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“I Wasn’t Expecting You To Get Cancer And Lose Your Hair:” Delusional Bridezilla Loses A Bridesmaid And A Friend
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“I Wasn’t Expecting You To Get Cancer And Lose Your Hair:” Delusional Bridezilla Loses A Bridesmaid And A Friend

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Nothing can turn a beautiful day into a complete freak show quite like a bridezilla. Whether it’s being the center of attention or getting second thoughts about the future, some people lose all touch with reality when their big day gets really close.

Recently, one bride-to-be caused outrage online. You see, after her bridesmaid got cancer, the woman began worrying about the ways it will affect the aesthetic of the wedding and its photos.

The bridesmaid confronted the ‘douchebaggette’ via texts and told her she won’t be attending the wedding. She also used the opportunity to tell the delusional lady what she thinks about her after she showed her true colors.

After screenshots of their conversation went viral on Imgur, people began congratulating the ex-bridesmaid on handling the situation like a savage pro and wishing her luck with the treatment. Let’s second that, shall we?

When this bridezilla asked her bridesmaids for advice on how to get rid

This bridezilla was worried her bridesmaid with cancer would ruin the aesthetic of the wedding, so she asked for advice on how to deal with it

However, word eventually reached the woman in question, so she decided to tell the delusional lady what she thinks of her true colors

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The person who shared the screenshots clarified that they wasn’t involved in the conflict themselves. “The bridesmaid called out the bride for her hateful behavior by posting their conversation on Facebook,” the wrote. “I thought I was pretty desensitized to terrible people doing and saying terrible people things but this shocked me a little so I took screenshots of the post and uploaded them here.”

“As far as it being fake, I can say with absolute certainty that the bridesmaid does have cancer but since they’re not my texts, I have no way of proving whether the conversation occurred or not. From what I saw, the post seemed legit but that’s just me. I felt like she was being genuine but you never know with this kind of thing online. So I readily admit that the convo being fake certainly is a possibility.”

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Becca Gizmo the Squirrel
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the idea of all the bridesmaids getting a buzzcut the day before the wedding.

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Pumbaa
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd totally do that as a guest just to show support and p**s off the bridezilla..

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D H
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm at the point of reading these 'bridezilla' stories and think people make them up....... but, then again, people are people and some are just, well, bad people

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MagicalUnicorn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

walking barefoot on sea of legos is kinda too kind for such a a*****e

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KaPOW
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to enjoy mocking these people but frankly, this seems so evil that I dont think it is true. I really hope this isnt true

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DamnBecky
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It 100% doesn't surprise me if it is true. I worked at a bridal salon through college and it was completely normal to get a bride like this once a week. The way they treated their "friends" was horrifying. I had one bride who had every girl come in and get fitted, and then was going to buy all the dresses herself. Sounds great, right? The bride went through the sheet and marked EVERY DRESS one size smaller for the order. We made her sign a contract understanding that she could not exchange the dresses when the bridesmaid didn't fit in them and would have to order a whole new dress if needed. She just smiled and went "Oh if they don't fit, they're not in the wedding." WTF, she was even marking down girls who were already tiny. Size 4 became Size 2. It wasnt just the "big" girls. (Its worth nothing nothing was over a SZ8 anyway bc this was the kind of girl not to have "fat" friends)

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Leo Domitrix
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the groom has one iota of sense, he'll cancel the wedding, and leave no forwarding address.

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Shawn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefully she arrives at her wedding to find that no one came and even her husband to be didn't show.

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Hans
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Help lol" is all to know to decide not to attend the wedding. And not read any further.

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Carney
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many years ago, as my BFF prepared for her wedding, another very good friend was diagnosed with cancer. The second friend was asked to a bridesmaid before the cancer diagnosis. Guess what my friend did? She asked the rest of us to spend our time and energy taking care of friend with cancer! She changed her own plans of a pre-wedding all-girls trip because the sick friend would be too ill to travel. She then suggested the rest of us forget her wedding gifts and put the money into an account to benefit the ill friend and her family. As soon as the wedding was complete, she and her new husband left the venue to visit our mutual friend at the hospital and to take her some goodies. The reception started late because of this side-trip - no one cared. THIS is how a good person responds. Actually, this is how a HUMAN responds. I wish I could share this with the bride and her soon-to-be-sorry husband to be.

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Carol Emory
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Perhaps a better way for this bridezilla to handle this was not to megaphone it to everyone else and, instead, sit down with the bridesmaid in question in private and politely come up with a solution. As in "Hey, I know the chemo is making your hair fall out and I worry about other people making you uncomfortable at the wedding by staring at you..because you know how insensitive people can be. So what I propose is this. Let's go shopping for a wig for you, my treat, and we'll make a day of it..if you are up to it." Most likely, the friend would appreciate the effort, especially if given the option to accept or decline. If she declines, then the next question would be "This whole event is going to be physically exhausting. I want to make sure you think you're up for it. I don't want you getting more sick on my account. I will understand if you want to back out." If your friend says they are up for it, then live with it. I think people would respect the bride more for doing so.

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JeannevB
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think bridezillas like this are as considerate as you suggest here. She says very clearly: the day should be about her and not about her bridesmaid.

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Lauren Markland
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have an autoimmune disease (not anything as devistating as cancer) and I was the bridesmaid to my lovely friend a few years ago. I checked out of hospital for the day to go, I was COMPLETELY yellow from jaundice, I couldn't wear heels, my hair was half grey, I barely made it down the isle and a groomsmen had to basically hold me up for the bridal party dance and yet she was so incredibly happy to see me there and it was one of the best days of my life, we laughed, we cried and she married her best friend. That's what was important. I guess this comment is just saying that a true friend will just be happy to have you there for the best day of their life.

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Stille20
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't believe someone would do someone would do something like that had I not had someone do something like that. To be honest, the person had, in the past, demonstrated that she was very self involved, but it still shocked me how far a person can stick their head up their own a*s.

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John L
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I choose to think of these moments in a positive light. Now you know who your real friends are.

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Martha Meyer
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I seriously hope this is fake! If it is though, the person who made this up desperateley needs therapy.

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this, alas, isn't even close to the extreme end of nasty bridal behaviour.

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Aurelia Grey
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder what this paragon of humanity and joy would do if her groom became paralyzed and had to use a wheel chair for the wedding? Oh! Wait! There wouldn't be one, would there?

