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30 Times People Saw Entitled People Behaving In Infuriating Ways And Just Had To Shame Them Online (New Pics)
Beggars can’t be choosers or at least they shouldn’t be. But we keep seeing that this isn’t the case—there are plenty of people out there who keep putting their needs ahead of everyone else’s and get featured in the incredibly popular Choosing Beggars subreddit.
This Reddit community has a whopping 1.9 million members and is dedicated to stories about people who are way too picky. Be sure to check out Bored Panda's previous posts about the Choosing Beggars community right here and here, and give their subreddit a visit for some more awesome content.
Meanwhile, scroll down and upvote your fave pics of people who really need to get a grip and let us know in the comments if you’ve ever had the “pleasure” of meeting folks like this in real life. Some people feel like they’re entitled to special treatment and they don’t even realize that they might be hurting someone else. There are psychological reasons for this, so let’s get into them.
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I Finally Caught One In The Wild
Its Exactly The Same Brian, Exactly The Same...
Cb At Walmart Wants To Add Groceries.
Wow, how ungrateful. If someone offered to pay for my groceries I would put the non essentials back (if I had any).
Feeling special and entitled is entirely natural when you’re a child: kids think that they’re the center of the world and it’s what psychologists refer to as healthy narcissism. However, it’s only one stage of a person’s psychological and emotional development—they eventually need to grow out of it and learn to respect others and what they want, too.
According to psychotherapist and psychoanalyst F. Diane Barth, L.C.S.W, who has a private practice in New York City, sometimes a sense of entitlement can even emerge when people feel mistreated or they don’t think that they’re getting what they need.
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I Was Giving Away A Free Dishwasher On Craigslist And Caught One In The Wild!
My Friend Got Shorted By A Pretty Major Influencer
“Often individuals who have been mistreated or disrespected exhibit a sense of entitlement when they start to feel that they deserve better than they have been getting. This is part of a healthy shift towards self-respect. Yet they, too, eventually need to find a way to balance self-respect with respect for others,” Barth writes on Psychology Today.
She points out that a small amount of entitlement is good for adults. Things like believing that we have the right to be respected by others and that we have the right to take care of ourselves and our loved-ones are positive things. But this doesn’t extend to situations where our actions or sense of entitlement benefit us at the cost of hurting those around us. Like cutting in line. Don’t cut in line. It’s a jerk move.
Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place.
Zero Karen Tolerance Policy In This Store
I feel bad for people who are named Karen. Remember it’s a meme, but for a very realistic depiction of behaviors in the Wild.
Red, Black, And Gold Only. Please And Thank You.
Judging by their taste in interior decor, they're stuck in the 80s as well as being an arsehole
Barth’s colleague Steven Stosny claims that we’re currently living in the Age of Entitlement because our culture doesn’t support the development process that teaches us to balance our needs with the needs of others. And that’s one of the reasons that we have so many choosing beggars out there!
Choosing Beggars Are Expecting More From Free Movie Showings
Classmate Slept Over And Borrowed My Powerbeats Pro...
Local Independent Movie Theater.
How Dare You Spend All Your Hard Earned Money On Yourself
This reminds me of my great grandmother, who was a housekeeper. A "friend" asked her for some money, but my grandmother had none to spare, so she offered her a couple of days on the job. The "friend" told her, "hell naw...I refuse to do that kind of work." Well, that ended the friendship.
How tf get people this selfish and entitled these days? Why is this the new norm? More and more difficult to get to know humble, down to earth people :(
Its not that they've increased in number, it's that modern tech allows stories of them to be shared to the world, thus increasing our awareness of them.
Load More Replies... If I was the friend, I’d be so excited to get a free guitar AND to know my bestie got an amazing expensive guitar. Why can’t people just be happy for their friends?
I always have a hard time believing people are really this entitled/stupid...
How about I keep my fancy new guitar and my old guitar and you learn to play the spoons. Do not look in the drawers for spoons!
Tell him to bring the guitar back and you will make things right. Keep it.
I had a girlfriend once- she always wanted me to buy her things, and I wouldn’t. Then one day I replaced my shoddy bed with a new 2K king bed. She had the gall to berate me for buying such a expensive bed when I should have bought her a outdoor heater for her patio!( we live in AZ- it’s always hot here) I told her to taker her freeloading a*s out the door- we were done!!
I’d take back the hand me down. If you’re not going to be grateful you don’t get anything
No you did nothing wrong. He probably doesnt have that many friends in the first place due to how he acts. Dont let your ¨Friends¨ Treat you like this no matter how much you like them.
Nta. That sucks. They dont know how to play, I would let them practice and keep my old one and when they get better I could buy them another on Christmas or birthday blah blah
Noooooo - your "friend" is. Lessons would stop - ASAP - I'd take the old one back. GRRRR
Your friend is selfish. You earned your guitar. Enjoy it guilt-free.
