Let's face it, some characters are crafted so horribly, it's impossible not to laugh at their ridiculous lines and actions. Storytellers mess up too and when they do, we get imaginary people who are just that — not real. Even worse, their unconvincing behavior can break the suspension of disbelief and ruin an otherwise totally sound book, TV show, or movie.
Luckily, that's not always the case and every once in a while, we relate to make-believe folks so much, we can even learn from them and grow as human beings. In fact, we can develop such a strong bond with them that their joys and sorrows start affecting us on a personal level. So we at Bored Panda decided to explore these beautiful connections.
Researching the topic, we came across a couple of Reddit threads (one and two) that we think you'd be interested to go through as well. They both essentially ask the same question: which characters' passing away have scarred you the most? And people's answers along with their explanations provide an interesting insight into our relationship with fiction.
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John Coffey from The Green Mile. I’m a grown man, and his death makes me ugly-cry every damn time. Too much time thinking about it makes me tear up
Ellie from Up. Up's intro sequence was so beautiful: It told the story of a couple's life together. Real life with all of the difficulty and broken dreams along with it. And it shows the deep and incredible loss Carl felt with her death. This short sequence imbues the film with a deeper sense of meaning, using almost no words at all, and gives Carl a profound gravitas you cannot find in many other films
Sam(the dog) in, I am legend. Because he was Will smiths friend and he had to put her down.
Fred Weasley from Harry Potter. The twins may have annoyed some people with their pranks, but their ultimate goal in life was to have fun and bring joy to their friends. They were generous and brave and clever and pure. To kill Fred and permanently tear them apart was the WORST! Especially when George had already been injured! You didn’t think they could be at risk anymore now that one of them had gotten hurt. They weren’t on my radar during the Battle of Hogwarts. I remember the moment I read it the first time. I was inconsolable
Rue from The Hunger Games. Rue getting speared and having Katniss sing to her. The 12-year-old me couldn’t handle that trauma
Seymour the dog from Futurama. I normally skip 'Jurassic Bark' as I know I can't handle it. But upon a recent rewatch from beginning to end, I decided to put on a brave face, knew what I was getting into, braced myself, and watched it along with all the other episodes. I had to stop watching because I couldn't see the TV through my tears.
Dobby. I've read the books before and knew he would die but when i saw him dying in the movie.... it just broke my heart. so i cried my eyes out in the cinema (i was ten)
Bobby Singer....
Brooks from Shawshank Redemption. It was so sad seeing that old man just trying to be normal but realizing his normal was within the cell walls and prison halls. It really bothered me when he was working at the grocery store, and everyone was b*tching at him while he was bagging people’s groceries. It truly goes to show that society will f*ck you if you don’t keep up. RIP.
Little Foot's mom in The Land Before Time.
When I first saw it as a kid it was the first time that I realized that my parents could die. That thought had never even really occured to me at that point.
Even now as an adult that scene where he thinks he sees her but it's just his shadow and the narrator says, "Then Little Foot knew for certain he was alone." still gets to me.
That girl from the bridge to terabithia. That hit me so hard as an 8 year old
Henry Blake from MASH
In Cher's variety show in 1975 he showed up on a life raft, waving and shouting "I'm fine!" lol. Legend also has it that they didn't tell the cast about it and when they hear the message the upset silence and dropping of instruments we hear was a genuine reaction.
Thomas J from My Girl. When Vada is crying at his funeral, screaming about his glasses... that hits different. Gets me every time.
Yondu. sh*t was sad asf and i actually cried a lil in the theater
Hedwig. Idk, hedwig was there from the start. Ken Miles in Ford v. Ferrari. He never got his full recognition. Although, the nod from Enzo was huge.
Yes! It was awful. Though jkr said it was a metaphor for Harry's childhood being over. Still, why?!
Tadashi Hamada in big hero 6
Ok. Ok. Yeah I cant even watch big hero 6 without bawling my eyes out.
Shireen Baratheon from Game of Thrones. It will all be over soon, Princess' and the music. F*ck, it makes me want to barf. The series is full of scenes that are truly painful to watch, but the burning of Shireen is the worst.
Boromir from The Lord of the Rings. First time I ever cried during a movie.
Prim from The Hunger Games. Unlike most character deaths, hers wasn't in the midst of the action/excitement. It was after they'd won. It felt so spiteful and unnecessary. Fu*ck Coin
We thought it was over, that she had made it out alive and then BOOM!! 😭
Loki in Infinity War. Not because of some great affinity for the character but because I was absolutely certain that he was the ONE person who was safe from being offed. Of course, he not only died but he died FIRST.
Yeah but as we all predicted, Loki didnt die. He can't just lay down and die for some reason.
Rosie from Jojo Rabbit. It took me a while to realize why Jojo was crying about the hanging victim he'd bumped into...and then it f*cking hit me. That one was absolutely brutal.
Cedric Diggory from Harry Potter. This one gets me more now than when I first saw it. Then, as probably a lot of people do on their first read/watch, I looked at it from the perspective of Harry. His friend died needlessly, and it hurt.
Now, older and a father, I can’t help but look at it from Cedric’s dad’s perspective: proud and supportive of the man his son is growing into. And it’s all taken away in that horrid moment that they Apparate back
Lady Sybil from Downton Abbey. That was absolutely traumatizing.
George O’Malley from Grey's Anatomy. I gotta mentally prepare myself to rewatch that episode
It was a time before major character deaths were common. They set everything up so well that we were so focused on the idea that Izzy might die that the thought of another main cast member dying was inconceivable. Now it's a game: "oh who do you think they'll kill off next?".
Rob stark. The whole episode was a mind f*ck and I’m sure all GofT fans will agree it’s by far one of the best episodes if not the best.
I read the books before the show came out and that scene was so traumatic. It was 2AM, and I'd been reading non-stop since the early morning, when I got to the Red Wedding. I felt so numb and I just put the book down. it took me a while to go to sleep.
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I stopped watching after Vincent. Such a good character was thrown away for shock value, like Zack was. The show was already starting to go downhill and that was the final nail in the coffin for me. I'm so glad I didn't stick around to see Sweets die too.
Load More Replies...We watched Hachiko in our ELA class in 6th grade and there was not a SINGLE person in the class who was not crying at the end
Omgg I was already crying before he died. Watching him waiting at the station every single day, in the snow and rain - just broke my heart. I can’t even write any more about it right now. 😢
Load More Replies...I stopped watching after Vincent. Such a good character was thrown away for shock value, like Zack was. The show was already starting to go downhill and that was the final nail in the coffin for me. I'm so glad I didn't stick around to see Sweets die too.
Load More Replies...We watched Hachiko in our ELA class in 6th grade and there was not a SINGLE person in the class who was not crying at the end
Omgg I was already crying before he died. Watching him waiting at the station every single day, in the snow and rain - just broke my heart. I can’t even write any more about it right now. 😢
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