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Steve Cruz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

None of the bridesmaids should have attended -- OR THE GROOM!

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L McN
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1) Good call on whoever told her. 2) Backing out is EXACTLY the right response. 3) The rest should either shave their heads the morning of the wedding, or just not show up even after attending rehearsal. 4) All future contact with said bride should be cut off, with no further explanation. Lastly, I am sorry about people like this and you will rock the world when you beat cancer. People like this need to be left alone. Very, very alone. In a dark corner.

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Batty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She can rock the world WITH cancer, even before she beats it! A good friend of mine is battling glioblastoma multiforme & is still a total badass. Her head is really patchy from brain surgery & chemotherapy, but it's not stopping her from making the most of everything.

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Parmeisan
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People need to stop having a picture-perfect vision of their wedding day. It brings the focus off of actually having a good & loving partner (which you REALLY should be sure of in advance) and onto this kind of BS. But it's not even just this type of person. If you don't have this perfect vision of the day then you won't be upset when your mother-in-law shows up a bit late, or the bouquet falls apart, or somebody has to run home for the ring. The chances of an entire day with NOTHING that goes wrong are incredibly slim, so you'll be better off if you can expect that from the start. Also: just because it's "your special day" doesn't mean other people don't have problems and absolutely doesn't exempt you from treating them like human beings.

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KB
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My DIL invited the woman who had just broke up my marriage and told me it was her wedding and she could invite who she wanted. I didn't go to my own son's wedding and ruined her photos. She was also asked a ton of questions about where I was. My son understood and tried to intervene but bridezilla wasn't sane.

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Lucas
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's crappy. Why your ex felt it was reasonable to even take this woman I don't understand. If it's a recently started relationship then she's hardly part of the family so that's not a good reason and people don't have to come with their new partners when it's their own family's wedding - they'll not be on their own in that scenario. People get very precious about including new partners - well, sorry but no. Be sensitive and show some maturity. If this woman had been around a while then maybe, everyone has to accept and move on, that's a bit different. I also don't understand why your ex or your DIL didn't care about your son's wishes either - it is his wedding as well. Some people are so very selfish - so full of only what they want.

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Bepina
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please, Bored Panda, I know you need more visits like every other site, but these posts are boring, ridiculous and frankly below your level. I started following your site because of the interesting stories about people, animals and world you were posting, not for this garbage - this is gossip magazine level, picking some individual who made some questionable decision so we can all trash them for how stupid and careless they are. I'm not defeding those people but you should not give them attention and publish their s****y behaviour here - It is still a promotion of their lame conduct, whether you try to scorn them or not, when you do so.

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Dilly Millandry
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people must enjoy them or be attracted to reading them for some reason otherwise Bored Panda wouldn't do it. BP has millions of people clicking on stories but not signed up as Pandas - clicks per page are important when it comes to production of stats to attract advertisers. So they're not going to stop posts of one type or another if they are attracting page clicks. I think we'd all have to react with utter horror and even then I'm not sure. The most successful way to stop posts like this would be to never click on them in the first place and, well, it's a bit too late when we're here commenting.

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Michele Clarke
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHAT A C**T!! IF I WERE ANY OF THOSE OTHER BRIDESMAIDS I WOULD NOT BE IN HER WEDDING EITHER!

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Trash Panda
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if the guy this a*****e is marrying is truly aware of who he is tying the knot with. Unless he's just as douchebaggy as his bride to be, he's in for a lot of heartache and headaches with this one.

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Bee Diaz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Bridezilla is certainly no friend. There was absolutely no concern for the person with cancer, her only concern was her wedding. Does she not realize that tomorrow she could have cancer? I am so sorry for the idiot who is marrying this cold, selfish, unfeeling iceberg.

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Beeps
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aside from the fact that is was completely unreasonable to ask her to wear a wig, here is the problem with wigs for people who have lost all of their hair: I regularly wear wigs, just for fun and as a fashion statement, so have quite a few at home. When a friend of mine got cancer, she asked if she could try on and borrow one of my wigs. (She still had hair when she first tried it on.) She borrowed the wig as planned, but then found that she couldn’t actually wear it that much and not for very long at a time either, because she actually found it quite painful now that she didn’t have any hair and was in quite a bit of discomfort generally from feeling so unwell during chemo. The same was true for hats and bandanas; while she was still having treatment she couldn’t really stand much touching her head.

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cybermerlin2000
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom died of cancer and my family and I were with her until the end. If it was me and my fiancée's wedding I would be more concerned about her health than the aesthetics. I would ask if she would be up to being a bridesmaid and what I could do to make it easier for her. I hope she recovers and, if she is not married yet, that she has the best wedding ever that out shines her so called friends in every way. To anyone out there with cancer know that I am routing for you to beat it and that your recovery is speedy and full of support. Love to you all X

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bill marsano
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could only wish that some of the other bridesmaids had backed her up.

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Steve Cruz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope someone warned THE GROOM so he could skip the wedding, too.

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KT Trondsen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That must have been so heart breaking for that poor bridesmaid. What on earth is wrong with that bride? No idea anyone could be so damn vapid

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TeeMarieTisMe
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will never understand bridezillas like this. This is just a sh*tty human being to be honest. If one of my close friends had cancer and was supposed to be in my wedding, given that they felt well enough to still participate I would be so grateful to have them (some hair, no hair, I don't care!) however they came. What is wrong with people?

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Mooncut
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG I can't believe how some people have no consideration for what other people may be going through! Wow I am really disappointed in humanity

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nvee
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an awful ... stupid woman ... I feel for the man she is marrying !

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Angie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the other bridesmaids should just wear bald caps to the wedding

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Phoebe Bean
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to believe with all my heart this conversation is fake, but no. I really believe there are bridezillas out there behaving like total "douchebaggettes"

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this isn't even close to the extreme end of crappy bridal selfishness.

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Betty Wilma
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went through chemo... losing my hair was beyond traumatic.. what a nasty witch

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Sheanna Caban
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't believe for 2 seconds that this actually happened. Sorry, pal.

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Aneese
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guaranteed it happened. More than once. I have been an ex-bridesmaid for a bride just like this ... except the person only broke their arm. You would have thought the person did it on purpose the way the bride went on and on and acted like she was soooo wounded. I quit at that point and told my broken armed pal I was Team Cast. Happened also to my cousin who quit her position also due to bridezilla pitching a fit over new streaks in bridesmaid's hair going to take the limelight off of her day. Puhleeeese.