Take the one you gave him back and tell him to find someone else to teach him. Mount your first guitar on the wall and keep it as a reminder of where you started and as an aesthetic talking point with a fun back story and an added tale of entitlement and its cost
That’s a very unselfish so called friend you have there. Tell him to save up and get his own!
He's welcome to my used ukelele that my Grandparents brought back from a Hawaiian trip in the 1950s. - whadda you think? (It is missing one of the nylon strings, though).
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He should be greatfull that sommeone has a kind enough heart to give them some of his hard erned money.
International Flights Are Cheap, Right?
Choosing Beggars
Choosing Beggars Are Everywhere
If You Want A Discount, All You Have To Do Is Leave A Bad Review
What are those people who leave emojis and “kind” trivialities after a passive aggressive message called?
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A Brief But Insightful 4 Minute Conversation.
One Would Think That If You Lost Your Job, Buying A Motorcycle Wouldn’t Be A Priority.
So basically, homie wanted to trade an over-sized paperweight for a motorcycle. $1800 is too generous for a prick like that.
Look At This
But Expausure!
Awesome Friend Is Awesome
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Selling A Camera For $600. The Guy Says He Can Only Pay In Cash And Turns Up With $370 And Expects It’ll Be Fine. I Didn’t Even Get Out Of My Car. Just Drove Away.
My Friend Selling A Vivarium
Facebook Friend On What/What Not To Buy Her For Birthday
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You probably got a special because your first books are new. I’m hoping that I’m understanding it correctly, that you’re publishing more because you’re more successful now. Guess what? I would choose a beautiful book cover over a bland one for the same story. How much of your success do you think is dependent on people who edit your work and help you with the artwork.
I Guess Cb’s Are Everywhere Even At The Veterinarian.
This Poor Lady Has Tried For Two Weeks To Give Away This Beautiful Brand New Wedding Dress She’s Had Enough Now Lol
They Have Never Struggled.
Advanced Choosing Beggar
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Important extra info: She added a lot of random people before this post, and many accepted (probably thinking they knew her, or for some game or whatever), but they really don't know her. And now she's making it out to be like she helped them and they added her.
“If I Accept Your Offer”
Remember to shove a broom up your a**e before showing up, you don't want to miss out on the great honor that is cleaning my porch as you walk on it upon delivery
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Nudes Don’t Pay My Bills, Bro
You Should’ve Donated More!
"Hey Taiwan! Why aren't you as rich as China? What? What do you mean "It's because of China."? Stop making excuses, and give us more free masks!"
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This is why the curve won’t flatten and hospital staff are overworked!
Sounds Like Their Friend Didn’t Want To Give Them Their Netflix Password...
Free Food For Needy Families! No, Not That Food!
Go eat foraged mushrooms or organic dung somewhere else.
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What Can I Say?
And the father, said it was his own fault– he should have bought him a Jaguar in the first place... smh
Ye Olde "But I Can Find Them For X" Trick
Reminds me of a joke. A man shopping in a fruit store says to the owner, "Your apples are $2 a pound, but at the fruit store across the street, they're only $1.50 per pound." The owner tells the man he should buy them across the street. The man says, "They're sold out across the street." The owner replies, "Oh, well, when mine are sold out, they're only $1 per pound."
There's Always Someone Charging Less
I Don’t Want Cakes I Want Sandwiches!!
"Of course! Forget the scones, I'll just cook you an entire free meal, instead! Tell me what you want before you get here, and I'll have it ready for when you arrive! Don't worry about my family. They can go hungry tonight. You're on a long walk, after all."
During This Pandemic People’s True Colors Really Shine
1. This person is probably going through something. Quarantine madness and the fear are real. 2. Healthcare workers need all the help they can get during this time 3. Yes, essential workers should get some benefits and appreciation too.
These People Demanding Free Sevice During Lockdown
Hey Netflix! Stop trying to make money in order to stay afloat and pay your employees! People are sick and dying, and I need to watch Rick and Morty for free!
10% Is Not A Discount
Op Is Upset Because Sister Didn't Receive A Free Drink For Forgetting Her Wallet 😔✊
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This one is understandable. They’ve been sidelined and exposed and paid a lot less than healthcare workers. Don’t give me less skills = less expertise = minimum wage c**p. But give them something. This post sounds sarcastic; I’m just saying they need more than a clap.
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Been working for longer than that and i'm still expected to build stuff in order to get my money 🤔
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I Knew The Wendy's Promotion Was Going To Bring Out Some Cbs
You RISK travelling to Wendy's for free nuggets? You're insane, no matter if it's 4 per car or 4 per person.
I Tried To Teach My Daughter Better Than This...
When I was a kid, the myth wasn't about an exchange. We were told the tooth was magically transformed into the money. Tell your kid that.
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This post just made me so depressed and frustrated. I just don't understand where this entitlement comes from. I grew up fairly well off and I knew at an early age to NEVER behave like that
If ya don't like their generous offer, don't take it. Simple as that
I have been struggling with low self-confidence all my life and have several friends with the same issues. Sometimes it's really heartbreaking to see it. Which makes it even more frustrating to read about all these people.
