreated or they don’t think that they’re getting what they need.

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Kaisu
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also if you're poor, why on earth would you pay 800 dollars for your kids' Christmas present??

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“Often individuals who have been mistreated or disrespected exhibit a sense of entitlement when they start to feel that they deserve better than they have been getting. This is part of a healthy shift towards self-respect. Yet they, too, eventually need to find a way to balance self-respect with respect for others,” Barth writes on Psychology Today.

She points out that a small amount of entitlement is good for adults. Things like believing that we have the right to be respected by others and that we have the right to take care of ourselves and our loved-ones are positive things. But this doesn’t extend to situations where our actions or sense of entitlement benefit us at the cost of hurting those around us. Like cutting in line. Don’t cut in line. It’s a jerk move.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll make an educated guess that the name Leigha wasn't chosen randomly...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel bad for people who are named Karen. Remember it’s a meme, but for a very realistic depiction of behaviors in the Wild.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Judging by their taste in interior decor, they're stuck in the 80s as well as being an arsehole

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Aunt Messy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You beat me to it. I was going to say that anyone who funded that s****y taste deserves whatever they get.

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Troux
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how low "food" is on the list. Better make sure that sectional is real leather first, and THEN we can sort out getting a square meal.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That reminded of my first apartment (renting) as a fulltime college kid whose alimony was pretty minimal. I did a small "new home shower" party to see if I could get a few things like plates or a pan or two, as is customary for ppl to do where I lived. Only one person stopped by, gave me a plastic soap holder. I cried badly later. The next morning I met an old lady that takes care of homeless people and gave her all the food from the party, at least her thankfulness made me feel a little better

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Malakai
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean... Yeah, it's being a little freeloader-y, but at the same time at least they know what they do and don't want and don't want to end up with something someone else would appreciate more? They never said it had to be new or anything, just a certain aesthetic, so it's really not the worst on this list...?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who just bought an area rug and looked hard for a cool black and gold one (and ultimately settled on black and beige), area rugs are f*****g expensive. I can see if she wanted to buy the specific items second hand / on a steep discount, but to be asking for free s**t this way is utterly stupid.

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Id row
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How this person even walks around with their giant brass balls is amazing.

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RitaGG
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it wasn't for the reference to a flat screen TV I'd think this was a wedding registry from 1990. (Lived it!)

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3 years ago

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serge
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't get it? Another influencer? But then again after seeing one of the Kardashians ask for donations to reach her first billion, and getting donations DUH, why not go for this. There's one born every minute they say.

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Anja Schmidt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my advice: watch out your self for good stuff at fleamarket or shops for used articles. don´t bother stranger with your needs when you don´t offer something in return.

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Joe Yrisarri
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can you believe that a bride and groom when asked for what they want as a wedding gift, will ask for donations to help finance their honeymoon? Tch, tch.......

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Rã. R. Field
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

#and this is where one wishes they could put their arm through the phone and grab the ‘being’ ,and give them a good shake up.. As talking ain’t likely to ever work, sheesh what a gormless a*s!

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K. aka letmeplaywithkittens
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am torn because this post saves you time and not to bother because 1. Choosing beggars and 2. They’ll just feel burdened and throw out your generosity.

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Vanta Black
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They moved into an empty apartment, and have nothing to take with them? Unless they're moving in after being homeless, this makes no sense. If they were homeless, they could reach out to a charity to help get some of the necessary basics.

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Chris Jones
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As they say first apartment I assumed it was their first home away from the parents. When I left home I only had what I could buy myself as my family had very little.

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Barth’s colleague Steven Stosny claims that we’re currently living in the Age of Entitlement because our culture doesn’t support the development process that teaches us to balance our needs with the needs of others. And that’s one of the reasons that we have so many choosing beggars out there!

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How Dare You Spend All Your Hard Earned Money On Yourself

How Dare You Spend All Your Hard Earned Money On Yourself

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He should be greatfull that sommeone has a kind enough heart to give them some of his hard erned money.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What are those people who leave emojis and “kind” trivialities after a passive aggressive message called?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The conversation makes me think that other people have accepted this form of payment before. Which makes me sad.

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Vanta Black
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So basically, homie wanted to trade an over-sized paperweight for a motorcycle. $1800 is too generous for a prick like that.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When will people understand that exposure won't pay rent and bills and food

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean...if that person encouraged them to do it, maybe. But still - you're behind the wheel, you make the decisions, own up to them.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You probably got a special because your first books are new. I’m hoping that I’m understanding it correctly, that you’re publishing more because you’re more successful now. Guess what? I would choose a beautiful book cover over a bland one for the same story. How much of your success do you think is dependent on people who edit your work and help you with the artwork.

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