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weatherwitch
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pretty sure that's not fake because and I quote "soggy pop tart"!! I have alopecia myself and I think the bride is an absolutely horrible woman who needs a wake up call as well as educating. How Horrendous for the (former) bridesmaid 😞

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Debbie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Douchebaguette!!! I hope the bride includes the "honour" of being part of spreading a new expression worldwide to her wedding success.

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Colin Leetham
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you are only choosing bridesmaids for their aesthetic and not their friendship, then you are not a person who understands love and commitment (let alone compassion). No amount of photoshopping can get out that degree of ugly in a person.

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Vicky Zar
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As something like this seams to be fairly common in US brides, I am starting to think it must have something to do with the upbringing of girls there. This talk about their "big day" and the pressure about it..... Neither of the weddings I've been to (even the "big" ones) were such a huge/ expensive affair like in the US! And subsequently the brides were decent human beings too.

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Deson Bowenford
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Years ago I lost a very dear lady friend of mine to cancer. She tried multiple treatments including Chemo. Needless to say I am feeling a lot of anger towards that Douchebaggette. Not only has she lost a friend of hers because of her actions but it's possible she may lose her friend to Cancer.

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Ella Blackwood
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe that ANY of her other bridesmaids decided to stay on with her. What a thoroughly horrible person. I could never support a person like this.

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Joe Bloe
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That would be a deal breaker for me. I would end the 'friendship' immediately without hesitation or remorse. That's the great thing about narcissists and toxic people. Eventually, they reveal themselves. At that stage its quite academic and very fortunate indeed to have been given the opportunity to view these people as they truly are. Your decision to keep them in your life is thus done for you - how convenient. In this respect, the garbage takes itself out.

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Linda Matheny
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any "Woman" that has been dreaming of her wedding day since she was a little girl must believe she's Scarlett in Gone with the Wind. No aspirations what so ever. Just wants to be a 50's woman walking around in her perfect dress and apron, not to forget the high heels and perfect hair. Maybe this princess could float down from afar in a clear bubble like Glinda the good witch from The Wizard of Oz. delusional b***h has to be related to the Kartrashians.

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Donna Cheung
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I were another one of her bridesmaids, I would quit my bridesmaid duty in support of the one who has cancer.

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Gerry Higgins
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please show the groom these texts so he can see what a horrible person he's marrying and maybe get out in time !

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Jona Thiessen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When someone shows you who they are.... believe them. Be well!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the most selfish stories I've heard. It's NOT the bridesmaid´s choice to get cancer! These are the types of people who don´t deserve friends >:(

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Irene Walton
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so hard to believe there are people like this. I hope no one goes to her wedding

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AnnieLaurie Burke
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The way to handle it? Invite your friend undergoing chemo to walk down the aisle hand in hand with you (or you and your Dad), and tell the attendees at the service what a beautiful, brave lady she is for fighting the good fight. And then, feature her at the reception to all present. Embrace her in front of the crowd, and ask everyone's good wishes and prayers for her. Just check with her first that this would not embarrass her. Bur most folks fighting cancer are happy to remind the rest of us fortunate enough not to be in that fight that our relatives and friends that are need our love and support!

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Arran Walker
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Douchebaggette and soggy pop tart are great 👍. I hope the lady with cancer gets it to go into remission and go away for good... and that she has a better life after all this, with a more sincere friend.

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Debrina Blackmoon
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"...rapidly depleting...??? wish it wasn't cut off-this is delightfully scorching

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Naomi Armitage
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone else need follow-up? I'd love to know how the wedding turned out (if it's happened yet) once word of this reached any and all involved parties. Bridezillas like these need to have "their day" ruined as much as is humanly possible.

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Laura Crawley
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the bridesmaid should shave their hair off the morning of the wedding! I would SO do it!

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Feminist Percussionist
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah that bride is terrible but LOL congrats to chemo lady for her humorous sarcasm and creative insults.

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Emiri-chan
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No reason to kick the bridesmaid out. She can just wear a wig. But yeah, that bridezilla was being a b*tch. You don't get mad at someone for unexpectedly getting cancer on your wedding.

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Diane Knight
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was very proud of my DIL on her wedding day. As a woman who had a vision of what I'd like 'my' day to go, Actually, it's an 'our' day. When a twist comes, it shows grace to how the bride reacts and handles those 'bumps'. For the day her and my son married, we had a 13-inch snowfall. She did have to regroup a few times that day. The fellow who conducted the ceremony had told the couple that they had a slight advantage over other couples in that they faced a challenge on day one of their marriage with the way they handled the few disappointments of how the day laid itself out, who joined the party, who ended up missing out on being there. There are other stories of Wedding Day foul-ups, and how the brides/grooms brought grace to their day. Some folks show how grown-up they are.

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Diane Swartz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is about weddings? What is it about women who have "dreamt" about their weddings since they were zygotes? It's a day about committing to your new husband— it's not your coronation, you are not a princess, and no one but you (and maybe the mother who obviously spoiled you rotten), gives a rat's ass just how special you look.

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Cori
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay. Bridezilla sounds awful in the most boringly cliche way. But her now ex bridesmaid sounds like someone I would gladly go have drinks with. 'Soggy poptart'. I absolutely love it! Ihope she kicks cancer's butt!

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Dina Voormey
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope no one turns up at her wedding...not even the groom!!!

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Chris Sprucefield
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If i were the guy, I would dump her... right there for being such an inconsiderate brat. If this is all that someone means to her, what could/would she do to me if I came into the same situation? If I were one of the bridesmaids, I would decline as well...

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Valerie Lessard
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is f*****g nauseatingly fake. It's completely orchestrated to go viral. How many f*****g bridezillas are there that happen to have the same personality, in the same demographic and are all worried about the same stuff enough to elicit an ever so smart and funny response like this? Feels like everybody is in the habit of scouring every text message for something that'll give them internet attention

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Glynis Lailann
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

.....and all this so that the bride can have a pretty picture. How fake the world has become since the advent of social media. The numbers of REAL people in the world nowadays is dwindling fast.

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Bee Diaz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the other bridesmaids should drop out of the wedding, in solidarity for the cancer patient. The bridezilla does not deserve their presence at her wedding, she would have done the same thing if one of them were ill.