Unfortunately there seems to be some sort of inverse correlation curve between Confidence Amount VS Actual reasons to display any, similar to the Dunning-Kruger effect's one
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Omgoodness, entitled people like these drive me up the wall.. I deal with people like this all the time in my line of work. ME ME ME.. that's what society has become. Young or old or in between, they're everywhere and it's disgusting and outright mind boggling.
There are so many choosing beggars in the world and it is sad. No one is obligated to anyone else anything for free and if someone does give away things for free it is out of the goodness of their heart. People don't have the right to complain that the free item is not what they wanted or to ask for something different. If you don't want the item, don't take it. It's that simple. People have to stop behaving like they are entitled to superior treatment. I have always heard this quote: It doesn't matter how important you think you are, everyone's grave is the same size. It's time that the people on this world stopped acting entitled.
I sell on ebay. I have wording in my listings that states price is fim, 'if you don't like my price, shop elsewhere.' I get lowball offers every day. Every. Day. It is exhausting. And often I get a sob story....it is for my dying mother, my wife has cancer, my dead father bought me one just like this.
Sometimes it’s the opposite. People will offer to do something for me for free and I’ll offer to do something for them or pay a bit.
Instead of being happy with getting something for free or for a great price, some people just have to whine. Others just have to lowball others or mooch, with either promises of "exposure" (which is 100% pure male bovine feces) or sob stories (no job, sick grandma, etc.) I have no respect for people who pull tricks like that because they are cheating.
just publish some of "influencer" and "famous" person without censored.. it would be nice to see how internet will ruined their fabolousness..
Dear LORD some of these people were dropped PRETTY DAMN HARD as babies lmao
I saw quite a few things online and luckily what’s the time I get my asking price or not too much below i’m not lower than what I would take because sometimes I post things kind of high at first to gauge what I could get.
I wanted to read more or all of the posts, but I can't stand these kind of people. Ugh! In our country, we call people like this as cancer of the community.
I have always tried to be generous to those in need, but we've all got a sob story. I won't be played or manipulated. I will do my best to be a good person and help someone to the best of my ability, but I refuse to put myself or my family in jeopardy (financial or otherwise). Sometimes you just have to say no.
I only have one thing to say...what the HELL is wrong with people???!
This post just made me so depressed and frustrated. I just don't understand where this entitlement comes from. I grew up fairly well off and I knew at an early age to NEVER behave like that
If ya don't like their generous offer, don't take it. Simple as that
I have been struggling with low self-confidence all my life and have several friends with the same issues. Sometimes it's really heartbreaking to see it. Which makes it even more frustrating to read about all these people.
Unfortunately there seems to be some sort of inverse correlation curve between Confidence Amount VS Actual reasons to display any, similar to the Dunning-Kruger effect's one
Load More Replies... Omgoodness, entitled people like these drive me up the wall.. I deal with people like this all the time in my line of work. ME ME ME.. that's what society has become. Young or old or in between, they're everywhere and it's disgusting and outright mind boggling.
There are so many choosing beggars in the world and it is sad. No one is obligated to anyone else anything for free and if someone does give away things for free it is out of the goodness of their heart. People don't have the right to complain that the free item is not what they wanted or to ask for something different. If you don't want the item, don't take it. It's that simple. People have to stop behaving like they are entitled to superior treatment. I have always heard this quote: It doesn't matter how important you think you are, everyone's grave is the same size. It's time that the people on this world stopped acting entitled.
I sell on ebay. I have wording in my listings that states price is fim, 'if you don't like my price, shop elsewhere.' I get lowball offers every day. Every. Day. It is exhausting. And often I get a sob story....it is for my dying mother, my wife has cancer, my dead father bought me one just like this.
Sometimes it’s the opposite. People will offer to do something for me for free and I’ll offer to do something for them or pay a bit.
Instead of being happy with getting something for free or for a great price, some people just have to whine. Others just have to lowball others or mooch, with either promises of "exposure" (which is 100% pure male bovine feces) or sob stories (no job, sick grandma, etc.) I have no respect for people who pull tricks like that because they are cheating.
just publish some of "influencer" and "famous" person without censored.. it would be nice to see how internet will ruined their fabolousness..
Dear LORD some of these people were dropped PRETTY DAMN HARD as babies lmao
I saw quite a few things online and luckily what’s the time I get my asking price or not too much below i’m not lower than what I would take because sometimes I post things kind of high at first to gauge what I could get.
I wanted to read more or all of the posts, but I can't stand these kind of people. Ugh! In our country, we call people like this as cancer of the community.
I have always tried to be generous to those in need, but we've all got a sob story. I won't be played or manipulated. I will do my best to be a good person and help someone to the best of my ability, but I refuse to put myself or my family in jeopardy (financial or otherwise). Sometimes you just have to say no.
I only have one thing to say...what the HELL is wrong with people???!