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right on for this bridesmaid to stick it to this selfish bridezilla. If her fiancé had any brains, he’d not walk away from her—he’d run. I wish a very healthy outcome for bridezilla’s former friend.

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joi
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

awesome partner and i had a wedding that cost $200 and has lasted for 30 years. being gown-a*s adults we didn't need attendants or costumes or food ther than the $75 Fedco sandwich tray my in-laws brought.

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Katie Morris
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly this is just totally fake - sad that day people want to go viral so they make up stupid c**p and others believe it -

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this isn't even close to the extreme end of crappy bridal selfishness. How you know for certain otherwise escapes me, but by all means disbelieve away.

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SciFi Vortex
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the other bridesmaids had any principles they'd walk out too.

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Billabob Johnson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my day - the criteria for a Best Man or Bridesmaid was how important they were to your life - not how they looked. Must be another "Bride for Trump".

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Aneese
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think all the bridesmaids should back out in solidarity not to mention anyone else who is "friends" with this B*tchBride such as family members, ushers, etc. Or better yet everyone shave their heads just a few minutes before the ceremony & then walk down the aisle with a glossy pate. Wouldn't that just rock her world? I would love to see the look of horror on her face. Did the groom get a load of his B*Bride's attitude? Let's hope he is one of the first ones who backs out of the ceremony when he realizes this walking & talking AssHerHole will NOT be there for him either should he get cancer or run over by a bus & need her faithful, loyal support. If not, how stupid is he to go thru w/this marriage after his "beloved B*tchBride" showed her true colors BEFORE they were hitched? He should count himself as having dodged a bullet! Unless he is just like her & dreamed of his 'perfect wedding' since he was a little boy, in that case they surely deserve each other.

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Nadine Francis
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would hope all the other bridesmaid had the grit to back out also but with this MeNow generation I doubt it happened. KARMA haggy bride!

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Chris DiFonso
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another point to consider is that if the bridesmaid dies, the bride won't have any last pictures of her to remember her by

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GenXandEarnedItAll
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I were one of this b***h's bridesmaids (one that is allowed to remain) I'd buy one of those caps that actors use to hide their hair and come down the aisle looking bald as a baby's a*s. I'd even go so far as to fake puke in her bouquet.

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Jason Doakes
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll never understand this dreamy-wedding-mania, why is this THE MOST FKING IMPORTANT day of your life? Do they even love their spouse or do they only love the wedding? It seems to be even more important than your spouse, your friends, your family ...and your dignity, obviously. You are not a fake disney princess and you never will be, but maybe if you treat other people like you want to be treated yourself, your spouse will treat you like a queen.

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Luisa Vasconcelos
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want literally vomit with all I read about this bride. Losing faith in humanity again. What gonna happen to her marriage if her husband gets cancer ?

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hava yna
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe this is a real conversation. It's impossible to be so brainless and heartless. Impossible.

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this, alas, isn't even close to the extreme end of crappy bridal selfishness and entitlement.

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westwing
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never understood why some women are raised to believe that a few hours on one single day - out of a life time of days - will completely define them as a person.

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Paul Mitchell
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crazy narcissistic s**t bought about through the sense of entitlement many (but not all) western women seem to feel these days. Now they are turning in each other as well as on men. Enjoy!

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Zelda Blue
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People take their wedding day far too seriously. Unless you are doing a mass as part of the wedding ceremony then its a 10 minute thing that most people are so nervous they can't remember it. For this nasty piece of work to not want her bridesmaid any longer due to her hair loss from cancer treatment is more than mean and insensitive, it just shows what a heartless human she is. If the world is lucky she won't be able to breed for the world doesn't need another piece of c**p like her. If the remaining bridesmaids still agree to be in the wedding after if this then I would also question if they have an ounce of humanity themselves.

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Firework
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would like to see something about groomzillas, because they do exist.

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Emily Softley
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bridesmaid is so inspiring. Her whole attitude and the insults she comes up with are awesome. I don't know her, but I've some serious respect for her.

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Donna Rakowiecki
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wouldn't it be great if just before the wedding all the rest of the bridesmaids shaved their heads in Solidarity and support of a friend with cancer. Dear what you should have done is embrace your friend and tell her you'll support here in any way possible and have her in your wedding as bridesmaid regardless of hair no hair It could be the last picture you will ever get with your friend and hope she is still around 30 years from now and can laugh with you about " remember when's " Bride you are not someone I would want in my life while going through such a terrifying in my life. No one cares about your Aesthetic and wedding pictures you are not Kim Kardashian get over yourself

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Anastasia W
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Disgusting behavior. The trash takes itself out, bye Felicia.

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Donna Reynolds
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cannot believe this is real. How can someone be so rude and clueless?

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Rebecca Schultz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this story was made up by someone trying to appeal to the "outrage factor."

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Katchen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I prefer douche-baguette. I feel a female can still be a douche bag, but baguette could also work for anyone,

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this isn't even close to the extreme end of crappy bridal selfishness. How you know for certain otherwise escapes me, but by all means disbelieve away.

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hava yna
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't imagine this is a reel conversation. This is impossible to be that brainless and heartless. Impossible.

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Tina Hugh
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sea of legos? That is too cute of a curse. I think this is fake.

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Bird lover
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you wouldn't think it's cute if you walked over a sea of legos barefoot.

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Having read some crazy stories about bridezillas, I could understand why some people jumped to conclusions that this is another crazy American bridezilla. However, I've been a bridesmaid for a good friend who is American and she was the most chilled bride I've ever seen or heard. Me: any thoughts on bridesmaid's dress? My friend: as long as y'all there, I couldn't care less what you wear. You girls decide. And that was it

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I know im gonna be downvoted for this but... what about the bride? Everyone went hating her. What if she just wanted her wedding to look like what it looked like in her head? But then suddenly one of her bridesmaids just got cancer. She, of course, doesn't want her perfect image in her head to get ruined and tells the girl that she could just wear a wig because she obviously still wants her there. But then this bridesmaid went all hating on her just because the bride wants the wedding she been dreaming of. The bride isn't being an A-hole. The bride is being a normal human being. And so is the bridesmaid. So in my opinion, the bride should also get at least SOME pity.

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WillemPenn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I pity the bride for having no self-awareness and no soul. Things never go completely as planned. The bride is going to be seriously disappointed in her wedding anyway. Perhaps the wrong bouquet shows up, a kid runs their finger through the icing on the cake, she chips a nail, the wrong soup is served, the best man makes an inappropriate toast ... something will not go according to plan. It is called life and you learn to go with the flow or you get dragged. Having the perfect day won't make her happy but being happy will give her the perfect day no matter how different it is from her vision.

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wasted all that time texting her back... The thing to do would be to sleep with her fiance and put that on social media....

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of course some dumb b***h had to post this on social media. she needed attention

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Dippin Dot
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Believe it or not things like his happen. A college friend and I had agreed to be bridesmaids in each others weddings a month apart, but after her fiancé decided he didn’t want to ask another person to stand up with him I was asked to bow out, so I did. Then, she had the nerve to ask me to change my wedding date because she wanted to go on a vacation. I told her to go on vacation and I will have my wedding on the day I chose; that was the last time we ever spoke.

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I am not sorry for the stupid DOUCHEBAG stupid idiot who is going to marry this piece of s**t. A mangina in the making.

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Becca Gizmo the Squirrel
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the idea of all the bridesmaids getting a buzzcut the day before the wedding.

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Pumbaa
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd totally do that as a guest just to show support and p**s off the bridezilla..

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D H
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm at the point of reading these 'bridezilla' stories and think people make them up....... but, then again, people are people and some are just, well, bad people

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MagicalUnicorn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

walking barefoot on sea of legos is kinda too kind for such a a*****e

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KaPOW
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to enjoy mocking these people but frankly, this seems so evil that I dont think it is true. I really hope this isnt true

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DamnBecky
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It 100% doesn't surprise me if it is true. I worked at a bridal salon through college and it was completely normal to get a bride like this once a week. The way they treated their "friends" was horrifying. I had one bride who had every girl come in and get fitted, and then was going to buy all the dresses herself. Sounds great, right? The bride went through the sheet and marked EVERY DRESS one size smaller for the order. We made her sign a contract understanding that she could not exchange the dresses when the bridesmaid didn't fit in them and would have to order a whole new dress if needed. She just smiled and went "Oh if they don't fit, they're not in the wedding." WTF, she was even marking down girls who were already tiny. Size 4 became Size 2. It wasnt just the "big" girls. (Its worth nothing nothing was over a SZ8 anyway bc this was the kind of girl not to have "fat" friends)

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Leo Domitrix
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the groom has one iota of sense, he'll cancel the wedding, and leave no forwarding address.

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Shawn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefully she arrives at her wedding to find that no one came and even her husband to be didn't show.

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Hans
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Help lol" is all to know to decide not to attend the wedding. And not read any further.

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Carney
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many years ago, as my BFF prepared for her wedding, another very good friend was diagnosed with cancer. The second friend was asked to a bridesmaid before the cancer diagnosis. Guess what my friend did? She asked the rest of us to spend our time and energy taking care of friend with cancer! She changed her own plans of a pre-wedding all-girls trip because the sick friend would be too ill to travel. She then suggested the rest of us forget her wedding gifts and put the money into an account to benefit the ill friend and her family. As soon as the wedding was complete, she and her new husband left the venue to visit our mutual friend at the hospital and to take her some goodies. The reception started late because of this side-trip - no one cared. THIS is how a good person responds. Actually, this is how a HUMAN responds. I wish I could share this with the bride and her soon-to-be-sorry husband to be.

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Carol Emory
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Perhaps a better way for this bridezilla to handle this was not to megaphone it to everyone else and, instead, sit down with the bridesmaid in question in private and politely come up with a solution. As in "Hey, I know the chemo is making your hair fall out and I worry about other people making you uncomfortable at the wedding by staring at you..because you know how insensitive people can be. So what I propose is this. Let's go shopping for a wig for you, my treat, and we'll make a day of it..if you are up to it." Most likely, the friend would appreciate the effort, especially if given the option to accept or decline. If she declines, then the next question would be "This whole event is going to be physically exhausting. I want to make sure you think you're up for it. I don't want you getting more sick on my account. I will understand if you want to back out." If your friend says they are up for it, then live with it. I think people would respect the bride more for doing so.

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JeannevB
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think bridezillas like this are as considerate as you suggest here. She says very clearly: the day should be about her and not about her bridesmaid.

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Lauren Markland
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have an autoimmune disease (not anything as devistating as cancer) and I was the bridesmaid to my lovely friend a few years ago. I checked out of hospital for the day to go, I was COMPLETELY yellow from jaundice, I couldn't wear heels, my hair was half grey, I barely made it down the isle and a groomsmen had to basically hold me up for the bridal party dance and yet she was so incredibly happy to see me there and it was one of the best days of my life, we laughed, we cried and she married her best friend. That's what was important. I guess this comment is just saying that a true friend will just be happy to have you there for the best day of their life.

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Stille20
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't believe someone would do someone would do something like that had I not had someone do something like that. To be honest, the person had, in the past, demonstrated that she was very self involved, but it still shocked me how far a person can stick their head up their own a*s.

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John L
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I choose to think of these moments in a positive light. Now you know who your real friends are.

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Martha Meyer
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I seriously hope this is fake! If it is though, the person who made this up desperateley needs therapy.

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this, alas, isn't even close to the extreme end of nasty bridal behaviour.

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Aurelia Grey
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder what this paragon of humanity and joy would do if her groom became paralyzed and had to use a wheel chair for the wedding? Oh! Wait! There wouldn't be one, would there?

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Steve Cruz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

None of the bridesmaids should have attended -- OR THE GROOM!

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L McN
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1) Good call on whoever told her. 2) Backing out is EXACTLY the right response. 3) The rest should either shave their heads the morning of the wedding, or just not show up even after attending rehearsal. 4) All future contact with said bride should be cut off, with no further explanation. Lastly, I am sorry about people like this and you will rock the world when you beat cancer. People like this need to be left alone. Very, very alone. In a dark corner.

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Batty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She can rock the world WITH cancer, even before she beats it! A good friend of mine is battling glioblastoma multiforme & is still a total badass. Her head is really patchy from brain surgery & chemotherapy, but it's not stopping her from making the most of everything.

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Parmeisan
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People need to stop having a picture-perfect vision of their wedding day. It brings the focus off of actually having a good & loving partner (which you REALLY should be sure of in advance) and onto this kind of BS. But it's not even just this type of person. If you don't have this perfect vision of the day then you won't be upset when your mother-in-law shows up a bit late, or the bouquet falls apart, or somebody has to run home for the ring. The chances of an entire day with NOTHING that goes wrong are incredibly slim, so you'll be better off if you can expect that from the start. Also: just because it's "your special day" doesn't mean other people don't have problems and absolutely doesn't exempt you from treating them like human beings.

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KB
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My DIL invited the woman who had just broke up my marriage and told me it was her wedding and she could invite who she wanted. I didn't go to my own son's wedding and ruined her photos. She was also asked a ton of questions about where I was. My son understood and tried to intervene but bridezilla wasn't sane.

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Lucas
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's crappy. Why your ex felt it was reasonable to even take this woman I don't understand. If it's a recently started relationship then she's hardly part of the family so that's not a good reason and people don't have to come with their new partners when it's their own family's wedding - they'll not be on their own in that scenario. People get very precious about including new partners - well, sorry but no. Be sensitive and show some maturity. If this woman had been around a while then maybe, everyone has to accept and move on, that's a bit different. I also don't understand why your ex or your DIL didn't care about your son's wishes either - it is his wedding as well. Some people are so very selfish - so full of only what they want.

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Bepina
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please, Bored Panda, I know you need more visits like every other site, but these posts are boring, ridiculous and frankly below your level. I started following your site because of the interesting stories about people, animals and world you were posting, not for this garbage - this is gossip magazine level, picking some individual who made some questionable decision so we can all trash them for how stupid and careless they are. I'm not defeding those people but you should not give them attention and publish their s****y behaviour here - It is still a promotion of their lame conduct, whether you try to scorn them or not, when you do so.

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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people must enjoy them or be attracted to reading them for some reason otherwise Bored Panda wouldn't do it. BP has millions of people clicking on stories but not signed up as Pandas - clicks per page are important when it comes to production of stats to attract advertisers. So they're not going to stop posts of one type or another if they are attracting page clicks. I think we'd all have to react with utter horror and even then I'm not sure. The most successful way to stop posts like this would be to never click on them in the first place and, well, it's a bit too late when we're here commenting.

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Michele Clarke
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHAT A C**T!! IF I WERE ANY OF THOSE OTHER BRIDESMAIDS I WOULD NOT BE IN HER WEDDING EITHER!

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Trash Panda
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if the guy this a*****e is marrying is truly aware of who he is tying the knot with. Unless he's just as douchebaggy as his bride to be, he's in for a lot of heartache and headaches with this one.

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Bee Diaz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Bridezilla is certainly no friend. There was absolutely no concern for the person with cancer, her only concern was her wedding. Does she not realize that tomorrow she could have cancer? I am so sorry for the idiot who is marrying this cold, selfish, unfeeling iceberg.

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Beeps
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aside from the fact that is was completely unreasonable to ask her to wear a wig, here is the problem with wigs for people who have lost all of their hair: I regularly wear wigs, just for fun and as a fashion statement, so have quite a few at home. When a friend of mine got cancer, she asked if she could try on and borrow one of my wigs. (She still had hair when she first tried it on.) She borrowed the wig as planned, but then found that she couldn’t actually wear it that much and not for very long at a time either, because she actually found it quite painful now that she didn’t have any hair and was in quite a bit of discomfort generally from feeling so unwell during chemo. The same was true for hats and bandanas; while she was still having treatment she couldn’t really stand much touching her head.

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cybermerlin2000
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom died of cancer and my family and I were with her until the end. If it was me and my fiancée's wedding I would be more concerned about her health than the aesthetics. I would ask if she would be up to being a bridesmaid and what I could do to make it easier for her. I hope she recovers and, if she is not married yet, that she has the best wedding ever that out shines her so called friends in every way. To anyone out there with cancer know that I am routing for you to beat it and that your recovery is speedy and full of support. Love to you all X

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bill marsano
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could only wish that some of the other bridesmaids had backed her up.

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Steve Cruz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope someone warned THE GROOM so he could skip the wedding, too.

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KT Trondsen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That must have been so heart breaking for that poor bridesmaid. What on earth is wrong with that bride? No idea anyone could be so damn vapid

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TeeMarieTisMe
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will never understand bridezillas like this. This is just a sh*tty human being to be honest. If one of my close friends had cancer and was supposed to be in my wedding, given that they felt well enough to still participate I would be so grateful to have them (some hair, no hair, I don't care!) however they came. What is wrong with people?

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Mooncut
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG I can't believe how some people have no consideration for what other people may be going through! Wow I am really disappointed in humanity

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nvee
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an awful ... stupid woman ... I feel for the man she is marrying !

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Angie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the other bridesmaids should just wear bald caps to the wedding

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Phoebe Bean
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to believe with all my heart this conversation is fake, but no. I really believe there are bridezillas out there behaving like total "douchebaggettes"

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this isn't even close to the extreme end of crappy bridal selfishness.

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Betty Wilma
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went through chemo... losing my hair was beyond traumatic.. what a nasty witch

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Sheanna Caban
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't believe for 2 seconds that this actually happened. Sorry, pal.

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Aneese
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guaranteed it happened. More than once. I have been an ex-bridesmaid for a bride just like this ... except the person only broke their arm. You would have thought the person did it on purpose the way the bride went on and on and acted like she was soooo wounded. I quit at that point and told my broken armed pal I was Team Cast. Happened also to my cousin who quit her position also due to bridezilla pitching a fit over new streaks in bridesmaid's hair going to take the limelight off of her day. Puhleeeese.

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weatherwitch
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pretty sure that's not fake because and I quote "soggy pop tart"!! I have alopecia myself and I think the bride is an absolutely horrible woman who needs a wake up call as well as educating. How Horrendous for the (former) bridesmaid 😞

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Debbie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Douchebaguette!!! I hope the bride includes the "honour" of being part of spreading a new expression worldwide to her wedding success.

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Colin Leetham
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you are only choosing bridesmaids for their aesthetic and not their friendship, then you are not a person who understands love and commitment (let alone compassion). No amount of photoshopping can get out that degree of ugly in a person.

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Vicky Zar
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As something like this seams to be fairly common in US brides, I am starting to think it must have something to do with the upbringing of girls there. This talk about their "big day" and the pressure about it..... Neither of the weddings I've been to (even the "big" ones) were such a huge/ expensive affair like in the US! And subsequently the brides were decent human beings too.

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Deson Bowenford
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Years ago I lost a very dear lady friend of mine to cancer. She tried multiple treatments including Chemo. Needless to say I am feeling a lot of anger towards that Douchebaggette. Not only has she lost a friend of hers because of her actions but it's possible she may lose her friend to Cancer.

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Ella Blackwood
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe that ANY of her other bridesmaids decided to stay on with her. What a thoroughly horrible person. I could never support a person like this.

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Joe Bloe
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That would be a deal breaker for me. I would end the 'friendship' immediately without hesitation or remorse. That's the great thing about narcissists and toxic people. Eventually, they reveal themselves. At that stage its quite academic and very fortunate indeed to have been given the opportunity to view these people as they truly are. Your decision to keep them in your life is thus done for you - how convenient. In this respect, the garbage takes itself out.

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Linda Matheny
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any "Woman" that has been dreaming of her wedding day since she was a little girl must believe she's Scarlett in Gone with the Wind. No aspirations what so ever. Just wants to be a 50's woman walking around in her perfect dress and apron, not to forget the high heels and perfect hair. Maybe this princess could float down from afar in a clear bubble like Glinda the good witch from The Wizard of Oz. delusional b***h has to be related to the Kartrashians.

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Donna Cheung
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I were another one of her bridesmaids, I would quit my bridesmaid duty in support of the one who has cancer.

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Gerry Higgins
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please show the groom these texts so he can see what a horrible person he's marrying and maybe get out in time !

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Jona Thiessen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When someone shows you who they are.... believe them. Be well!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the most selfish stories I've heard. It's NOT the bridesmaid´s choice to get cancer! These are the types of people who don´t deserve friends >:(

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Irene Walton
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so hard to believe there are people like this. I hope no one goes to her wedding

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AnnieLaurie Burke
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The way to handle it? Invite your friend undergoing chemo to walk down the aisle hand in hand with you (or you and your Dad), and tell the attendees at the service what a beautiful, brave lady she is for fighting the good fight. And then, feature her at the reception to all present. Embrace her in front of the crowd, and ask everyone's good wishes and prayers for her. Just check with her first that this would not embarrass her. Bur most folks fighting cancer are happy to remind the rest of us fortunate enough not to be in that fight that our relatives and friends that are need our love and support!

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Arran Walker
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Douchebaggette and soggy pop tart are great 👍. I hope the lady with cancer gets it to go into remission and go away for good... and that she has a better life after all this, with a more sincere friend.

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Debrina Blackmoon
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"...rapidly depleting...??? wish it wasn't cut off-this is delightfully scorching

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Naomi Armitage
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone else need follow-up? I'd love to know how the wedding turned out (if it's happened yet) once word of this reached any and all involved parties. Bridezillas like these need to have "their day" ruined as much as is humanly possible.

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Laura Crawley
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the bridesmaid should shave their hair off the morning of the wedding! I would SO do it!

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Feminist Percussionist
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah that bride is terrible but LOL congrats to chemo lady for her humorous sarcasm and creative insults.

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Emiri-chan
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No reason to kick the bridesmaid out. She can just wear a wig. But yeah, that bridezilla was being a b*tch. You don't get mad at someone for unexpectedly getting cancer on your wedding.

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Diane Knight
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was very proud of my DIL on her wedding day. As a woman who had a vision of what I'd like 'my' day to go, Actually, it's an 'our' day. When a twist comes, it shows grace to how the bride reacts and handles those 'bumps'. For the day her and my son married, we had a 13-inch snowfall. She did have to regroup a few times that day. The fellow who conducted the ceremony had told the couple that they had a slight advantage over other couples in that they faced a challenge on day one of their marriage with the way they handled the few disappointments of how the day laid itself out, who joined the party, who ended up missing out on being there. There are other stories of Wedding Day foul-ups, and how the brides/grooms brought grace to their day. Some folks show how grown-up they are.

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Diane Swartz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is about weddings? What is it about women who have "dreamt" about their weddings since they were zygotes? It's a day about committing to your new husband— it's not your coronation, you are not a princess, and no one but you (and maybe the mother who obviously spoiled you rotten), gives a rat's ass just how special you look.

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Cori
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay. Bridezilla sounds awful in the most boringly cliche way. But her now ex bridesmaid sounds like someone I would gladly go have drinks with. 'Soggy poptart'. I absolutely love it! Ihope she kicks cancer's butt!

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Dina Voormey
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope no one turns up at her wedding...not even the groom!!!

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Chris Sprucefield
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If i were the guy, I would dump her... right there for being such an inconsiderate brat. If this is all that someone means to her, what could/would she do to me if I came into the same situation? If I were one of the bridesmaids, I would decline as well...

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Valerie Lessard
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is f*****g nauseatingly fake. It's completely orchestrated to go viral. How many f*****g bridezillas are there that happen to have the same personality, in the same demographic and are all worried about the same stuff enough to elicit an ever so smart and funny response like this? Feels like everybody is in the habit of scouring every text message for something that'll give them internet attention

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Glynis Lailann
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

.....and all this so that the bride can have a pretty picture. How fake the world has become since the advent of social media. The numbers of REAL people in the world nowadays is dwindling fast.

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Bee Diaz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the other bridesmaids should drop out of the wedding, in solidarity for the cancer patient. The bridezilla does not deserve their presence at her wedding, she would have done the same thing if one of them were ill.

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right on for this bridesmaid to stick it to this selfish bridezilla. If her fiancé had any brains, he’d not walk away from her—he’d run. I wish a very healthy outcome for bridezilla’s former friend.

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joi
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

awesome partner and i had a wedding that cost $200 and has lasted for 30 years. being gown-a*s adults we didn't need attendants or costumes or food ther than the $75 Fedco sandwich tray my in-laws brought.

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Katie Morris
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly this is just totally fake - sad that day people want to go viral so they make up stupid c**p and others believe it -

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this isn't even close to the extreme end of crappy bridal selfishness. How you know for certain otherwise escapes me, but by all means disbelieve away.

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SciFi Vortex
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the other bridesmaids had any principles they'd walk out too.

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Billabob Johnson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my day - the criteria for a Best Man or Bridesmaid was how important they were to your life - not how they looked. Must be another "Bride for Trump".

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Aneese
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think all the bridesmaids should back out in solidarity not to mention anyone else who is "friends" with this B*tchBride such as family members, ushers, etc. Or better yet everyone shave their heads just a few minutes before the ceremony & then walk down the aisle with a glossy pate. Wouldn't that just rock her world? I would love to see the look of horror on her face. Did the groom get a load of his B*Bride's attitude? Let's hope he is one of the first ones who backs out of the ceremony when he realizes this walking & talking AssHerHole will NOT be there for him either should he get cancer or run over by a bus & need her faithful, loyal support. If not, how stupid is he to go thru w/this marriage after his "beloved B*tchBride" showed her true colors BEFORE they were hitched? He should count himself as having dodged a bullet! Unless he is just like her & dreamed of his 'perfect wedding' since he was a little boy, in that case they surely deserve each other.

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Nadine Francis
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would hope all the other bridesmaid had the grit to back out also but with this MeNow generation I doubt it happened. KARMA haggy bride!

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Chris DiFonso
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another point to consider is that if the bridesmaid dies, the bride won't have any last pictures of her to remember her by

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GenXandEarnedItAll
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I were one of this b***h's bridesmaids (one that is allowed to remain) I'd buy one of those caps that actors use to hide their hair and come down the aisle looking bald as a baby's a*s. I'd even go so far as to fake puke in her bouquet.

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Jason Doakes
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll never understand this dreamy-wedding-mania, why is this THE MOST FKING IMPORTANT day of your life? Do they even love their spouse or do they only love the wedding? It seems to be even more important than your spouse, your friends, your family ...and your dignity, obviously. You are not a fake disney princess and you never will be, but maybe if you treat other people like you want to be treated yourself, your spouse will treat you like a queen.

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Luisa Vasconcelos
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want literally vomit with all I read about this bride. Losing faith in humanity again. What gonna happen to her marriage if her husband gets cancer ?

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hava yna
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe this is a real conversation. It's impossible to be so brainless and heartless. Impossible.

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this, alas, isn't even close to the extreme end of crappy bridal selfishness and entitlement.

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westwing
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never understood why some women are raised to believe that a few hours on one single day - out of a life time of days - will completely define them as a person.

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Paul Mitchell
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crazy narcissistic s**t bought about through the sense of entitlement many (but not all) western women seem to feel these days. Now they are turning in each other as well as on men. Enjoy!

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Zelda Blue
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People take their wedding day far too seriously. Unless you are doing a mass as part of the wedding ceremony then its a 10 minute thing that most people are so nervous they can't remember it. For this nasty piece of work to not want her bridesmaid any longer due to her hair loss from cancer treatment is more than mean and insensitive, it just shows what a heartless human she is. If the world is lucky she won't be able to breed for the world doesn't need another piece of c**p like her. If the remaining bridesmaids still agree to be in the wedding after if this then I would also question if they have an ounce of humanity themselves.

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Firework
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would like to see something about groomzillas, because they do exist.

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Emily Softley
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bridesmaid is so inspiring. Her whole attitude and the insults she comes up with are awesome. I don't know her, but I've some serious respect for her.

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Donna Rakowiecki
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wouldn't it be great if just before the wedding all the rest of the bridesmaids shaved their heads in Solidarity and support of a friend with cancer. Dear what you should have done is embrace your friend and tell her you'll support here in any way possible and have her in your wedding as bridesmaid regardless of hair no hair It could be the last picture you will ever get with your friend and hope she is still around 30 years from now and can laugh with you about " remember when's " Bride you are not someone I would want in my life while going through such a terrifying in my life. No one cares about your Aesthetic and wedding pictures you are not Kim Kardashian get over yourself

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Anastasia W
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Disgusting behavior. The trash takes itself out, bye Felicia.

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Donna Reynolds
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cannot believe this is real. How can someone be so rude and clueless?

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Rebecca Schultz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this story was made up by someone trying to appeal to the "outrage factor."

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Katchen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I prefer douche-baguette. I feel a female can still be a douche bag, but baguette could also work for anyone,

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John Lyttle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a friend who is a wedding organiser and this isn't even close to the extreme end of crappy bridal selfishness. How you know for certain otherwise escapes me, but by all means disbelieve away.

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hava yna
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't imagine this is a reel conversation. This is impossible to be that brainless and heartless. Impossible.

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Tina Hugh
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sea of legos? That is too cute of a curse. I think this is fake.

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Bird lover
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you wouldn't think it's cute if you walked over a sea of legos barefoot.

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Having read some crazy stories about bridezillas, I could understand why some people jumped to conclusions that this is another crazy American bridezilla. However, I've been a bridesmaid for a good friend who is American and she was the most chilled bride I've ever seen or heard. Me: any thoughts on bridesmaid's dress? My friend: as long as y'all there, I couldn't care less what you wear. You girls decide. And that was it

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I know im gonna be downvoted for this but... what about the bride? Everyone went hating her. What if she just wanted her wedding to look like what it looked like in her head? But then suddenly one of her bridesmaids just got cancer. She, of course, doesn't want her perfect image in her head to get ruined and tells the girl that she could just wear a wig because she obviously still wants her there. But then this bridesmaid went all hating on her just because the bride wants the wedding she been dreaming of. The bride isn't being an A-hole. The bride is being a normal human being. And so is the bridesmaid. So in my opinion, the bride should also get at least SOME pity.

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WillemPenn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I pity the bride for having no self-awareness and no soul. Things never go completely as planned. The bride is going to be seriously disappointed in her wedding anyway. Perhaps the wrong bouquet shows up, a kid runs their finger through the icing on the cake, she chips a nail, the wrong soup is served, the best man makes an inappropriate toast ... something will not go according to plan. It is called life and you learn to go with the flow or you get dragged. Having the perfect day won't make her happy but being happy will give her the perfect day no matter how different it is from her vision.

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wasted all that time texting her back... The thing to do would be to sleep with her fiance and put that on social media....

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of course some dumb b***h had to post this on social media. she needed attention

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Dippin Dot
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Believe it or not things like his happen. A college friend and I had agreed to be bridesmaids in each others weddings a month apart, but after her fiancé decided he didn’t want to ask another person to stand up with him I was asked to bow out, so I did. Then, she had the nerve to ask me to change my wedding date because she wanted to go on a vacation. I told her to go on vacation and I will have my wedding on the day I chose; that was the last time we ever spoke.

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I am not sorry for the stupid DOUCHEBAG stupid idiot who is going to marry this piece of s**t. A mangina in the making.

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